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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm 23 iv been swinging dor 2 years I used to be part of a couple until we split so what are your views on young swingers ? Xx

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By *witch mix vanillaCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Depends on age, as I have kids will not go below my kids age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your reply what about my age x

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We're 27, 25 when we joined here. Is that young? I don't know! I've had discussions on the forum before though with people basically implying a young couple should have no need to swing which is disagree with.

I respect people's age restrictions, we wouldn't meet anyone old enough to be our parents and I can understand why people don't meet people young enough to be their children.

I think it's great to see so many older people here, kind of blow the perception that swinging is for older people only out of the water.

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Would be great if there was more young swingers and more that frequent clubs !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm 23 iv been swinging dor 2 years I used to be part of a couple until we split so what are your views on young swingers ? Xx"

Mostly I find that there bottle crashes... Most get scared and run off.. I have as yet only had 2 under 25s actually go through with even a social meet.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Beth and james its not old at all how are you all finding the scene ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm 23 iv been swinging dor 2 years I used to be part of a couple until we split so what are your views on young swingers ? Xx

Mostly I find that there bottle crashes... Most get scared and run off.. I have as yet only had 2 under 25s actually go through with even a social meet.

Katie. x"

Your more than welcome to come and play with us, Not a chance that we'd run away! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't play with men younger than my children and their partners, so anyone under 30 is an absolute no no. Add to that I like extreme play - it wouldn't work for me restraining an 18 year old...God, I'd feel like a perv and it just wouldn't work for me at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young swingers:

1. Lack of confidence hidden in bullish nature

2. Lack of ability / experience hidden in testosterone fueled ambition

3. Lack of ability to really satisfy someone hidden in overconfident superiority

4. Ewww, just ewww, really. Have nothing in common with a young 20's person, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also most of the worst emails we recieve are from low-20s guys. No idea how to present themselves, no respect for our age limit, no reading the profile, basically no giving a fuck what we want.

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Young swingers:

1. Lack of confidence hidden in bullish nature

2. Lack of ability / experience hidden in testosterone fueled ambition

3. Lack of ability to really satisfy someone hidden in overconfident superiority

4. Ewww, just ewww, really. Have nothing in common with a young 20's person, really."

It's all very well feeling you have nothing in common with people younger than you but theres really no need to start with the insults now is there?

Our experience of 'older' (ie older than us) swingers has been limited and not that great to be honest but I wouldn't tar all older swingers the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's all very well feeling you have nothing in common with people younger than you but theres really no need to start with the insults now is there?"

You are mistaking my opinion and experiences (and, more to the point, of having been that age and having retrospective views of how we were) for insults.

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"

It's all very well feeling you have nothing in common with people younger than you but theres really no need to start with the insults now is there?

You are mistaking my opinion and experiences (and, more to the point, of having been that age and having retrospective views of how we were) for insults.

"

So then it's 'Young swingers we've met' not 'Young Swingers' then surely? Sorry you've had bad experiences, I'm sure everyone has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this a mixed bag to be honest. From the views on here, I realise that most people have age limits and good reasons why too. Its truly a case of "each to their own", but to counter this I will say at private parties I have been to the younger playmates have tended to be chosen more often by their older counterparts, more often with the women doing the choosing. This is however after a good period of chat and mingling first, and with the whole period of setting up a meet taken out of the equation? Maybe in an ideal world a swinger with the body and face of say, a 23 year old, with a 40 year old's mind would tick the most boxes on average. Again this would not be for everyone, but would appeal to a larger section of playmates.....

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I see what you are saying there Mr Lick. We've been to a club once and a private party once. Both times we played with couples slightly over the age range we have on our profile but when you have the chance to mingle and get to know people, age becomes less of an issue but on paper so to speak you have to put something down.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am 39 and wouldnt consider meeting people probably younger than 30. I have had lots of emails from under 30s and have to say I would rather not meet and play with someone who cannot talk with a maturity level that i feel for me is very important.

I like to chat with someone before and after and feel a connection.

I also find younger people dont understand why I cant meet them in an hour for an eve of fun even when I explain that I have children and responsibilty. Most dont seem to understand that I wont just ask anyone to sit for them.

Just in general I am aware of my age and not trying to meet younger people just to prove that I still "have it" or still sexy. It just doesnt appeal to me and to be honest it would just remind me how old I am, and how young they are lol.

Sorry but under 30s for me are normally a no thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm 23 iv been swinging dor 2 years I used to be part of a couple until we split so what are your views on young swingers ? Xx

Mostly I find that there bottle crashes... Most get scared and run off.. I have as yet only had 2 under 25s actually go through with even a social meet.

Katie. x

Your more than welcome to come and play with us, Not a chance that we'd run away! X"

Thats an offer to brighten up a monday morning..Shame your so far away.. lol

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm 23 iv been swinging dor 2 years I used to be part of a couple until we split so what are your views on young swingers ? Xx"

Why are you just asking Ladies views on this?

As a couple we meet single guys the guy has to get on with Mr and me.

