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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Swinging and escorting both have the same activities - SEX

Why swinging is not prostitution?

Because they don't get paid for sex?? Do NOT ever tell a swinger that she is a prostitute unless you want your bollocks ripped off and shoved down your throat - some of them can be very touchy like that. And of course if you wanna get laid.....shush

Even from legal point of view - having sex on camera won't get anyone in trouble (they say it is acting?!) but doing it during set meet is....illegal

I can understand paying for sex from men's point of view.

You can spend a lot of time getting a shag swinging. Some may think it's not worth the effort - their expectation are usually higher...and in general they think swinging sites are full of people, who in vanilla life they would never touch... And....you won't find many stunning 20 year old women (like in porn ) swinging. There are some but they usually are the cliquiest and will only fuck the good looking fit young men...and why not

And what's with perception of sex workers on swinging sites?????

Why people assume that sex workers are soooo desperate that they advertise themselves on swinging sites??????

There might be some wannabes, who don't have a clue how does that work. Suddenly they decide to do some 'freelancing' because they heard something somewhere... that people actually get paid for sex! They don't know where to start...and they are losing themselves in online madness. So I guess they should thank you for showing them a right path (by telling them off and reporting ) BUT they are not a professional sex workers....in my eyes anyway

There is nothing wrong with peeps using swinging site to play for fun, and using other sites to play for cash. Everyone likes to have fun outside of their 'work' life.

On sex site they will be contacted by people who are looking for paid sex. On swinging site they will be contacted by people looking to swing.

In fact, they would have to be a very silly sex worker to go on a swinger website looking for clients. I mean...picking up rocks on beach is free. Imagine asking someone to pay you for them

Or a sex workers offering their services for free on sex sites... That would be just silly...

Fucking common sense people

In fact, in my opinion, swinging sites, that charge people for joining, should be treated as online pimps

Mwaaah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Chill pill needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chill pill needed! "

Quite an interesting post I thought!

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanna handjob now! :D

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Interesting post.

We have a couple of friends who have profiles on agency sites for work and fab accounts for fun. (In spite of what most men think, working girls are rarely having fun when they are working)

They have received some terrible abuse at the hands of guys who have recognised them and thought they could "blackmail" them into sex by threatening to expose them as working girls on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say who but I have spoke to an escort on here who is a Dom so she never actually sleeps with the guy but get paid to do it.

Then I think her and her friend are also looking for new subs on here. But she also likes findom so depends if the guys off here want to get her stuff.

But there Aldo's adult work for those guys. But guessing the girls want to be able to choice the People they do it free with and as an escort you can't really pick and choose. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the law regarding being laid for sex us that as long as there's only one girl in the house at the time it is not illegal. It's only when there's 2 or more girls that it becomes illegal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...as an escort you can't really pick and choose. X"

Well, technically you can...but it wouldn't be good for 'business'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...as an escort you can't really pick and choose. X

Well, technically you can...but it wouldn't be good for 'business' "

Yeah, Think I've only seen one that asks for a face picture before hand. The rest don't really have restrictions besides maybe an age limit etc.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Wanna handjob now! :D"

Offer her a fiver!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Not all escort services offer sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some eejit asked me if I was an escort, and if I wasn't did I fancy being one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm interesting. Food for thought....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi woman get outta my paradise city! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some eejit asked me if I was an escort, and if I wasn't did I fancy being one "

Ahah wtf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting post.

We have a couple of friends who have profiles on agency sites for work and fab accounts for fun. (In spite of what most men think, working girls are rarely having fun when they are working)

They have received some terrible abuse at the hands of guys who have recognised them and thought they could "blackmail" them into sex by threatening to expose them as working girls on FAB.

"

I hope they reported them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oi woman get outta my paradise city! xxx"

welcoming committee is overwhelming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oi woman get outta my paradise city! xxx

welcoming committee is overwhelming "

Yes especially in the jungle xxx

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

I have never been offered sex for cash from any ladies on here but i have seen some of the girls on escorting sites. Its only providing a service . Works both ways ??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oi woman get outta my paradise city! xxx

welcoming committee is overwhelming "

If we have to pay to see your pictures I'm not fecking playing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oi woman get outta my paradise city! xxx

welcoming committee is overwhelming

If we have to pay to see your pictures I'm not fecking playing... "

Who me?

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Very good post.

Personaly have no problem with those who choose to escort. Emphasising the word choose..! Not coersed nor forced.

I,m under no illusion its not all fun and easy, nor a quick way make easy cash.

Where as swingers normally are attracted to whom they play with and is a mutual etiquete.

Escorts once agreeing to seeing someone have normally have to see it through. Regardless whether they wish to or not,also have to pander to clients requests regardless of how degralding it may be. If they don,t they are at the mercy of feed back hell.Also i,d exspect they also have there fair share of timewasters and hoax appointments.

This in mind they have my respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on fab for a bit of fun but on a couple of occasions have been offered cash... I was so angry! The message back wasn't so polite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on fab for a bit of fun but on a couple of occasions have been offered cash... I was so angry! The message back wasn't so polite!"

You reported him presumably?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

How dare someone offer us cash, we only accept burgers

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been offered a holiday and cash, also been asked to have a couple profile (from a complete stranger) as we could 'clean up' on here.

All ignored and reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be some desperate women on here then or the men complaining they have been asked for money are lying. Anyone who asks for money is escorting,no matter how professional they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on fab for a bit of fun but on a couple of occasions have been offered cash... I was so angry! The message back wasn't so polite!

You reported him presumably?"

no we didn't just told him to go to adult work if that's what he was after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been offered a holiday and cash, also been asked to have a couple profile (from a complete stranger) as we could 'clean up' on here.

All ignored and reported "

Mind thou there is a lot of cleaning up to do on here - I mean the mess in some of those photographs?! Tsccchhh someone people

Oh, you don't mean he wanted to form a cleaning partnership - ah yes well I think I get it now

He was a complete tosser then basically!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've been offered a holiday and cash, also been asked to have a couple profile (from a complete stranger) as we could 'clean up' on here.

All ignored and reported

Mind thou there is a lot of cleaning up to do on here - I mean the mess in some of those photographs?! Tsccchhh someone people

Oh, you don't mean he wanted to form a cleaning partnership - ah yes well I think I get it now

He was a complete tosser then basically! "

How dare you slag off my pictures and background mess

He was swiftly dealt with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on fab for a bit of fun but on a couple of occasions have been offered cash... I was so angry! The message back wasn't so polite!

