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"Ever wondered why there are those rare people we meet in life where the sexual chemistry is so ridiculously and irrationally powerful the instant you meet eachother the first time?? Suddenly nothing else matters! They are ALL you can think of! I wonder what makes some people so instantly attracted? Happened to me. Not a swinger. Nothing to do with the scene. Just a seemingly regular guy...... then we met. Bang!!!!! " Yep , it happened for us about six years ago . We got married two years later  | |||
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"Ever wondered why there are those rare people we meet in life where the sexual chemistry is so ridiculously and irrationally powerful the instant you meet eachother the first time?? Suddenly nothing else matters! They are ALL you can think of! I wonder what makes some people so instantly attracted? Happened to me. Not a swinger. Nothing to do with the scene. Just a seemingly regular guy...... then we met. Bang!!!!! Yep , it happened for us about six years ago . We got married two years later "Ah that's lovely x | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know?" Seriously? For one thing, I cannot imagine any women not being irritable attracted to you! The problem lies if you don't feel the same way. Usually my problem lol...... so it's rare! It's just a funny concept....human attraction. It has little to do with any one thing...appearance. .. personality. ... MONEY (joke), you know...appearance lol the usual things. Because otherwise we wouldn't be attracted to those we shouldn't be or who may not even be very nice people but we can't help being strongly pulled towards them. I just wonder what it is that draws us towards some so intensely. | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know?" Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though 
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!!  | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!! "I wasn't taking about the swingers scene specifically. I just mean.... in life generally. | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Seriously? For one thing, I cannot imagine any women not being irritable attracted to you! The problem lies if you don't feel the same way. Usually my problem lol...... so it's rare! It's just a funny concept....human attraction. It has little to do with any one thing...appearance. .. personality. ... MONEY (joke), you know...appearance lol the usual things. Because otherwise we wouldn't be attracted to those we shouldn't be or who may not even be very nice people but we can't help being strongly pulled towards them. I just wonder what it is that draws us towards some so intensely. " Correction - I MEANT to say IRRISTABLY attracted to you! NOT irritable!!! Lol!!!  | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Seriously? For one thing, I cannot imagine any women not being irritable attracted to you! The problem lies if you don't feel the same way. Usually my problem lol...... so it's rare! It's just a funny concept....human attraction. It has little to do with any one thing...appearance. .. personality. ... MONEY (joke), you know...appearance lol the usual things. Because otherwise we wouldn't be attracted to those we shouldn't be or who may not even be very nice people but we can't help being strongly pulled towards them. I just wonder what it is that draws us towards some so intensely. " Thanks Kitten, to be honest, the only reason I still even use this site, is because I don't actually know where I could meet the kind of girls/women I like. Perhaps they pass me in the street all the time, but neither of us know it because, stopping someone purely on a whim and striking up a conversation with them, isn't all that normal. I need somewhere I can be just to hang out, chit chat with intelligent and interesting people with a bit of depth and quirkiness to them, and hopefully find the sort of woman I need in my life that way, but I want it to be somewhere local, I don't want to have to plan a journey every time I just want to relax and socialise a little. | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Seriously? For one thing, I cannot imagine any women not being irritable attracted to you! The problem lies if you don't feel the same way. Usually my problem lol...... so it's rare! It's just a funny concept....human attraction. It has little to do with any one thing...appearance. .. personality. ... MONEY (joke), you know...appearance lol the usual things. Because otherwise we wouldn't be attracted to those we shouldn't be or who may not even be very nice people but we can't help being strongly pulled towards them. I just wonder what it is that draws us towards some so intensely. Thanks Kitten, to be honest, the only reason I still even use this site, is because I don't actually know where I could meet the kind of girls/women I like. Perhaps they pass me in the street all the time, but neither of us know it because, stopping someone purely on a whim and striking up a conversation with them, isn't all that normal. I need somewhere I can be just to hang out, chit chat with intelligent and interesting people with a bit of depth and quirkiness to them, and hopefully find the sort of woman I need in my life that way, but I want it to be somewhere local, I don't want to have to plan a journey every time I just want to relax and socialise a little." Ahhhh we need to find you a lady!!!!!! Not on FAB! We are all sluts! Lol!!!! OK OK JUST JOKING LADIES! !!!! | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!!
I wasn't taking about the swingers scene specifically. I just mean.... in life generally. "Yes, my example was - a college buddy. | |||
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"Yes! That last time this happened I could quite easily have done him on the table in the pub. Most bizarre feeling" Yep! Know that feeling! It was just a normal vanilla date! Nothing to do with swinging or FAB. He didn't even know that naughty side of me! But it was just animal attraction! Anyone tried having a normal polite conversation with someone who is also trying to do the same when you both KNOW you want to rip eachother clothes off and fuck the consequences? ???? (He was single so not hurting anyone - just saying) | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!!
I wasn't taking about the swingers scene specifically. I just mean.... in life generally.