We also dont have any age limits,we have met a 20 yr old guy a few times,we get on with him brilliantly,the same as we have met much older guys and had good meets with them.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

Tend to find young people around the 20 to 25 age a bit too immature, and though they think they have done it all, that doesnt make them experienced.

25 to 30 we have kids that age,

therefore we tend to go for 35 plus ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on age . i find some young guys have a silly attitude toward swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a young couple who net each other through a swinging website. As a single woman before I think it'd much easier for younger women to get meets rather than younger men. We have just started swinging as a couple and been to a club twice. We were the lower of the age range when we went but there certainly was a number of other younger couples about. I think age is not too much of an issue if you find the other person attractive and can socialise with them before playing!!! I understand people have limits and boundaries - we all do!! But people purely not meeting people going on age alone could be missing out on some great experiences!!! Xx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Ahh, Joe...I'm hurt. Only ladies allowed to comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I'd be called a young swinger then being 25, hubby is 30. Yet i don't really class myself as immature or bullish. I don't presume to think I know it all and am a sex goddess. I think it really depends on the person rather than the age group. We have a toddler and perfectly understand the commitment of not being able to drop everything and just hop off for a shag, even before our toddler arrived, we were never the sort to expect someone to just drop everything. So i do think these unpleasant experiences of eager young people is more because of the person not the age group.

But saying that the same thing applies for swingers above our ideal age. We don't really want to be jumping in to bed with people who could be our parents age. (and incidentally we did end up speaking to someone who worked for hubbys father - fast exit there for all of us!! lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many I have adult children therefore I wouldn't feel comfortable playing with anyone around or below their ages.

I know there are some lovely mature people in their 20's I gave birth to two of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see nothing wrong with it, im 43 now Nick but i was about 23 when i started swinging

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

This question around young swingers has been on a few times. We must say it does get on our nerves, some of the comments that people say. People sadly judge people on 1 experience they have and tar everyone with the same brush. We totally understand peoples prefrences but when people make comments like young people cant talk on a maturity level.What the hell someone was talking bout earlier with the lack of confidence and lack of abilty, serious that comment was one of the most imature i have ever read on here.

Also were 24 and 23 and cannot meet on the drop of a shag because of our children. Do you ever here young swingers making ridiculous comments on older swingers ? Rant Over !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a young couple or singles want to swing and have the maturity to make it a considered decision, why not I say.

We met a really young couple and enjoyed the whole meet including the discussion and banter and they stayed over and we had more fun in the morning.

Don't be too quick to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This question around young swingers has been on a few times. We must say it does get on our nerves, some of the comments that people say. People sadly judge people on 1 experience they have and tar everyone with the same brush. We totally understand peoples prefrences but when people make comments like young people cant talk on a maturity level.What the hell someone was talking bout earlier with the lack of confidence and lack of abilty, serious that comment was one of the most imature i have ever read on here.

Also were 24 and 23 and cannot meet on the drop of a shag because of our children. Do you ever here young swingers making ridiculous comments on older swingers ? Rant Over ! "

and that is fair comment, one could just as easily see the older couples as ridiculous for wanting to swing - you'd think they'd know better n all that!

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've heard some stupid things on here in relation to younger swingers as well along the lines of they don't know what it's like to have kids, stressful jobs, pay the mortgage, have their own business... blah blah blah!

We've done all of that, and been together 9 years

The older swingers we met had lied about their age, were on drugs when we arrived, were really nervous and freaked out. Now I'm not going to say all older swingers are like that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This question around young swingers has been on a few times. We must say it does get on our nerves, some of the comments that people say. People sadly judge people on 1 experience they have and tar everyone with the same brush. We totally understand peoples prefrences but when people make comments like young people cant talk on a maturity level.What the hell someone was talking bout earlier with the lack of confidence and lack of abilty, serious that comment was one of the most imature i have ever read on here.

Also were 24 and 23 and cannot meet on the drop of a shag because of our children. Do you ever here young swingers making ridiculous comments on older swingers ? Rant Over ! "

This post is about young people, but you trawl through threads regarding: single men, married men, bbws, tvs, bi men, etc - you'll come across the same generalised shite spouted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its is interesting to see different viewpoints from couples. If its the male half he feels threatened by someone 20 years his junior who has more stamina, can repeat and repeat in an evening so he will resort to the age old immature or lack of confidence bullshit. You don’t just get confidence the day you leave 29 and 364 days.

What you will find Joe is younger males will intimidate some older swingers so you won’t always be welcomed by them.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

yeah right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its is interesting to see different viewpoints from couples. If its the male half he feels threatened by someone 20 years his junior who has more stamina, can repeat and repeat in an evening so he will resort to the age old immature or lack of confidence bullshit. You don’t just get confidence the day you leave 29 and 364 days.

What you will find Joe is younger males will intimidate some older swingers so you won’t always be welcomed by them.

