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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it best to message first if your like them or fab them your thought please which is best

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By *ecretBadgerMan
over a year ago

Redruth

I have always found it is best to just say it up front,.... say hello . see if there is any chemistry.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

If you want a response then I would say message.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

send a short message, not just hello though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Message definitely in my opinion a fab is easily overlooked by the people who get hundreds even thousands.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Do not say I am in your area today fancy a fuck...I have just had this messege!!!! I said ohhhhh yes please NOT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want a response then I would say message."
thank you

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Ely area

Prefer a short (a few lines) well written polite message.

One liners and the use of LOL are usually very suspect

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By *appyjack890Man
over a year ago

North loncolnshire

After reading through lots of profiles ( yes i do actually bother to read them) it looks like most people prefer a message that is'nt just fancy a f#@k.

I try to write a bit about me and the kind of things im looking for.

A bit of humour as well.

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

I normally don't give advice, but I would message and try to say something more than "how are you" or "nice pics". Try asking an interesting, offbeat question, but not too strange.

My wife has gotten sooo many boring one liners over the years. At first, she tried to chat with almost anyone, but over time, she grew very bored. Try to be unique.

-JD

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