Yes, my example was - a college buddy. "Are you still together? | |||
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"Awesome when it happens. Gutting when they're already spoken for "This! So much this | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!!
I wasn't taking about the swingers scene specifically. I just mean.... in life generally.
Yes, my example was - a college buddy.
Are you still together?"Nooo, that was a long time ago. But I have found great chemistry on here one or twice | |||
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"I've had that feeling with a few people, but the person that I've had the biggest *ZINGGGGG* with is also a massive arse. Go figure!" Thats exactly my point! There is often no obvious reason WHY we are attracted to total lovers! But they have this crazy hold over us! | |||
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"In the Army. This chap and I loathed each other but had this intense chemistry. A few shandies and ending up bonking all night. Most incredible sex but he was still a twat. " Again....chemistry is weird! No logical reason to like eachother but you still want to fuck them! Madness! | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!!
I wasn't taking about the swingers scene specifically. I just mean.... in life generally.
Yes, my example was - a college buddy.
Are you still together?
Nooo, that was a long time ago. But I have found great chemistry on here one or twice "Really?? You mean sexual chemistry of course. I suppose I was thinking when it feels more than that but it overwhelming and you cannot pull yourself away! | |||
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"Ever wondered why there are those rare people we meet in life where the sexual chemistry is so ridiculously and irrationally powerful the instant you meet eachother the first time?? Suddenly nothing else matters! They are ALL you can think of! I wonder what makes some people so instantly attracted? Happened to me. Not a swinger. Nothing to do with the scene. Just a seemingly regular guy...... then we met. Bang!!!!! " I've met a few of those, but one...!!!!! She fed me her energy and I fucked her like the God of thunder!! | |||
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"I met someone over six years ago and the chemistry was off the scale. The sex just got better and better. I fell hook, line and sinker as he was a lovely man too. Unfortunately he didn't feel the same, but we parted on good terms and I always think of him with great affection. " Oh been there...years ago! | |||
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"It happened to us 17 years ago and still the same chemistry now, still rampant, still romantic towards each other, still hold hands and everything just same as when we first met really "OK we all hate you now! Lol!!!!! Just kidding.... yet personally. ..I am jealous as fuck! !!! Lol xxx | |||
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"Ever wondered why there are those rare people we meet in life where the sexual chemistry is so ridiculously and irrationally powerful the instant you meet eachother the first time?? Suddenly nothing else matters! They are ALL you can think of! I wonder what makes some people so instantly attracted? Happened to me. Not a swinger. Nothing to do with the scene. Just a seemingly regular guy...... then we met. Bang!!!!! I've met a few of those, but one...!!!!! She fed me her energy and I fucked her like the God of thunder!!" Blimey! | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Seriously? For one thing, I cannot imagine any women not being irritable attracted to you! The problem lies if you don't feel the same way. Usually my problem lol...... so it's rare! It's just a funny concept....human attraction. It has little to do with any one thing...appearance. .. personality. ... MONEY (joke), you know...appearance lol the usual things. Because otherwise we wouldn't be attracted to those we shouldn't be or who may not even be very nice people but we can't help being strongly pulled towards them. I just wonder what it is that draws us towards some so intensely. Thanks Kitten, to be honest, the only reason I still even use this site, is because I don't actually know where I could meet the kind of girls/women I like. Perhaps they pass me in the street all the time, but neither of us know it because, stopping someone purely on a whim and striking up a conversation with them, isn't all that normal. I need somewhere I can be just to hang out, chit chat with intelligent and interesting people with a bit of depth and quirkiness to them, and hopefully find the sort of woman I need in my life that way, but I want it to be somewhere local, I don't want to have to plan a journey every time I just want to relax and socialise a little. Ahhhh we need to find you a lady!!!!!! Not on FAB! We are all sluts! Lol!!!! OK OK JUST JOKING LADIES! !!!! "The funny thing is, there was actually a time when I would find people like that fairly regularly from here, that's going way back to 08/09 though, the last few years though, the sites been near enough dead for that sort of excitement, I've no idea what happened. | |||
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"Ever wondered why there are those rare people we meet in life where the sexual chemistry is so ridiculously and irrationally powerful the instant you meet eachother the first time?? Suddenly nothing else matters! They are ALL you can think of! I wonder what makes some people so instantly attracted? Happened to me. Not a swinger. Nothing to do with the scene. Just a seemingly regular guy...... then we met. Bang!!!!! I've met a few of those, but one...!!!!! She fed me her energy and I fucked her like the God of thunder!! Blimey! "Full blooded Czechoslovakian, born in Hawaii, brightest green eyes, impressed at nearly every activity she participated, stopped a room dead and people just did things for her... She was volcanic!! | |||
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"It happened to us 17 years ago and still the same chemistry now, still rampant, still romantic towards each other, still hold hands and everything just same as when we first met really "Lovely xxx | |||
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"It happened to us 17 years ago and still the same chemistry now, still rampant, still romantic towards each other, still hold hands and everything just same as when we first met really
OK we all hate you now! Lol!!!!! Just kidding.... yet personally. ..I am jealous as fuck! !!! Lol xxx"We went through a rough patch about 15 year ago for a few month when we would argue all the time and lost touch with others feelings but we got through it. We think the swinging scene helped us though cause we learned far more about each other than what we would of done if had a vanilla relationship  | |||
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"I've experienced several incredible lovers but they are in fact very rare - I've had one soul mate but it wasn't to be and another partner that turned out to be an utter cockwomble and narciccist. Being drawn to people doesn't always end well sadly " Oh I agree! Kind of my point really.... who we are attracted to is often irrational! Lol! That thing called chemistry is a strange one! | |||
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"If you find a place where they can be consistently found, kindly let me know? Noo, it's a once in a blue moon thing........it happens on here sometimes though
I knew one guy like that and it was 9 years before both of us were free at the same time.......Wow, talk about electric first touch!!!!