"

Not in our case!!! I (female) choose who I shag. I choose not to shag anyone under my age limit (35) as it won't do a thing for me. My hubby couldn't give a flying hoot if I decided to shag an 18 year old so long as I wanted and would enjoy it (NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN BTW).

I wonder how many female halves of a couple have the male telling them who SHE shags?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah right"

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I am 39 and wouldnt consider meeting people probably younger than 30. I have had lots of emails from under 30s and have to say I would rather not meet and play with someone who cannot talk with a maturity level that i feel for me is very important.

I like to chat with someone before and after and feel a connection.

I also find younger people dont understand why I cant meet them in an hour for an eve of fun even when I explain that I have children and responsibilty. Most dont seem to understand that I wont just ask anyone to sit for them.

Just in general I am aware of my age and not trying to meet younger people just to prove that I still "have it" or still sexy. It just doesnt appeal to me and to be honest it would just remind me how old I am, and how young they are lol.

Sorry but under 30s for me are normally a no thanks x"

That pretty much covers it for me too!

I do make exceptions on the odd occasion but they are few and far between.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?"

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its is interesting to see different viewpoints from couples. If its the male half he feels threatened by someone 20 years his junior who has more stamina, can repeat and repeat in an evening so he will resort to the age old immature or lack of confidence bullshit. You don’t just get confidence the day you leave 29 and 364 days.

What you will find Joe is younger males will intimidate some older swingers so you won’t always be welcomed by them.

Not in our case!!! I (female) choose who I shag. I choose not to shag anyone under my age limit (35) as it won't do a thing for me. My hubby couldn't give a flying hoot if I decided to shag an 18 year old so long as I wanted and would enjoy it (NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN BTW).

I wonder how many female halves of a couple have the male telling them who SHE shags? "

I'm sure it happens but i have sex with who i want,Mr wouldnt dream of inviting a guy over or a couple without me having a say,as i said before tho of we invite a guy over he has to get on with Mr not just me or it isnt going to happen.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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What you will find Joe is younger males will intimidate some older swingers so you won’t always be welcomed by them.

"

That really made me chuckle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20"

Totally agree with you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What you will find Joe is younger males will intimidate some older swingers so you won’t always be welcomed by them.

That really made me chuckle!! "

You've just made me chuckle even harder lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the younger they are the more they push and dont respect boundaries. The younger male swingers I have spoken to often push to meet at my home when the kids are home.

Thats why I dont meet men younger than 27. Plus I have god children in their early 20's and meeting people there age would be most uncomfortable for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20"

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

By _agman n angel Couple (MF) 1 minute ago!

benidorm

"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn. "

No not at all, but at 20 you have neither the experience, nor the maturity to be able to fully satisfy a mature woman, especially one who swings and has possibly experiences a few well experienced males.

At the age of 20 a fuck was a fuck didnt care where it came from and hardly ever went the same girl twice, it was all for me, very selfis i know, and as i have said with age and experince comes maturity and as people grow up they learn that thier partner has needs too, and now the fems needs are priority above my own, if it be with my own girl or another fem.

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


" By _agman n angel Couple (MF) 1 minute ago!

benidorm

"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn. "

No not at all, but at 20 you have neither the experience, nor the maturity to be able to fully satisfy a mature woman, especially one who swings and has possibly experiences a few well experienced males.

At the age of 20 a fuck was a fuck didnt care where it came from and hardly ever went the same girl twice, it was all for me, very selfis i know, and as i have said with age and experince comes maturity and as people grow up they learn that thier partner has needs too, and now the fems needs are priority above my own, if it be with my own girl or another fem."

Not all 20 year olds are like that though. When i met james we were both 18, he was very considerate, loving and selfless in bed back then and still is now. He has always put my needs first and never had that 'any holes a goal' sort of attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" By _agman n angel Couple (MF) 1 minute ago!

benidorm

"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn. "

No not at all, but at 20 you have neither the experience, nor the maturity to be able to fully satisfy a mature woman, especially one who swings and has possibly experiences a few well experienced males.

At the age of 20 a fuck was a fuck didnt care where it came from and hardly ever went the same girl twice, it was all for me, very selfis i know, and as i have said with age and experince comes maturity and as people grow up they learn that thier partner has needs too, and now the fems needs are priority above my own, if it be with my own girl or another fem."

I think you have a big problem not understanding that all young guys are like you were in your 20's. The experience comes with maturity is pure bull. Getting older don't make you wiser or more knowledgeable at all. If what you are saying was true the word Toyboy wouldn't even exist. Younger men are fitter, more capable and can get a hardon at will that is why they are popular.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

lol now your making me chukle too!!!

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

Getting older don't make you wiser or more knowledgeable at all.

well obviously you are very disillusioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Getting older don't make you wiser or more knowledgeable at all.

well obviously you are very disillusioned"

Not at all i just think your very blinkered in your view and i would go as far to say threatened by younger men outperforming you. Well that is how i see it anyway.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

i have no doubt that many younger guys , and some older can out perform me, im no super stud but i do know how to please a woman, through experience over many years. boys of 20ish do not have the experience to do the same.

