FabSwingers.com forum: Tying someone up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've got a meet with a married women over here in a few days hopefully.

Anyhow she said she loves the idea of being tied up and blindfolded and I of course am more than happy to oblige

The only thing is, I've never done this to anyone before and now i'm thinking about it I don't really know what to do. Obviously were limited because of where we are so I can't just go buy some handcuffs, some toys blindfold etc so I have to be a little bit more resourceful than that.

What I did find for a mere £1 each was some very light ankle/wrist straps (for exercising) and a climbing clip which work really well - so there's the handcuffs sorted.

Now i'm just really stuck as to what to do. I want to be a little more erotic than feeding strawberries etc...

I'm at a bloody loss

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

When I get tied up and blindfolded the OH does what the hell he likes to me....and I am not normally fed strawberries

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

And i don't think she want that wither - but I thought I'd draw it out a little, build up some anticipation before diving straight between her legs

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Oh yeah, a whole load of teasing so she is begging you to dive between her legs os a good thing

I would be worried she will choke while trying to eat the strawberries if she is on her back though

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Theres plenty of places to tease with a cold strawberry

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Theres plenty of places to tease with a cold strawberry

or feathers

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Theres plenty of places to tease with a cold strawberry

or feathers

Oooh yes love my feathers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bondage tape......lots of fun to be had with a roll of that and so versatile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i know im going to sound a kill joy but.....

As a single woman i would never let someone i had never met before tie me up, am i just being over weary or does that just not sound safe?

besides that try asking her what she likes

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I once managed to cuff myself, chain my legs to the bottom of the bed and put a blindfold on... before my meet arrived.

He was pleased..... and didn't need any hints on what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freeze the strawberries first then dip them in mint or especially a strong minty toothpaste before rubbing into her celestial palace.

Ladies...comments

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I once managed to cuff myself, chain my legs to the bottom of the bed and put a blindfold on... before my meet arrived.

He was pleased..... and didn't need any hints on what to do

What would have happened if he had been a now show?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Freeze the strawberries first then dip them in mint or especially a strong minty toothpaste before rubbing into her celestial palace.

Ladies...comments "

Sounds good, but I think he was going to feed them in her mouth

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"oh i know im going to sound a kill joy but.....

As a single woman i would never let someone i had never met before tie me up, am i just being over weary or does that just not sound safe?

besides that try asking her what she likes

What she said!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I once managed to cuff myself, chain my legs to the bottom of the bed and put a blindfold on... before my meet arrived.

He was pleased..... and didn't need any hints on what to do

What would have happened if he had been a now show?

Made sure he rang when he was 20 minutes away and when he was in the car park and then told him to wait 5 minutes before coming in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get some chocolate and nibble on her nipples then kiss her tease her with ya hands .kiss yer stomach and groin area then go up and kiss her she be gagging for you .go asda get small bottle champers pour over her pussy gives great orgasm and tends to lead to horny things .

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"get some chocolate and nibble on her nipples then kiss her tease her with ya hands .kiss yer stomach and groin area then go up and kiss her she be gagging for you .go asda get small bottle champers pour over her pussy gives great orgasm and tends to lead to horny things .

Will Lambrini do the same job?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If someone did that and then fucked off out shopping I'd have the right hump... whether they brought back champers or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

der buy the champers take with ya before you tie her up lol .....get a battery toothbrush tease her clit as well when tied up .try cheap fizzy wine as well but make sure its cold as u dnt get same effect ha ha .love to be tied up and do the food play very horny 2 .........its the un knowing when blindfolded takes u over the edge ...........

try ultrubrite on her clit but leave her tied up and wait 10 min before going down on her then blow on it before licking it of have fun he he yes am naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will Lambrini do the same job?

Anything cold and fizzy will do the trick. I believe Irn Bru is popular in some places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well never tired iru bru but had the chapers and its awwwwwwwwwwww so good lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

before you tie her up, might be an idea to talk about having a 'safe' word.

communication with her will assist you also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As naughtynympho had mentioned, I would not let someone I have not met tie me up. I have to be able to trust that person before I can let myself go.

And yes, I love feathers too!

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Safety first. I would never let anyone tie me up on the first time of meeting. Situation could go bad fast, say if he's decided to bring some friends with him uninvited.

Also from a male point of view - I'd get some clear instructions and ground rules laid down first. If things went wrong, a false allegation could be made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i would have to totally trust the person doing tying my up or I wouldnt let them do it...

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Safe word, safe word, safe word.

Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries.

Sorry to repeat myself, but its not what you do to her that she'll like, its what she'll hate that's as important. What if you go to caress her feet, and she kicks you in the head, and knocks you out? I know someone that happened to.

Talk to her before you even attempt anything like this!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If im being tied up i want a damn good filthy fucking not champagne and strawberries

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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago

canvey island

"I've got a meet with a married women over here in a few days hopefully.

Anyhow she said she loves the idea of being tied up and blindfolded and I of course am more than happy to oblige

What I did find for a mere £1 each was some very light ankle/wrist straps (for exercising) and a climbing clip which work really well - so there's the handcuffs sorted.

Now i'm just really stuck as to what to do. I want to be a little more erotic than feeding strawberries etc...

I'm at a bloody loss

Re tying people up try you tube and look at the knotty boyz videos. They are informative and take the mystery out of rope work

Hope this helps

PS if you want to use food why not have your lady friend be the platter and put food in places where eating takes on a whole new feeling? Just an idea

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