You reported him presumably?no we didn't just told him to go to adult work if that's what he was after "

however you dress it up offering cash for sex is soliciting and therefore against site rules, and should be reported....if it gets ignored then they just carry on doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on fab for a bit of fun but on a couple of occasions have been offered cash... I was so angry! The message back wasn't so polite!

You reported him presumably?no we didn't just told him to go to adult work if that's what he was after

however you dress it up offering cash for sex is soliciting and therefore against site rules, and should be reported....if it gets ignored then they just carry on doing it"

will do it next time it happens we was really new to it when it happened maybe about two days into this site

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"Interesting post.

We have a couple of friends who have profiles on agency sites for work and fab accounts for fun. (In spite of what most men think, working girls are rarely having fun when they are working)

They have received some terrible abuse at the hands of guys who have recognised them and thought they could "blackmail" them into sex by threatening to expose them as working girls on FAB.

I hope they reported them. "

Sadly not. Our friends thought it was easier to disappear for a while rather than risk site admin believing the abuser rather than the victim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spot on OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging and escorting both have the same activities - SEX

Why swinging is not prostitution?

Because they don't get paid for sex?? Do NOT ever tell a swinger that she is a prostitute unless you want your bollocks ripped off and shoved down your throat

"

Try being a single bloke you will be treated like you're an escort/hired help but without any of the compensation by a lot of couples on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

"

Well id want to come home and eat a proper nicley seared smash style buger a good 1/2lb or so oatty some caramelised onionw cros weave streaky bacon topper and maybe a little tangy home made burger relish.

Yeah

But i wouldnt want a small floppy mcdonalds patty.

One thing my escort friends find is nearly all the clients from escort sites are on fabs.

So when they log on here busines messages plumit as everyone tries to get a free leg over.

But they're here for the gourmet not the mcdonalds in thier free time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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...This is a place for honest people to have fun...

"

...'honest people'.....?????! Fucking hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Well id want to come home and eat a proper nicley seared smash style buger a good 1/2lb or so oatty some caramelised onionw cros weave streaky bacon topper and maybe a little tangy home made burger relish.

Yeah

But i wouldnt want a small floppy mcdonalds patty.

One thing my escort friends find is nearly all the clients from escort sites are on fabs.

So when they log on here busines messages plumit as everyone tries to get a free leg over.

But they're here for the gourmet not the mcdonalds in thier free time "

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

"

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with a dominatrix on her night off. I don't ask or judge. Its a mixed up muddled up world as someone once sang.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free. "

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"I've played with a dominatrix on her night off. I don't ask or judge. Its a mixed up muddled up world as someone once sang."

I know what I am and I'm glad I'm a man, and so's Lola.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good old Ray Davies,he actually has a song about swinging on one of his recent albums.

I think hes trying to tell us something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Well id want to come home and eat a proper nicley seared smash style buger a good 1/2lb or so oatty some caramelised onionw cros weave streaky bacon topper and maybe a little tangy home made burger relish.

Yeah

But i wouldnt want a small floppy mcdonalds patty.

One thing my escort friends find is nearly all the clients from escort sites are on fabs.

So when they log on here busines messages plumit as everyone tries to get a free leg over.

But they're here for the gourmet not the mcdonalds in thier free time

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free. "

Lol 100 men a day?

So £20-25k a day?

Also there's a hell of a lot more barebacking swingers than escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude. "

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting paid for sex if a job to gain money and I would think your clients needs would be more important than your own to get repeat custom.

Swinging is because you enjoy it, pick who you want to play with and how you want to play.

To me there is a big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Well id want to come home and eat a proper nicley seared smash style buger a good 1/2lb or so oatty some caramelised onionw cros weave streaky bacon topper and maybe a little tangy home made burger relish.

Yeah

But i wouldnt want a small floppy mcdonalds patty.

One thing my escort friends find is nearly all the clients from escort sites are on fabs.

So when they log on here busines messages plumit as everyone tries to get a free leg over.

But they're here for the gourmet not the mcdonalds in thier free time

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Lol 100 men a day?

So £20-25k a day?

Also there's a hell of a lot more barebacking swingers than escorts

"

Are you sure about that?

I was offered bareback once for a extra 50 quid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?"

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Lol 100 men a day?

So £20-25k a day?

"

Obviously I'm in a wrong profession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours? "

Youve never spoken to an escort before have you?

Do you think if you were an escort you'd never want fulfilling mutual sex with somone you fancy again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours? "

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Lol 100 men a day?

So £20-25k a day?

Obviously I'm in a wrong profession "

Yeah the whole they only shag ugly people is kinda false too, I've been sat there while they're talking to clients and i could barely stop giggling when she asked him to describe himself followed by "no sorry i don't meet overweight guys"

That's gotta be a bad day when even an escort doesnt want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Well id want to come home and eat a proper nicley seared smash style buger a good 1/2lb or so oatty some caramelised onionw cros weave streaky bacon topper and maybe a little tangy home made burger relish.

Yeah

But i wouldnt want a small floppy mcdonalds patty.

One thing my escort friends find is nearly all the clients from escort sites are on fabs.

So when they log on here busines messages plumit as everyone tries to get a free leg over.

But they're here for the gourmet not the mcdonalds in thier free time

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Lol 100 men a day?

So £20-25k a day?

Also there's a hell of a lot more barebacking swingers than escorts

Are you sure about that?

I was offered bareback once for a extra 50 quid "

Well you shouldn't be hiring such low quality escorts then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

"

Do you say the same about nurses?

You don't know if they've had a needle prick incident that day.

Also I'm not sure I'd describe you as "decent folk" at this point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Youve never spoken to an escort before have you?

Do you think if you were an escort you'd never want fulfilling mutual sex with somone you fancy again?"

No way if I had sex all day for work. The last thing that would be on my mind is more sex... I'd much rather have dinner and movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am. "

No but sex workers that are swinging are not giving it away for free either.

They are spreading their sti's and trying to recruit new customers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

Do you say the same about nurses?

You don't know if they've had a needle prick incident that day.

Also I'm not sure I'd describe you as "decent folk" at this point."

No but nurses are not having sex for money ....

And if they got a needle prick, I'm sure they are in the right place to have it taken care of.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

"

Please don't class me alongside yourself in your reference to "us decent folk"

As mentioned correctly above, the average non-street working girl has hygiene habits that would put most swingers to shame.

My post does say a lot about me as your profile speaks volumes about you. What an arrogant, self righteous attitude!! It's almost comical how exagerated your arrogance is.