I wasn't taking about the swingers scene specifically. I just mean.... in life generally.
Yes, my example was - a college buddy.
Are you still together?
Nooo, that was a long time ago. But I have found great chemistry on here one or twice
Really?? You mean sexual chemistry of course. I suppose I was thinking when it feels more than that but it overwhelming and you cannot pull yourself away!"Yeah, that too. | |||
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"I agree...sadly that kind of chemistry is rare on fab I'm afraid. Much more chance of meeting a guy on fab as a friend. I never ever go to bed with a guy I do not fancy. It happened once with some creep in the highlands and probably cause I had a few too many - regretted it within hours. I would rather play with a sex toy than a guy I didn't fancy " As I say, I wasn't referring specifically to meeting people off FAB. I meant generally in life. There is chemistry and there is OH MY FUCKING GOD I MUST HAVE HIM NOW OR DIE ! And that is just in the first minute of meeting someone.... NOT necessarily a swinger! But that someone... who just makes your whole body act uncoordinated and you say stupid things and laugh at stuff that probably isn't even funny. In summary - you suddenly turn into a total twat because this person has walked in the room! That's all he did! Just walk in the room and you are ready to have your 3rd organ before he even says hello!!!! | |||
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"I agree...sadly that kind of chemistry is rare on fab I'm afraid. Much more chance of meeting a guy on fab as a friend. I never ever go to bed with a guy I do not fancy. It happened once with some creep in the highlands and probably cause I had a few too many - regretted it within hours. I would rather play with a sex toy than a guy I didn't fancy As I say, I wasn't referring specifically to meeting people off FAB. I meant generally in life. There is chemistry and there is OH MY FUCKING GOD I MUST HAVE HIM NOW OR DIE ! And that is just in the first minute of meeting someone.... NOT necessarily a swinger! But that someone... who just makes your whole body act uncoordinated and you say stupid things and laugh at stuff that probably isn't even funny. In summary - you suddenly turn into a total twat because this person has walked in the room! That's all he did! Just walk in the room and you are ready to have your 3rd organ before he even says hello!!!!" 3rd ORGASM! NOT ORGAN!!! See what even thinking about it does to me???? | |||
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"3rd ORGASM! NOT ORGAN!!! See what even thinking about it does to me???? "hahaha that one did make me laugh out loud! | |||
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"I agree...sadly that kind of chemistry is rare on fab I'm afraid. Much more chance of meeting a guy on fab as a friend. I never ever go to bed with a guy I do not fancy. It happened once with some creep in the highlands and probably cause I had a few too many - regretted it within hours. I would rather play with a sex toy than a guy I didn't fancy As I say, I wasn't referring specifically to meeting people off FAB. I meant generally in life. There is chemistry and there is OH MY FUCKING GOD I MUST HAVE HIM NOW OR DIE ! And that is just in the first minute of meeting someone.... NOT necessarily a swinger! But that someone... who just makes your whole body act uncoordinated and you say stupid things and laugh at stuff that probably isn't even funny. In summary - you suddenly turn into a total twat because this person has walked in the room! That's all he did! Just walk in the room and you are ready to have your 3rd organ before he even says hello!!!!" Yup this happened to me. I also have nightmares to this day about trying to eat a fruit scone when we went for coffee. We'd had a wee smooch just before this and it totally side swiped me to the extent I couldn't swallow lol. | |||
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"3rd ORGASM! NOT ORGAN!!! See what even thinking about it does to me????
hahaha that one did make me laugh out loud!"Me too lol. | |||
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"Ever wondered why there are those rare people we meet in life where the sexual chemistry is so ridiculously and irrationally powerful the instant you meet eachother the first time?? Suddenly nothing else matters! They are ALL you can think of! I wonder what makes some people so instantly attracted? Happened to me. Not a swinger. Nothing to do with the scene. Just a seemingly regular guy...... then we met. Bang!!!!! " I know how I explain it. It's an experiment "an elusive exclusive element" but it changes for each person which is why it doesn't happen than often. | |||
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