FabSwingers.com forum: question for the guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer him to watch the football downstairs lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely joins in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer him to watch the football downstairs lol."
lol good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am yet to meet a couple. I have a fantasy of the husband just watching me please his wife, but I am also down to spitroast as its enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind either way so long as he's focused on her and not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joins in, I have been watched but was a bit weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer him to watch the football downstairs lol.lol good one"
lol thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely joins in!"

I'm not fussed by being watched, it's much more fun when everyone gets involved

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I've had Couple meets where hubby has just watched and taken pics, and meets where hubby has joined in... both types are equally as fun for all concerned

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

Join in!!!

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By *andhCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

I'm a watcher

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a watcher"
Never tempted to join in? Do you wank and watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it is clear at the beginning what he is doing either is good.

Tried both, joining in was fun as knew how to get I his wife off very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

Join. No one should be left out. It's more fun when every body is involved.

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By *andhCouple
over a year ago

Ilford

I do join in at some point. Depending on who we are meeting.

With our ex long term I wouldn't join in until after he had cum. Which would usually be a long time!

With our recent meets I have joined in after penetration has taken place.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Either with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one MFM, and the hubby watched to start with, then joined in after a while. It worked pretty well as it gave me and the wife some time to "get to know each other"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

Joins in, definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer them to join in. Although wouldn't mind if they wanted to watch.

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By *orny mids guyMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough

I don't mind, normally hubby watches and then joins in. One did video which was pretty horny....

If you're lucky enough to find a true cuck hubby, of course he should clean up afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

Get him to pop out for a pint x

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By *ight rider 500Man
over a year ago

hull

I like meeting both at the same time adds to the excitement in a pub is good only you know whats going on

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Bit of both for me, I love watching, but also get involved. Usually hang back to start with while they explore each other then join in.

Do like to take some pics and vids as well

Now have a massive hard on thinking about seeing her getting fucked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally easy with this...but joining in is more fun.

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By *opguy6969Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I would prefer him to duck off lol

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By *rKentMan
over a year ago

South East

Join in ultimatly but like some 1-1 to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the most important point is that whatever role the husband has, he must have a role. Also the man who has been invited to join the couple, in whatever capacity, must enjoy the dynamics of playing with a couple. Otherwise that man may a well just fuck a single woman.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"I prefer him to watch the football downstairs lol."

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have mmf if there's going to be someone watching then it ain't me. The guys are there as an added extra, not the main attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

Had guys join us for mmf but never been the joiner inner yet. Joining us I join in, I'm happy with that, I see it largely as a treat for her...so I think I'd view it the same way with another couple. Find out what they wanted, if they wanted to try something out, that kind of thing, maybe a dv or dp...whatever it was. I'd largely see it as a treat for her and do my best to make it a good event.

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By *cepuncMan
over a year ago

Hayle

Join in, every time. Two cocks, two tongues and four hands is about the right amount of toys for woman to have to hand though more is sometimes better. Being watched isnt up there in my list of 100 horny things to make and do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference when I was a single. I'm there to help their play time was the way I always approached it. If he wants to play great if he wants to watch, also great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love him to play ... mmmmmm xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only done this once with another couple. I enjoyed him watching more than I expected, but happy either way.

Was not on here, but I came in her mouth and I thought he was going to explode in excitement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is down to the couple as I feel I have been invited to enhance their sex life, whether it's the two of us pleasuring her or whether he is content just to sit and watch.

Happy playing either way. Or a mix of the two.

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I like it when they are both completely into being there, with equal enjoyment and mutual pleasure... After that whatever happens is fine by me in the main

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To join in always more fun for her but watching is fine if that all he wants

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By *old200Man
over a year ago

Congleton

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

It's all down to what the couple/partners want,

At the end of the day they have invited you to partake in a very intimate part of their private life. as a second male, once they have achieved what they are looking for then you have to step back. they are the ones that love each other at the end of the day.

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By *arkliverpoolMan
over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

Either way I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

Difficult I cant !

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Its better if all present are in on the action. Even more better if the other guy likes guys too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple that meets single guys,some on here have been taken off our hotlist and some added.interesting topic and answers.

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

both! Either or! Both such a turn on for me and a ultimate fantasy of mine! Just aslong as I'm not the one in the middle

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

"Just wondering when a single guys meets a couple. Do you prefer if the hubby/bf just watches or joins in. Spit roast etc."

both thats easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have an mmf it's always all in from the start and after playing for a while sometimes I'll sit back and watch if the guy is hitting the right spot then re-join the fun. I have been fantasizing about just watching Deb with another guy then taking her afterwards that's ultimately up to Deb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

We always play together.

Princess xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join in is definitely more fun. Unless, if they are in a cuckold scenario where it can sometimes be more sexy to watch him squirm and want to get involved with the fun but isn't allowed.

Im easy if people are having fun and enjoying it in a voyeristic way then thats cool. Everyone is different and people get their kicks in different ways

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I like him to join in,nothing better than a couple both sucking my cock at the same time ')

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I prefer him to watch the football downstairs lol."

If a guy meets us, I prefer to leave him upstairs with the hubby and watch the football myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't mind either way so long as he's focused on her and not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer him to watch the football downstairs lol."

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By *dcumlover2Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

"Its better if all present are in on the action. Even more better if the other guy likes guys too ."

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By *iddlesbroughmaleMan
over a year ago

middlesbrough

I like him to join in two cocks us always better than one ha

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By *atrinaXXXTV/TS
over a year ago

Gloucester

Definitely join!

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By *appyjack890Man
over a year ago

North loncolnshire

Join in definately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the lady has to be the centre of attention and gets both guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to all the single male guys that posted would rather the hubby pissed off and wasn't there, why look to meet couples. You obviously are not keen on the mf couple dynamic. As the hubby of the couple I find this disrespectful.. I love seeing E with other men and will always join in and watch, but if I thought the other guy was just wanting me to piss off he would be straight out of the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple that meets single guys,some on here have been taken off our hotlist and some added.interesting topic and answers."
ditto to that. Some guys have just killed any chance they possibly could of had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well join in obviously. Isnt that the whole point of meeting a couple? I'm a huge fan of mmf.

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By *ight rider 500Man
over a year ago

hull

i like to watch them first so horny then be asked to join in awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joins in.

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