FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Intimidating !!

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Could be taken as a compliment

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't know why she would feel intimidated by you,did she say?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what she means! After seeing your gorgeous pics there is no way I'd meet you either

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Tbf my body is nothing compared to your so yes I'd feel intimidated.

I am short and fat and not much to look at.. Body confidence issues. I couldn't get naked with you as your bodies are much nicer than mine.

It's not a nasty or hurtful thing, it's how I'd feel.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she'd feel that you would be judging her all the time to ensure she was "exceptional" enough for you...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing it's because you are both very photogenic. And you want only to meet exceptionally hot people.

To be honest I wouldn't meet you (if I was bi) as I wouldn't want you to turn around on the meet and say no.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing intimidating in your profile from what I can see guys. In fact it's quite the opposite. I see it as inviting rather than intimidating!!!

On a separate note can I ask about the red dress in one of your pics please? What material is it and where did you get it from, it's absolutely gorgeous ??

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Hi there...I think the phrase "very hot, slim/curvy ideally big boobs and round bums" could be a problem for a lot of women. It comes across that you're looking for 'perfection' which can be off-putting to some. I get that you are just being clear about what you're after but how many women would class themselves as "very hot"?

Just my opinion...happy hunting - Flik xx

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I'd find off putting about your profile is your status, putting things like that automatically puts pressure on you, you then have to ask yourself, am I hot? Will I be good enough for them? Is it worth me mailing? Probably not

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/06/16 19:17:55]

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could take my clothes off in front of either of you. I wouldn't say intimidated. Just not my type. As I won't be yours. Each for each other as they say

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be put off, you come across as somewhat elitist and I don't like people who come off like that.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx"

See that's my point

There maybe many women on here the OP would meet but if the woman reading their profile does not class themselves as exceptional the chances are they will not mail them in fear for being told they aren't good enough when maybe they actually are

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your pictures, they remind of "men only" mags that i used to look at as a boy

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx"

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Lol, not another One! These threads never end well!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got nice boobs

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your pictures, they remind of "men only" mags that i used to look at as a boy "

Its ok taken care of that for you

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x "

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you "

But some mingers are fun loving

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there...I think the phrase "very hot, slim/curvy ideally big boobs and round bums" could be a problem for a lot of women. It comes across that you're looking for 'perfection' which can be off-putting to some. I get that you are just being clear about what you're after but how many women would class themselves as "very hot"?

Just my opinion...happy hunting - Flik xx Yeah I agree with this really Hun xx"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving "

Haha that's true. But as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. These two don't do it for me personally.

Can't beat good fun bubbly normal mingers for a great night

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your wording of "exceptionally hot" is a lot to live up to...as has been mentioned, your pics are great...put together I think it could be intimidating.

You seem friendly and look good, maybe just tweak your wording to reach a bigger target audience. X

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

I'd be put off. I am exceptional (well, I think I am, other opinions may vary) but the way you've phrased it comes across as elitist and I've always been an egalitarian who may judge people but on an individual basis via conversation, not subjectively based on looks. A good meet to me is a meeting of dirty minds, not someone wanting to fuck me because I'm pretty enough for them.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving "

So either way we arent suitable for this site?? Our wording is taken out of context and our photos dont suit, i guess there isnt much else to do for us here

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Added to that OP, even though I am confident with my body, as you both seem to pride and judge so much on physical appearance, if by chance we did meet I'd probably not even want to get naked as I'd be too worried that you'd both make a point of noticing any wobbly bits or marks...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving

Haha that's true. But as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. These two don't do it for me personally.

Can't beat good fun bubbly normal mingers for a great night "

I accept

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving

So either way we arent suitable for this site?? Our wording is taken out of context and our photos dont suit, i guess there isnt much else to do for us here "

You're suitable for people who find you attractive Just as I am and anyone else on the site. We all look for different things

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see anything intimidating about your profile; it's well written and shows you are confident in what you are looking for. I obviously can't see your pictures, but on the face of it, you guys come across fine.

Maybe that individual has some insecurity issues? I wouldn't take it personally and were they right for you if not confident in themselves?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it's not just the pics that would put me off ...

I've seen you post on other threads about single bifems and tbh you do seem to have a bit of an attitude... Saying I started a couple bashing thread didn't exactly endear me to you but we are all entitled to our opinion

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving

So either way we arent suitable for this site?? Our wording is taken out of context and our photos dont suit, i guess there isnt much else to do for us here "

Of course you are suitable for the site

I never mentioned your pics, I'm not bi so my opinion wouldnt really matter

I just think most women on here are grounded and don't see themselves as exceptional so it would put them off mailing you

Even if you saw them as hot if they don't class themselves as being anything special it would maybe prevent them from contacting you

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think sometimes when people put themselves on a pedestal it's human nature for other's to knock them of it. You say you're a hot couple,I would leave that up to others to decide. Yes you both are, but calling yourselves it doesn't come across to good in my book. You're looking for exceptional women that again is fairly subjective to a degree,we all want to meet people that we personally find attractive,I again don't think it needs to be said.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Hi there...I think the phrase "very hot, slim/curvy ideally big boobs and round bums" could be a problem for a lot of women. It comes across that you're looking for 'perfection' which can be off-putting to some. I get that you are just being clear about what you're after but how many women would class themselves as "very hot"?

Just my opinion...happy hunting - Flik xx Yeah I agree with this really Hun xx"

Thanks Beth....pleased someone read

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving

So either way we arent suitable for this site?? Our wording is taken out of context and our photos dont suit, i guess there isnt much else to do for us here "

Ah no way,you hid them! i was back in'84!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest it's not just the pics that would put me off ...

