FabSwingers.com forum: pay site

By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never be a pay site just has extra features for becoming a pay member

there has been other topics about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't stay on here if I had to pay a yearly subscription I don't mind a fiver but no x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not sure about better/worse... I like it the way it is.

but I would pay if I had to.

used to pay for 3 others, stopped and came here. so already quids in

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

it works as it is - i dont see any need to make it a pay site, people will just leave if you make it mandatory to pay

you can filter out people who dont pay the site supporter fee and so make it a mini pay site anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on a pay site and it's got better filters on it that you don't see on here. Fab doesn't have great filters you can't block straight males or bi females contacting you on the other site you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay the fee to get gold membership as I like the extra features and I am happy to keep doing this, especially as you can use your mobile to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I pay the fee to get gold membership as I like the extra features and I am happy to keep doing this, especially as you can use your mobile to pay."

I pay through my mobile too wouldn't want to hand over credit card details to anyone on the Internet

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

we are on 2 other pay sites and dont think either are as good as this, so we would be happy to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if fab wanted to turn this into a paysite then alot of things would need improving.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i wudnt stay on here if it was pay mnthly,i like the fact u can upgrade if u want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I subscribe and don't mind doing so. If I was paying a yearly subscription on par with other sites I'd want more features for my money though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I wouldn't stay on here if I had to pay a yearly subscription I don't mind a fiver but no x"

30 quid a year , read our veries

bargain!

were over the moon and happy to pay 5 whole quid for two months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I subscribe and don't mind doing so. If I was paying a yearly subscription on par with other sites I'd want more features for my money though."

I've not been on other sites so not really aware of what other features would be needed or are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I subscribe and don't mind doing so. If I was paying a yearly subscription on par with other sites I'd want more features for my money though.

I've not been on other sites so not really aware of what other features would be needed or are available"

Some are crap but one site I'm still on is great. Complaints get dealt with and you get feedback from admin etc if you report something on here you here fuck all. That's my one bugbear with this site but all in all it's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I subscribe and don't mind doing so. If I was paying a yearly subscription on par with other sites I'd want more features for my money though.

I've not been on other sites so not really aware of what other features would be needed or are available"

A blog space, photo albums, more filters, and member videos feature on one of the sites I enjoy. Better one on one chat where you dont have to enter a chatroom sort of your own msn.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if the other sites ae better why come on here then and point out the lack of facilities?? (was gonna say moan but cant be doing wth the arguements lol)

sometimes i think that people forget this site is run by swingers themselves, this isnt their job this is their hobby (least i think thats right - need rugby or HPC to confirm haha)

i know i couldnt put together a site like this and nor would i want the responsibility of it - i am very happy they have put their own time and effort into this site - thank you fabswingers creators

(my free platinum upgrade should be in effect within 24 hours i believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point really as you will always get the wasters here there and everywhere

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?"

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

"if the other sites ae better why come on here then and point out the lack of facilities?? (was gonna say moan but cant be doing wth the arguements lol)

sometimes i think that people forget this site is run by swingers themselves, this isnt their job this is their hobby (least i think thats right - need rugby or HPC to confirm haha)

i know i couldnt put together a site like this and nor would i want the responsibility of it - i am very happy they have put their own time and effort into this site - thank you fabswingers creators

(my free platinum upgrade should be in effect within 24 hours i believe

dont actually think anyone was moaning more a point of answering what the thread was about

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"if the other sites ae better why come on here then and point out the lack of facilities?? (was gonna say moan but cant be doing wth the arguements lol)

sometimes i think that people forget this site is run by swingers themselves, this isnt their job this is their hobby (least i think thats right - need rugby or HPC to confirm haha)

i know i couldnt put together a site like this and nor would i want the responsibility of it - i am very happy they have put their own time and effort into this site - thank you fabswingers creators

(my free platinum upgrade should be in effect within 24 hours i believe

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dont actually think anyone was moaning more a point of answering what the thread was about"

thats why i didnt put moan lol i said pointing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Replying to another posters question about other site features does not mean that this site is lacking on what it provides for free or for a small subscription. If it was on par with the other sites re fees charged then it would have to offer similar features as its competitors and it would no longer be running it for free it would be running it as a profitable business, like the other sites, not a hobby. I certainly wasn't dissing a place I enjoy spending time on, just pointing out the differences.

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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago

canvey island

"we are on 2 other pay sites and dont think either are as good as this, so we would be happy to pay."

