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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

How long does it take:

1) To fuck someone you meet off FAB?

2) To fuck someone you start dating (vanilla) who is NOT a swinger?

Answers:

a) Makes no difference if it's a date or a FAB meet as to how long it takes before you fuck eachother

b) You act differently regarding your approach to sex on a vsnilla date to a FAB meet

c) You take longer to fuck a vanilla date than a FAB meet

d) Other option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"C"

Because that is your preference or theirs?

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Bugger I wanted to know what others do..... bugger

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I say c but Kaz thinks b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its been a while since i had a vanilla date, I'm talking over 15 years and its hard to remember that far back

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I am definitely different with vanilla dates . With FAB it is clear what the other wants really. So there is less ambiguity. With vanilla dates who are not swingers, it's more tricky. I have had several experiences where guys have suddenly gone off me when they discover my 'past'!! They feel threatened and jealous etc... but it's a tricky one for if we start talking about sex and they ask me a direct question like 'have you done X'... well if the answer is yes, they usually don't like the answer! So I am more cautious nowadays when dating .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i waa looking to *date" everything i wouls do would be completly differently to how i do things on fab.

I wouldnt have sex for quite awhile. No set time but it would be at least a couple of months i guess

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

a which is usually not long mostly away from fab where they are not used so much haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its - a

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"If i waa looking to *date" everything i wouls do would be completly differently to how i do things on fab.

I wouldnt have sex for quite awhile. No set time but it would be at least a couple of months i guess"

Why is that?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Other option d.....I don't go on dates

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If i waa looking to *date" everything i wouls do would be completly differently to how i do things on fab.

I wouldnt have sex for quite awhile. No set time but it would be at least a couple of months i guess

Why is that?"
because if i was going to start dating(ita hypwrthetical) it would be because i wanted to invest my future

So i would want to get to know me,.me.as.a person same as i do them. Im not in the habit of telling my life story.straight.away it pops out as.and.when. but they would.need to know i like variety.of people to have sex.with.

Once we know.we are compatable on the surface we can continue on

I wouldnt be.dropping my knickers for.someone im getting to know.id.still be.doing.that here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

a..try before you buy, either way sexual compatibility is important.

no chemistry/ connection you dont get another date or sex..

seems pointless holding back if you have chemistry though..like what are you waiting for?

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno

C for me...

If I get a date on fab, usually sex happens faster... With a vanilla, you need to lay the groundwork first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the answer is: B.


"How long does it take:

1) To fuck someone you meet off FAB?

2) To fuck someone you start dating (vanilla) who is NOT a swinger?

Answers:

a) Makes no difference if it's a date or a FAB meet as to how long it takes before you fuck eachother

b) You act differently regarding your approach to sex on a vsnilla date to a FAB meet

c) You take longer to fuck a vanilla date than a FAB meet

d) Other option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am definitely different with vanilla dates . With FAB it is clear what the other wants really. So there is less ambiguity. With vanilla dates who are not swingers, it's more tricky. I have had several experiences where guys have suddenly gone off me when they discover my 'past'!! They feel threatened and jealous etc... but it's a tricky one for if we start talking about sex and they ask me a direct question like 'have you done X'... well if the answer is yes, they usually don't like the answer! So I am more cautious nowadays when dating ."

Please don't tell some men in the vanilla world you had sex with a black guy.. ( if you did ) I heard some men frown about that.. Still in this day and age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long does it take:

1) To fuck someone you meet off FAB?

2) To fuck someone you start dating (vanilla) who is NOT a swinger?

Answers:

a) Makes no difference if it's a date or a FAB meet as to how long it takes before you fuck eachother

b) You act differently regarding your approach to sex on a vsnilla date to a FAB meet

c) You take longer to fuck a vanilla date than a FAB meet

d) Other option?

"

B - vanilla site you're showing more of your personality and charm

Fab - The less people know about me and my personal life the better... Besides any hole is the goal.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

a. Probably; I don't see the difference . It's fucking.

Though perhaps actually d; since I meet most people in real life, and mutual lust is pretty obvious immediately . Fab usually ends up with loads of faffing about and "arranging", so the answer is more likely it's s lot quicker in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C is the way ... No one wants to mess about ... Why are we on fab

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

C- definitely, I don't see playmates as potential lovers my whole attitude is different. I quite enjoy the chase sometimes but can take some wining and dining and multiple dates with structured ladies. I understand that but I'm not looking for that at the moment just looking for fun and a good time.

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"How long does it take:

1) To fuck someone you meet off FAB?

2) To fuck someone you start dating (vanilla) who is NOT a swinger?

Answers:

a) Makes no difference if it's a date or a FAB meet as to how long it takes before you fuck eachother

b) You act differently regarding your approach to sex on a vsnilla date to a FAB meet

c) You take longer to fuck a vanilla date than a FAB meet

d) Other option?

B - vanilla site you're showing more of your personality and charm

Fab - The less people know about me and my personal life the better... Besides any hole is the goal. "

And THAT ladies and gentlemen. ..is why the guy isn't English! How about a plug hole? Will that do you???

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"C- definitely, I don't see playmates as potential lovers my whole attitude is different. I quite enjoy the chase sometimes but can take some wining and dining and multiple dates with structured ladies. I understand that but I'm not looking for that at the moment just looking for fun and a good time."

Pray tell.....what is a 'structured lady'????

I love how some guys have this double standard that they would never consider dating a woman who swings! Even though they fucked her! Lol!!!!!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

d.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D) The time it takes my knickers to fly off depends on how attracted I am to my meet/date. It also depends on how many drinks I've had

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"C- definitely, I don't see playmates as potential lovers my whole attitude is different. I quite enjoy the chase sometimes but can take some wining and dining and multiple dates with structured ladies. I understand that but I'm not looking for that at the moment just looking for fun and a good time.

Pray tell.....what is a 'structured lady'????

I love how some guys have this double standard that they would never consider dating a woman who swings! Even though they fucked her! Lol!!!!!!!! "
structured ladies just have kind of rules where they wont sleep with a guy for a certain amount of time. I dated a stripper who made me wait nearly a month. I know it is double standards but single men who do this aren't perceived by society like a single lady would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long does it take:

1) To fuck someone you meet off FAB?

2) To fuck someone you start dating (vanilla) who is NOT a swinger?

Answers:

a) Makes no difference if it's a date or a FAB meet as to how long it takes before you fuck eachother

b) You act differently regarding your approach to sex on a vsnilla date to a FAB meet

c) You take longer to fuck a vanilla date than a FAB meet

d) Other option?

B - vanilla site you're showing more of your personality and charm

Fab - The less people know about me and my personal life the better... Besides any hole is the goal.

And THAT ladies and gentlemen. ..is why the guy isn't English! How about a plug hole? Will that do you??? "

Hey my father was English

But I don't hold that against him

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