You ask, no insist, no better still demand that any girl deem fit to meet you have a plethora

of decent photos for you to peruse at your leisure and in return you have a few cockshots.

They MUST have verifications while

You have none.

They had better be classy and well educated which at least would mean one person at your meeting would be.

Crappy attitude my friend. Really crappy attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am.

No but sex workers that are swinging are not giving it away for free either.

They are spreading their sti's and trying to recruit new customers."

You could pick up an sti at a party or gang bang where no one is getting paid. Have you ever paid to get into a party or to attend a gang bang?

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I think we need to stop responding to this dude.

He really, really knows nothing about the subject he's talking about and appears to have a very odd relationship to sex.

I'd almost go as far to suggest he's had a bad dose of some 20 dollar street girl in the past and can't get over his pre-conceived notion of what a sex-worker is.

Certainly the working girls I know have a far better handle on what meaningful sex is than he does.

I'm guessing he is one of these guys that's been with girls and thinks they were having the time of their lives when all they were doing was waiting for him finish and sod off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on fab for a bit of fun but on a couple of occasions have been offered cash... I was so angry! The message back wasn't so polite!

You reported him presumably?no we didn't just told him to go to adult work if that's what he was after

however you dress it up offering cash for sex is soliciting and therefore against site rules, and should be reported....if it gets ignored then they just carry on doing itwill do it next time it happens we was really new to it when it happened maybe about two days into this site "

that's probably why you were targeted then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

Do you say the same about nurses?

You don't know if they've had a needle prick incident that day.

Also I'm not sure I'd describe you as "decent folk" at this point.

No but nurses are not having sex for money ....

And if they got a needle prick, I'm sure they are in the right place to have it taken care of."

Yes but "taking care of it" can take anywhere from 3 to 18 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am.

No but sex workers that are swinging are not giving it away for free either.

They are spreading their sti's and trying to recruit new customers.

You could pick up an sti at a party or gang bang where no one is getting paid. Have you ever paid to get into a party or to attend a gang bang? "

No I don't go to those bareback gangbangs.

I'm not paying to get sti's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am.

No but sex workers that are swinging are not giving it away for free either.

They are spreading their sti's and trying to recruit new customers.

You could pick up an sti at a party or gang bang where no one is getting paid. Have you ever paid to get into a party or to attend a gang bang?

No I don't go to those bareback gangbangs.

I'm not paying to get sti's"

I'm not talking about bareback ones.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

"

Sex workers are every bit as decent as you proclaim others, including yourself, to be. Their profession is just that, something that they do to earn a living, pay bills etc - just as most of us aren't interested in the details of others' jobs, then sex workers' jobs are also their own private affairs.

Fab is open to everyone, irrespective of their profession, as long as they're not here to use the site for commercial gain and use the site according to the terms and conditions. It's not particularly attractive to influence hostility or hatred towards other people, especially as none of us are perfect.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I've been asked loads of times if I'm an escort, it's one of the reasons I now block single men. The first time I was completely mortified! I have also met an adult film worker at a club that goes to them to meet women who actually enjoy sex and who see it as more than a job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we need to stop responding to this dude.

He really, really knows nothing about the subject he's talking about and appears to have a very odd relationship to sex.

I'd almost go as far to suggest he's had a bad dose of some 20 dollar street girl in the past and can't get over his pre-conceived notion of what a sex-worker is.

Certainly the working girls I know have a far better handle on what meaningful sex is than he does.

I'm guessing he is one of these guys that's been with girls and thinks they were having the time of their lives when all they were doing was waiting for him finish and sod off!"

Listen if you want to white knight these sex workers corrupting the swinging scene with their sti's. Please continue, it's just giving the decent folks of this forum more people to put on their block list...

My profile is my profile as yours is yours. I will still have a opinion even if my profile just states " I just want sex with anyone but a sti carrying sex worker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am.

No but sex workers that are swinging are not giving it away for free either.

They are spreading their sti's and trying to recruit new customers.

You could pick up an sti at a party or gang bang where no one is getting paid. Have you ever paid to get into a party or to attend a gang bang?

No I don't go to those bareback gangbangs.

I'm not paying to get sti's

I'm not talking about bareback ones. "

Now you lost me... How would I get a sti at a gangbang if it's not bareback ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

Sex workers are every bit as decent as you proclaim others, including yourself, to be. Their profession is just that, something that they do to earn a living, pay bills etc - just as most of us aren't interested in the details of others' jobs, then sex workers' jobs are also their own private affairs.

Fab is open to everyone, irrespective of their profession, as long as they're not here to use the site for commercial gain and use the site according to the terms and conditions. It's not particularly attractive to influence hostility or hatred towards other people, especially as none of us are perfect. "

I don't hate anyone.. I just don't think swinging is for sex workers. Because they are not here for meaningful sex and friendship like us decent folks. They are here to get new customers by giving away a free sample first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked loads of times if I'm an escort, it's one of the reasons I now block single men. The first time I was completely mortified! I have also met an adult film worker at a club that goes to them to meet women who actually enjoy sex and who see it as more than a job. "

Good for you... Walk with your head high

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?"

Should read cheekyamerican!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?"

just because they enjoy their job, doesn't mean they enjoy the sex, if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!"

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude. "

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

Sex workers are every bit as decent as you proclaim others, including yourself, to be. Their profession is just that, something that they do to earn a living, pay bills etc - just as most of us aren't interested in the details of others' jobs, then sex workers' jobs are also their own private affairs.

Fab is open to everyone, irrespective of their profession, as long as they're not here to use the site for commercial gain and use the site according to the terms and conditions. It's not particularly attractive to influence hostility or hatred towards other people, especially as none of us are perfect.

I don't hate anyone.. I just don't think swinging is for sex workers. Because they are not here for meaningful sex and friendship like us decent folks. They are here to get new customers by giving away a free sample first..."

How do you define decent? Are decent people ill-informed and judgemental?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order. "

I can judge anyone... I'm not married

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Hi Cheeky,

No, I'm not a pimp, good effort at dodging a line of questioning though!

So you concede that sex workers do not get sexual gratification from heir work? Cool. We agree on that.

Do you believe that everyone (regardless of their profession) has the right to seek to have a fullfilling sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

Your post says more about you than me.

You don't know what these people have been up to during their work day. They could have done anything for money... Then want to come and bring their sti's around us decent folks...

Sex workers are every bit as decent as you proclaim others, including yourself, to be. Their profession is just that, something that they do to earn a living, pay bills etc - just as most of us aren't interested in the details of others' jobs, then sex workers' jobs are also their own private affairs.

