FabSwingers.com forum: So should single lads like me really be on here then?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To be honest with you I have never really considered my self to be a swinger...... I am just a single lad on here for some good gut wrenching NSA sex with like minded females...... This is now my 3rd profile on here in the last 6yrs..... When I get into a relationship off line with a woman then I delete my profile as I think it only fair to start off a new relationship all fair and square and a complete fresh start..... Plus I am not a T**T like that and never cheat if I am with some one, so the profile goes.......... I did meet a girl on here a few years ago and we both deleted our profiles and decided to give it a go at a full time relationship. Was ok for a couple of years but then it went tits up and I was single again and back on here with a new profile......... This site works ok for me as a single lad if I am honest as I am on here to make friends with a couple of regular females for frendship, banter, good one to one personal contact and conversation and a blimmin good regular sessions of gut wrenching NSA sex with tons and tons of passionate snoggin and hmmmmmmmm I best behave or I will get horny, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not be a swingle your doing no harm go fill your boots x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

NO need to say sorry, I have thicker skin than a rhyno me so no offence taken, or gate post for that matter......... Regards paying for sex from a hooker, erm well all I can say to that is I wouldn't no what that was like to be honest with you as I have never shagged a rugby player, and I certainly would not pay them to scrum down with me anyhow......... There has to be a mutual click, spark, and attraction to kiss and have mutual gut wrenching fornication I guess and that goes for both parties......... But yeah no offence taken

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd be more doubtful of you being a 'lad' than a swinger.

The site's here for people to individually use in ways that work for ourselves - as long as we're respectful of course, as well as satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you sound like a level headed lad ...using this site wisely ......well done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like a cracking lad with honour too. Course you should be here. If you're meeting and playing and having fun, good on you.

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"To be honest with you I have never really considered my self to be a swinger...... I am just a single lad on here for some good gut wrenching NSA sex with like minded females...... This is now my 3rd profile on here in the last 6yrs..... When I get into a relationship off line with a woman then I delete my profile as I think it only fair to start off a new relationship all fair and square and a complete fresh start..... Plus I am not a T**T like that and never cheat if I am with some one, so the profile goes.......... I did meet a girl on here a few years ago and we both deleted our profiles and decided to give it a go at a full time relationship. Was ok for a couple of years but then it went tits up and I was single again and back on here with a new profile......... This site works ok for me as a single lad if I am honest as I am on here to make friends with a couple of regular females for frendship, banter, good one to one personal contact and conversation and a blimmin good regular sessions of gut wrenching NSA sex with tons and tons of passionate snoggin and hmmmmmmmm I best behave or I will get horny, haha

I really liked your post . Very honest and honesty always gets my respect . There is no right or wrong who should be on this site and who shouldn't . Different people have got different reasons as long everyone is honest then what's the fuss all about .

Not many men would delete the profile on here when in the relationship so you have got the mega plus from this girl .

Have fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

In that case I think you have made a mistake.....

You most definitely ARE a swinger and you should go forth and continue to use this site to meet like minded people for all the NSA fun you want.

Oh, and nice side step on the hooker comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not be a swingle your doing no harm go fill your boots x"
l think, based on his second post, that he is actually a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not many men would delete the profile on here when in the relationship so you have got the mega plus from this girl .

Have fun "

Awwwww ta luv, hey I really like your profile.. .. Id be happy to share a bag of chips wi thee any time Flower...... Well I am a Wigan lad after all so a pie would be at a later date once trust was established

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

In that case I think you have made a mistake.....

You most definitely ARE a swinger and you should go forth and continue to use this site to meet like minded people for all the NSA fun you want.

Oh, and nice side step on the hooker comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be more doubtful of you being a 'lad' than a swinger.

The site's here for people to individually use in ways that work for ourselves - as long as we're respectful of course, as well as satisfied."

Anyone can be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not be a swingle your doing no harm go fill your boots xl think, based on his second post, that he is actually a swinger. "

Why?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"You sound like a cracking lad with honour too. Course you should be here. If you're meeting and playing and having fun, good on you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the question, again??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about labelling yourself op! Just relax and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad the OP appreciated my comments, whilst the normal forum high ground take side swipes.

Lucky I'm as hardskinned as you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not be a swingle your doing no harm go fill your boots xl think, based on his second post, that he is actually a swinger.

Why? "
Why not?

I just got more from his second post than the first and when he gave further information it changed my mind.

Why do you care about my opinion, it was for him, because he asked, not for you...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Why not be a swingle your doing no harm go fill your boots xl think, based on his second post, that he is actually a swinger. "

I could read that one out already of the OP's initial post. Your hooker comment was out of place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider myself a swinger, I use this site to meet men for NSA sex

I think quite a few people are on here until they find a partner, nothing wrong with that, be upfront about it & have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

In that case I think you have made a mistake.....

You most definitely ARE a swinger and you should go forth and continue to use this site to meet like minded people for all the NSA fun you want.

Oh, and nice side step on the hooker comment.

How nice of you to give your blessing to him. He would have never slept otherwise id say.