I've seen you post on other threads about single bifems and tbh you do seem to have a bit of an attitude... Saying I started a couple bashing thread didn't exactly endear me to you but we are all entitled to our opinion "

And likewise, we think youre exceptionally hot but your attitude towards couples is negative, if you make a claim against the masses based on a bad experience you have had you have to except that point to be defended right?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I haven't seen your pics as you have now hidden them all, and yes I get my fair share of attention on here but I would never see myself as exceptional and if anyone contacts me saying they think I am, I am very quick to point out my faults as I don't want to give a false impression.

Sometimes over confidence can come across as arrogance

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm.

If I were a single woman who you happened to message (and I am NOT saying I would be your type - I certainly don't think I'm "slim/curvy ideally big boobs and round bums"), then I would probably be put off. I'm not quite sure how to explain this in writing, but sometimes people can come off as judgemental just based on how they explain what/who they are looking for. I think you fall into this category for me.

For example, sometimes couples message us who I find attractive, but the way their profile is written completely turns me off, and I end up telling Marc that I'm not interested in them. If I feel like I am going to be judged on a meet, then that would intimidate me - I go to meets for mutual pleasure and the way you frame what you're looking for I am not sure I would be comfortable in an environment where I felt constantly judged.

Now, please please don't take this the wrong way. I don't mean that you are judging people - I don't know you at all. But I could see how a woman could feel intimidated, or just plain put off, based on your profile alone.

But if its working for you, crack on.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree, your pics are stunning but I don't class myself as exceptional and would feel like I'd be judged! Xx

Ok maybe changing the wording will help, but every word we use could be taken out of context i guess, x

How about fun loving people I really don't think you need to state you want stunning. People will look at your photos and decide if they think they will like you

But some mingers are fun loving

So either way we arent suitable for this site?? Our wording is taken out of context and our photos dont suit, i guess there isnt much else to do for us here

Ah no way,you hid them! i was back in'84!"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...

I'm not 100% sure about this ?

But... Isn't there sites for people who only allow the types of people your looking for to join?

People looking to join have to be marked on their attractiveness by the other members. If you don't meet a certain standard you are refused membership.

Maybe you would be better off trying a site like that ?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm.

If I were a single woman who you happened to message (and I am NOT saying I would be your type - I certainly don't think I'm "slim/curvy ideally big boobs and round bums"), then I would probably be put off. I'm not quite sure how to explain this in writing, but sometimes people can come off as judgemental just based on how they explain what/who they are looking for. I think you fall into this category for me.

For example, sometimes couples message us who I find attractive, but the way their profile is written completely turns me off, and I end up telling Marc that I'm not interested in them. If I feel like I am going to be judged on a meet, then that would intimidate me - I go to meets for mutual pleasure and the way you frame what you're looking for I am not sure I would be comfortable in an environment where I felt constantly judged.

Now, please please don't take this the wrong way. I don't mean that you are judging people - I don't know you at all. But I could see how a woman could feel intimidated, or just plain put off, based on your profile alone.

But if its working for you, crack on. "

Thank you

Noted, have changed profile text.. we are by no means judgemental x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I haven't seen your pics as you have now hidden them all, and yes I get my fair share of attention on here but I would never see myself as exceptional and if anyone contacts me saying they think I am, I am very quick to point out my faults as I don't want to give a false impression.

Sometimes over confidence can come across as arrogance "

Agreed.. have made changes

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP...

I'm not 100% sure about this ?

But... Isn't there sites for people who only allow the types of people your looking for to join?

People looking to join have to be marked on their attractiveness by the other members. If you don't meet a certain standard you are refused membership.

Maybe you would be better off trying a site like that ?"

To be honest we have meet some fantastic people on fab and love the site, we have been to elite clubs and to be honest most of the people are well.. shitheads!! Its clear we ard being seen in the shithead light lol

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

You know what might help. Showing your veris. I often look at veris and think yes they've met people like me or no way I'm messaging they've only met slim girls. Just a thought

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP...

I'm not 100% sure about this ?

But... Isn't there sites for people who only allow the types of people your looking for to join?

People looking to join have to be marked on their attractiveness by the other members. If you don't meet a certain standard you are refused membership.

Maybe you would be better off trying a site like that ?

To be honest we have meet some fantastic people on fab and love the site, we have been to elite clubs and to be honest most of the people are well.. shitheads!! Its clear we ard being seen in the shithead light lol "

I don't see you in a shit head light or any light ?

I don't know you or anything about you so wouldn't pass comment about if your head was made of excrement lol

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with others, from the pic I can see you look pretty amazing, I'm not sure I'd be comfortable getting naked , I know what the lady means, I get messaged sometimes by (in my eyes) extremely good looking/gym fit model types and I would feel intimidated meeting them, not because of anything to do with you or them as people but because of my own self confidence, so I think in a round about way it was a compliment x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never got to see these pics

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I can't see a whole lot wrong with your profile. You have explained what you are looking for, you have a good range of photos. The bit about "exceptionally hot" was if someone is outside your age bracket i.e. If outside our age range you have to be extremely hot which I think is quite reasonable. Your grammar leaves a lot to be desires but that's just me being me haha! And this girl you are talking about, you guys messaged her so surely that is flattering and would help banish her intimidation worries...?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**had a good range of photos haha

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We don't find you intimidating.

