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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my profile is very drab and unappealing any advice no matter how brutal would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback pic will put loads and I mean loads of people off

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Horrible pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for advice what pics would be an improvment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The adultery is a minus!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

fair point but surely least im being honest unlike so many others who hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for advice what pics would be an improvment"

You put what pics you want on, but to me pics are a reflection of you and what you are looking for, if people put BDSM pics up its usually because they are into BDSM, if people put foot wanking pics up its usually because they are trying to attract men into feet so when I see bareback pics I wonder if that's their way of advertising they are looking for bareback?

If that's the case keep it as you will attract people looking for the same, but many aren't looking for bareback so such pics will put them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fair point but surely least im being honest unlike so many others who hide it "

If you was honest you would sit down with your partner and say "im not happy"... im not here to counsel anyone but before you get too deep id think twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fair point but surely least im being honest unlike so many others who hide it "

Yeah I wouldn't take that off personally, at least people can make an informal choice on meeting you

You want to attract people but you need to be honest too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for advice what pics would be an improvment"

Anything.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Bareback photo Instant no no I'm afraid. Try some punctuation in your profile to make it easier to read. Try telling the targeted audience what you're able to offer as well as what you're looking for - it's your 'shop window' - would you respond to a message from a profile that read like yours? It tells us - the audience - (potential playmates) very little. Expand on it but treat it as a work in progress, let it evolve. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I'll say is if you're given good, sensible advice that you agree with, act on it. Good luck

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"fair point but surely least im being honest unlike so many others who hide it

If you was honest you would sit down with your partner and say "im not happy"... im not here to counsel anyone but before you get too deep id think twice "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i will review my profile over the next few days and try improve it as its clearly drab and unthoguht

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

One day guys might realise that there is such a thing as a dildo that is a lot less hassle than organising a meet with someone. So guys need to show that they are more than just a cock, and a very out of focus one at that, because a lot of women already have at least one of those...

Sell yourself! There is so much competition on this site! Your awful quality photos, that tell us nothing other than you have a cock to fuck bare back with, and your poorly written profile, that tells us nothing other than you aren't happy so have chosen to cheat, isn't going to get you far, especially when there are guys who have put a lot more effort into the quality of their photos and text to sell themselves, what they have and can do. They are going to look a lot more attractive than you.

You know what turns you on so try and think about what turns on the person you are looking for, what would they want to see. Look at what other local to guy's profiles look like, and see what the successful ones have done with their profiles.

Put the effort in to sell yourself and you may start seeing messages from women replying positively in you inbox. If you don't bother then neither will they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One day guys might realise that there is such a thing as a dildo that is a lot less hassle than organising a meet with someone. So guys need to show that they are more than just a cock, and a very out of focus one at that, because a lot of women already have at least one of those...

Sell yourself! There is so much competition on this site! Your awful quality photos, that tell us nothing other than you have a cock to fuck bare back with, and your poorly written profile, that tells us nothing other than you aren't happy so have chosen to cheat, isn't going to get you far, especially when there are guys who have put a lot more effort into the quality of their photos and text to sell themselves, what they have and can do. They are going to look a lot more attractive than you.

You know what turns you on so try and think about what turns on the person you are looking for, what would they want to see. Look at what other local to guy's profiles look like, and see what the successful ones have done with their profiles.

Put the effort in to sell yourself and you may start seeing messages from women replying positively in you inbox. If you don't bother then neither will they.

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Best advice..agree

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