They may be able to go more times in a night, but i would go head to head with any young guy for endurance.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


" By _agman n angel Couple (MF) 1 minute ago!

benidorm

"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn. "

No not at all, but at 20 you have neither the experience, nor the maturity to be able to fully satisfy a mature woman, especially one who swings and has possibly experiences a few well experienced males.

At the age of 20 a fuck was a fuck didnt care where it came from and hardly ever went the same girl twice, it was all for me, very selfis i know, and as i have said with age and experince comes maturity and as people grow up they learn that thier partner has needs too, and now the fems needs are priority above my own, if it be with my own girl or another fem.

I think you have a big problem not understanding that all young guys are like you were in your 20's. The experience comes with maturity is pure bull. Getting older don't make you wiser or more knowledgeable at all. If what you are saying was true the word Toyboy wouldn't even exist. Younger men are fitter, more capable and can get a hardon at will that is why they are popular. "

Arent you classed as over the hill as well by some cpls and women and its not bull knowledge does come with maturity not all fems are the same and most guys in there early 20s are just wham bham thankyou mam guys im i jealous no good luck to them i,ll match themm any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have no doubt that many younger guys , and some older can out perform me, im no super stud but i do know how to please a woman, through experience over many years. boys of 20ish do not have the experience to do the same.

"

Wow you do feel threatened. Have you had so many sexual experiences with 20ish males?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" By _agman n angel Couple (MF) 1 minute ago!

benidorm

"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn. "

No not at all, but at 20 you have neither the experience, nor the maturity to be able to fully satisfy a mature woman, especially one who swings and has possibly experiences a few well experienced males.

At the age of 20 a fuck was a fuck didnt care where it came from and hardly ever went the same girl twice, it was all for me, very selfis i know, and as i have said with age and experince comes maturity and as people grow up they learn that thier partner has needs too, and now the fems needs are priority above my own, if it be with my own girl or another fem.

I think you have a big problem not understanding that all young guys are like you were in your 20's. The experience comes with maturity is pure bull. Getting older don't make you wiser or more knowledgeable at all. If what you are saying was true the word Toyboy wouldn't even exist. Younger men are fitter, more capable and can get a hardon at will that is why they are popular.

Arent you classed as over the hill as well by some cpls and women and its not bull knowledge does come with maturity not all fems are the same and most guys in there early 20s are just wham bham thankyou mam guys im i jealous no good luck to them i,ll match themm any day "

Early 30's yes and i am past my prime as males peak early 20's. Knowledge doesn't come with maturity though it comes with experience. You are not telling me a 50yr old virgin is experienced now are you

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

now you are being silly, you just trying to make me laugh? well congrats its working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now you are being silly, you just trying to make me laugh? well congrats its working."

No i am pointing out to you that you really do not have anything concrete to back up your claptrap. Its funny watching you try and justify your theory but you have nothing to do it with. Well unless you secretly play with lots of 20yr old makes who don't satisfy you. Now that is funny

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


" By _agman n angel Couple (MF) 1 minute ago!

benidorm

"yeah right

Its a fact. You are not going to lie and say you can perform as you did at 20 are you?

No would never lie, as I feel I perform better now as its not all about me now ive matured. one of the things about growing up is you learn to consider your partner more than when your 20

Well that's a cop out. All you are saying is you were in your youth a immature unskilled lover. I think you are in the minority as there are many younger men who are skilled possibly even more than you are now. It isn't unexpected though as people who blanket generalise about things are not open minded and it makes them slow to learn. "

No not at all, but at 20 you have neither the experience, nor the maturity to be able to fully satisfy a mature woman, especially one who swings and has possibly experiences a few well experienced males.

At the age of 20 a fuck was a fuck didnt care where it came from and hardly ever went the same girl twice, it was all for me, very selfis i know, and as i have said with age and experince comes maturity and as people grow up they learn that thier partner has needs too, and now the fems needs are priority above my own, if it be with my own girl or another fem.

I think you have a big problem not understanding that all young guys are like you were in your 20's. The experience comes with maturity is pure bull. Getting older don't make you wiser or more knowledgeable at all. If what you are saying was true the word Toyboy wouldn't even exist. Younger men are fitter, more capable and can get a hardon at will that is why they are popular.

Arent you classed as over the hill as well by some cpls and women and its not bull knowledge does come with maturity not all fems are the same and most guys in there early 20s are just wham bham thankyou mam guys im i jealous no good luck to them i,ll match themm any day

Early 30's yes and i am past my prime as males peak early 20's. Knowledge doesn't come with maturity though it comes with experience. You are not telling me a 50yr old virgin is experienced now are you "

ok clever clogs ment to say experience still think its funny why a 30 something would stick up for guys in there early 20s as they wouldnt for you they would take meets off you if they had the chance

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"now you are being silly, you just trying to make me laugh? well congrats its working.