Reading from your profile 'image' and 'looks' seem to be very important to you, you seem to like the visuals which of course is your absolute right, we respect that. Some members here will be put off/intimidated by your look, that you consider yourself hot, only want to meet who you consider exceptional (looks wise) and/or hot. Others will disregard the importance of looks and consider exceptional to be a collective/overall impression they get via dialogue. Nothing stranger than folk, especially on fab, however, it caters and facilitates for all of our differences/reasoning for being here.

Moral of the story. Only meet those who interest you and don't worry about those you intimidate, you're clearly not a match.

Him

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Your profile looks ok to me , just look for the people who are not intimidated by it as none of us can be held responsible for other peoples insecurities.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile looks ok to me , just look for the people who are not intimidated by it as none of us can be held responsible for other peoples insecurities."

I hold YOU responsible for mine !

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Well I haven't seen your pics as you have now hidden them all, and yes I get my fair share of attention on here but I would never see myself as exceptional and if anyone contacts me saying they think I am, I am very quick to point out my faults as I don't want to give a false impression.

Sometimes over confidence can come across as arrogance

Agreed.. have made changes "

I've been accused of being high maintenance even by my newest meet lol now that he has met me he knows why, as I use my profile and messages to attract and detract the people who I do or do not want to meet so just look at it that way

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Your profile looks ok to me , just look for the people who are not intimidated by it as none of us can be held responsible for other peoples insecurities.

I hold YOU responsible for mine ! "

I always get the blame for everything so may as well be blamed for that one too

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile looks ok to me , just look for the people who are not intimidated by it as none of us can be held responsible for other peoples insecurities.

I hold YOU responsible for mine !

I always get the blame for everything so may as well be blamed for that one too "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Reading through this I can see that men find your profile great but most single fems and bi fems find the "exceptional etc" wording off putting. Just shows. I wouldn't message you cos I think that you're now too hot for me and I'd be inadequate.

Also I agree with the other post that said show your veris. I always look at the other women's prof/pics to see who they normally meet! X

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I know what she means! After seeing your gorgeous pics there is no way I'd meet you either "

Ditto

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I think meeting a couple for a single lady is intimidating. Takes guts as you don't know what you are walking into. I cancelled a meet with a couple who play regularly with each other as I felt vulnerable.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think you've posted something similar before, haven't you?

I've seen your pics before and you are both stunning people. I've also read your profile before and after the changes. I think you come across as much more approachable now and a lot less demanding if you don't mind me saying. When I first read your (old) profile I thought you sounded a little up your own arse tbh. It's much better now

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm exceptional, unique and awesome

Also straight

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest it's not just the pics that would put me off ...

I've seen you post on other threads about single bifems and tbh you do seem to have a bit of an attitude... Saying I started a couple bashing thread didn't exactly endear me to you but we are all entitled to our opinion

And likewise, we think youre exceptionally hot but your attitude towards couples is negative, if you make a claim against the masses based on a bad experience you have had you have to except that point to be defended right? "

I accept my attitude towards certain couples is less than rosy...which is why I'm no longer looking for them...

you see.....people can change

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen nothing that would make me intimidated.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice "

No its a genuine post asking fellow fabbers for genuine advice which we have taken whole heartedly, weve never discriminated nor have we "kicked anyone else out bed" why does being "hot" instantly give someone the assumption you are arrogant or you consider yourself more important, neither are the case i can assure you, im bald that itself as a man gives me a massive complex and Mrs has birthed two little ones and has all the glorious stripes that go with childbirth for which she will constantly hide even from me!! But we accept that as part of life and still like to have fun.. all our veris previous and to date have stated our positive attitude and the fact we are genuine nice people.. my wife is incredibly hot but is the mist pleasant, friendly and generous person i know and i thank my lucky stars everyday that she is my wife and besty, we arent asking to be judged which is clearly what you have done, if thats the case then are you nothing but a massive cock!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

Having chatted with you I know you guys are quite lovely.

Its your profile and should reflect you and what your looking for.

If others are intimidated or view you in a certain way then thats their issue and not yours, you know who you are as do the people who get to know you.

Your photos are stunning and you shouldn't hide them.

Knitter kisses for you both

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi

Having chatted with you I know you guys are quite lovely.

Its your profile and should reflect you and what your looking for.

If others are intimidated or view you in a certain way then thats their issue and not yours, you know who you are as do the people who get to know you.

Your photos are stunning and you shouldn't hide them.

Knitter kisses for you both "

Thank you, you exceptionally hot beautiful lady, big kisses

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prob feel too fat too meet u

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd prob feel too fat too meet u "

I disagree, big boobs, lovely bum!! All the right curves in all the right places

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prob feel too fat too meet u

I disagree, big boobs, lovely bum!! All the right curves in all the right places "

What they said your hot

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prob feel too fat too meet u

I disagree, big boobs, lovely bum!! All the right curves in all the right places

What they said your hot "

they (he) said I was hot too...which really made me go no idea what she thinks

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd prob feel too fat too meet u

I disagree, big boobs, lovely bum!! All the right curves in all the right places

What they said your hot

they (he) said I was hot too...which really made me go no idea what she thinks "

Assuming this is not she of course? X

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prob feel too fat too meet u

I disagree, big boobs, lovely bum!! All the right curves in all the right places

What they said your hot

they (he) said I was hot too...which really made me go no idea what she thinks "

They both told me they think your hot

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prob feel too fat too meet u

I disagree, big boobs, lovely bum!! All the right curves in all the right places

What they said your hot

they (he) said I was hot too...which really made me go no idea what she thinks

They both told me they think your hot "

I agreed

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ffs.....you're more hot than me and so and so said so so it must be true but I'm clearly too hot for someone......jeez!!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me (fem), no public pics, but big boobed stunning women over 40 (I'm under that but still a turn off), no of this would appeal to me to message you or reply back.