I couldn't agree more. We have been members of 3 other pay sites and find Fab to be superior in so many ways including, friendly active forums, on two of the sites the forums are next to dead and on another they seem to be the hunting ground for a small clique of people whose aim in life seems to be to cause mayhem and or humiliate anyone who dares to have a different opinion than them. You get good and bad people in all the chat rooms no matter what site you're on but in Fab the people are generally respectful while on other sites I've seen 30 people or more in a chat room and no one chatting. The profiles are much the same on all the sites as are winks, meet today, events etc, though they may have different names the function is just the same. All in all I cant fault Fab at all, they run a great site and keep down the trouble caused by a few. No site is going to get things 100% right and you cant please all the people all of the time but Fab does a good job of trying

Note to owners ,,,, is me tenner in the post lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was on a pay site before friends told me to change to fab, best thing i ever did! i love it here, and for some reason find the people nicer and easier to get on with (dont know why).

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Nah, i prefer this site as it is. The subscription is optional and incredibly cheap compared to other sites. The other problem with paid sites is that it usually ends up that the blokes have to pay and the girls all get on for free.

One very well known site that i won't mention carried on charging me a monthly fee even though i'd cancelled my subscription. Oddly, it wasn't the same as my monthy sub so i have no idea what they were charging me for, it was a few months after when i realised what was going on but i'd never go back there after they did that.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

it would make it miles better and keep many of the timewasters away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it would make it miles better and keep many of the timewasters away."
must be a time waster then

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

"it would make it miles better and keep many of the timewasters away."

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it would make it miles better and keep many of the timewasters away."

I doubt it. You'd just get timewasters with a misplaced sense of entitlement.

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

"it would make it miles better and keep many of the timewasters away.

I doubt it. You'd just get timewasters with a misplaced sense of entitlement."

we tend to be of the opinion that there are a lot on here who wouldnt be prepared to pay, if your a serious swinger then you will find it hard to beat this site, even the pay sites we are on dont, so it in our opinion would get rid of a lot of timewasters.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Timewasters have money to spend too

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Yes Rugby but how many people would have joined this site when it first appeared if it cost 50 or 60 a year?

As many as there are here now? dont think so people join as its free and i think this thread has shown quite a few have said if they had to pay they would leave.

we already pay for two others and i do admit they are not as good as fab in most areas.

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

make it a pay site i say

peeps can upload videos (i know i would)

timewasters/pic collectors would think twice bout joining)

i would join your affiliate scheme so my mebership would be free anyway when i send you sign ups

blogs are a good idea

better cam rooms

the list is endless if its made a paysite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

It might be possible to cut down on some of the timewasters/ fakes by only allowing payment to be made via DD or SO and having the bank statement show MONTHLY SUBSCRIPTION TO SWINGERS WEBSITE in big, big letters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dnt think you get rid timwasters even if up the price they probs got money for nothing can afford to waste there time to be honest and money .use you block button mines miles long now lmao

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We've been on several other pay sites - and some were quite expensive - but found more pita people on there than on here. I think we're still a member on one other site but our paid membership has lapsed, and the free membership gives you b*gger all on there.

More meets, more fun & a good laugh in the forums on here (and chat is better than a couple of other sites I've tried too)

We have silver membership on here (cos I like the 'looked at me' and 'saved messages' bit) and I think it's a bargain.

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

well not the pay sites we are on its a company name no one would link to swinging, but hey if you know different who am i to argue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?"

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

well not the pay sites we are on its a company name no one would link to swinging, but hey if you know different who am i to argue"

That's the point I was making. You'd HAVE to link it to swinging to put the eg married men pretending to be single off.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

well not the pay sites we are on its a company name no one would link to swinging, but hey if you know different who am i to argue

That's the point I was making. You'd HAVE to link it to swinging to put the eg married men pretending to be single off."

Yes you have a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl"

There's plenty of threads on Fab suggesting that verifications aren't worth the bit of cyberspace they're printed in.

Verification 'by phone call'? What does that prove?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

well not the pay sites we are on its a company name no one would link to swinging, but hey if you know different who am i to argue

That's the point I was making. You'd HAVE to link it to swinging to put the eg married men pretending to be single off.

Yes you have a point"

Yes, I do, don't I.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Timewasters have money to spend too

Yes Rugby but how many people would have joined this site when it first appeared if it cost 50 or 60 a year?