No i am pointing out to you that you really do not have anything concrete to back up your claptrap. Its funny watching you try and justify your theory but you have nothing to do it with. Well unless you secretly play with lots of 20yr old makes who don't satisfy you. Now that is funny "

Im really finding it hard to see what i need to back up, its an opinion its mine and i dont need to justify it to anyone.

as far as we both of us as a couple guys of 20ish are too immature for us, too inexperienced and of no interest.

our opinion, you have yours as does everyone else, not asking you or anyone else to justify so what actually is it thats so hard about that for you to understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now you are being silly, you just trying to make me laugh? well congrats its working.

No i am pointing out to you that you really do not have anything concrete to back up your claptrap. Its funny watching you try and justify your theory but you have nothing to do it with. Well unless you secretly play with lots of 20yr old makes who don't satisfy you. Now that is funny

Im really finding it hard to see what i need to back up, its an opinion its mine and i dont need to justify it to anyone.

as far as we both of us as a couple guys of 20ish are too immature for us, too inexperienced and of no interest.

our opinion, you have yours as does everyone else, not asking you or anyone else to justify so what actually is it thats so hard about that for you to understand?"

You have finally got it but its taken forever. Its your opinion based on little or no experience by the looks of it.I still prefer the idea of your secret unsatisfying rendezvous with young guys though its much funnier

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

There's the crux - your experiences of young men or your memories of you as a young man don't mean they are all wham bam thank you mam types!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

This thread wins top marks for making me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread wins top marks for making me laugh! "

I'm laughing because I have never seen so much drivel spout out from someone that happens to be under my age limit.... thus enforcing the reasons why the age limit is there

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"This thread wins top marks for making me laugh!

I'm laughing because I have never seen so much drivel spout out from someone that happens to be under my age limit.... thus enforcing the reasons why the age limit is there "

I'm thinking I might raise mine a little!

*giggles*

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"now you are being silly, you just trying to make me laugh? well congrats its working.

No i am pointing out to you that you really do not have anything concrete to back up your claptrap. Its funny watching you try and justify your theory but you have nothing to do it with. Well unless you secretly play with lots of 20yr old makes who don't satisfy you. Now that is funny

Im really finding it hard to see what i need to back up, its an opinion its mine and i dont need to justify it to anyone.

as far as we both of us as a couple guys of 20ish are too immature for us, too inexperienced and of no interest.

our opinion, you have yours as does everyone else, not asking you or anyone else to justify so what actually is it thats so hard about that for you to understand?

You have finally got it but its taken forever. Its your opinion based on little or no experience by the looks of it.I still prefer the idea of your secret unsatisfying rendezvous with young guys though its much funnier "

to be honest the real reason is she prefers men to kids, thanks for emailing for a meet but its a definate no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread wins top marks for making me laugh!

I'm laughing because I have never seen so much drivel spout out from someone that happens to be under my age limit.... thus enforcing the reasons why the age limit is there

I'm thinking I might raise mine a little!

*giggles*"

You can afford to lol!!! If I do, our profile will read... "men must be either 49 or 50 years of age"

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By *aulasteCouple
over a year ago

halton.....in a room under the stairs!!!

This is a great toppic to start an arguement on age....

I was 24 when i met my partner he was 17 and my god did he make wet, Not all younger people are just in for wham bam thank you mam, im still with this 17yr old 15 years later and it just gets better, so ok age is a preference but ya dont know till ya try do ya!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us."

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry Joe but i cant be arsed to comment anymore

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group "

agreed as a lad of 20 the last thing on my agenda would be to have sex with a woman of 40 50 or older when there was plenty of girls my own age around, but maybe they are looking for a mother figure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group

agreed as a lad of 20 the last thing on my agenda would be to have sex with a woman of 40 50 or older when there was plenty of girls my own age around, but maybe they are looking for a mother figure!!"

Absolutely, trouble is mother figure might also include anyone under 36

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

... and so part way through a session with a couple I said to the 29-year-old fem, "Have you been shagged by a granddad before?"

I'm almost 54 now, my sex life began at 15-years-old and looking back I find it quite remarkable considering what my girlfriend and I got up to! I have NEVER been a wham-bam type so I've no reason to assume all young males are useless in the sexual ability department.

That said, in some six years of this hobby not one sub-30-year-old has ever come through so far, however, for each of them there has been 100's of so-called mature males not worked out either!

If sub-30 males were available in the same abundant numbers as the 'more mature' I'd guess things would balance out because there are plenty of so-called experienced mature males that are just so plain average in sexual skill.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we dont mind younger swingers but i (kinky) prefer older because i just think they just have more experience and i tend to get on with old ppl,seen as my husband is nearly 11yrs older then me

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By *andJRCouple
over a year ago

near winchester

Interesting perception that wisdom and knowledge dont come with age - probably sums up what most people are saying on here, young men dont always have the maturity to look beyond their own arrogance. It is exactly that kind of comment that puts us off meeting with young people, can you imagine what the conversations are going to like all evening - no depth or substance, just shallow immature remarks and defensiveness. And if its true that young men are so popular, why all the moans on forums etc that they dont get meets. To be honest, there may well be exceptions to the rule, however our time is precious to us and we would rather not waste it testing out the hypothesis that some young people will have the maturity to be good company, both sexually and socially with a couple in our age group. Please do not think this is a personal attack on young people, it really isnt, but we are all entitled to our preferences, and age does bring a greater understanding of the world and what makes it and us tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on age, as I have kids will not go below my kids age."

plus 10!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joe, im having a great time with younger swingers!

