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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

People use this term to mean all kinds of different things. For me, the important part is that we are celebrating the fact that ALL kinds of women (including those carrying a few extra pounds or a few extra stones) can be confident and sexual and alluring.

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By *oeblack1Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It is a term that is used to describe a curvaceous voluptuous woman and not FAT or anything and if anyone does use it that way they should be shot, I adore the more voluptuous woman it is a personal thing so that is it, hope it helps.

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By *inston80Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Thought it was short for big beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please."

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight"

What lead me to ask the question in the first place was. We keep being invited to BBW events. I wondered what everyone's interpretation of the abbreviation meant to them. By the messages I have been receiving,very mixed ideas indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm getting in messages anyone size 14 or over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big build women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People use this term to mean all kinds of different things. For me, the important part is that we are celebrating the fact that ALL kinds of women (including those carrying a few extra pounds or a few extra stones) can be confident and sexual and alluring."

. Xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight

What lead me to ask the question in the first place was. We keep being invited to BBW events. I wondered what everyone's interpretation of the abbreviation meant to them. By the messages I have been receiving,very mixed ideas indeed."

Tha lady has identified herself as large in her details, maybe they don't look at the pics but how the profile holders identifies themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People use this term to mean all kinds of different things. For me, the important part is that we are celebrating the fact that ALL kinds of women (including those carrying a few extra pounds or a few extra stones) can be confident and sexual and alluring."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight

What lead me to ask the question in the first place was. We keep being invited to BBW events. I wondered what everyone's interpretation of the abbreviation meant to them. By the messages I have been receiving,very mixed ideas indeed.

Tha lady has identified herself as large in her details, maybe they don't look at the pics but how the profile holders identifies themselves."

Hi Queen yes I do. I'm certainly not thin. By any stretch of the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought it was short for big beautiful woman"

That's how I use it

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"People use this term to mean all kinds of different things. For me, the important part is that we are celebrating the fact that ALL kinds of women (including those carrying a few extra pounds or a few extra stones) can be confident and sexual and alluring."

But BBW doesn’t refer to ALL women, it refers to “Big” women.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a term that is used to describe a curvaceous voluptuous woman and not FAT or anything and if anyone does use it that way they should be shot, I adore the more voluptuous woman it is a personal thing so that is it, hope it helps."

no way is it used to describe voluptuous women.

it's used to describe obese women.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look at it as a term of endearment, because a woman in " the real world" is classed as obese, fat or an other word that's used, it doesn't mean she isn't beautiful to particular men or women, each to their own. Personally I like curvy, voluptuous fuller figured women, but I also enjoy a slim lady now and again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx"

So by that comment would you think it wasn't me in the pics.? I'm really confused now.Having messages that tell me any woman a size 14 or over is a BBW.......which applies to me...as normally that's the size clothing I buy ....

Oh well .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

From your pix you look "normal" sized .. whatever that means x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx

You aren't a bbw but you are gorgeous and hot and sexy xx

So by that comment would you think it wasn't me in the pics.? I'm really confused now.Having messages that tell me any woman a size 14 or over is a BBW.......which applies to me...as normally that's the size clothing I buy ....

Oh well ."

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"It is a term that is used to describe a curvaceous voluptuous woman and not FAT or anything and if anyone does use it that way they should be shot, I adore the more voluptuous woman it is a personal thing so that is it, hope it helps.

no way is it used to describe voluptuous women.

it's used to describe obese women."

Yes, but I tend to use it as it sounds better than saying that I'm a fat cunt.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Big build women "

Pretty much I just used it stop save people looking when they can't stand the larger woman.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight

What lead me to ask the question in the first place was. We keep being invited to BBW events. I wondered what everyone's interpretation of the abbreviation meant to them. By the messages I have been receiving,very mixed ideas indeed."

it is a catchall term for larger women although there is no defined 'trigger size' for it.

If you are receiving invites to events you have shown no interest in then you should report the messages. i do organise a bbw event and used to send confirmation emails out to all those who expressed interest however i think a few went astray and i got a warning from admin for pestering people about my event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx

So by that comment would you think it wasn't me in the pics.? I'm really confused now.Having messages that tell me any woman a size 14 or over is a BBW.......which applies to me...as normally that's the size clothing I buy ....

Oh well ."

Individuals use the term bbw to describe themselves based on their own viewpoint. Some are optimistic.. (sorry) and others are really doing themselves an injustice.

I've fabbed some of your pics. I would never use the term bbw for you. Beautiful? yes. Curvy? If you like. But never bbw.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx

So by that comment would you think it wasn't me in the pics.? I'm really confused now.Having messages that tell me any woman a size 14 or over is a BBW.......which applies to me...as normally that's the size clothing I buy ....

Oh well ."

there is no set size for it, just personal opinion.

I personally dont think that a size 14 is a bbw....i would say size 18 and above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doh

People come on

It means Big Buxom Wench!!!

A proud BBW here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Doh

People come on

It means Big Buxom Wench!!!

A proud BBW here "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male "

BHM is sometimes used for big men but it hasnt really caught on and i think that is possibly becasue women dont really tend to label guys like that. if we like you we like you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male "

There is one for a guy = Fat bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male

BHM is sometimes used for big men but it hasnt really caught on and i think that is possibly becasue women dont really tend to label guys like that. if we like you we like you lol"

Does BHM stand for Big Hung Male lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male

BHM is sometimes used for big men but it hasnt really caught on and i think that is possibly becasue women dont really tend to label guys like that. if we like you we like you lol"

I must have imagined that BBC term so...

