FabSwingers.com forum: Singles messaging from a Couples profile

By *azmissy67 OP Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

Over the past few weeks I have been getting a lot of messages from guys who have a couples profile but want to meet me as a single. Always say that they have permission to meet without their partners but im always abit wary and tell them thanks but no thanks. Am I being too picky and sensitive or am i right to have a doubts about them ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the past few weeks I have been getting a lot of messages from guys who have a couples profile but want to meet me as a single. Always say that they have permission to meet without their partners but im always abit wary and tell them thanks but no thanks. Am I being too picky and sensitive or am i right to have a doubts about them ???? "
nope your not if they say there a couple should be a couple why he meet you single sounds like very dogie to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you are not being picky. It's good to be wary.

Unfortunatly it's not uncommon that a male will create himself a 'couples' profile to bypass mail filters.

If you suspect a profile, report it via the report button on their profile then block it.

If we all did this, it would help out the fakes and make this site more enjoyable for everyone.

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By *azmissy67 OP Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

I just dont like the thought of an irate women baying for my blood if she really hasnt given her permission for him to swing alone - alot of these guys dont get that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no need to ask strangers whether you're being picky or not...it's your body, your choice!

I've had the "female" of a couple contact me saying she'd like her man to be dominated and him come back and tell her about it! Yeah...right!

Honestly, I was born in the morning, but not this morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just dont like the thought of an irate women baying for my blood if she really hasnt given her permission for him to swing alone - alot of these guys dont get that !"

We ask if we can talk to her on the phone first.... we have not heard anything back from anyone we have asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not being picky,we get a lot of emails of the male half of partners asking for meets as the wife is out or at work,we always reply saying ok,if your Mrs will speak fem/fem on the phone to comfirm its ok then yeah,strangely we dont ever hear back.

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By *eren35Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Ive had this recently of the guy from a couples profile. heres my response to him

"so your wife would go on msn and ring me to confirm you play alone? in that case fine tell me a time when shes on msn and ask her to message me and Ill chat to her"

Needless to say Ive not heard back from him since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingign is hard enough for single guys without ppl making it even harder by pretending to be something they aren't. I wish ppl would just be honest, it makes swinging so much more fun.

I know there's nowt as queer as folk, but please! Just be honest and make life fun.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Am I being too picky and sensitive or am i right to have a doubts about them ???? "

Seems a strange question to me, based on the amount of verifications you have

One would have gained the impression; you are an “experienced” swinger with the ability to out any potential fake.

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By *anchestercouple2011Couple
over a year ago

stockport

we always ask to speak to the "female" half of the apparent couple so shelly can check she is ok with her partner playing alone and funnily enough we either dont get a reply or the accidently left there phone at home so carnt be contacted or some other equally poor exscuse needless to say they get deleted and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no need to ask strangers whether you're being picky or not...it's your body, your choice!

I've had the "female" of a couple contact me saying she'd like her man to be dominated and him come back and tell her about it! Yeah...right!

Honestly, I was born in the morning, but not this morning!

Lol

Have you been reading our mail!

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