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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

Right... am open to all recommendations, ideas and constructive criticism l!!

I no i dont have the best profile but have seen a lot worse profiles that still manage to get meets.

So what exacly am i doing wrong or is it simply down to the fact its a bit of a sausage fest in my area. Thanks and look forwar to hear some tough love aha happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe search 'profile advice' in the forums?...at the moment your profile has very little on it...often people will check a profile before opening a message, and if there's not a lot there, they may just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've answered your own question. It's not the best profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is tbe key lol

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport


"You've answered your own question. It's not the best profile. "

Yeah but like i said i have seen other profiles that in my eyes are worse and more boring than mine ahah but still have had meets so yh ahah

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

Ahaha o i got patience alright ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've answered your own question. It's not the best profile.

Yeah but like i said i have seen other profiles that in my eyes are worse and more boring than mine ahah but still have had meets so yh ahah"

You asked. But of course it's entirely up to you if you chose to heed advice or stick with what you have.

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport


"maybe search 'profile advice' in the forums?...at the moment your profile has very little on it...often people will check a profile before opening a message, and if there's not a lot there, they may just delete"

Thanks for the advise

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport


"You've answered your own question. It's not the best profile.

Yeah but like i said i have seen other profiles that in my eyes are worse and more boring than mine ahah but still have had meets so yh ahah

Ahah yeah i no but was looking for advice rather than a commment about what i clearly said ahah of thats the case what would you recommend? Moore pics?? More about me??

You asked. But of course it's entirely up to you if you chose to heed advice or stick with what you have. "

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"You've answered your own question. It's not the best profile.

Yeah but like i said i have seen other profiles that in my eyes are worse and more boring than mine ahah but still have had meets so yh ahah"

Just because in your eye's their profiles are worse you have no idea what their messages etc are like so very hard to judge why someone else would appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep messaging as many as possible. It's a number game.

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

Hmmm yhh true. Ahah im sure it is

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

You also answered your own question.. alot of sausages here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social. Show your personality more. Or even message a guy and get a brojob loads of straight men do it

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Go to a social. Show your personality more. Or even message a guy and get a brojob loads of straight men do it"

That doesnt make you straight bro

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Go to a social. Show your personality more. Or even message a guy and get a brojob loads of straight men do it

That doesnt make you straight bro"

Real talk ahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a social. Show your personality more. Or even message a guy and get a brojob loads of straight men do it

That doesnt make you straight bro

Real talk ahahaha"

That's the joke... loads of "straight" men meet guys on here. Just say they are straight because some women won't meet bisexuals

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

Loool killed my vibe....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've answered your own question. It's not the best profile. "

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov

Go to clubs and socials. Meet people face to face and socialise. Show then your not like 90% of the single guys on here. Above all else, make friends, treat play as a bonus and not a necessity and you won't go far wrong. Works quite well for me

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

As you've stated yourself it's not the best profile so why not just make it better before asking for advice? There's just enough pics and text to be a vague maybe instead of an outright no but the face pics with the first message are the deal maker/breaker when we're looking to arrange something.

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

Yhh thanks again everyone and reason why was looking f9r wyas and ideas to chamge about it. .

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Well where to start? Oh - you already said that! A profile is a shop window and needs to reflect you. I've no idea what a typical 22 year old is like as I don't tend to come across many. That wouldn't necessarily matter as you may not be interested in me but then again I'm within your stated age range! Maybe give us some clearer clues about what you want and what you have to offer as well as who you're looking for - do you prefer younger or more mature ladies? Slim or fuller figured? Are couples on your wish list of folk to meet? How would your friends describe you? Maybe you could use their description as a starting point...! As others have said, attend socials or try a club but do your research and be sure you attend something of interest to you and those you wish to meet. Read profiles and pick up on cues from successful ones - incorporating some reality about yourself into your profile is a good rule I think Profiles tend to evolve over time as you get experience - mine certainly has!

Good luck and have lots of fun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No idea. It's better than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice

Avoid waving your cock at random women

Dont send a cock pic unless asked

Avoid sending abusive mail if you dont get what you want.

Visit a club and be social

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By *aughty alex 99 OP   Man
over a year ago

gosport

thanks people

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