Im sure youd also have cast the same doubts on a single woman if she had described herself in a similar way...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"You sound like a cracking lad with honour too. Course you should be here. If you're meeting and playing and having fun, good on you."

Yup - this

Use the site as you see fit. Swinging is no longer just about couples and pampas grass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read your profile and your posts, we would definitely consider swinging with you. We like your sense of humour and the fact you dont take this swinging lark too seriously. There are far too many people on here that think if you are not meeting at least once a fortnight then you are not a swinger. Total tosh in our eyes... Any way just a shame your over 200 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe the op is a swinger but then neither am I. I believe and will always believe that to be a swinger you need to have a partner and play swapsies with other couples.

The op has every right to be here though and use this site as he sees fit so long as he promises not to use gut wrenching to describe sex, makes me feel queezy reading it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having read your profile and your posts, we would definitely consider swinging with you. We like your sense of humour and the fact you dont take this swinging lark too seriously. There are far too many people on here that think if you are not meeting at least once a fortnight then you are not a swinger. Total tosh in our eyes... Any way just a shame your over 200 miles away "

Did I not mention that I have a helicopter....... Well a VW Golf that has my imaginary friend in the passenger seat who can make the woooooosh woooooosh rotar blade sounds of a helicopter anyhow..... Trouble is that I, erm I mean he cant make them sound quite as fast, so it would only take me at least 2 n half hours to get down to Eastbourne rather than 6-8 mins in nelly the copter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe the op is a swinger but then neither am I. I believe and will always believe that to be a swinger you need to have a partner and play swapsies with other couples.

The op has every right to be here though and use this site as he sees fit so long as he promises not to use gut wrenching to describe sex, makes me feel queezy reading it. "

mmm I did wonder what gut wrenching sex was. I thought that was when you were worried about something. Having said that, good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only question is, would you use the site if you were in a relationship with someone who also wanted to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't believe the op is a swinger but then neither am I. I believe and will always believe that to be a swinger you need to have a partner and play swapsies with other couples.

The op has every right to be here though and use this site as he sees fit so long as he promises not to use gut wrenching to describe sex, makes me feel queezy reading it. "

Darling, one was indeed using the term gut wrenching sex as a means of trying to be all modern, hip, and down with the cool trendy words that the youngsters seem to use these days. However I did not want to come across as uncle nob head by using such a word as sick in the same sentence as sex........ Pitty I don't live in South Wales, or am 6ft plus tall with dark hair and a big cock, with photos to prove it from it's base to bell end...... And I like coffee,..... Blimmin ell im not doing to good here with you am I,.... tomatoe tomatta....... Hey if ever you fancy a Ewen Mcgreggor from Trainspotting type tho with a 6 inch cock, good girth, heck of alot of stamina and great kisser...... Or a Jason Statham type who was looking for conckers in the ugly tree and fell hitting every other branch on the way down....... Then give us a shout and I will fire up nelly the copter and wooooosh woooosh woooosh my way down to you in about 4 hrs and give you one heck of a good night of pure passion and fun and banter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My only question is, would you use the site if you were in a relationship with someone who also wanted to? "

Yes of course I would..... So maybe there is a swinger in me after all then hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

Agree. I have found many.many guys on fab who check into hotels on business and use this site to try for free sex - expecting ladies to simply come.to their hotel room and have sex. My answer is always the same...sod off....buy Sport newspaper or go on adultworks and pay a hooker/escort! I'm Not on fab to be used like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it only becomes swinging if it involves more than two people? If meeting 121 only then it is NSA sex. Or am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't believe the op is a swinger but then neither am I. I believe and will always believe that to be a swinger you need to have a partner and play swapsies with other couples.

The op has every right to be here though and use this site as he sees fit so long as he promises not to use gut wrenching to describe sex, makes me feel queezy reading it.

I like you Op - you're bonkers!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure how his post came across as him using this site as an Escort site as I thought his post sounded honest.

To the OP, the site can be used for what you want out of it, as long as you find people who want the same I am sure you will go a long way.

Loved the helicopter post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't believe the op is a swinger but then neither am I. I believe and will always believe that to be a swinger you need to have a partner and play swapsies with other couples.

The op has every right to be here though and use this site as he sees fit so long as he promises not to use gut wrenching to describe sex, makes me feel queezy reading it.

I like you Op - you're bonkers!

I like you Peachy, Hell I have even been so bold as to dare my self to mail you in the past, but it just got deleted un read and almost broke my dodgy old ticker........ Now I am not going to say that I cried over you but I was watching watership down at the time on TINTERNET..... So that's my excuse and I am sticking to it..... I have never been able to eat rabbit pie n chips again since watching that film

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am not sure how his post came across as him using this site as an Escort site as I thought his post sounded honest.

To the OP, the site can be used for what you want out of it, as long as you find people who want the same I am sure you will go a long way.

Loved the helicopter post

Kankooooo

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Great post. Many single male profiles stste they get more action off dating sites than on here. Those guys to my mind are not swingers, they are just guys looking for NSA sex with a female and we have no problem with that. There are many single females on here looking for exactly the same thing but no one seems to have an issue with that.

