FabSwingers.com forum: Am I the only one

By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?

I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.

So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You don't have to write about sex.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I assume it means don't write 'straight man here to fuck women' on the profile and they don't want the standard

Hi hows you

What you into?

How you finding fab?

Wanna fuck type messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"You don't have to write about sex. "

You don't?

Seems many blokes didn't get that memo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

Agreed.x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You don't have to write about sex.

You don't?

Seems many blokes didn't get that memo."

Didn't read the memo and didn't read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of your profile as a shop window how would you sell yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going cheap?

Must go?

Damaged stock?

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"

I can't just get on and fuck someone I have no attraction to. Sometimes it is purely physical. Other times it us about what they can do to turn on my mind. For some people the mind is the biggest factor!

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?

I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.

So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you."

For me, it's all about imagination. Thinking of new ways to do new things to each other. Straightforward getting down to it, just doesn't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"

You are completely negating the art of seduction which you say you praise. It is part of the fun.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

Erm... painting, dance, music...

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Think of your profile as a shop window how would you sell yourself x"

Free trial offer for an unlimited period

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

You seem to get a lot of 'eccentric' profiles from forum users trying to use humour etc but not necessarily successful. I think just portraying your own interests and bit of personality is the way. You still have to let people be aware of boundaries etc to stop them wasting yours or their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"

The seduction is the good bit.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

"Think of your profile as a shop window how would you sell yourself x"

Closing down sale everything must go.last few days .type of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

Definitely agree x

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?

I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.

So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you."

I am a very imaginative creative artist, a musician and writer but I just seem to go blank or just totally crude when in this situation, which I don't see as a personal failing. Does anyone else understand what I am trying to say?

Can someone post an example of this 'imaginative' kind of message that they are hoping for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got it all wrong mate and ignore the power of words if used properly.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Who doesn't get this request to be 'imaginative' on profiles?

I mean sex isn't really an art that one gets imaginative about is it, I mean not properly imaginative, then basically you're just writing porn.

So to me it is like you are asking me to write some porn for you."

I'm a creative seducer with my dancing, also how I touch a woman. I think it would be quite nice to see some original erotic literature basically in a message.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?"

It is for some and not for others. If you want to meet people who just want to "skip to the good bit" say so

It's just that for some the definition of the "good bit" is different to yours.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"It's all about seduction

If that's not an art I don't know what is

The art of seduction is the highest art, true. But isn't swinging about 'skipping to the good bit' and we're beyond all that need to seduce each other etc?

It is for some and not for others. If you want to meet people who just want to "skip to the good bit" say so

It's just that for some the definition of the "good bit" is different to yours. "

You're right of course, sorry I was interpreting my feelings wrongly, it is hard to put it into words, I just go blank I.guess.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I think part of the problem is that I get so little sex at present that I have become inarticulate and twisted, and I don't really have anything to talk about. Oh I had a great wank last night isn't very exciting.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Nobody seems very excited about the great spontaneous sexy.dancing I enjoyed at the star and garter in bristol last weekend.

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm an out swinger on the frontline, manning the barricades against the encroaches of prudity, inhibitedness, and sexual negativity, or trying my best anyway. Anyone like to join me? There's gold in them thar hills

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By *eggaelover OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I defend our lifestyle to the hilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The competition on here is pretty fierce I know I'd pick someone with a well written profile over someone with two or three words in the text.

It's the best way to sell your product!

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