Fab is open to everyone, irrespective of their profession, as long as they're not here to use the site for commercial gain and use the site according to the terms and conditions. It's not particularly attractive to influence hostility or hatred towards other people, especially as none of us are perfect.

I don't hate anyone.. I just don't think swinging is for sex workers. Because they are not here for meaningful sex and friendship like us decent folks. They are here to get new customers by giving away a free sample first...

How do you define decent? Are decent people ill-informed and judgemental? "

No decent people don't come on a swing site trying to drum up new business..

When is the last time you got a message from a plumber on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order.

I can judge anyone... I'm not married "

So you judge swingers too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Cheeky,

No, I'm not a pimp, good effort at dodging a line of questioning though!

So you concede that sex workers do not get sexual gratification from heir work? Cool. We agree on that.

Do you believe that everyone (regardless of their profession) has the right to seek to have a fullfilling sex life?"

Yes everyone has a right to fulfill their sexual desires , regardless of their profession.

But they don't have the right to expose us to their clients for the day.

You don't see any builders or traffic wardens spreading sti's on the swinging scene...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order.

I can judge anyone... I'm not married

So you judge swingers too?"

Look you can take a butchers word the steak is great , or you can stick your head up a bulls ass and see for yourself...

I'd much rather take the butchers word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You don't see any builders or traffic wardens spreading sti's on the swinging scene...

"

So all escorts have STIs and non swingers don't? Is that what you are saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?"

What if the sex worker works full time and does extra activities for extra cash for household bills etc

Who are you to judge? Firstly I've been to clubs and see what goes on. More chance of catching STI swinging, dogging or whatever else.

You think you're "decent"???? Fucking hilarious, who are you to look down on anyone.

No one on here has the right to judge ANYONE.

Also what gives you the right to say what a sex worker can do in their free time? who the fuck do you think you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order.

I can judge anyone... I'm not married "

Neither am I so next time you try insinuating something get it right.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Great. So sex workers are entitled to a fullfilling sex life, which they do not hetro their work.

That's great, we are getting somewhere here.

You are using this site in order to have a fullfilling sex life. Good on you.

Assuming a sex worker does it break the rules and use the site for financial gain, should they not be allowed to use this site for to help them fullfil their sexual desires? They are doing exactly the same as you, nothing more, nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell it's easy to bait some people. Is there an icon for sarcasm yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order.

I can judge anyone... I'm not married

So you judge swingers too?

Look you can take a butchers word the steak is great , or you can stick your head up a bulls ass and see for yourself...

I'd much rather take the butchers word "

I don;t get your analogy, it was a simple question. do you judge women and couple who swing?

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Through my work as a model who does top shelf modelling I have met many girls who model and escort and most of them do get sexual pleasure from escorting. Not all are drugged up sti riddled street girls. I know one girl who earns in excess of £70,000 per year and she pays tax. It is about time this country entered the 21st century. And yes a lot of the girls I know also have profiles on here for fun with their partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well they can keep it. After a long day of sleeping with 100 men , women or dogs for money. I don't feel special that you're giving me your sti's for free.

Good luck on here that attitude.

"Sleeping with dogs for money" what a dirty, unpleasant and downright small mind you must have to come up with such a thing.

Your on a swingers site, remember? Perhaps your in wrong place with your judgental and frankly quite spiteful attitude.

there's a lot like him on here. Judging others yet on a swinging site, hypocrite of the highest order.

I can judge anyone... I'm not married

So you judge swingers too?

Look you can take a butchers word the steak is great , or you can stick your head up a bulls ass and see for yourself...

I'd much rather take the butchers word

I don;t get your analogy, it was a simple question. do you judge women and couple who swing?"

No he only judges you if you can't afford to be a paid member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You don't see any builders or traffic wardens spreading sti's on the swinging scene...

So all escorts have STIs and non swingers don't? Is that what you are saying?"

Please don't put words in my mouth.

I said builders and traffic wardens don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell it's easy to bait some people. Is there an icon for sarcasm yet? "

Shh it's too easy... Like shooting fish in a barrel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Through my work as a model who does top shelf modelling I have met many girls who model and escort and most of them do get sexual pleasure from escorting. Not all are drugged up sti riddled street girls. I know one girl who earns in excess of £70,000 per year and she pays tax. It is about time this country entered the 21st century. And yes a lot of the girls I know also have profiles on here for fun with their partners."

Didn't you know?? Escorts cause the "decent" women on here to be targeted by horrible men who treat them like rubbish. So I've been told anyway. Nothing to do with the said women's vile attitudes towards the men but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Through my work as a model who does top shelf modelling I have met many girls who model and escort and most of them do get sexual pleasure from escorting. Not all are drugged up sti riddled street girls. I know one girl who earns in excess of £70,000 per year and she pays tax. It is about time this country entered the 21st century. And yes a lot of the girls I know also have profiles on here for fun with their partners."

If you're not part of the solution, you're the problem... Shameful

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Through my work as a model who does top shelf modelling I have met many girls who model and escort and most of them do get sexual pleasure from escorting. Not all are drugged up sti riddled street girls. I know one girl who earns in excess of £70,000 per year and she pays tax. It is about time this country entered the 21st century. And yes a lot of the girls I know also have profiles on here for fun with their partners.

Didn't you know?? Escorts cause the "decent" women on here to be targeted by horrible men who treat them like rubbish. So I've been told anyway. Nothing to do with the said women's vile attitudes towards the men but there you go."

The said womens vile attitude towards the men?? Are you for real? I suppose you can back that up with evidence? Escorts do a job like many other women just because it does not fit your way of thinking it does not give you the right to judge. Neither does it make all escorts men haters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?

What if the sex worker works full time and does extra activities for extra cash for household bills etc

Who are you to judge? Firstly I've been to clubs and see what goes on. More chance of catching STI swinging, dogging or whatever else.

You think you're "decent"???? Fucking hilarious, who are you to look down on anyone.

No one on here has the right to judge ANYONE.

Also what gives you the right to say what a sex worker can do in their free time? who the fuck do you think you are! "

You seem upset... Are you a sex worker advocate?

btw these so called sex workers should get a job and be miserable like the rest of us. You can't sell sex forever

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"Bloody hell it's easy to bait some people. Is there an icon for sarcasm yet?

Shh it's too easy... Like shooting fish in a barrel "

If your notion of sarcasm is to be unpleasant and derisory to others you need a to go get yourself a thesaurus.

If you don't know what a thesaurus is just get yourself a dictionary and work your forward from there.

