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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

I know you've heard it all before but is there a really a place for genuine single guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well give me a go love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you've heard it all before but is there a really a place for genuine single guys on here? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, patience is the key lol.

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

Ha thanks for the offer Syd but love the ladies far too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many single men having sex with others from here. Without single men the single woman would have to have sex with each other

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"There are many single men having sex with others from here. Without single men the single woman would have to have sex with each other "

You say that like it's a bad thing

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

Yes there is . Just treat it the same as the real world , the ones that are polite to you if you have conducted yourself like a gentleman are the most wonderful women in the world . And the ones who have reverted to type and gone for you like a rabid pitbull as you have politely enquired , well....let sleeping dogs lie ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes there is . Just treat it the same as the real world , the ones that are polite to you if you have conducted yourself like a gentleman are the most wonderful women in the world . And the ones who have reverted to type and gone for you like a rabid pitbull as you have politely enquired , well....let sleeping dogs lie ... "

Fully agree...

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Yes, patience is the key lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are surprisingly hard to find.

Wish more would make the effort to come to clubs too.

Couples only nights are dullsville

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.. yes for the genurine ones and no to the idiots

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

Great feedback everyone, I will be patient and keep plugging away. Worst case scenario there's lots of great people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are surprisingly hard to find.

Wish more would make the effort to come to clubs too.

Couples only nights are dullsville "

If you just wanted a 'genuine' guy, then they're very easy to find.

However, if you want one that ticks boxes for a number is prerequisites, like you profile suggests, well, then that's different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is, too many single men just think of women as pieces of meat and want thier balls emptied, so all of us gentleman get tarred with the same brush, its always best to only play when there is a connection, I won't have sex with anybody I wouldn't meet for a coffee of something stronger. This is about forming genuine friendships as well as mutual sexual fulfillment and enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great feedback everyone, I will be patient and keep plugging away. Worst case scenario there's lots of great people on here "

Forumland is where it's at lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes and yes single guys rock simple as...

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

Well said that man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be said that there are many idiots on here... just because people are online doesn't mean they want to meet up. These guys get blocked by us without reply...

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

It's certainly looking that way x

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

Now if you could all just move to the north east, that would be perfect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are surprisingly hard to find.

Wish more would make the effort to come to clubs too.

Couples only nights are dullsville

If you just wanted a 'genuine' guy, then they're very easy to find.

However, if you want one that ticks boxes for a number is prerequisites, like you profile suggests, well, then that's different."

I could always drop my standards and deal with the huge number of idiots on here???

It's taken a lot of time getting a profile that works for us.

Because our profile doesn't work for you, I don't really give a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has to be said that there are many idiots on here... just because people are online doesn't mean they want to meet up. These guys get blocked by us without reply... "

Fully agree, but then the flip side is girls (or blokes) say they are up for a meet and you end up completely wasting your time as well - Just a blokes perspective for balance lol x

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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago

mysteryville

Well I been on here for about 8 or 9 years and only had a few meets one was end of lastyesr but before that nothing for 5 years. 99% of the time I receive zero replies.

I don't really try hard though I kinda given up when I realise from spending time on the chat more than anything else that single males are automatically treated by assumption that they are cheaters or what not. Sad really. Also if you don't meet often people assume your not genuine so your fucked everyway possible except for actually being fucked for real hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are surprisingly hard to find.

Wish more would make the effort to come to clubs too.

Couples only nights are dullsville

If you just wanted a 'genuine' guy, then they're very easy to find.

However, if you want one that ticks boxes for a number is prerequisites, like you profile suggests, well, then that's different.

I could always drop my standards and deal with the huge number of idiots on here???

It's taken a lot of time getting a profile that works for us.

Because our profile doesn't work for you, I don't really give a shit

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The profile works brilliantly for you and is very, very genuine. It is also great to look at.

All I was doing was saying that for many, when they say genuine, the reality of it is that it's not just genuine singularly that they're looking for. It's many other things as well.

And no, keep your standards. If you drop them nobody wins.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Great feedback everyone, I will be patient and keep plugging away. Worst case scenario there's lots of great people on here

Forumland is where it's at lol"

All my meets have come about as a result of forum interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and also a lot of guys think they are being messed around but take it from a woman/couples point of view you get say 40 messages you narrow it down to say 10 then pick 1 from the 10 then the 9 think your a timewaster lol cant win sometimes ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are many single men having sex with others from here. Without single men the single woman would have to have sex with each other

You say that like it's a bad thing "

Terrible thing!

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By *aughty alex 99Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Great feedback everyone, I will be patient and keep plugging away. Worst case scenario there's lots of great people on here

Forumland is where it's at lol

All my meets have come about as a result of forum interaction "

Well i defoo need to use this to my advantage as not having much luck gettin meets....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick "

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston


"and also a lot of guys think they are being messed around but take it from a woman/couples point of view you get say 40 messages you narrow it down to say 10 then pick 1 from the 10 then the 9 think your a timewaster lol cant win sometimes ... "

Totally take that on board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!"