As many as there are here now? dont think so people join as its free and i think this thread has shown quite a few have said if they had to pay they would leave.

we already pay for two others and i do admit they are not as good as fab in most areas."

I don't know to your first question.

But, we have joined many sites before the couple we stick to now, and the paying up front did put is off on them because we didn't know if the sites were going to give us what we wanted, so didn't want to pay just to find out...and on those sites you can't use the full features until you paid.

It didn't make us timewasters though

Sites like these that let you pay if and when suits us better

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

i never get that verified by phone bit i know lots of guys who can do a female voice very well

verifies by meeting though is a little bit harder to fake really..then again i am mr csi lol and i do my research

make it a pay site with the extra features for just adding videos and the like but keep it the same for peeps who want to pay the fiver a time

you can lose that way

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl

There's plenty of threads on Fab suggesting that verifications aren't worth the bit of cyberspace they're printed in.

Verification 'by phone call'? What does that prove?"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl

There's plenty of threads on Fab suggesting that verifications aren't worth the bit of cyberspace they're printed in.

Verification 'by phone call'? What does that prove?"

Proves it is a male/ female or couple on the end of the phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Press reports suggests the dating sites we see advertised on telly etc allow most of the site functions to accessed FOC but when you get to the point where the site has conned ... sorry - convinced - you there's a hoard of willing females waiting to hear from you, the cash registers start ringing yet, once you've paid, the willing females aren't quite so willing or plentiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl

There's plenty of threads on Fab suggesting that verifications aren't worth the bit of cyberspace they're printed in.

Verification 'by phone call'? What does that prove?

Proves it is a male/ female or couple on the end of the phone?"

Yes, but nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl

There's plenty of threads on Fab suggesting that verifications aren't worth the bit of cyberspace they're printed in.

Verification 'by phone call'? What does that prove?

Proves it is a male/ female or couple on the end of the phone?

Yes, but nothing more."

better than other sites that prove nothing!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?

I think it's irelevant....the best thing about this site is the verifications...other sites charge and you end up chatting to a guy pretending to be a girl

There's plenty of threads on Fab suggesting that verifications aren't worth the bit of cyberspace they're printed in.

Verification 'by phone call'? What does that prove?

Proves it is a male/ female or couple on the end of the phone?

Yes, but nothing more."

But for some people it is a start, at least they know they are who they say they are, saves wasting time chatting to a "female" for weeks and finding out it is a man

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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago

canvey island

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

well not the pay sites we are on its a company name no one would link to swinging, but hey if you know different who am i to argue

That's the point I was making. You'd HAVE to link it to swinging to put the eg married men pretending to be single off.

Yes you have a point

Yes, I do, don't I."

Nope as most people now have there own accounts and many of the banks are now getting rid of paper statements and going to e-mail statements. You get time wasters on every site so in my opinion you have to take the rough with the smooth. Short of having a name n shame gallery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..............

But for some people it is a start, at least they know they are who they say they are, saves wasting time chatting to a "female" for weeks and finding out it is a man

It might prove the gender of the person at the other end of the phone but little more.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"..............

But for some people it is a start, at least they know they are who they say they are, saves wasting time chatting to a "female" for weeks and finding out it is a man

It might prove the gender of the person at the other end of the phone but little more.

I think that is exactly what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters have money to spend too

Ain't that the truth!

well not the pay sites we are on its a company name no one would link to swinging, but hey if you know different who am i to argue

That's the point I was making. You'd HAVE to link it to swinging to put the eg married men pretending to be single off.

Yes you have a point

Yes, I do, don't I.

Nope as most people now have there own accounts and many of the banks are now getting rid of paper statements and going to e-mail statements. .........."

I suspect the wives and sweethearts of the kind of guys who turn up on Fab as single guys are all too aware of their other half's proclivities and make sure they check out bank statements etc wherever they manage to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"..............

But for some people it is a start, at least they know they are who they say they are, saves wasting time chatting to a "female" for weeks and finding out it is a man

It might prove the gender of the person at the other end of the phone but little more.

I think that is exactly what I said

Well, it's possible that simply talking to a member of the opposite sex is enough for some guys here - and possibly a great deal more than they get in real life.

There's also the argument that, if they're doing that, they're being kept away from wasting other folks' time - so maybe it's not such a bad deal after all

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"..............

But for some people it is a start, at least they know they are who they say they are, saves wasting time chatting to a "female" for weeks and finding out it is a man

It might prove the gender of the person at the other end of the phone but little more.