I sense someone who has realised that their particular trait of judgemental derision and hypocrisy is not going down to well and is trying to pass it off something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You don't see any builders or traffic wardens spreading sti's on the swinging scene...

So all escorts have STIs and non swingers don't? Is that what you are saying?

Please don't put words in my mouth.

I said builders and traffic wardens don't"

So you're saying I can't catch an sti by sucking a builder's cock and then pass it on to you by sucking your cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell it's easy to bait some people. Is there an icon for sarcasm yet?

Shh it's too easy... Like shooting fish in a barrel

If your notion of sarcasm is to be unpleasant and derisory to others you need a to go get yourself a thesaurus.

If you don't know what a thesaurus is just get yourself a dictionary and work your forward from there.

I sense someone who has realised that their particular trait of judgemental derision and hypocrisy is not going down to well and is trying to pass it off something else. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?

What if the sex worker works full time and does extra activities for extra cash for household bills etc

Who are you to judge? Firstly I've been to clubs and see what goes on. More chance of catching STI swinging, dogging or whatever else.

You think you're "decent"???? Fucking hilarious, who are you to look down on anyone.

No one on here has the right to judge ANYONE.

Also what gives you the right to say what a sex worker can do in their free time? who the fuck do you think you are!

You seem upset... Are you a sex worker advocate?

btw these so called sex workers should get a job and be miserable like the rest of us. You can't sell sex forever "

Who says they don't and who says you can't!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Bloody hell it's easy to bait some people. Is there an icon for sarcasm yet?

Shh it's too easy... Like shooting fish in a barrel

If your notion of sarcasm is to be unpleasant and derisory to others you need a to go get yourself a thesaurus.

If you don't know what a thesaurus is just get yourself a dictionary and work your forward from there.

I sense someone who has realised that their particular trait of judgemental derision and hypocrisy is not going down to well and is trying to pass it off something else. "

If you use the green arrow, you will see what is going on here ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell it's easy to bait some people. Is there an icon for sarcasm yet?

Shh it's too easy... Like shooting fish in a barrel

If your notion of sarcasm is to be unpleasant and derisory to others you need a to go get yourself a thesaurus.

If you don't know what a thesaurus is just get yourself a dictionary and work your forward from there.

I sense someone who has realised that their particular trait of judgemental derision and hypocrisy is not going down to well and is trying to pass it off something else. "

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Through my work as a model who does top shelf modelling I have met many girls who model and escort and most of them do get sexual pleasure from escorting. Not all are drugged up sti riddled street girls. I know one girl who earns in excess of £70,000 per year and she pays tax. It is about time this country entered the 21st century. And yes a lot of the girls I know also have profiles on here for fun with their partners.

Didn't you know?? Escorts cause the "decent" women on here to be targeted by horrible men who treat them like rubbish. So I've been told anyway. Nothing to do with the said women's vile attitudes towards the men but there you go.

The said womens vile attitude towards the men?? Are you for real? I suppose you can back that up with evidence? Escorts do a job like many other women just because it does not fit your way of thinking it does not give you the right to judge. Neither does it make all escorts men haters."

You have misinterpreted what I meant. I know that escorts on here, who incidentally are not on here touting for business, have been targeted and abused by some who actually said that by having escorts on here caused the decent women to suffer from horrible men messaging them and treating them like rubbish. You couldn't make it up .

I am in agreement with you. I'm just reiterating what abuse some escorts have been through on here by some of the 'decent' people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle"

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour. "

He's consistent then, let's agree on that...

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight "

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See in here men offering money all the time for meets

Sad

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour.

He's consistent then, let's agree on that... "

Lots of people are sarcastic and what comes out is actually an attack. Take squirting threads, for example, some horrible comments in the guide of putting people in their place on those. Not everyone can take it though ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight "

Most escorts work for themselves.

You have to be fairly stupid to do agency work these days.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

Most escorts work for themselves.

You have to be fairly stupid to do agency work these days."

Whilst you are right in what you say an awful lot of escorts still use agencies as most good ones provide some form of security (at a cost of course) plus it can't be easy for an escort to work from home in a suburban street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some eejit asked me if I was an escort, and if I wasn't did I fancy being one "

How's the new job going hun? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight "

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

Most escorts work for themselves.

You have to be fairly stupid to do agency work these days."

Do you have a number?

Asking for a friend

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers? "

So you are saying an escort doesn't have a right to be a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers?

So you are saying an escort doesn't have a right to be a swinger?"

He's backtracking now. Pity some people really do hold that view on this site.

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?"

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

Most escorts work for themselves.

You have to be fairly stupid to do agency work these days.

Do you have a number?

Asking for a friend "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers?

So you are saying an escort doesn't have a right to be a swinger?"

Why would a escort give something away for free that she is paid for?

nothing for free is good and good things are not free. FACT

I don't see taxi drivers giving away free rides after hours..

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers?

So you are saying an escort doesn't have a right to be a swinger?

Why would a escort give something away for free that she is paid for?

nothing for free is good and good things are not free. FACT

I don't see taxi drivers giving away free rides after hours.. "

What complete and utter nonsense, grow up. You stated that an escort has no right to be a swinger, qualify that or stfu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour. "

Know you're really reaching for the stars my friend....

Read your statement again and really think about what you just said..

Everyone in the world but you knows

I CAN'T BE A BIGOT , I'M BLACK

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour.

Know you're really reaching for the stars my friend....

Read your statement again and really think about what you just said..

Everyone in the world but you knows

I CAN'T BE A BIGOT , I'M BLACK

"

I have just hijacked a black thread. Where are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers?

So you are saying an escort doesn't have a right to be a swinger?

Why would a escort give something away for free that she is paid for?

nothing for free is good and good things are not free. FACT

I don't see taxi drivers giving away free rides after hours..

What complete and utter nonsense, grow up. You stated that an escort has no right to be a swinger, qualify that or stfu"

I don't have to qualify anything to you or anyone here...I'll Just let the real world speak for me...

Anyone who doesn't agree with me. Just go into a restaurant after hours and ask for free food. I'm sure they will give it to you for free ... Just because they like cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour.

Know you're really reaching for the stars my friend....

Read your statement again and really think about what you just said..

Everyone in the world but you knows

I CAN'T BE A BIGOT , I'M BLACK

I have just hijacked a black thread. Where are you?"

I'm coming.... I'm answering hate mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like some people have a massive chip on their shoulders. ANYONE is entitled to be here as long as they abide by site rules. You'd think people would be a little less judgmental. Oh dear

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight

So are you saying all of this makes it right for them be swingers?

