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Does friendship fun chemistry matter or just notch on a stick

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I prefer to get to know people a bit but have had group sex where I didn't know their names and fucked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry defiantly we both need to be comfortable with who we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we have said before, you do not have to fuck us to be our friends, but if you want to fuck us you need to be friendly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we don't get along socially we don't play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me! "

Dita - never heard of him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt matter, it is just a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside of a club situation

Friendship and comparability mean a lot to me

Spontaneous stuff at parties ect are fun

But if it's a 121

Gotta be able to connect

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I don't find anyone I meet that interesting so prefer not to know too much about them. I think talking is a waste of time. The less I know about them the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have played with people at clubs and parties that have somehow ended up in the mingle - but there has been a bit of banter at least across the bed - wouldnt be with anybody we got a bad vibe off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to get to know people a bit but have had group sex where I didn't know their names and fucked them. "

This. Its nice to get to know people.

But also there are occasions when its great to just fuck people you absolutely dont know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to build up friendships but have played on first meets and parties, as long as the chemistry is there and everyone is happy we will play.

Neither of us would 'take one for the team' if they weren't feeling it, so it wouldn't happen in that circumstance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we have said before, you do not have to fuck us to be our friends, but if you want to fuck us you need to be friendly... "

Much more comfortable if there's some chemistry and friendship there at least socially or it's not a go-er for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry Deffo, friendship within our party group, and good interpersonal relation's with others we meet.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Always nicer.

Always leads to better chemistry too.

Which leads to better...

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt matter, it is just a fuck "

So you would fuck anyone as long as they have a pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's nice to have a bit of a natter and banter , others it doesn't matter .

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Chemistry is a must for us

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Without the chemistry there is no notch, because I won't be able to maintain an erection for someone I either know nothing about nor have some sort of connection with.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Got to be chemistry... Or I just don't get wet! Simples... Lol xx

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

It's a must for us too

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

There has to be chemistry, or it is not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt matter, it is just a fuck

So you would fuck anyone as long as they have a pussy?"
That is right, as it is nsa x.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I like to have a spark - generally makes for better sex, otherwise it's a zombie fuck.... Don't get me wrong, they can be fun, but not the same.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chemistry yes, friendship no, i dont have to be friends with somebody to shag them there does have to be an attraction and a spark though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry is a big thing for m . I've met a couple of times un sure about the chemistry and sadly the meets aren't as good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry is a big thing for m . I've met a couple of times un sure about the chemistry and sadly the meets aren't as good "

#me not m lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be chemistry,even if we aren't having penetrative sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry always

Sport fucking, is so boring!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've not done notches - the revolving door has an auto count mechanism.

I can understand teenagers counting but surely not the mature?

I only meet great people - I can't stand the thought of touching a person that I don't gel with and like.

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By *allyandJonCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Agree chemistry and the dynamic matters,swingers often get mistaken that they fuck anyone which often isn't the case, although after a few glasses of wine the chemistry window of participants widens.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am not on here for friendships

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I think sex is a lot better when you've got to know the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to have a spark - generally makes for better sex, otherwise it's a zombie fuck.... Don't get me wrong, they can be fun, but not the same..... "

pmsl @ zombie fuck

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Does friendship fun chemistry matter or just notch on a stick

Don't need or want notches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be some chemistry not here for notches

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends. I want sex from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Fabs experience is not just about a fuck, been there, done that & it's nowhere near as good as having sex with someone who I have a connection with, on various different levels.

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

The missus just said "What's the point of Friends With Benefits" if you aren't really Friends?

Personally, I need to get along well with somebody and feel a bit of a mental connection before one ounce of blood drops down below my waist. Mostly, it's the mental connection that turns me on more than the physical. Of course there has to be physical attraction too, but with no mental connect, I'm trying to shoot pool with a rope.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have friends. I want sex from here."

Not after notches either. There is a middle ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes important

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me! "

Never felt that "electric tingle" with anyone i've fucked off fab, only had that with my partner.

As long as i find them fairly attractive and we all get on then i'm happy with that.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

Chemistry, banter and giggles if a 2/3/4some, but that goes out of the window in a larger group scenario. Horses for courses.

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt matter, it is just a fuck

So you would fuck anyone as long as they have a pussy?That is right, as it is nsa x."

You don't feel there needs to be any sort of attraction as it's nsa?

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Rock n roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to be attracted to our playmates. It makes the experience more erotic. Having a mutual attraction makes you want more........ round 2,3,4.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Some things take time, especially a woman's body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we have said before, you do not have to fuck us to be our friends, but if you want to fuck us you need to be friendly... "

Well said. I prefer to get a very casual NSA friendship going, but its not ABSOLUTELY essential to having fun.

Its far more likely that nice people will 'click' with other nice people. Be nice everyone, and lets make the world of Fab a nicer place.

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By *laskan lovers 1984 OP   Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

Not sure what way to swing at moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there isn't any chemistry with someone, then I won't be getting intimate with them... Doesn't matter if you look like Dita Von Teese (phwoar! ) If there isn't that electric tingle between us... well, it's a no thank you from me! "

I couldn't agree with you more. Chemistry certainly gets the juices flowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot imagine sleeping with someone I have no connection with. I'd rather not have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry no, fun yes. Friendship hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be some sort of chemistry for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesnt matter, it is just a fuck "

That's just the sort of man that spoils swinging for all the genuine nice guys

What a p- - - k

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I cannot imagine sleeping with someone I have no connection with. I'd rather not have sex."

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