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Cuckolding v hotwifing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand what cuckolding is, but what does hotwifing mean? Sounds fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot wifing is no humiliation for the husband/partner. So you get to borrow his wife and maybe take photos for him to see? He gets off on it but there's respect for him on your part, not humiliation like there is in cuckolding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand what cuckolding is, but what does hotwifing mean? Sounds fun. "

Similar to some extent...but no humiliation, usually observation and sometimes participation by husband/partner.

It's not that hard to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot wifing is no humiliation for the husband/partner. So you get to borrow his wife and maybe take photos for him to see? He gets off on it but there's respect for him on your part, not humiliation like there is in cuckolding."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah makes sense. I didn't realise cuckolding meant there was humiliation on the husbands part. How would one humiliate the cuck?

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By *ovely_and_HimselfCouple
over a year ago

North of Derby

Cuckolding doesn't have to involve humiliation, that's just one version/ way of doing it

There's actually many ways to have a cuckold relationship and not just the version stereotyped by porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckolding doesn't have to involve humiliation, that's just one version/ way of doing it

There's actually many ways to have a cuckold relationship and not just the version stereotyped by porn "

Exactly, if you believe the porn variety it would all be interracial too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regard cuckolding and hotwifing somewhat interchangeable terms. A cuckold is a man who gets pleasure out of his wife having sex or a sexual relationship with another man. The wife of the cuckold is a hotwife. Both roles can land on a spectrum from mild to extreme, the extreme being humiliation, sissicification and celibacy for the cuck. And in the extreme form the hotwife takes full charge of her own sex life. I am a hotwife in that I take lovers and my husband enjoys watching, participating, or hearing about it. However he is more of an alpha cuck in the role, in that he has the final say, and I would not meet one of my lovers without his permission. We do not get involved with humiliation, and this does not prevent him having sex with other women as he chooses.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Hotwife- where I get a thrill out of seeing my wife enjoy herself and we both get horny as fuck.

Cuckold- where some dick, spoits bollocks about being an alpha male, bull or how "he will fuck her better than she has ever had"

The second one involves me pissing myself with laughter, long before any sex would ever happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotwife- where I get a thrill out of seeing my wife enjoy herself and we both get horny as fuck.

Cuckold- where some dick, spoits bollocks about being an alpha male, bull or how "he will fuck her better than she has ever had"

The second one involves me pissing myself with laughter, long before any sex would ever happen."

Pretty much sums it up for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah makes sense. I didn't realise cuckolding meant there was humiliation on the husbands part. How would one humiliate the cuck?"

It doesn't mean it at all. It just means there could be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All involve a sexual thrill, but it's individual taste and boundaries that are the difference.

Hotwifing is around a guy sharing his wife, and often enjoying her to be looking for fun and dressing in a provocative way possibly.

Cuck stuff is more around another guy / wife or both enjoying sexual activities at his social / sexual expense, or humiliation etc, with the cuck enjoying that role, and the woman enjoying a more active part in that than the above type of behaviour of a Hotwife.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


"I regard cuckolding and hotwifing somewhat interchangeable terms. A cuckold is a man who gets pleasure out of his wife having sex or a sexual relationship with another man. The wife of the cuckold is a hotwife. Both roles can land on a spectrum from mild to extreme, the extreme being humiliation, sissicification and celibacy for the cuck. And in the extreme form the hotwife takes full charge of her own sex life. I am a hotwife in that I take lovers and my husband enjoys watching, participating, or hearing about it. However he is more of an alpha cuck in the role, in that he has the final say, and I would not meet one of my lovers without his permission. We do not get involved with humiliation, and this does not prevent him having sex with other women as he chooses."

This

You can be a Cuckold and not be into humiliation. Each couple/relationship is different.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I have sex with other men then come home & tell hubby all about it, but never let him watch. So am I a slut or a hotwife?