Ha ha, you are correct but will they ever learn x

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov


"I know you've heard it all before but is there a really a place for genuine single guys on here? "

Yes there is.

But maybe go to a club or two or a social and meet people face to face. If your not genuine then you wouldn't be in that scenario. Socialise, be polite, and look to make friends first. Treat play as a bonus and use Fab to keep in touch with people you meet there and the friend's you make.

It works very well for me. Made lots of great friends, soom I've played with, some I haven't, and some i didn't play with until I'd seen them several times in a club. I've even been on holiday with a friend I met in a club.

It really is all about putting in the effort and being patient

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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago

mysteryville

I can see how this website can both boost and totally destroy people's confidence. Harsh place ain't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

Ha ha, you are correct but will they ever learn x"

Some will and some won't. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!"

but I may just want a fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see how this website can both boost and totally destroy people's confidence. Harsh place ain't it"
It's a very harsh place at times.. but it's only as harsh as you let it be..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see how this website can both boost and totally destroy people's confidence. Harsh place ain't it"

It is what it is.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol"

Lol then ask for one.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol"

We (men) just can't win... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol

We (men) just can't win... Lol "

we women are allowed to change our minds lol surely you men know that lol

my hubby knows that its why he brought a new shed last week lol to hide in

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol

We (men) just can't win... Lol

we women are allowed to change our minds lol surely you men know that lol

my hubby knows that its why he brought a new shed last week lol to hide in "

I feel a trip to Taunton coming on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol

We (men) just can't win... Lol

we women are allowed to change our minds lol surely you men know that lol

my hubby knows that its why he brought a new shed last week lol to hide in "

Us fellas all have the latest top of the range Man Sheds lol x

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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago

mysteryville


"I can see how this website can both boost and totally destroy people's confidence. Harsh place ain't it It's a very harsh place at times.. but it's only as harsh as you let it be.."

True true , but nonetheless is does knock your confidence. Has mine a little along with other dating sites. I love these profiles you see "exceptional males only" what's that mean exactly lol , not me I don't think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol

We (men) just can't win... Lol

we women are allowed to change our minds lol surely you men know that lol

my hubby knows that its why he brought a new shed last week lol to hide in "

Thinks your husband is a sensible guy and can you ask him if he takes in day visitors.. my she'd is on back order!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol

We (men) just can't win... Lol

we women are allowed to change our minds lol surely you men know that lol

my hubby knows that its why he brought a new shed last week lol to hide in

Thinks your husband is a sensible guy and can you ask him if he takes in day visitors.. my she'd is on back order!"

Shed not she'd! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we need guys to all be different fab full of men who all act the same would get very boring very quick

You are right, verity is everything... I can pop over for a fuck, is just taking the piss!

but I may just want a fuck lol

Lol then ask for one.... lol

We (men) just can't win... Lol

we women are allowed to change our minds lol surely you men know that lol

my hubby knows that its why he brought a new shed last week lol to hide in

Thinks your husband is a sensible guy and can you ask him if he takes in day visitors.. my she'd is on back order!

Shed not she'd! !!"

Watch out.. Spelling police about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice i can give is to go to clubs, chat to people, talk in the forums, message a few people and don't be a dick!!!

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston


"Best advice i can give is to go to clubs, chat to people, talk in the forums, message a few people and don't be a dick!!! "

Don't be a dick is pretty much my mantra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best advice i can give is to go to clubs, chat to people, talk in the forums, message a few people and don't be a dick!!!

Don't be a dick is pretty much my mantra "

And a good mantra it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best advice i can give is to go to clubs, chat to people, talk in the forums, message a few people and don't be a dick!!!

Don't be a dick is pretty much my mantra

And a good mantra it is "

Best way - it's nice to be nice x

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston


"Best advice i can give is to go to clubs, chat to people, talk in the forums, message a few people and don't be a dick!!!

Don't be a dick is pretty much my mantra

And a good mantra it is "

And anyone who quotes Floyd in their status is cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best advice i can give is to go to clubs, chat to people, talk in the forums, message a few people and don't be a dick!!!

Don't be a dick is pretty much my mantra "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cream cakes.....

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston


"Cream cakes....."

Pink Floyd,, dark side of the moon. Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cream cakes.....

Pink Floyd,, dark side of the moon. Ha ha ha"

Cream cakes... naughty but nice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its v hard for us though. Too many women demand stuff that theyre not prepared to do themselves.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"I know you've heard it all before but is there a really a place for genuine single guys on here? "

I would say so, but I'm biased

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston

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By *daw42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunston


"I know you've heard it all before but is there a really a place for genuine single guys on here?

I would say so, but I'm biased "

When you look like you do, you can be as biased as you like xxx

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