So you are saying an escort doesn't have a right to be a swinger?

Why would a escort give something away for free that she is paid for?

nothing for free is good and good things are not free. FACT

I don't see taxi drivers giving away free rides after hours..

What complete and utter nonsense, grow up. You stated that an escort has no right to be a swinger, qualify that or stfu

I don't have to qualify anything to you or anyone here...I'll Just let the real world speak for me...

Anyone who doesn't agree with me. Just go into a restaurant after hours and ask for free food. I'm sure they will give it to you for free ... Just because they like cooking "

Complete and utter bollocks

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"Sounds like some people have a massive chip on their shoulders. ANYONE is entitled to be here as long as they abide by site rules. You'd think people would be a little less judgmental. Oh dear "

Amen to that

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Swinging and escorting both have the same activities - SEX

Why swinging is not prostitution?

Because they don't get paid for sex?? Do NOT ever tell a swinger that she is a prostitute unless you want your bollocks ripped off and shoved down your throat - some of them can be very touchy like that. And of course if you wanna get laid.....shush

Even from legal point of view - having sex on camera won't get anyone in trouble (they say it is acting?!) but doing it during set meet is....illegal

I can understand paying for sex from men's point of view.

You can spend a lot of time getting a shag swinging. Some may think it's not worth the effort - their expectation are usually higher...and in general they think swinging sites are full of people, who in vanilla life they would never touch... And....you won't find many stunning 20 year old women (like in porn ) swinging. There are some but they usually are the cliquiest and will only fuck the good looking fit young men...and why not

And what's with perception of sex workers on swinging sites?????

Why people assume that sex workers are soooo desperate that they advertise themselves on swinging sites??????

There might be some wannabes, who don't have a clue how does that work. Suddenly they decide to do some 'freelancing' because they heard something somewhere... that people actually get paid for sex! They don't know where to start...and they are losing themselves in online madness. So I guess they should thank you for showing them a right path (by telling them off and reporting ) BUT they are not a professional sex workers....in my eyes anyway

There is nothing wrong with peeps using swinging site to play for fun, and using other sites to play for cash. Everyone likes to have fun outside of their 'work' life.

On sex site they will be contacted by people who are looking for paid sex. On swinging site they will be contacted by people looking to swing.

In fact, they would have to be a very silly sex worker to go on a swinger website looking for clients. I mean...picking up rocks on beach is free. Imagine asking someone to pay you for them

Or a sex workers offering their services for free on sex sites... That would be just silly...

Fucking common sense people

In fact, in my opinion, swinging sites, that charge people for joining, should be treated as online pimps

Mwaaah

"

Interesting post lol, earning money from swinging is classed as prostitution by local councils.

Getting money for sex or the promise of sex e.g. paid parties etc are technically illegal but usually only the really expensive ones are checked out by the taxman and police as its classed as prostitution.

Holding a gangbang or bukkake and charging is again classed as prostitution but fetch a camera into any of the above with signed model releases it becomes a shoot which is legal and above board.

Wherever sex is offered / viewed / traded usually money becomes involved.

A swinging site will charge a fee for its work and so will an escort as no one works for nothing, both earn money through the sex trade but only one is thought of as wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging and escorting both have the same activities - SEX

Why swinging is not prostitution?

Because they don't get paid for sex?? Do NOT ever tell a swinger that she is a prostitute unless you want your bollocks ripped off and shoved down your throat - some of them can be very touchy like that. And of course if you wanna get laid.....shush

Even from legal point of view - having sex on camera won't get anyone in trouble (they say it is acting?!) but doing it during set meet is....illegal

I can understand paying for sex from men's point of view.

You can spend a lot of time getting a shag swinging. Some may think it's not worth the effort - their expectation are usually higher...and in general they think swinging sites are full of people, who in vanilla life they would never touch... And....you won't find many stunning 20 year old women (like in porn ) swinging. There are some but they usually are the cliquiest and will only fuck the good looking fit young men...and why not

And what's with perception of sex workers on swinging sites?????

Why people assume that sex workers are soooo desperate that they advertise themselves on swinging sites??????

There might be some wannabes, who don't have a clue how does that work. Suddenly they decide to do some 'freelancing' because they heard something somewhere... that people actually get paid for sex! They don't know where to start...and they are losing themselves in online madness. So I guess they should thank you for showing them a right path (by telling them off and reporting ) BUT they are not a professional sex workers....in my eyes anyway

There is nothing wrong with peeps using swinging site to play for fun, and using other sites to play for cash. Everyone likes to have fun outside of their 'work' life.

On sex site they will be contacted by people who are looking for paid sex. On swinging site they will be contacted by people looking to swing.

In fact, they would have to be a very silly sex worker to go on a swinger website looking for clients. I mean...picking up rocks on beach is free. Imagine asking someone to pay you for them

Or a sex workers offering their services for free on sex sites... That would be just silly...

Fucking common sense people

In fact, in my opinion, swinging sites, that charge people for joining, should be treated as online pimps

Mwaaah

Interesting post lol, earning money from swinging is classed as prostitution by local councils.

Getting money for sex or the promise of sex e.g. paid parties etc are technically illegal but usually only the really expensive ones are checked out by the taxman and police as its classed as prostitution.

Holding a gangbang or bukkake and charging is again classed as prostitution but fetch a camera into any of the above with signed model releases it becomes a shoot which is legal and above board.

Wherever sex is offered / viewed / traded usually money becomes involved.

A swinging site will charge a fee for its work and so will an escort as no one works for nothing, both earn money through the sex trade but only one is thought of as wrong.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"

A swinging site will charge a fee for its work and so will an escort as no one works for nothing, both earn money through the sex trade but only one is thought of as wrong.

"

So anyone who is a site supporter here is technically contributing to prostitution lol now how the fuck do you all feel??

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Fact your more likely to catch somthing nasty swinging than you are going with a escort ,escorts do not stand on street corners like the common hooker who only does it to feed a drug habit ,escorts mainly work with a agency and have to be checked every 4 weeks at a clinic and have to have a certificate to prove it ,so befor you go bad mouthing theses women and men make sure you get your facts straight "

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"

A swinging site will charge a fee for its work and so will an escort as no one works for nothing, both earn money through the sex trade but only one is thought of as wrong.

So anyone who is a site supporter here is technically contributing to prostitution lol now how the fuck do you all feel?? "

What is the difference between paying an escort or paying fees to a site/magazine etc for the hope of finding a sexual partner...someone is going to earn money through the implications of sex at the end of the day.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"

A swinging site will charge a fee for its work and so will an escort as no one works for nothing, both earn money through the sex trade but only one is thought of as wrong.