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male

BHM is sometimes used for big men but it hasnt really caught on and i think that is possibly becasue women dont really tend to label guys like that. if we like you we like you lol

Does BHM stand for Big Hung Male lol "

Meant to be

Big Handsome Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x"

You look absolutely gorgeous and if you don't mind me saying, wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x

You look absolutely gorgeous and if you don't mind me saying, wow!"

lol you mean my tits are gorgeous ..lol...I might look like the back end of a bus pmsl xxx...thanks anyway sweetie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x"

uk average size sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x

You look absolutely gorgeous and if you don't mind me saying, wow!

lol you mean my tits are gorgeous ..lol...I might look like the back end of a bus pmsl xxx...thanks anyway sweetie x"

Haha yeah but hes hopeful of getting a ride of a woman...he'll say anything that may help his cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x

You look absolutely gorgeous and if you don't mind me saying, wow!

lol you mean my tits are gorgeous ..lol...I might look like the back end of a bus pmsl xxx...thanks anyway sweetie x

Haha yeah but hes hopeful of getting a ride of a woman...he'll say anything that may help his cause"

and it might just work! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously people have different views on what they think bbw means. ..reading some of the replies some people think they're all obese women and certainly not voluptuous ... personally I don't mind being refered to as a bbw because my personal views of a bbw are big, beautiful woman. and big being over a size 16 which is the us average size x

You look absolutely gorgeous and if you don't mind me saying, wow!

lol you mean my tits are gorgeous ..lol...I might look like the back end of a bus pmsl xxx...thanks anyway sweetie x

Haha yeah but hes hopeful of getting a ride of a woman...he'll say anything that may help his cause

and it might just work! !!"

Hey, this is all about compliments and yes you have fantastic looking tits.

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By *he Cunning Linguist1000Man
over a year ago

Leek

I understood it stood for Big Beautiful Woman. All variations in human appearance are going to create preferences, and the term BBW was coined to describe the larger lady in a positive light by those of us (very much including myself) who particularly cherish a voluptuous, cuddly lady. Hope this helps x

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

For some it seems to mean a different species that have no brains and stupid enough to fall for any for off flattery.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male

BHM is sometimes used for big men but it hasnt really caught on and i think that is possibly becasue women dont really tend to label guys like that. if we like you we like you lol

I must have imagined that BBC term so..."

Yeah but do a search on BBC threads and see how many are started by guys.....then do the same for bbw and see how many are started by women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight

What lead me to ask the question in the first place was. We keep being invited to BBW events. I wondered what everyone's interpretation of the abbreviation meant to them. By the messages I have been receiving,very mixed ideas indeed."

I've just had a quick look at your photos, and you're not what I would picture a BBW as....beautiful woman certainly....OH HELL YES lol X ......but not big, not fat, you're womanly Xx

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I’d say only use the term to describe a lady if she uses it first or describes herself as such. Size and bodyshape can be a sensitive subject.

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By *hilm2011Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I've never referred to anyone as a BBW unless they refer to themselves as that first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx

So by that comment would you think it wasn't me in the pics.? I'm really confused now.Having messages that tell me any woman a size 14 or over is a BBW.......which applies to me...as normally that's the size clothing I buy ....

Oh well .

Individuals use the term bbw to describe themselves based on their own viewpoint. Some are optimistic.. (sorry) and others are really doing themselves an injustice.

I've fabbed some of your pics. I would never use the term bbw for you. Beautiful? yes. Curvy? If you like. But never bbw.

"

Thankyou for your point of view

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happy Saturday people. Please don't call me thick. When you refer to a woman as BBW. What do you mean ? Is it about weight and shape? Or something more? Can you tell me please.

In all honesty, BBW is a term used in connection with overweight women. It says nothing about you other than youre overweight. A woman may be the opposite of beautiful but if shes overweight she will still be referred to as, or may even refer to herself as, BBW in here. In the real world shes just overweight

What lead me to ask the question in the first place was. We keep being invited to BBW events. I wondered what everyone's interpretation of the abbreviation meant to them. By the messages I have been receiving,very mixed ideas indeed.

I've just had a quick look at your photos, and you're not what I would picture a BBW as....beautiful woman certainly....OH HELL YES lol X ......but not big, not fat, you're womanly Xx "

Another term womanly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is funny how we have these labels that try to define us...BBW, How about BBM, Beer Belly Male

There is one for a guy = Fat bastard "

Underrated post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big Black Willy

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"OP you are entitled to call yourself what you want however in my personal opinion. . While you may not see yourself as slim if you put yourself as a BBW and I looked at your pictures I'd think I was being misled. ..

xxx

So by that comment would you think it wasn't me in the pics.? I'm really confused now.Having messages that tell me any woman a size 14 or over is a BBW.......which applies to me...as normally that's the size clothing I buy ....

Oh well ."

if we are moving in to dress sizes fir a reference. .

as the average dress size these days seems to be more a 16 (if you read all the blurb) for me ( and again it's about what each person

thinks) a bbw would be around a size 20 then obviously you get women who class themselves bbbw and so on as they are larger still

if you are a 14 and arrived at a bbw event it could make some people wonder and if guys were there specifically for bbw's you might not get much action ???

but as I said you can describe yourself how you wish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought it was short for big beautiful woman

That's how I use it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer Big Black Willies.

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