Our meets with single ladies have come from meeting in clubs, getting to know them as people, and making sure they realise they will not just be a 'plaything' for us to indulge ourselves. We make it plain and clear we like an all inclusive fun time together and to me your profile doesn't give that impression, sorry.

Maybe try clubs, get to know ladies, and go from there would be the best option??

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh ffs.....you're more hot than me and so and so said so so it must be true but I'm clearly too hot for someone......jeez!! "

Youre incredibly hot, jeez

Whats a girl got to do to play with some boobies on here, and yes this is Mrs p4k, i do speak, quite a lot. my hubby does not control our profile or me, unless its in the bedroom just how i like it.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh ffs.....you're more hot than me and so and so said so so it must be true but I'm clearly too hot for someone......jeez!! "

Im quite sure and well said

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh ffs.....you're more hot than me and so and so said so so it must be true but I'm clearly too hot for someone......jeez!! "

You're hot too, so and so said so.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh ffs.....you're more hot than me and so and so said so so it must be true but I'm clearly too hot for someone......jeez!!

You're hot too, so and so said so. "

Trouble is...no one's rumbled that so and so speaks out of his arse...so ssssshhhhhh!! Mum's the word

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh ffs.....you're more hot than me and so and so said so so it must be true but I'm clearly too hot for someone......jeez!!

Youre incredibly hot, jeez

Whats a girl got to do to play with some boobies on here, and yes this is Mrs p4k, i do speak, quite a lot. my hubby does not control our profile or me, unless its in the bedroom just how i like it.

"

hahahhaha

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not hot,or young yet hot people don't intimate me. I have been naked with some very hot men; in fact I had sex with one just a couple of weeks ago

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice

No its a genuine post asking fellow fabbers for genuine advice which we have taken whole heartedly, weve never discriminated nor have we "kicked anyone else out bed" why does being "hot" instantly give someone the assumption you are arrogant or you consider yourself more important, neither are the case i can assure you, im bald that itself as a man gives me a massive complex and Mrs has birthed two little ones and has all the glorious stripes that go with childbirth for which she will constantly hide even from me!! But we accept that as part of life and still like to have fun.. all our veris previous and to date have stated our positive attitude and the fact we are genuine nice people.. my wife is incredibly hot but is the mist pleasant, friendly and generous person i know and i thank my lucky stars everyday that she is my wife and besty, we arent asking to be judged which is clearly what you have done, if thats the case then are you nothing but a massive cock!! "

Here is my point. You two are good looking and get a lot of attention. I'm sure online or offline. You don't need profile advice ....you're the hunted. You don't have to hunt. If it was a newbie or socially arkward person asking for profile advice . I can understand. You guys asking for profile advice is like Richard Branson asking people if he is rich. I'm sorry I hold you to a higher standard. If that's me being a dick sorry. You really don't need more attention.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not hot,or young yet hot people don't intimate me. I have been naked with some very hot men; in fact I had sex with one just a couple of weeks ago "

Show off

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice

No its a genuine post asking fellow fabbers for genuine advice which we have taken whole heartedly, weve never discriminated nor have we "kicked anyone else out bed" why does being "hot" instantly give someone the assumption you are arrogant or you consider yourself more important, neither are the case i can assure you, im bald that itself as a man gives me a massive complex and Mrs has birthed two little ones and has all the glorious stripes that go with childbirth for which she will constantly hide even from me!! But we accept that as part of life and still like to have fun.. all our veris previous and to date have stated our positive attitude and the fact we are genuine nice people.. my wife is incredibly hot but is the mist pleasant, friendly and generous person i know and i thank my lucky stars everyday that she is my wife and besty, we arent asking to be judged which is clearly what you have done, if thats the case then are you nothing but a massive cock!!

Here is my point. You two are good looking and get a lot of attention. I'm sure online or offline. You don't need profile advice ....you're the hunted. You don't have to hunt. If it was a newbie or socially arkward person asking for profile advice . I can understand. You guys asking for profile advice is like Richard Branson asking people if he is rich. I'm sorry I hold you to a higher standard. If that's me being a dick sorry. You really don't need more attention."

Interesting point of view however its an open forum and as.such open to all. Everyone is looking for the opportunity to "do better" and they clearly explained why in their post.

In real life do you tell people who are doing a good job that they dont need feedback, advise or.support

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

I think it's down to the individual/individuals in question and how confident they are within themselves..nuting to do with looks in my opinion as some of the best looking and hot bodied individuals have real confidence issus

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice

No its a genuine post asking fellow fabbers for genuine advice which we have taken whole heartedly, weve never discriminated nor have we "kicked anyone else out bed" why does being "hot" instantly give someone the assumption you are arrogant or you consider yourself more important, neither are the case i can assure you, im bald that itself as a man gives me a massive complex and Mrs has birthed two little ones and has all the glorious stripes that go with childbirth for which she will constantly hide even from me!! But we accept that as part of life and still like to have fun.. all our veris previous and to date have stated our positive attitude and the fact we are genuine nice people.. my wife is incredibly hot but is the mist pleasant, friendly and generous person i know and i thank my lucky stars everyday that she is my wife and besty, we arent asking to be judged which is clearly what you have done, if thats the case then are you nothing but a massive cock!!