I started swinging with guys in their 40's but now finding much younger guys really great.

And yes i did assume the younger guys wouldnt have the skill or knowledge of a womans body, boy was i wrong!!!!

And in answer to an earlier poster, i get just as much stupid oneliners from older guys as i do the younger ones. In fact the older guys piss me off more, as they should know better!!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never meet under 35 as i have daughter 21 and i find most young men send the worst mail as they dnt read profiles ....they say do u want a fuck ffs where is there manners .

not saying all r like that but spoils for genuine ones that do read profiles .

but am sure there is some nice guys out there but sadly am not i

n to teaching the young ones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come to terms that age is just a number.

If a younger gent and I hit off, why not?

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"I have come to terms that age is just a number.

If a younger gent and I hit off, why not? "

Totally agree, we just accept people on face value and assume they have something to offer until they convince us otherwise.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Flipping heck, that took some reading! Can't remember what our preffered age bracket is but we're pretty flexible, however, we do prefer 30 + as we tend to have more in common and seem to be more compatible with them, at a party or club however - all bets are off! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt meet anybody younger than 25 i feel thats young enough!!

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Intersting...

How many male parts of a couple here would say to a single female joining them who was 25? It seems the hate is reserved for young men...

Maybe that guys theory isn't that far fetched!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Intersting...

How many male parts of a couple here would say to a single female joining them who was 25? It seems the hate is reserved for young men...

Maybe that guys theory isn't that far fetched!"

I can't see any hate here! Steve would be happy for me to have a younger guy but I'm afraid that many back out at the last minute when looking for a private meet! And I certainly wouldn't have a problem with us playing with a 25 year old woman - in fact we have come to think of it! We think we're a little flexible with regards to the age issue, it depends upon the individual (s) Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intersting...

How many male parts of a couple here would say to a single female joining them who was 25? It seems the hate is reserved for young men...

Maybe that guys theory isn't that far fetched!"

Not 'hate'..... just preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trace had a 23/4 year old girlfriend for a year or so............which was nice!

We originaly met her and her male partner,who was the same age,as a couple but they split up a short while after.

We don't have kids,so the age hangup has never come into it. R

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group "

Ravaged! blimey, how many have you had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have come to terms that age is just a number.

If a younger gent and I hit off, why not? "

yaaay go ferit Pearl, me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Joe, im having a great time with younger swingers!

I started swinging with guys in their 40's but now finding much younger guys really great.

And yes i did assume the younger guys wouldnt have the skill or knowledge of a womans body, boy was i wrong!!!!

And in answer to an earlier poster, i get just as much stupid oneliners from older guys as i do the younger ones. In fact the older guys piss me off more, as they should know better!!!

x"

But look at your body, nice and slim, flat stomach, mine is the complete opposite and puts me off meeting young lads, dont understand why they would want to, least with my own age group, most have the same imperfections i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group

Ravaged! blimey, how many have you had?"

lol perhaps ravaged was the wrong word, too strong maybe to use, you've what looks like a nice flat tummy, I dont and i hate my fat mummy tummy, would love a nice flat one and totally puts me off meeting young lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bits that sag and wrinkle. My breasts have long since lost the fight with gravity, and illness has discoloured the skin on my legs. My stomach has more lines than Network Rail, and I will NEVER appeal to everyone.

I don't see my body as "ravaged by kids" - my mother had that view and a miserable existence she led, and made our lives equally as unhappy. Every conversation seemed to start "if it wasn't for you kids"...I wear my caesarian scars, stretch marks with pride. Anyone meeting me will know that the body under my clothes isn't going to rival Tyra Banks in this universe!

My profile on this site and others is there for all to see. I never message anyone. One of my playmates from another site is 46 and has a user name that makes it clear he's a fitness finatic - he goes to the gym every day. When he contacted me I did point out that we wouldn't be compatible as my idea of exercise was turning over in bed! He said he liked what he liked and that's it.

With all my playmates I socialise. We go out for drinks/meal etc and have a great time - I'm confident and happy in myself. Don't get me wrong, I have days when I look at myself and think "yuk" but I certainly couldn't imagine putting myself down, especially on a site like this to flag up to the not so nice how fragile and desperate for reassurance I am.

I certainly wouldn't go with some old, wrinkly bloke because I thought that was all I deserved. It's a fallacy to assume every young person has the body of Adonis and those over a certain age have gone to pot. You only have to look at some of the photos on here to see that.

A man the same age as my children doen't appeal to me. I can admire a nice body of a young person, just as I admire the nice figure of another woman - doesn't mean I want to play with either.

