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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might seem an obvious answer at first, but think about it. Why are are so many more single male to single female swingers. I can't believe that men like sex more, and am unconvinced by the standard evolutionary argument, so why?

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

it does seem a bit uneven at times..especially in clubs with men taking mates along.. you dont seem to have many women doing that ... god is there even enough women swingers to go around!

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Interesting question as apparently the female of the species by instinct is supposed to be the promiscuous one but that is based on primeval behaviour and the drive to mate with the fittest to produce the best quality offspring.

Modern behaviour is driven it seems by society and mob behaviour. If not now then certainly in relatively recent years the rules were 'nice girls don't have sex' but its always been ok for guys to shag anything with a pulse! So it would seem that swingers sites/clubs etc. still display this attitude.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i didnt think singles could be swingers

i certainly dont think that the majority of single men on here are 'swingers' just horny buggers looking for a uick shag haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier for a woman than a man to find casual sex in everyday, dare I say real, life - if she chooses to look for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier for a woman than a man to find casual sex in everyday, dare I say real, life - if she chooses to look for it."
agree with you on that 1

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"It's easier for a woman than a man to find casual sex in everyday, dare I say real, life - if she chooses to look for it."

i think that is part of the answer,add in societal attitudes and slut shaming and woman generally are less confident about saying they want sex.

Sadly we still see the whore/Madonna split in the 21st century.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"It's easier for a woman than a man to find casual sex in everyday, dare I say real, life - if she chooses to look for it."

agreed though there does seem to be more single fems on here than most other sites we have been on

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By *WLondonMixMan
over a year ago

Willsden/DollisHill

Indeed some of us are young horny buggers however it depends on peoples view of swingers and its definition(which has been hotly debated few times already so let's try skip that lol) but too be fair it can be quite easy for a guy to go out and get a leg over as it is for a woman. Its all about presentation, attitude and finesse, luck; as in right time right place naturally has its say, but mainly its how we (male and female) view our selves and portray ourselves that ultimately affects our chances of sex in as well as out of swinging. X

Ps: society is slowly changing it views concerning ladies and sex and is actually more accepted This may be wistful thinking however but I would like to believe within the next 2-4 years the scene will be more even ratio with the lads 4:3 with ladies. If the trend of acceptance continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might seem an obvious answer at first, but think about it. Why are are so many more single male to single female swingers. I can't believe that men like sex more, and am unconvinced by the standard evolutionary argument, so why?"

Thats easy cause theres more men away on buisness staying in hotels while their wifes are at home looking after the kids, using sites like this to fill their night, than women lol

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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago

canvey island


"Might seem an obvious answer at first, but think about it. Why are are so many more single male to single female swingers. I can't believe that men like sex more, and am unconvinced by the standard evolutionary argument, so why?

Thats easy cause theres more men away on buisness staying in hotels while their wifes are at home looking after the kids, using sites like this to fill their night, than women lol"

1 in 5 children that are born in wedlock or relationship are not the children of the partner of the lady. The idea that woman aren't sexual creatures who like to do all the wonderfully sexually gratifying things that men do is taking its time to die.

PS did anyone see the Big Question on Sunday? One of the questions up for debate was is porn good for society? Anyone who is in any doubt at all as to the polar oppositions in today's society re sex, porn, women and relationships should watch it.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"It's easier for a woman than a man to find casual sex in everyday, dare I say real, life - if she chooses to look for it. agree with you on that 1"

I'll disagree. In everyday life it should be no more difficult for a man. I suspect men are reluctant to ask for fear of rejection and hurt pride. I don't think its the competition from other men.

Think about it. For every woman seeking casual sex, there is a man to be the partner. So are we saying it is easier for women, because they have less competition? I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier for a woman than a man to find casual sex in everyday, dare I say real, life - if she chooses to look for it.

i think that is part of the answer,add in societal attitudes and slut shaming and woman generally are less confident about saying they want sex.

Sadly we still see the whore/Madonna split in the 21st century."

Some people think Madonna is a whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Think about it. For every woman seeking casual sex, there is a man to be the partner. So are we saying it is easier for women, because they have less competition? I don't think so."

It's easier for a woman because many men are still less discerning.

Most women could walk into a bar and shout 'anyone fancy a shag' and get lucky.