I think that is exactly what I said

Well, it's possible that simply talking to a member of the opposite sex is enough for some guys here - and possibly a great deal more than they get in real life.

There's also the argument that, if they're doing that, they're being kept away from wasting other folks' time - so maybe it's not such a bad deal after all

I think you are trying to twist what I answered now.

You asked a question, I answered it.

Now if the question was "do people think members simply want to talk to females on the end of the phone" then my answer would have been different.

But as it stands, my answer to your only question was a straight answer of,.....a phone call proves what gender a person is on the other end of it.

What people do after that isn't my concern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One mans meat is another mans timewaster.

In other words the types that some members list as undesirable are the perfect source of sex for other members. I would not set up a pay site trying to discourage anyone from being a member. Thats not sound business sense.

I think once a person accepts membership then the filtering is down to the individual, supported by the website owners if someone they come across 'breaks the rules'.

Having to pay will not discourage anyone who wants to be on a sex type website. They will have done all of the calculations and risk assessment in their lives without any consideration for the variables of other members. In other words. They will do as they please.

If this doing as they please is acting honestly above board and representing themselves as they are, or a bunch of fantasists filling in their time chatting - well someone is always willing to fulfill that need to.

Like finds like. You reap what you sow and that is always the bottom line. You cannot please everyone no matter how well run a site is. Its down to the individual and nothing they do can be controlled by any other member. If everyone remembered this then perhaps they would find the sites a lot more enjoyable, if they get a little site jaded from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it would make it miles better and keep many of the timewasters away.

I doubt it. You'd just get timewasters with a misplaced sense of entitlement.

*Giggles*

Yeah, because timewaster's don't have money! I'm on several paying sites, and on EVERY one people moan about the same thing...I'm sick of timewasters, I'm tired of the fakes, blah, blah, blah.

I've been using these sites for over three years, I've never encountered a timewaster. Then again, my definition of a timewaster may be different to someone elses.

I've chatted with people and the communications has dried up: not a timewaster; I've arranged a social meet and they've cancelled in ample time: not a timewaster; I've chatted to people and we've decided not to take it further: not a timewaster; I've arranged a meet, turned up and the other person has not been there - never happened, if it did THAT to me would be a timewaster.

Some people get their kicks winding other people up, you'll never get rid of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering if making this a pay site would make it better or worse.

What do you all think, and would you stay on it if you had to start paying a yearly membership?"

i would stay on if it was a realistic membership fee but then so would most of the 'time wasters'

so not sure that would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be keen on swinging site details appearing on bank statements, not because of what my wife would see, but just generally from the privacy side of things. I would not trust banks to keep that sort of info private, and who knows who has access to that sort of info in these call centers, possibly people that may want to cause you problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't be keen on swinging site details appearing on bank statements, not because of what my wife would see, but just generally from the privacy side of things. I would not trust banks to keep that sort of info private, and who knows who has access to that sort of info in these call centers, possibly people that may want to cause you problems."
you wont get any on your bank statements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you wont get any on your bank statements "

I know that, but that was a suggestion above to cut down on time wasters

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I think that the levels of disappointment are higher on paid sites because people's expectations of what they're going to get out of it increase when they're paying into something.

Sure there will be time wasters on here, but it's the same on all of these sites, including proper dating sites.

I'm perfectly happy to chat and message people on here without worrying about if it ultimatly leads to sex. It's great when it does, but ultimatly it's the woman's choice if anything happens as far as i'm concerned and i'm happy not getting the feeling that i'm throwing money down the drain like i did on premium paid sites.

Kudos to Fabswingers

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over a year ago

i have experienced the same amount of time wasters on this site as I have done on a paid one. So am trying to be more selective and not be stood up in a hotel room alone (which has happened a few times).

The difficulty is everyone has a slightly different agenda as to why they are on here and sadly some just get a buzz from the mere online contact but for reason not the physical ??

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By *agman n angel OP Couple
over a year ago

benidorm

one thought on the pay idea, surely that would stop people who were banned from just rejoining without further expense, or people from making multiple accounts.

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over a year ago

"one thought on the pay idea, surely that would stop people who were banned from just rejoining without further expense, or people from making multiple accounts."

That for me would be the only plus if it were a pay site

Im happy with the rest of it,I don't want to post videos,write blogs or have 1000 pics,I just want to meet lovely people and I do

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