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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I enjoy receiving oral but have never been keen at giving it...I have a very bad gag reflex too but are there other ladies like.myself who are happy to have a male or fem give them oral but are unable to give oral in return?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's called selfish lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also called a 68

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's called selfish lol "

Possibly but I am a giver in many other ways..just not orally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother me too much if a woman doesnt want to give oral. I much prefer to be the one giving her the pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to lick it before you stick it .....

No licky, no sticky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt bother me too much if a woman doesnt want to give oral. I much prefer to be the one giving her the pleasure. "

Oh my god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely say yes, who would like to get on the bed and remove there knickers

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands


"I enjoy receiving oral but have never been keen at giving it...I have a very bad gag reflex too but are there other ladies like.myself who are happy to have a male or fem give them oral but are unable to give oral in return?"
i prefer to recieve oral with the woman licking and only taking the tip of cock in her mouth. Love being wanked as she uses tongue over and under my helmet so youd not have to worry about gag reflex with me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been able to perform oral sex on two men - not through physical difficulties but physiological reasons - and I've always explained my issues before getting intimate and I've never had any issues with it.

OP, you can always use your hands and mouth as an easier technique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine if you don't give oral so long as you tell people before you meet

Nothing pisses me off more than a guy who don't give oral but don't tell you before hand incase you don't meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to lick it before you stick it .....

No licky, no sticky. "

Yeah that's my philosophy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy receiving oral but have never been keen at giving it...I have a very bad gag reflex too but are there other ladies like.myself who are happy to have a male or fem give them oral but are unable to give oral in return?"

I sometimes gag too

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I love giving oral and as long as was told the lady not into giving I'd be fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy gagging once got gagged by a man with such a big cock tears were streaming down my face n i pissed myself. It was great. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving oral and as long as was told the lady not into giving I'd be fine with it. "

Would it not put you off at all?

I have to be honest I wouldn't meet a guy who didn't give oral but then I'm not really into penatrive sex so if there was no shagging and he didn't give oral it wouldnt be worth meeting

I love loads of oral and foreplay so it's got to be two ways other wise it would be boring

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest


"I love giving oral and as long as was told the lady not into giving I'd be fine with it.

Would it not put you off at all?

I have to be honest I wouldn't meet a guy who didn't give oral but then I'm not really into penatrive sex so if there was no shagging and he didn't give oral it wouldnt be worth meeting

I love loads of oral and foreplay so it's got to be two ways other wise it would be boring "

I'd be bit upset as 69 one of my fave things. But if said they don't like giving I'd be ok as long as there was something else happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt bother me too much if a woman doesnt want to give oral. I much prefer to be the one giving her the pleasure. "

So transparent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you make it clear before you meet its not something your into I don't see why it should be an issue, if they want that then they can always say no to meeting, just as you can back.

We all have likes and dislikes, with women I (fem) do love to give and sometimes am not too fussed if I receive back, depends on my mood at the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy receiving oral but have never been keen at giving it...I have a very bad gag reflex too but are there other ladies like.myself who are happy to have a male or fem give them oral but are unable to give oral in return?"

As a guy i DONT see any issue here at all, id much sooner the woman receiving oral than me anyway so much more of a turn on and im sure you make up for it in other areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys stop it

You really expect anyone to believe you don't mind not getting your cock sucked

????

Please

Stop grovelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys stop it

You really expect anyone to believe you don't mind not getting your cock sucked

????

Please

Stop grovelling "

To be fair I have met a guy who didn't like having his cock sucked

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov

It wouldn't bother me. I prefer to give xx

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest


"Guys stop it

You really expect anyone to believe you don't mind not getting your cock sucked

????

Please

Stop grovelling "

I'd happily eat pussy then have a fuck. Ye I like a good blowjob but not end of world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys stop it

You really expect anyone to believe you don't mind not getting your cock sucked

????

Please

Stop grovelling

To be fair I have met a guy who didn't like having his cock sucked "

Gosh

Never heard that before

I stand/ sit corrected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give than receive, most people I have found don't do it for me orally, but if they wanna give it a go I'm happy for them to try.

Mark however loves giving and receiving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys stop it

You really expect anyone to believe you don't mind not getting your cock sucked

????

Please

Stop grovelling "

Please leave the white knights alone...

That green arrow will be their downfall

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Intresting I love to give or receive but every one has there preferences that's what make us all very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're missing the game Baby

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By *in bang boshMan
over a year ago

Land of fun

I love to pleasure a pussy with my tongue for hours and don't need to receive I just love to pleasure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely gag reflexes only come in when you are trying to deep throate a cock ?

so dont deep throate simples

Not every man wants to fuck you all the way down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle licking of the tip does it for me! It is always lovely to get some attention in that way, especially with plenty of eye contact.I would never insist on a full bj, just wait to see what awaits and how things develop.. There is no prescribed order of play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love giving oral to other women, and have been well complimented on it..

But unfortunately receiving oral just doesn't do it for me at all - so I'd much rather be honest and say that I don't want it, and be clear about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner won't suck or lick my cock. It's one of those things I've got to accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral to a women just watch her eyes roll up and down you know when this happens she really please with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesnt bother me too much if a woman doesnt want to give oral. I much prefer to be the one giving her the pleasure. "

Same here. Unless in 69 of course.

Probably due to ex wife being so crap st giving head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy gagging once got gagged by a man with such a big cock tears were streaming down my face n i pissed myself. It was great. xxx"

Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving ladies o but not keen on recieving bj so happy to do without a return

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

I personally love both giving and receiving oral, with both men and women and I don't feel it should always have to be reciprocated. Its something I just go with the flow on. Sometimes I'm so ready to suck a cock but not worried if they don't give me oral. Other times I've met and the other person just wants to please and isn't worried about it in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horses for courses as many have said... Best to try and get a hint though as it pays off in the long run x

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe


"Doesnt bother me too much if a woman doesnt want to give oral. I much prefer to be the one giving her the pleasure. "
same ere hav never had any complaints yet

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I can understand a girl having a gag reflex but like another person said she could still use her lips/tounge on the tip which is the main part anyway.

To refuse altogether yes is her choice but a lazy one, i love giving oral and equally love it in return.

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