Most men couldn't.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

Still not convinced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think men will shag out to get a shag ....where woman r more select ....so we can pick chose where some men aint as lucky to be honest .

like if you go through site some nice people some minging ones ....woman wnt shag out in desperation think men will ...

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"think men will shag out to get a shag ....where woman r more select ....so we can pick chose where some men aint as lucky to be honest .

like if you go through site some nice people some minging ones ....woman wnt shag out in desperation think men will ... "

anit swinging fun hard work as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Think about it. For every woman seeking casual sex, there is a man to be the partner. So are we saying it is easier for women, because they have less competition? I don't think so.

It's easier for a woman because many men are still less discerning.

Most women could walk into a bar and shout 'anyone fancy a shag' and get lucky.

Most men couldn't."

Yep, I think the fact of the matter is just that we are defo more choosy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 in 5 children that are born in wedlock or relationship are not the children of the partner of the lady. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 in 5 children that are born in wedlock or relationship are not the children of the partner of the lady.

"

It's umbilicle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder then why it's so different on dating sites. For the life of me I can't recall where I read it, but last week it was written that on dating sites there are less men than women, so they were very fussy in the type of women they wanted to meet.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I wonder then why it's so different on dating sites. For the life of me I can't recall where I read it, but last week it was written that on dating sites there are less men than women, so they were very fussy in the type of women they wanted to meet. "

Is it because women are perceived to want the dating/ relationship side more than nsa? (note perceived - not necessarily my opinion )

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Why oh why is it always about men and women with swinging?

There are many, many other species that enjoy it just as much as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder then why it's so different on dating sites. For the life of me I can't recall where I read it, but last week it was written that on dating sites there are less men than women, so they were very fussy in the type of women they wanted to meet.

Is it because women are perceived to want the dating/ relationship side more than nsa? (note perceived - not necessarily my opinion )"

Im with you on that one - the perception is there but the reality in my experience is that I have met several men who want a relationship with me and have rapidly kicked NSA out of the window, get very needy and then shirty when I have said thats not what I want.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Why oh why is it always about men and women with swinging?

There are many, many other species that enjoy it just as much as you."

funcky can you come and sort out my swinging sparrows in the hedge at the bottom of my garden there always swapping partners

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Might seem an obvious answer at first, but think about it. Why are are so many more single male to single female swingers. I can't believe that men like sex more, and am unconvinced by the standard evolutionary argument, so why?"

Well if countless studies on the matter won't convince you... what hope does anyone here have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel most women need to have a relationship/ social side for sex to happen.

Men don't need that. If a good looking woman walked up to most men and asked for sex, she would get it.

If a man walked up to a woman and asked for sex, he would get his faced slapped or worse.

Its just the way we are wired up.

Also women have to think of their safety on sites like this. If I met a woman for the first time ,what's going to happen? Will she overpower me and rape me, I would be so luckly.

But its not the case for women

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Why oh why is it always about men and women with swinging?

There are many, many other species that enjoy it just as much as you.

funcky can you come and sort out my swinging sparrows in the hedge at the bottom of my garden there always swapping partners "

Dirty little bastards!

Do they have an email address? I will invite them to FAB!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also women have to think of their safety on sites like this. If I met a woman for the first time ,what's going to happen? Will she overpower me and rape me, I would be so luckly.

But its not the case for women"

totally agree with the above. i like to sort out the safety aspect than act on impulse.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have only encountered one guy who really didn't seem to understand the meaning of 'no'. I did warn him... and it wasn't me screaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder then why it's so different on dating sites. For the life of me I can't recall where I read it, but last week it was written that on dating sites there are less men than women, so they were very fussy in the type of women they wanted to meet.

Is it because women are perceived to want the dating/ relationship side more than nsa? (note perceived - not necessarily my opinion )

Im with you on that one - the perception is there but the reality in my experience is that I have met several men who want a relationship with me and have rapidly kicked NSA out of the window, get very needy and then shirty when I have said thats not what I want. "

You're not alone! I've had to knock a few playmates on the head...not literally you understand, as they became clingy and snide when I've been unable to meet them as I'd other plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only encountered one guy who really didn't seem to understand the meaning of 'no'. I did warn him... and it wasn't me screaming "

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