Here is my point. You two are good looking and get a lot of attention. I'm sure online or offline. You don't need profile advice ....you're the hunted. You don't have to hunt. If it was a newbie or socially arkward person asking for profile advice . I can understand. You guys asking for profile advice is like Richard Branson asking people if he is rich. I'm sorry I hold you to a higher standard. If that's me being a dick sorry. You really don't need more attention."

Youre missing the point, we ask for advice because we do not want to be percieved in a certain light which we are clearly bound too, its frustrating seeing a profile of someone we consider to be really hot and them feeling intimidated, having to prove you are not that person/s they think you is horrid, and being judged is hurtful.

Having just taken advice from a lovely lady and seeing the barrage of negativity we can but play the cards we have and say , fuck it.. our profile is what it is, our pics are us and we cant/wont change that, we have preferences like all of you do so feel free to look as much as you like and make of it what you will

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the girl say why she felt intimidated?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to those that dont agree

For you guys

Lots of knitter kisses

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice

No its a genuine post asking fellow fabbers for genuine advice which we have taken whole heartedly, weve never discriminated nor have we "kicked anyone else out bed" why does being "hot" instantly give someone the assumption you are arrogant or you consider yourself more important, neither are the case i can assure you, im bald that itself as a man gives me a massive complex and Mrs has birthed two little ones and has all the glorious stripes that go with childbirth for which she will constantly hide even from me!! But we accept that as part of life and still like to have fun.. all our veris previous and to date have stated our positive attitude and the fact we are genuine nice people.. my wife is incredibly hot but is the mist pleasant, friendly and generous person i know and i thank my lucky stars everyday that she is my wife and besty, we arent asking to be judged which is clearly what you have done, if thats the case then are you nothing but a massive cock!!

Here is my point. You two are good looking and get a lot of attention. I'm sure online or offline. You don't need profile advice ....you're the hunted. You don't have to hunt. If it was a newbie or socially arkward person asking for profile advice . I can understand. You guys asking for profile advice is like Richard Branson asking people if he is rich. I'm sorry I hold you to a higher standard. If that's me being a dick sorry. You really don't need more attention.

Youre missing the point, we ask for advice because we do not want to be percieved in a certain light which we are clearly bound too, its frustrating seeing a profile of someone we consider to be really hot and them feeling intimidated, having to prove you are not that person/s they think you is horrid, and being judged is hurtful.

Having just taken advice from a lovely lady and seeing the barrage of negativity we can but play the cards we have and say , fuck it.. our profile is what it is, our pics are us and we cant/wont change that, we have preferences like all of you do so feel free to look as much as you like and make of it what you will

"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

This has to be a joke... Why would anyone be intimidated by a beautiful woman? Ohh I see

This is one of those look at me threads

Ok I'll bite ... You have the hottest woman on fab and you can be extremely picky.

But in 10 years if you're still on the scene, someone else will come along.

And the People's ass's you kicked out of bed now , in 10 years are the same people you will have to kiss their ass to get into bed.

It's nice to be hot and important but it's more important to be nice

No its a genuine post asking fellow fabbers for genuine advice which we have taken whole heartedly, weve never discriminated nor have we "kicked anyone else out bed" why does being "hot" instantly give someone the assumption you are arrogant or you consider yourself more important, neither are the case i can assure you, im bald that itself as a man gives me a massive complex and Mrs has birthed two little ones and has all the glorious stripes that go with childbirth for which she will constantly hide even from me!! But we accept that as part of life and still like to have fun.. all our veris previous and to date have stated our positive attitude and the fact we are genuine nice people.. my wife is incredibly hot but is the mist pleasant, friendly and generous person i know and i thank my lucky stars everyday that she is my wife and besty, we arent asking to be judged which is clearly what you have done, if thats the case then are you nothing but a massive cock!!

Here is my point. You two are good looking and get a lot of attention. I'm sure online or offline. You don't need profile advice ....you're the hunted. You don't have to hunt. If it was a newbie or socially arkward person asking for profile advice . I can understand. You guys asking for profile advice is like Richard Branson asking people if he is rich. I'm sorry I hold you to a higher standard. If that's me being a dick sorry. You really don't need more attention.

Youre missing the point, we ask for advice because we do not want to be percieved in a certain light which we are clearly bound too, its frustrating seeing a profile of someone we consider to be really hot and them feeling intimidated, having to prove you are not that person/s they think you is horrid, and being judged is hurtful.

Having just taken advice from a lovely lady and seeing the barrage of negativity we can but play the cards we have and say , fuck it.. our profile is what it is, our pics are us and we cant/wont change that, we have preferences like all of you do so feel free to look as much as you like and make of it what you will

"

Hey when drive a Ferrari . You can only buy a rolls Royce, Lamborghini, or Bugatti to be in the same field . You're not the problem. Not everyone in the swinging world is a exotic car. You just have drive the BMW's , Audi's , and Mercedes until a exotic car comes around. Your profile is fine

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id ask why she was intimidated. The only thing is the over 40s thing. I doubt its your bodies as lots of other slim people get meets. I think youd fall in plenty of peoples criteria

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And to those that dont agree

For you guys

Lots of knitter kisses "

I just don't get it. The OP asked why someone may have felt a certain way based on their profile and many people answered reasonably and honestly (with lots of compliments and a few dickish comments, both of which are to be expected). Of course it's up to them what their profile looks like. And more power to them. But people can't help being honest about how that profile comes off.

I just don't get how it all turned into an "us vs them" thing. Maybe we shouldn't have answered the original question at all...

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And to those that dont agree

For you guys

Lots of knitter kisses

I just don't get it. The OP asked why someone may have felt a certain way based on their profile and many people answered reasonably and honestly (with lots of compliments and a few dickish comments, both of which are to be expected). Of course it's up to them what their profile looks like. And more power to them. But people can't help being honest about how that profile comes off.