On one site, after I'd rejected one would be playmate and gave him the reason why, he wrote back telling me I was very picky for a fat bird. Too bloody right I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree, Sassy! xxxxxx

Rock on, us fat birds!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Go Sassy!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Large ladies are just so sexy xx

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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago

lost in the city of Atlantis

Also agree whole heartedly with what sassy said.

I don't tend to go for younger guys...simply because it not my taste in life and swinging.

I like older men and always have. I do have a few younger guys I see and I have made exceptions, but I find a majority of younger guys immature. Not all of course, but a fair few.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Large ladies are just so sexy xx"

sassy you have an admirer do you think he could take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally go for younger men every time Love them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad you all like my fourm xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Large ladies are just so sexy xx

sassy you have an admirer do you think he could take it "

If time stands still for me and he ages 20 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay Sassy i got it wrong but i cant help how i feel, you are comfortable with yourself and i am not, having been ridiculed all my life, can you really blame me for feeling how i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group

Ravaged! blimey, how many have you had?

lol perhaps ravaged was the wrong word, too strong maybe to use, you've what looks like a nice flat tummy, I dont and i hate my fat mummy tummy, would love a nice flat one and totally puts me off meeting young lads"

You must be joking, my tum is well rounded and many men like that you know. I have never ever had a flat tummy in my life and if I put on just a bit of weight peeps start asking me when it's due! I do belly dancing where it comes in quite handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There aren't that many young gents that I find attractive mentally. However, there are some about!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Tend to find young people around the 20 to 25 age a bit too immature, and though they think they have done it all, that doesnt make them experienced.

"

That's about the size of it ... there will always be exceptions... but they are exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group

Ravaged! blimey, how many have you had?

lol perhaps ravaged was the wrong word, too strong maybe to use, you've what looks like a nice flat tummy, I dont and i hate my fat mummy tummy, would love a nice flat one and totally puts me off meeting young lads

You must be joking, my tum is well rounded and many men like that you know. I have never ever had a flat tummy in my life and if I put on just a bit of weight peeps start asking me when it's due! I do belly dancing where it comes in quite handy. "

yes i know never, there was a forum post on it, just dont understand why they like a fat lump and not a nice smooth one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You must be joking, my tum is well rounded and many men like that you know. I have never ever had a flat tummy in my life and if I put on just a bit of weight peeps start asking me when it's due! I do belly dancing where it comes in quite handy.

yes i know never, there was a forum post on it, just dont understand why they like a fat lump and not a nice smooth one"

Because they do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average age on a swinging site is usually around the 40 mark but yes there are younger people who swing,

I also have an age preference based on the fact that I prefer someone to be around my own age , with a bit of life experience.

I have an 'each to their own' attitude , and just as the under 35s are not for me , equally nor are woman nor are tv/ts.

I think the age thing is a lot to do with how mature the younger person is , whilst there are mature young people , there are also alot on the site with a very immature attitude and become abusive if they dont get the yes answer they clearly expect.

I have kids ranging from 25 down and would not want to sleep with someone I could have potentially have given birth to , nor do i want to have sex with someone old enough to be my dad either , works both ways.

Happy swinging all.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

yes i know never, there was a forum post on it, just dont understand why they like a fat lump and not a nice smooth one"

People are sexy when they are comfortable in their own skin....no matter if they have wobbly bits.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

mmm thank god for the wobbly bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay Sassy i got it wrong but i cant help how i feel, you are comfortable with yourself and i am not, having been ridiculed all my life, can you really blame me for feeling how i do "

No, you didn't get it wrong: I can't tell you how you should feel, I'm just saying how I feel, and how I see myself. I've never felt inferior to anyone in any way. I've not been happy with myself - but that's different. As I said, there are day's when I think "gee girl, you look a mess" - but I have more "damn, you're a fine woman" days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

yes i know never, there was a forum post on it, just dont understand why they like a fat lump and not a nice smooth one

People are sexy when they are comfortable in their own skin....no matter if they have wobbly bits."

And that's it in a nutshell. I personally think it ugly people who are forever putting themselves down - not the type of person I'd like to play with.

Sex is fun and funny, laying there naked with a playmate stroking each other's bits is all part and parcel. If someone were to want to hide away, moan about their bits it would put me right off!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

I had my first 3sum at 19,and have been swinging ever since,with breaks.Age is irrelevant,attitude is what matters.i know 18 year olds who are more mature than me who i would happily swing with if they were interested.i also know people my age who are so miserable in their out look i wouldnt go near them.

Attitude makes ppl sexy,not a number.

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By *d_PrestonMan
over a year ago

Preston, Leyland, Chorley & Blackpool areas

I have to agree with Jemima, I started swinging when I was 19 or 20ish, and have met people my age - as I've got older and also folks older than me.

I think it's much more about attitude and respect for other people than what age you are - maturity of mind, over maturity of body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to agree with Jemima, I started swinging when I was 19 or 20ish, and have met people my age - as I've got older and also folks older than me.

