FabSwingers.com forum: Approach to sex before becoming a swinger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I was ever to run into somebody I went to school/uni with, or anybody I knew in my twenties, and I were to say that I am a swinger, the response would probably be 'no surprise there'. I was known as a 'bit of a tart', I guess because from the age of thirteen I dated a lot of guys, enjoyed picking up guys in bars, and generally had more sexual partners than most of my peers. I always knew I was different, and was subject to being judged. Many times I tried to change but the temptation kept returning. The swing scene has enabled me to be the real me and not be judged. I've now accepted that it is natural for me to have multiple partners. Has anybody else had a similar journey to me?

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

almost the opposite one to be honest! not a lot happened until 20s and then it has just got better and better!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yep, we were both flirty as hell and swinging lets us enjoy being who we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my virginity in my late teens, and discovered swinging not long after. I've always enjoyed meeting new people since then. I think i've always had a very naughty viewpoint on sex... I blame the internet lol.

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well we may have thought about it for a while but it wasn't until later on that we both felt comfortable enough to live out the fantasies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently knew a woman who didn't lose her virginity till she was 40. We sat and worked it out in that time now nearly 42 she has been with 39 blokes. I say she's making most of the missed years

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

I've always had a high sex drive and a relaxed attitude towards sex.Saw sex as a way of getting pleasure rather than getting a relationship.

Been sexually liberated from a young age and I'm not easily shocked. I'm very much a whatever floats your boat type guy. Had gay/bi friends and been aware of that scene since I started high school.

Had a giggly foursome in my teens and had regular fuck buddy's and very few long term partners. I like to enjoy life and like to see others enjoying life too. I would never judge.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I think I had a bit of a reputation from the age of 17.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought i'd do something like mmf. First time was a bit odd but totally used to it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always had a high sex drive and lost a few boyfriends along the way lol one said I was 2 sexual ,most blokes would love that lol since swinging I've found what I enjoy and how to make a man want more of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always had a high sex drive and lost a few boyfriends along the way lol one said I was 2 sexual ,most blokes would love that lol since swinging I've found what I enjoy and how to make a man want more of me

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i had a gf like that wanted it all the time, was tiring lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We both had uninhibited teens and twenties and after that neither of us were exactly faithful to our exes. Swinging has allowed us to have the sexual variety we both need and I'd guess we have had more sex-partners in the last 12 years than we did before that, but we both lost count of the numbers years ago. Enough to make us happy, anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrsJ had only had 3 sexual partners when I met her at 42 years old. One of those was a 5 second wonder. She really only discovered orgasms when she was 40. We are just here to get her to catch up ????

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"If I was ever to run into somebody I went to school/uni with, or anybody I knew in my twenties, and I were to say that I am a swinger, the response would probably be 'no surprise there'. I was known as a 'bit of a tart', I guess because from the age of thirteen I dated a lot of guys, enjoyed picking up guys in bars, and generally had more sexual partners than most of my peers. I always knew I was different, and was subject to being judged. Many times I tried to change but the temptation kept returning. The swing scene has enabled me to be the real me and not be judged. I've now accepted that it is natural for me to have multiple partners. Has anybody else had a similar journey to me?"

Sounds a lot like myself, however, I have also endured a few years with no sex due to the situation of the relationship. Even on here I struggle to meet as attraction plays a big part for me. I have only just overcome a 9 month dry spell but certainly not for the want of trying

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