I just don't get how it all turned into an "us vs them" thing. Maybe we shouldn't have answered the original question at all..."

Great point and my and could have been taken out of context as they didnt relate to.a particular comment.

My comments are based more on the feel of the thread. I realise that the OP asked for an opinion but equally feel they have been given a hard time.

I think they are a friendly, funny and kind couple who happen to be really attractive.

I think it is a shame that comments made on the thread made them feel less so. That was my point.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

And to those that dont agree

For you guys

Lots of knitter kisses

I just don't get it. The OP asked why someone may have felt a certain way based on their profile and many people answered reasonably and honestly (with lots of compliments and a few dickish comments, both of which are to be expected). Of course it's up to them what their profile looks like. And more power to them. But people can't help being honest about how that profile comes off.

I just don't get how it all turned into an "us vs them" thing. Maybe we shouldn't have answered the original question at all..."

Agreed, wasnt challenging anyone and having listened and made changes initially we decided to revert, ultimatley we want to meet confident, secure people and its worked for us before and will no doubt continue.

We wont just fuck anything and will remain true to our standards

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read this thread earlier today, your profile adjustment certainly does give a much better impression of you now than originally just by simply binning the word exceptional.

It's human nature to be intimidated by the strongest and most powerful...and i guess in a fab sense you two could be considered in a strong and powerful position because you're both so damn hot.

I'm not intimidated but I would assume I'm not your type and would shy away from contacting you for fear of rejection and confirmation that im not attractive enough, but that would be my issue and not yours.

As long as you're tactful and not hurtful or insulting when you do reject someone then no harm done.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And to those that dont agree

For you guys

Lots of knitter kisses

I just don't get it. The OP asked why someone may have felt a certain way based on their profile and many people answered reasonably and honestly (with lots of compliments and a few dickish comments, both of which are to be expected). Of course it's up to them what their profile looks like. And more power to them. But people can't help being honest about how that profile comes off.

I just don't get how it all turned into an "us vs them" thing. Maybe we shouldn't have answered the original question at all...

Agreed, wasnt challenging anyone and having listened and made changes initially we decided to revert, ultimatley we want to meet confident, secure people and its worked for us before and will no doubt continue.

We wont just fuck anything and will remain true to our standards "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops did I just say that out loud good night

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night "

You did indeed, glad you feel better now you have aired your ignorance, rest easy x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night "

Drops the mic and she's outta there.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night

Drops the mic and she's outta there."

With this face

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night

You did indeed, glad you feel better now you have aired your ignorance, rest easy x "

Oh if only I was ignorant. I see enough of these look at me posts to last a life time. Can't we all just get back to enjoying each other rather than worrying about what we look like. I'm not beautiful in the normal sense of the word but I'm a fun loving friendly girl who cares more about personality than looks and I don't think or I hope I haven't posted anything that puts down others

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night

Drops the mic and she's outta there.

With this face "

Haha never that face more a oops I said what should have been said at first

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night

You did indeed, glad you feel better now you have aired your ignorance, rest easy x

Oh if only I was ignorant. I see enough of these look at me posts to last a life time. Can't we all just get back to enjoying each other rather than worrying about what we look like. I'm not beautiful in the normal sense of the word but I'm a fun loving friendly girl who cares more about personality than looks and I don't think or I hope I haven't posted anything that puts down others "

You might have done...about 12 minutes ago

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops did I just say that out loud good night

You did indeed, glad you feel better now you have aired your ignorance, rest easy x

Oh if only I was ignorant. I see enough of these look at me posts to last a life time. Can't we all just get back to enjoying each other rather than worrying about what we look like. I'm not beautiful in the normal sense of the word but I'm a fun loving friendly girl who cares more about personality than looks and I don't think or I hope I haven't posted anything that puts down others "

Like you I would say Im just a normal girl but i am friendly and i care about the person i respond to. I know you hope not to have been hurtful or mean but maybe tou have just a little

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community "

This is the internet. Don't kid yourself.

And I disagree. People get more credit in my book for facing nastiness and intimidation with stoicism rather than more of the same. No one has the high ground here.

I'm out.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community "

We arent welcome, we are not swingers, we are too hot, arrogant and self important to be part of a community of supposedly like minded people whos opinions we seek and trust and want to share experiences with!!

We will start our own community with black jack and hookers

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knitter is too nice, I think she should post one more of the angry threads again. That one was hell lot of fun to read .

P.S. I don't really think you're too nice, you're a kind soul though .

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community

This is the internet. Don't kid yourself.

And I disagree. People get more credit in my book for facing nastiness and intimidation with stoicism rather than more of the same. No one has the high ground here.

I'm out."

Im all for taking the higher ground, but will not have my wifes dignity and good nature questioned by anyone. Sorry if i offended

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community

We arent welcome, we are not swingers, we are too hot, arrogant and self important to be part of a community of supposedly like minded people whos opinions we seek and trust and want to share experiences with!!

We will start our own community with black jack and hookers "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knitter is too nice, I think she should post one more of the angry threads again. That one was hell lot of fun to read .

P.S. I don't really think you're too nice, you're a kind soul though ."

Be careful

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community

This is the internet. Don't kid yourself.

And I disagree. People get more credit in my book for facing nastiness and intimidation with stoicism rather than more of the same. No one has the high ground here.

I'm out.