I think it's much more about attitude and respect for other people than what age you are - maturity of mind, over maturity of body."

blimey, what happened, did someone blank you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find some people either love my age or hate it. Hard to convince people to try me if they find it off putting (such as if their kids are my age).

All young people on here can do is be ourselves and those that want us will find us.

And of course dont forget its not just the age, look at your body, as a woman of 50 with a body ravaged by kids, nothing would make me feel more uncomfortable than your age group

Ravaged! blimey, how many have you had?

lol perhaps ravaged was the wrong word, too strong maybe to use, you've what looks like a nice flat tummy, I dont and i hate my fat mummy tummy, would love a nice flat one and totally puts me off meeting young lads

You must be joking, my tum is well rounded and many men like that you know. I have never ever had a flat tummy in my life and if I put on just a bit of weight peeps start asking me when it's due! I do belly dancing where it comes in quite handy.

yes i know never, there was a forum post on it, just dont understand why they like a fat lump and not a nice smooth one"

cos they don't see it as a "fat lump" at all, they see it as a lovely curve. It's mags and media that promote skinnies and flat bellies and most of them are airbrushed.

Go look at the history of civilisation, men have always worshipped the rounded bellied woman, it's a natural part of our anatomy and we should enjoy it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 23

1. Have more than enough confidence to do anything a meet requires

2. Ability is not defined by age. I have met 40 year olds who didn't know what they were doing!

3.Read point 2

4. Your own opinion but I find that whole answer insulting and its people like you that make it hard for young men like me to get into the swinging scene, with your stereotyped views.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

cant take this seriously anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 23

1. Have more than enough confidence to do anything a meet requires

2. Ability is not defined by age. I have met 40 year olds who didn't know what they were doing!

3.Read point 2

4. Your own opinion but I find that whole answer insulting and its people like you that make it hard for young men like me to get into the swinging scene, with your stereotyped views."

Well said Martyn I know lots of young guys and they are all very switched on, and i certainly had no conplaints in the stanima dept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant take this seriously anymore."

I can take a fair amount of this thread seriously but I think I have lost the will to live very very recently...... not very far above you if the pathologists need pointing in the right direction.

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"cant take this seriously anymore.

I can take a fair amount of this thread seriously but I think I have lost the will to live very very recently...... not very far above you if the pathologists need pointing in the right direction."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to find young people around the 20 to 25 age a bit too immature, and though they think they have done it all, that doesnt make them experienced.

That's about the size of it ... there will always be exceptions... but they are exceptions."

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Very true! I find most young gents lacking in sophistication that comes with age.

However, there are some with very mature heads on their shoulders, and they are smoking HOT!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"I'm 23

1. Have more than enough confidence to do anything a meet requires

2. Ability is not defined by age. I have met 40 year olds who didn't know what they were doing!

3.Read point 2

4. Your own opinion but I find that whole answer insulting and its people like you that make it hard for young men like me to get into the swinging scene, with your stereotyped views."

Your answer to Q4 just reinforces their point No.1!!

How can you find that answer insulting? It is their opinion and I must say it is one that a few people we know have too. We actually stopped meeting younger single guys because they were bullish!

Another thing that seems to stop a lot of couples/women meeting guys of your age is that they have kids your age! Plus of course, having nothing in common!

As a greneral comment though, I think young singles would have more luck down the pub on a Saturday evening. The mature (over 35) guys are a much better bet! Most youngsters we have had contact with are chancers who don't stay long because they find out it just isn't that easy!

Perhaps be better off on a singles/dating site than a swingers site, but I forgot! Have to pay for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 23

1. Have more than enough confidence to do anything a meet requires

2. Ability is not defined by age. I have met 40 year olds who didn't know what they were doing!

3.Read point 2

4. Your own opinion but I find that whole answer insulting and its people like you that make it hard for young men like me to get into the swinging scene, with your stereotyped views."

For some of us it has absolutely NOTHING to do with confidence. I have children aged 19, 23 and 28 with step-children 34 and 35 playing with men younger than my children wouldn't work for me. It has the same ewwwww factor as playing with a 73 year old!

I don't understand why people take umbridge when they're excluded from someone's preference. If someone doesn't want to play with a bbw I don't give it another thought because I accept I'm NEVER going to appeal to everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my two pence worth after reading quite am argument developing further back in the replies.

- With age comes experience and wisdom/knowledge: this is very stereotypical. Some young people are very wise, bed have vast experience. Some older people this also applies to. However age is no means to a guarantee.

Unfortunately SOME younger people are simply idiotic in their approach to this scene. They just want to empty their sacks so to speak and cut any further contact. However the same can be said for many older/mature people too.

Someone went off on a tangent about experience. I've had some rather unexperienced lovers win have been absolute fantastic. Experience isn't always everything.

Sometimes common courtesy when pleasuring a partner goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer exclude younger gents in my pursuit for NSA fun, however, they must be exceptional, and what that means, is for me to know, and for them to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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