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By *Carver- OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I just had a charming string of messages from a complete stranger demanding that I change my profile details to bisexual because it said I was open to meeting genderqueer folks (which she also insisted was a "profanity").

Please tell me she's in a miniscule minority of gender police on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to mind her own business

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton


"Tell her to mind her own business "

I'd have used stronger language lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just had a charming string of messages from a complete stranger demanding that I change my profile details to bisexual because it said I was open to meeting genderqueer folks (which she also insisted was a "profanity").

Please tell me she's in a miniscule minority of gender police on here!"

Another open minded, non-judgemental member of the swinging community then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A 'profanity'. Now there's an interesting word, for fucks sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a charming string of messages from a complete stranger demanding that I change my profile details to bisexual because it said I was open to meeting genderqueer folks (which she also insisted was a "profanity").

Please tell me she's in a miniscule minority of gender police on here!"

seems to be someone with psychological issues. Guess identifying as a 'swinger' doesn't mean open minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And one other thing, there is no such thing as a 'straight' swinger. Swinging is outside of any concept of 'straight' sex which is all about one on one in a relationship with no one else. The use of the word straight to define hetero was adopted when homosexuality was illegal to differentiate from the bent/twisted/perverted queers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell her to mind her own business

I'd have used stronger language lol "

I was going to say tell her to fuck off but that's not very ladylike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't a clue what you mean

But no one can tell you what to put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to take the stick out of her ass and insert a couple of fingers instead, might loosen her up a bit

Mrs x

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We have and still do get complete strangers (amongst always women) telling us that we need to change our profile as it does not suit there interpretation of sexualities.

Tell them to go fuck themselves.

We tend to find people in real life less huge mental than some of those on Fab.

Who'd have thought.

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By *Carver- OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Haven't a clue what you mean

But no one can tell you what to put "

Well, Fab has a pretty limited selection of options with gender/orientation anyway - but for simplicity's sake let's say I consider myself straight because I'm a man and am not attracted to other men. I'll gladly meet trans women at any stage of transition, for instance, but not transvestites.

I realise this is nowhere near the level of judgement and abuse that actual non-binary people experience, but just wanted somewhere to say that gender policing busybodies can honestly just all get in the sea.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have and still do get complete strangers (amongst always women) telling us that we need to change our profile as it does not suit there interpretation of sexualities.

Tell them to go fuck themselves.

We tend to find people in real life less huge mental than some of those on Fab.

Who'd have thought. "

I like that autocorrect, most apt

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By *Carver- OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We have and still do get complete strangers (amongst always women) telling us that we need to change our profile as it does not suit there interpretation of sexualities.

Tell them to go fuck themselves.

We tend to find people in real life less huge mental than some of those on Fab.

Who'd have thought. "

I've seen your profile around - you two make a really cute couple. Thanks for posting, I'm glad it's easier irl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't a clue what you mean

But no one can tell you what to put

Well, Fab has a pretty limited selection of options with gender/orientation anyway - but for simplicity's sake let's say I consider myself straight because I'm a man and am not attracted to other men. I'll gladly meet trans women at any stage of transition, for instance, but not transvestites.

I realise this is nowhere near the level of judgement and abuse that actual non-binary people experience, but just wanted somewhere to say that gender policing busybodies can honestly just all get in the sea."

Ahh I see ok .

Well

Tell them to do one

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"We have and still do get complete strangers (amongst always women) telling us that we need to change our profile as it does not suit there interpretation of sexualities.

Tell them to go fuck themselves.

We tend to find people in real life less huge mental than some of those on Fab.

Who'd have thought.

I've seen your profile around - you two make a really cute couple. Thanks for posting, I'm glad it's easier irl."

Thank you and the autocorrect was better than the original!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Was going to post a opinion, then remembered im a "privileged cis-white male" and as such have no opinions.

I gave up listening to genderqueer or genderfluid folk, they are perminently looking for a reason to be offended, even if you show support.

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By *Carver- OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Was going to post a opinion, then remembered im a "privileged cis-white male" and as such have no opinions.

I gave up listening to genderqueer or genderfluid folk, they are perminently looking for a reason to be offended, even if you show support.

"

Yawn.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I just had a charming string of messages from a complete stranger demanding that I change my profile details to bisexual because it said I was open to meeting genderqueer folks (which she also insisted was a "profanity").

Please tell me she's in a miniscule minority of gender police on here!"

You're relatively new, no wonder you're surprised. That issue cropped up even in the forum quite often.

What important is, you do what you want in your profile and what you think represent you best.

Only you know who you really are.

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By *ancyDrewWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm "post op" (vile term, huh?) but still use tv/ts on my profile as it is the only option I feel I have on Fab filter-wise.

Still get the odd bit of abuse for it. (no where near as much as being Poz). It's always disheartening to encounter the narrow minded on sites like this.

Fuck them. Their damage, don't let it get to you. I always just look on it as a favour, as in "ah! Well I just could never entertain the idea of sleeping with you, PHEW"

Hugs x

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

the site you would think would be full of open minded, easy going, live and let live type of people eh?...

sadly it's rife with narrow minded sexual/gender bigots, spouting bile at anyone who doesnt conform to their ideals, possibly because they feel safer to vent when hiding behind a keyboard...

It's my measured opinion they can go fuck themselves...

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We fully support trans and have met some amazing people who realised and embraced their choice.

Just get pissed of with young genderfluid folk, yelling at others for simple coments like "that girl had nice hair" or "I need to shavebmy legs"

Our autistic daughter got a mouthful for saying both during week. She was told how fare she label someone by there birth sex and shaving her legs is bullshit enforced by the patriarchy (no she shaves her legs due to hyper sensitivity, due to her autism)

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Fuck them. It's a clutch of academics getting in a hiss about nothing. I get grief from them all the time in my performance job.

It is a shame Fabs don't have more gender and sexuality options as the two are not mutually exclusive. I consider myself a gender queer, pansexual, sapiosexual. Or just a human who fucks other humans.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Fuck them. It's a clutch of academics getting in a hiss about nothing. I get grief from them all the time in my performance job.

It is a shame Fabs don't have more gender and sexuality options as the two are not mutually exclusive. I consider myself a gender queer, pansexual, sapiosexual. Or just a human who fucks other humans."

Love the last one

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