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By *lymcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Devon


"I have sex with other men then come home & tell hubby all about it, but never let him watch. So am I a slut or a hotwife? "

A very Hotwife

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By *lymcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Devon


"I regard cuckolding and hotwifing somewhat interchangeable terms. A cuckold is a man who gets pleasure out of his wife having sex or a sexual relationship with another man. The wife of the cuckold is a hotwife. Both roles can land on a spectrum from mild to extreme, the extreme being humiliation, sissicification and celibacy for the cuck. And in the extreme form the hotwife takes full charge of her own sex life. I am a hotwife in that I take lovers and my husband enjoys watching, participating, or hearing about it. However he is more of an alpha cuck in the role, in that he has the final say, and I would not meet one of my lovers without his permission. We do not get involved with humiliation, and this does not prevent him having sex with other women as he chooses."

we enjoy the same fun that you do in much the same way.... you just put it so well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sex with other men then come home & tell hubby all about it, but never let him watch. So am I a slut or a hotwife? "

Again I would say those words are to a certain extent interchangeable. Both have been used to describe me. However a hotwife is a bit more specific - I suppose a married slut who sleeps with other men with her husband enjoying her doing so. Whether the act is done in front of him or he is just told all about later, is irrelevant to the definition, as there are various ways to be a hotwife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the key thing to understand here is the dynamic that exists in the couple's relationship, and as a single man, how you are going to fit into that or add value to it. Every couple is different and consequently have different likes and needs. You'll only be able to discover and understand this through effective, open and honest communication with BOTH the lady and the gentleman.

LOTS of men get this wrong by misunderstanding this basic, yet essential, element.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the key thing to understand here is the dynamic that exists in the couple's relationship, and as a single man, how you are going to fit into that or add value to it. Every couple is different and consequently have different likes and needs. You'll only be able to discover and understand this through effective, open and honest communication with BOTH the lady and the gentleman.

LOTS of men get this wrong by misunderstanding this basic, yet essential, element."

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

A wife who's hopefully hot! And everyone can join in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the key thing to understand here is the dynamic that exists in the couple's relationship, and as a single man, how you are going to fit into that or add value to it. Every couple is different and consequently have different likes and needs. You'll only be able to discover and understand this through effective, open and honest communication with BOTH the lady and the gentleman.

LOTS of men get this wrong by misunderstanding this basic, yet essential, element.

"

Naughty girl S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regard cuckolding and hotwifing somewhat interchangeable terms. A cuckold is a man who gets pleasure out of his wife having sex or a sexual relationship with another man. The wife of the cuckold is a hotwife. Both roles can land on a spectrum from mild to extreme, the extreme being humiliation, sissicification and celibacy for the cuck. And in the extreme form the hotwife takes full charge of her own sex life. I am a hotwife in that I take lovers and my husband enjoys watching, participating, or hearing about it. However he is more of an alpha cuck in the role, in that he has the final say, and I would not meet one of my lovers without his permission. We do not get involved with humiliation, and this does not prevent him having sex with other women as he chooses."

Spot on..

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I regard cuckolding and hotwifing somewhat interchangeable terms. A cuckold is a man who gets pleasure out of his wife having sex or a sexual relationship with another man. The wife of the cuckold is a hotwife. Both roles can land on a spectrum from mild to extreme, the extreme being humiliation, sissicification and celibacy for the cuck. And in the extreme form the hotwife takes full charge of her own sex life. I am a hotwife in that I take lovers and my husband enjoys watching, participating, or hearing about it. However he is more of an alpha cuck in the role, in that he has the final say, and I would not meet one of my lovers without his permission. We do not get involved with humiliation, and this does not prevent him having sex with other women as he chooses."

This is basically us too ( we need a hi five emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo us too!

Although now we are looking fie couples for him to be more involved!

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove


"Hotwife- where I get a thrill out of seeing my wife enjoy herself and we both get horny as fuck.

Cuckold- where some dick, spoits bollocks about being an alpha male, bull or how "he will fuck her better than she has ever had"

The second one involves me pissing myself with laughter, long before any sex would ever happen."

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove


"I think the key thing to understand here is the dynamic that exists in the couple's relationship, and as a single man, how you are going to fit into that or add value to it. Every couple is different and consequently have different likes and needs. You'll only be able to discover and understand this through effective, open and honest communication with BOTH the lady and the gentleman.

LOTS of men get this wrong by misunderstanding this basic, yet essential, element."

couldn't agree more

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