So anyone who is a site supporter here is technically contributing to prostitution lol now how the fuck do you all feel??

What is the difference between paying an escort or paying fees to a site/magazine etc for the hope of finding a sexual partner...someone is going to earn money through the implications of sex at the end of the day."

No difference at all save for the narrow minded high horse riding people here who think that fucking strangers for free makes them better than someone who makes a conscious decision to earn money by doing exactly the same thing.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Are there any Cortinas on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wont get a pension lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a pension lol."

Unfortunately neither will lots of people if the government have their way. Hopefully the BHS workers will still get theirs.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"They wont get a pension lol.

Unfortunately neither will lots of people if the government have their way. Hopefully the BHS workers will still get theirs. "

But an escort can register as self employed, pay tax an NI contributions therefore get a pension and pay in to a private pension as self employed too. Escorting is a legitimate profession and not illegal.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

The sex industry isn't the easiest industry to work in and you would think swingers out of everyone else would understand them better as they too are social lepers to the rest of society.

I know at at 50 people from the porn & escorting world here on Fab and none of the 'charge' fee's in fact they are usually the ones having 'free' parties.

As for catching STI's from them as someone idiotically said they are safer than the big percent on here who never get tested.

Live and let live...if someone is trying to charge you report them but don't report them just because they advertise as an escort on another site.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Know at least it should say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sex industry isn't the easiest industry to work in and you would think swingers out of everyone else would understand them better as they too are social lepers to the rest of society.

I know at at 50 people from the porn & escorting world here on Fab and none of the 'charge' fee's in fact they are usually the ones having 'free' parties.

As for catching STI's from them as someone idiotically said they are safer than the big percent on here who never get tested.

Live and let live...if someone is trying to charge you report them but don't report them just because they advertise as an escort on another site.

"

If sasha rose secretly has a profile on here then I'll pay you to tell me her username...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They wont get a pension lol.

Unfortunately neither will lots of people if the government have their way. Hopefully the BHS workers will still get theirs.

But an escort can register as self employed, pay tax an NI contributions therefore get a pension and pay in to a private pension as self employed too. Escorting is a legitimate profession and not illegal."

Yes, lets hope the BHS workers gets their.

I see, so maibe it depends what country they live in as well there.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"They wont get a pension lol.

Unfortunately neither will lots of people if the government have their way. Hopefully the BHS workers will still get theirs.

But an escort can register as self employed, pay tax an NI contributions therefore get a pension and pay in to a private pension as self employed too. Escorting is a legitimate profession and not illegal."

This is correct its legal a big majority of sex workers do pay stamp and taxes...you are entitled to a pension like any other worker.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

OK you missed the sports car thread... it's an acquired taste in humor I grant you, bit like Frankie Boyle

I can apreciate sarcasm and saying things simply to get a rise out of someone but at the point that bigoted and derogatory statements are made and there is a specific person or persons who are the victims of those statements then you have to question whether the person making the statements is on a wind up or is simply hiding their genuine hypocrisy and bigotry behind the guise of sarcasm and humour.

Know you're really reaching for the stars my friend....

Read your statement again and really think about what you just said..

Everyone in the world but you knows

I CAN'T BE A BIGOT , I'M BLACK

"

Sorry fella but your efforts at sarcasm and humour have no reached the point that your just being a trolling fucking tool.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


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Sorry fella but your efforts at sarcasm and humour have no reached the point that your just being a trolling fucking tool. "

Which is a comment supported by your pic being lifted from the web.

Gotta love that reverse image search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry fella but your efforts at sarcasm and humour have no reached the point that your just being a trolling fucking tool.

Which is a comment supported by your pic being lifted from the web.

Gotta love that reverse image search. "

Aww my work is done... You mad

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By *tickyfingers.24Man
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex


"How dare someone offer us cash, we only accept burgers"
. B King or Mc D ? Lol

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

... but working girls shouldnt be on here ... its a swinging site .. not a recruiting site ..

There seems to be a lot more of them just latley ..

Just saying..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

... but working girls shouldnt be on here ... its a swinging site .. not a recruiting site ..

There seems to be a lot more of them just latley ..

Just saying.. "

Thank you

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"

... but working girls shouldnt be on here ... its a swinging site .. not a recruiting site ..

There seems to be a lot more of them just latley ..

Just saying..

Thank you "

As long as they are only swinging does it matter, i think your problems lie deeper than this thread mate lol

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester

Excellent topic of debate, I've been approached a couple of times in this site by sex workers. Whilst i can understand why they come on here, it can be hard work getting a meet on here for a single guy, like the OP i too don't agree with it as personally i enjoy the challenge of the chase !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *obluvs2playMan
over a year ago

redcar

Oh shhhiiiittttt I was guna offer my services as a gas fitter one day, don't wanna be called a prostitute though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?"

What a piss poor attitude u have towards sex workers. Have u ever stopped to consider the background and upbringing many sex workers have or continue to endure?? Ever considered what drives some of these people to "choose" to sell their bodies, just a few to name.....poverty, abuse,addiction, mental illness, poor housing, poor education...I'm sure the list goes on.

Its a sad world when people like u are so quick to judge the behaviours of others without stopping to consider the desperation they may be facing in order to put themselves in such risky situations as opposed to taking the moral high ground, being normal and scrounging off the state as u put it!!!

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"I'm a bit fascinated by the lack of understanding of someone claiming such moral high ground so I have to ask a few questions (in spite of myself)

Cheeky monkey, do you think that sex workers are sexually fulfilled by the sex they have with their clients?

Should read cheekyamerican!

Sex workers are worse than benefit scourging.

At least people are benefits are morally superior.

Sex workers are not fulfilled by having sex with people they are not attracted too. But it's their choice and I have no pity.Because they are to lazy to get a real job like normal people.

Look anyone can be a sex worker or sell a kidney. We choose not to because we put out health and morals above a quick dollar.

Why are you so obsessed with defending sex workers ? Are you a pimp?

What a piss poor attitude u have towards sex workers. Have u ever stopped to consider the background and upbringing many sex workers have or continue to endure?? Ever considered what drives some of these people to "choose" to sell their bodies, just a few to name.....poverty, abuse,addiction, mental illness, poor housing, poor education...I'm sure the list goes on.