There are no hard and fast rules as to what defines a swinger then we can not see having a profile on here as a problem. To us a single male swinger is someone who is happy to play with couples, get involved in group fun etc. if just looking to have sex with single fems only then in our opinion not a swinger just a guy trying to enjoy life to the full.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ok then so maybe it is about time I took the leap of faith and dipped my toes ( clean washed and cheese free toes of course! ) into the swinging world properly...... Who would like to invite me to a party then, and will there be jelly and cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its supply and demand and so far, the supply of single males far out weighs the demand, so single fems and couples will only be looking for Males to fulfill their need and fantasies and rightly so. We look at single men as a means to an end. If she wanted she could go out and pull single men as most women on here could. You have to think is it just your needs you want pleasing or are you here to indulge in the others fantasy aswell. If its just your needs then you may find this sites not for you. But again its always down to personal preference. Hope you have fun in any case xx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

bob rev up your copter party at ours this saturday.. land in the garden no trouble watch the olive trees ..connie x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You don't need others approval or people to tell you if you belong here on not..You know when it is right for you and when to leave the site..

You sound a decent bloke (not keen on middle aged guys calling themselves lads) & I imagine you will get whatever you want on this Wonderful site..Happy swinging or whichever term you feel comfortable with ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sound like a cracking lad with honour too. Course you should be here. If you're meeting and playing and having fun, good on you.

Yup - this

Use the site as you see fit. Swinging is no longer just about couples and pampas grass

Deffo this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use the forum. That is what I do lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sound like a cracking lad with honour too. Course you should be here. If you're meeting and playing and having fun, good on you.

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So should single lads like me really be on here then?"

If it wasn't for the single guys, we wouldn't be on here as it's all we meet (of this site anyway)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't need others approval or people to tell you if you belong here on not..You know when it is right for you and when to leave the site..

Having served as an infantry soldier with the Queens Lancashire Regiment a good few moons ago now I guess we all still refer to our self's, and the others as Lancashire lads...... No matter what age we are, we are all still Lancashire lads I guess

Cheers tho mon, ta very muchly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"bob rev up your copter party at ours this saturday.. land in the garden no trouble watch the olive trees ..connie x

Olive is stuck up a tree hey, hmmmmmm weres mi spinnich ( bad spellong ) alllllllllllll save ya Olive ka ka ka ka kaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

I can see nothing in his opening post that makes it look like he's treating women like hookers. I'm going to read it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many men would delete the profile on here when in the relationship so you have got the mega plus from this girl .

Have fun "

I agree flower

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not many men would delete the profile on here when in the relationship so you have got the mega plus from this girl .

Have fun

I agree flower

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

I have had at least 2 ladies and 1 couple on here on Fabs, who came down to London on a trip. They stayed in a hotel and asked me to come along for sex which I agreed to.

Does it mean that these ladies need to ""buy Sport newspaper or go on adultworks and pay??""

And what is WRONG with free sex?? Is sex not supposed to be free for 2 consenting Adults??

The stuff some people write on here amazes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

I can see nothing in his opening post that makes it look like he's treating women like hookers. I'm going to read it again."

Oh, FFS, you need to read my later posts in thus thread.

I don't understand why so many are giving me a hard time for giving my opinion? It was not rude, it was contrite and I acknowledged that others would likely think differently.

You people need to stick to answering the OPs question and stop deconstructing other people's opinions.

*perhaps my skin isn't as think as I thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm going to be brutal blunt with you, so please don't be offended.

The way you describe it sounds to me like you're just here because it's a cheaper way of getting sex than paying for a hooker...

This, in our minds, is not 'in the spirit' of the swinger lifestyle, so no, in our opinion, you should not be here...

(told you I was going to be blunt!)

All that being said, others will probably have different opinions and that's fine.

Sorry if you don't like our answer, but you did ask...

In that case I think you have made a mistake.....

You most definitely ARE a swinger and you should go forth and continue to use this site to meet like minded people for all the NSA fun you want.

Oh, and nice side step on the hooker comment.

How nice of you to give your blessing to him. He would have never slept otherwise id say.

Im sure youd also have cast the same doubts on a single woman if she had described herself in a similar way..."

Well as his post was specifically asking for opinions I don't see any problems with expressing ours. You on the other hand, like a number of other high horse riders here, are just trolling...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, the hooker comment was uncalled for. I don't think he's a swinger, he's just a bloke looking for sex like all the singles on here......but he has wit, and honesty, and honour, and that makes him a cut above many if not most swingles, so good luck to you OP.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I don't understand why so many are giving me a hard time for giving my opinion?

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They are not. You just seem to be taking it that way because they disagreed with what you had written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not be a swingle your doing no harm go fill your boots xl think, based on his second post, that he is actually a swinger.

Why? Why not?

I just got more from his second post than the first and when he gave further information it changed my mind.

Why do you care about my opinion, it was for him, because he asked, not for you...

Good grief. I just wondered what you meant that was all.

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