Im all for taking the higher ground, but will not have my wifes dignity and good nature questioned by anyone. Sorry if i offended "

Dont apologise

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

If i were you, i would change your profile text back to normal the way you wanted it, eventually you'll find confident women that like you for you, i wouldnt let insecure people tell me how to run my profile.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair there is only so much abuse this couple should have to endure.

I know they subjected themselves to it but just why do people need to rip each other the pieces.

Omg this is supposed to be a community

This is the internet. Don't kid yourself.

And I disagree. People get more credit in my book for facing nastiness and intimidation with stoicism rather than more of the same. No one has the high ground here.

I'm out.

Im all for taking the higher ground, but will not have my wifes dignity and good nature questioned by anyone. Sorry if i offended

Dont apologise "

Despite being uber hot and arrogant i have no intentions of offending, my apology stands

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so whats the outcome

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

If i were you, i would change your profile text back to normal the way you wanted it, eventually you'll find confident women that like you for you, i wouldnt let insecure people tell me how to run my profile."

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like tou guys loads. Have fun.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so whats the outcome "

We are fucked!! Lol

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knitter is too nice, I think she should post one more of the angry threads again. That one was hell lot of fun to read .

P.S. I don't really think you're too nice, you're a kind soul though .

Be careful "

Careful is boring, I like to swim up the stream.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Being objective you are a couple among many hot couples so even you have to woo the unicorns, the hot single female. The terms of the social interaction prior to a meet are with unicorn

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being objective you are a couple among many hot couples so even you have to woo the unicorns, the hot single female. The terms of the social interaction prior to a meet are with unicorn "

Youre brave using the term "unicorn" on fab my friend!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area


"I know what she means! After seeing your gorgeous pics there is no way I'd meet you either "

I was thinking the exact same thing... 3 pictures in and not even getting down to the profile part of it, would have me thinking "Not gonna happen!" right away... That being said your profile seems friendly enough,you both are gorgeous, so I'm assuming it's the smoking hot pix of you and your guy that's do it.

Jlynn

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would raggy doll the two of yous yous would leave thinking yous where just a couple of amateurs

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things here escalated quickly I see

But more to the point .... I would be intimidated for the reasons others have given too .... Ur pics are really hot and I wouldn't feel like I could match that so I wouldn't based on that purely. I assume it's probably the same for this girl...

Take it as a compliment

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"Being objective you are a couple among many hot couples so even you have to woo the unicorns, the hot single female. The terms of the social interaction prior to a meet are with unicorn

Youre brave using the term "unicorn" on fab my friend! "

Or reckless. Sounds like a good topic for another thread. Terms to use or avoid

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Yeah sorry OP but ied have to say iam with her (yes I know your not looking for guys) with out even knowing or talking with you I would avoid you in a club and yes this is me been very judgmentl but I have found in life in clubs and well every where that the hotter some one is the ruder and uglyer they are on the inside maybe that's just down to my own life exspearens also your status dose not help but then again maybe iam just been jelause wishing I could be good looking or have to chance to play with the 'good looking'people anyway best of luck to you I know I have come off as an green eyed cunt and iam sorry for that

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How I see it (fem) you are a good looking couple but that would not intimidate me. Your profile is your own and your personal tastes are your own too. We all have our likes and dislikes when it comes to who we meet and who we won't. At the end of the day until you physically meet some one neither of you really know if you will get on and feel comfortable enough to play together.

By the way, no I do not think I am hot but when I get messages from good looking hot men I feel flattered, not intimidated. When I message people and I / we are not some ones cup of tea then I just move on. This for us is fun not drama. X

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

OP, We wish you well on fab we like your photos and profile, direct and to the point on who you expect to meet.

Asking for advice on here is like marmite love or hate the replys..enjoy ..connie x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She probably just thought you were out of her league. Good luck.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have had women reply to me with lines like; "I think I'll be a disappointment in the flesh", and "you'll be wanting someone more demure than me". Actually, the most attractive quality of any woman to me, and what I look for, is confidence.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

So basically a look at me gone wrong

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not my cup of tea , was almost like you tried to be borderline intimidating and put your self on a pedestal , "good looking , hot , sexy, " all very subjective .

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"So basically a look at me gone wrong "

Kinda,although people looked so did it go wrong?!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not my cup of tea , was almost like you tried to be borderline intimidating and put your self on a pedestal , "good looking , hot , sexy, " all very subjective . "

We did make changes, but reverted back.. why bow to the ironic arrogance of the insecure, we wont be everyones cup of tea, thankfully

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically a look at me gone wrong

Kinda,although people looked so did it go wrong?! "

It absolulety worked, weve had messages from some absolute stunners

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"So basically a look at me gone wrong

Kinda,although people looked so did it go wrong?!

It absolulety worked, weve had messages from some absolute stunners "

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not my cup of tea , was almost like you tried to be borderline intimidating and put your self on a pedestal , "good looking , hot , sexy, " all very subjective .

We did make changes, but reverted back.. why bow to the ironic arrogance of the insecure, we wont be everyones cup of tea, thankfully "

I'm honestly glad it all worked out for you and that you determined to remain yourselves.

Though I will note that the "ironic arrogance of the insecure" was matched punch for punch by the ironic insecurity of the arrogant in posting the thread in the first place.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

...


"Your not my cup of tea , was almost like you tried to be borderline intimidating and put your self on a pedestal , "good looking , hot , sexy, " all very subjective .

We did make changes, but reverted back.. why bow to the ironic arrogance of the insecure, we wont be everyones cup of tea, thankfully

I'm honestly glad it all worked out for you and that you determined to remain yourselves.