Its a sad world when people like u are so quick to judge the behaviours of others without stopping to consider the desperation they may be facing in order to put themselves in such risky situations as opposed to taking the moral high ground, being normal and scrounging off the state as u put it!!!

"

A small percentage may be like you described above but most do it of their free will because like swinging its a life style & a job to them, one lady we know is buying two houses on what she earns & that's after the tax man get his share so its not all doom & gloom.

Sex workers i know are as respectable as anyone here on Fab, it could be worse they could be traffic wardens lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

... but working girls shouldnt be on here ... its a swinging site .. not a recruiting site ..

There seems to be a lot more of them just latley ..

Just saying..

Thank you

As long as they are only swinging does it matter, i think your problems lie deeper than this thread mate lol "

Why shouldn't they be on here? As long as they're abiding by site rules, who is anyone to say who can or can't be on here. I'd agree, some people definitely have issues lol.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"

... but working girls shouldnt be on here ... its a swinging site .. not a recruiting site ..

There seems to be a lot more of them just latley ..

Just saying..

Thank you

As long as they are only swinging does it matter, i think your problems lie deeper than this thread mate lol

Why shouldn't they be on here? As long as they're abiding by site rules, who is anyone to say who can or can't be on here. I'd agree, some people definitely have issues lol."

I agree as long as a person sticks to the rules they shouldn't be persecuted because of other peoples personal problems & hang ups.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

So what are the rules ???

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"So what are the rules ???

"

Essentially that the site shouldn't be used for financial or material gain.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"So what are the rules ???

Essentially that the site shouldn't be used for financial or material gain. "

So does that include people charging for parties or gangbangs?? We believe in free fun for all this is a lifestyle choice. Search gangbangs on here and see how many charge. We must report at least 1 person a week for asking us to pay to attend one of their "parties". How about the clubs that are allowed to advertise here? Are they immune from a ban because they are a legitimate business? Many escorts run as legitimate business too some probably turning over more than some of the 2 bit clubs advertised on here.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

You will find far more people on here doing high priced private parties living off immoral earnings (which is what its classed as if you check) than escorts, report anyone who is making money for sex or implied sex charging for whatever services they provide & let admin sort it out.

As said above "NOTHING" should be done for financial gain on this site...small donations to cover reasonable cost parties yes but apart from that it should be all free except for Fab's members fee's of course as this is their business & without it we wouldn't be here arguing.

Enjoy the site rather than find fault...you'll find it a much better place..

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"So what are the rules ???

Essentially that the site shouldn't be used for financial or material gain.

So does that include people charging for parties or gangbangs?? We believe in free fun for all this is a lifestyle choice. Search gangbangs on here and see how many charge. We must report at least 1 person a week for asking us to pay to attend one of their "parties". How about the clubs that are allowed to advertise here? Are they immune from a ban because they are a legitimate business? Many escorts run as legitimate business too some probably turning over more than some of the 2 bit clubs advertised on here."

You hit the nail on the head with this, we turn a blind eye to other businesses earning money through sex but others are shunned.

Stop all ads asking for £10 a person (for refreshments/food) or more unless they run a legit club.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"So what are the rules ???

Essentially that the site shouldn't be used for financial or material gain.

So does that include people charging for parties or gangbangs?? We believe in free fun for all this is a lifestyle choice. Search gangbangs on here and see how many charge. We must report at least 1 person a week for asking us to pay to attend one of their "parties". How about the clubs that are allowed to advertise here? Are they immune from a ban because they are a legitimate business? Many escorts run as legitimate business too some probably turning over more than some of the 2 bit clubs advertised on here.

You hit the nail on the head with this, we turn a blind eye to other businesses earning money through sex but others are shunned.

Stop all ads asking for £10 a person (for refreshments/food) or more unless they run a legit club."

It won't ever stop, I agree it should but many of the people who admin this site are in cahoots with the people who charge. Why is it we report people for charging yet their profiles remain active? Strange that we get a ban for allegedly speaking out of turn and then have no right to reply or defend ourselves and we provide well attended and popular parties for free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This argument will go on for a long time lol

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

What could have been an interesting discussion has been thwarted by a troll not saying anything but getting a rise out of folk. Shame.

I'm a sex worker. I love my work. I love to swing. The two are completely separate.

So there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These escorts are the ones ruining the swinging world with their sti's and offers of money...

This is a place for honest people to have fun. When these sex workers come here it blurs the lines....

Think about it.. If you work at McDonald's all day. Do you want to come home and eat hamburgers?

Complete rubbish.

A working girl isn't having sex, she's performing an act that she gets paid for and from which she derives no pleasure (no matter how much the guys wants to convince himself otherwise)

Why shouldn't they use a swinging site for their own sexual pleasure in exactly the same way everyone else does.

To use your analogy, would you ban someone who works in McDonald's from eating in a steak house just because they have acces to crappy burgers all day long?

You're the one talking rubbish. Why would a sex worker give away free sex if they are getting paid for it?

When is the last time the kabob shop was giving away free kabobs after closing hours?

Sex workers who choose someone to have sex with aren't giving it away free any more than I am.

No but sex workers that are swinging are not giving it away for free either.

They are spreading their sti's and trying to recruit new customers.

You could pick up an sti at a party or gang bang where no one is getting paid. Have you ever paid to get into a party or to attend a gang bang?

No I don't go to those bareback gangbangs.

I'm not paying to get sti's

I'm not talking about bareback ones.

Now you lost me... How would I get a sti at a gangbang if it's not bareback ? "

Seriously????

What if a condom split? What if one of them had herpes/warts? Condoms aren't 100% safe.

You're more at risk catching something from those regular swingers that protest they never need to go to a GUM clinic because they use condoms. They could have an sti in their throat and deep throat loads of cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What could have been an interesting discussion has been thwarted by a troll not saying anything but getting a rise out of folk. Shame.

I'm a sex worker. I love my work. I love to swing. The two are completely separate.

So there."

I notice when people don't have anything intelligent to reply. They call people trolls ...

People trolls...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"What could have been an interesting discussion has been thwarted by a troll not saying anything but getting a rise out of folk. Shame.

I'm a sex worker. I love my work. I love to swing. The two are completely separate.

So there.

I notice when people don't have anything intelligent to reply. They call people trolls ...

People trolls... "

Yes dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What could have been an interesting discussion has been thwarted by a troll not saying anything but getting a rise out of folk. Shame.

I'm a sex worker. I love my work. I love to swing. The two are completely separate.

So there.

I notice when people don't have anything intelligent to reply. They call people trolls ...

People trolls...

Yes dear"

Well this thread is about to be closed. You can have the last word.

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