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"First I should explain that I was with my ex when I had my hysterectomy and we didn't have a sex life. But,afterwards I was much healthier with more energy and when I did start having sex with other men it was great. I still have my cervix so I can have orgasms from penetration. I still get pain with big cocks and some that bend towards my scar tissue-I had big fibroids removed too. All in all my sex drive went up and so did my enjoyment of sex." I had my op 11 months ago. No cervix. Have noticed I do get pain sometimes having sex. Yes sex drive has increased dramatically . Which suprised me. | |||
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"Hi I had my hysterectomy about 2.5 years ago and haven't looked back. Although it was done abdominally I too lost my cervix. My sex life has never been better as the fibroids meant sex hurt, a lot. There are some positions that are slightly less comfortable but overall no problems and fun is being had. My biggest concern was the scar which no one has commented on to date. I hope you find your confidence again soon Her" Thats my main concern my scar. Very body conscious because of it. It's a case of no ones mentioned it. But I know its there. | |||
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"Hi I had my hysterectomy about 2.5 years ago and haven't looked back. Although it was done abdominally I too lost my cervix. My sex life has never been better as the fibroids meant sex hurt, a lot. There are some positions that are slightly less comfortable but overall no problems and fun is being had. My biggest concern was the scar which no one has commented on to date. I hope you find your confidence again soon Her Thats my main concern my scar. Very body conscious because of it. It's a case of no ones mentioned it. But I know its there. " I was incredibly conscious of it and one day I realised I wasn't thinking about it any more. It probably took about 18-20 months for me to get to that stage. It definitely took me time to stop worrying about it. I'm sure you'll get there especially if you're feeling so much better | |||
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" had it done 4 yrs ago as ruined our sex life totally " Omg no that's awful | |||
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"Breasts lol bloody predictive text !!" Lol... Well mine aren't good enough to distract anyone lol.... But get where your coming from. | |||
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"I had my hysterectomy when I was 28 I'd been in so much pain for so long before hand that there waste really much of a sex life to speak of anyway. I had my cervix removed (which was large and abnormal anyway) and kept my ovaries, everything was done internally so no external scars and I recovered quickly and my sex drive went through the roof, probably because there was no pain or discomfort anymore " my sex drive is higher now. But experiencing discomfort after sex.. Although not on every occasion. But I had total abdominal hysto with a hip to hip scar. Maybe that's the reason. They do say 12 months for complete recovery. | |||
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"First I should explain that I was with my ex when I had my hysterectomy and we didn't have a sex life. But,afterwards I was much healthier with more energy and when I did start having sex with other men it was great. I still have my cervix so I can have orgasms from penetration. I still get pain with big cocks and some that bend towards my scar tissue-I had big fibroids removed too. All in all my sex drive went up and so did my enjoyment of sex." So without a cervix can you not have orgasms from penetration? X | |||
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"First I should explain that I was with my ex when I had my hysterectomy and we didn't have a sex life. But,afterwards I was much healthier with more energy and when I did start having sex with other men it was great. I still have my cervix so I can have orgasms from penetration. I still get pain with big cocks and some that bend towards my scar tissue-I had big fibroids removed too. All in all my sex drive went up and so did my enjoyment of sex. So without a cervix can you not have orgasms from penetration? X" In UK they don't believe that cervix is linked to sexual enjoyment, and total hysterectomy (uterus and cervix removed) is common but other countries the evidences/studies is more conflicting | |||
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"First I should explain that I was with my ex when I had my hysterectomy and we didn't have a sex life. But,afterwards I was much healthier with more energy and when I did start having sex with other men it was great. I still have my cervix so I can have orgasms from penetration. I still get pain with big cocks and some that bend towards my scar tissue-I had big fibroids removed too. All in all my sex drive went up and so did my enjoyment of sex. So without a cervix can you not have orgasms from penetration? X In UK they don't believe that cervix is linked to sexual enjoyment, and total hysterectomy (uterus and cervix removed) is common but other countries the evidences/studies is more conflicting" My orgasms must be fake then lol | |||
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"Been a good thread for me to read,just got the results back from Dr's and he says I need one and I was worried about the sex side of thing. How long did most people wait till they tried it again.??" There was another thread about this a little while ago - search forums for word hysterectomy for a nosey. I was shocked at some of the replies - some were just a few weeks - others were like 18months!!! I was supposed to have my hysterectomy in March but our blessed NHS has delayed me hugely and even performed another procedure on me in the meantime to get rid of the evil cells before I have the lot whopped out. Roll on August. I'm dreading it and excited in equal measure!? | |||
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"Hi I had my hysterectomy about 2.5 years ago and haven't looked back. Although it was done abdominally I too lost my cervix. My sex life has never been better as the fibroids meant sex hurt, a lot. There are some positions that are slightly less comfortable but overall no problems and fun is being had. My biggest concern was the scar which no one has commented on to date. I hope you find your confidence again soon Her Thats my main concern my scar. Very body conscious because of it. It's a case of no ones mentioned it. But I know its there. " I,'ve got a big scar from an emergency ceaserean, no men I,'ve met have ever mentioned it. X | |||
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"Thank-you, good luck to you for August. My gp is usless saw him yesterday and asked him. His reply was you need a partner first!! Little does he know about fab!! " Thank-you! x. I think I'd have politely pointed out that your private life is your business and dragged an answer outta him!! | |||
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"Thank-you, good luck to you for August. My gp is usless saw him yesterday and asked him. His reply was you need a partner first!! Little does he know about fab!! " Partner or no partner that has nothing to do with your Dr , pompous self righteous people some Drs . If you feel your life will benefit from having a hysterectomy then keep pressuring your Dr that is what I had to do . | |||
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"I had a full hysterectomy with cervix and ovaries removed 5 years ago and it's been marvellous! I use HRT patches which stop me being turning into psycho-bitch every month, no periods AND I think I orgasm quicker now. We 'tried me out' with just clitoral stim after a week which was scary but amazing and penetrative sex was 6 weeks as recommended. There's a lot of healing and it's best to hang on rather than cause problems for yourself. If we play with a guy with massive cock it's a slight problem but we find other things to do...! I found the whole process really easy and was back at work after 10 days, however my sister had the same op and was ill for weeks. She's always been bloody awkward though... Good luck. " I'll be like your sister I can see it coming! Nowt ever goes right for me like this!! | |||
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