Though I will note that the "ironic arrogance of the insecure" was matched punch for punch by the ironic insecurity of the arrogant in posting the thread in the first place. "

Well said you xx

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I also feel intimidated when I meet someone seriously hot - it's my confidence that's the problem generally though.....

However I've had people say they find me intimidating too and I've always was a bit shocked and had to ask why - I've given up though now lol.

People see my hair, hear my laughter and sometimes my sarcasm on cam and assume me as confident as they come and are therefore intimidated. They are often not right, but we all make assumptions on here.

I'd take it as a back handed compliment x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Oh my..... I didn't read all the above before putting my response on - that'll teach me!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arnt trees brilliant

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not my cup of tea , was almost like you tried to be borderline intimidating and put your self on a pedestal , "good looking , hot , sexy, " all very subjective .

We did make changes, but reverted back.. why bow to the ironic arrogance of the insecure, we wont be everyones cup of tea, thankfully

I'm honestly glad it all worked out for you and that you determined to remain yourselves.

Though I will note that the "ironic arrogance of the insecure" was matched punch for punch by the ironic insecurity of the arrogant in posting the thread in the first place. "

It wasnt set out to be an arrogant post at all, but despite the effort to make that clear its very clear old fashion stereotypes still come into play on here, i guess no post in the "community" can be considered genuine, well unless you fit a certain archetype that is, its certainly been interesting if anything

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Arnt trees brilliant "

You're thinking of milk..... The advert was for milk! Tut

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you ask for advice, put the good advice to use by making yourselves appear more approachable, then revert back to the original profile which many have said is intimidating just because a few people have disagreed with you?

You can remain true to yourselves but it doesn't have to be done in such a brutal way. You can simply turn down those not up to standard privately instead of alienating pepole in the first place by appearing arrogant and elitist.

Why ask in the first place? It doesn't make sense.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you ask for advice, put the good advice to use by making yourselves appear more approachable, then revert back to the original profile which many have said is intimidating just because a few people have disagreed with you?

You can remain true to yourselves but it doesn't have to be done in such a brutal way. You can simply turn down those not up to standard privately instead of alienating pepole in the first place by appearing arrogant and elitist.

Why ask in the first place? It doesn't make sense.

"

Because fab is brutal, if we are deemed elite and arrogant then so be it, now we only attract our own kind

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes which you've got in spades op.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you ask for advice, put the good advice to use by making yourselves appear more approachable, then revert back to the original profile which many have said is intimidating just because a few people have disagreed with you?

You can remain true to yourselves but it doesn't have to be done in such a brutal way. You can simply turn down those not up to standard privately instead of alienating pepole in the first place by appearing arrogant and elitist.

Why ask in the first place? It doesn't make sense.

Because fab is brutal, if we are deemed elite and arrogant then so be it, now we only attract our own kind "

But surely that undermines all you posts at the beginning of the thread? Do you truly want to perceived that way or are the latter posts simply bravado?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

Maybe this has already been answered in a previous post in here. But OP - did you ask the lady in question as to why she felt she'd feel intimidated by you guy's? If so, did you find her answer helpful to you or not?

ps 10/10 for sparking of one of the most entertaining threads I've read in a while

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes which you've got in spades op. "

Thanks wikipedia for such a great copy and paste oppurtunity, not a great choice of words considering around 95% of people on fan use there own images to attract admiration of others for sexual gratification, nice try though

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you ask for advice, put the good advice to use by making yourselves appear more approachable, then revert back to the original profile which many have said is intimidating just because a few people have disagreed with you?

You can remain true to yourselves but it doesn't have to be done in such a brutal way. You can simply turn down those not up to standard privately instead of alienating pepole in the first place by appearing arrogant and elitist.

Why ask in the first place? It doesn't make sense.

Because fab is brutal, if we are deemed elite and arrogant then so be it, now we only attract our own kind

But surely that undermines all you posts at the beginning of the thread? Do you truly want to perceived that way or are the latter posts simply bravado?"

of course it undermines our original intention, our intentions have now changed thanks to the group support we have recieved, despite how we want to be perceived people will have their own mindsets which they are entitled too, as are we, its not ideal but its suitable x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

fuck it is it to late for popcorn

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"We recieved a message today from a girl we messaged and she replied along the lines of "she would feel intimidated by us"..

Id like to think our profile is pretty friendly, we have just put all our images on profile for perusal,we are currently seeking bi fems only so to hear from you ladies would be great but all and any feedback greatfully recieved

L&J x

"

To be fair, from what I see, I can buy that.

It's quite common in a superficial game like this.

And it's all a matter of perception.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes which you've got in spades op.

Thanks wikipedia for such a great copy and paste oppurtunity, not a great choice of words considering around 95% of people on fan use there own images to attract admiration of others for sexual gratification, nice try though "
so what! You are just showing your true colours though

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" fuck it is it to late for popcorn "

Im suprised the mods are letting it go on, must be entertaining someone somewhere!

Or probably waiting for a full on retaliation from us so they can ban us.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes which you've got in spades op.

Thanks wikipedia for such a great copy and paste oppurtunity, not a great choice of words considering around 95% of people on fan use there own images to attract admiration of others for sexual gratification, nice try though so what! You are just showing your true colours though "

No we are not, we are working with the palette we have been dealt, if i showed my true colours id get banned

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

Bring more popcorn

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What a nasty place this is sometimes, I can't for the life of me understand why others want to put people down for the hell of it.

This thread maxed out at 178 and it is now 157 after posts removed, shows how much nastier it got.

A word of advice, being nasty/ abusive and posting personal attacks will mean you may not be able to post for a while.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
back to top