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People from the same town

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you play with people from the same town as yourself? I have had a couple of meets but find lots of people find it awkward knowing they could bump into you outside of fab. What are your thoughts and experiences of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid this at all costs...I work and live in the same town so prefer to keep things separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to play in same town but found most I talk to on here aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally fine meeting people in the same town. I have no reason to hide what I do.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much rather not

Much rather keep everything private and simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We e played with loads of swingers from our town and nearby .

Fab and swinging are like fight club , and as long as everyone respects this its all good . You simply don't talk about it outside the scene .

There have been a couple of instances where it's been a bit awkward , like in the supermarket when someone greets us as a long lost friend when we have the little one with us , but overall no problem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to avoid it at all costs. I get recognised because of my hair as it is!

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester

So if you bump into them by accident, you'll both know the same secret. Who are they going to tell?

It's not likely that they will turn around and shout, "Hey, I met these people whilst I was at a swingers' club last week."

Or, "These guys are dogging friends of mine."

Is it?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I live in a small town and there is no way I would meet anyone from here. Everyone seems to know someone who knows someone. Know what I mean

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By *enuinedannyMan
over a year ago

walsall

I would play with people in the same town made gd freinds doing that in the past if you recognise me feel free to say hello.

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

I have bumped into 3 previous meets locally...........

One girl in MacDonalds, she was in the queue right behind me with her kids and boyfriend,

One walked straight past me in the town centre market.

And another sitting at the next table in Weatherspoons with her husband.

On all 3 occasions I was totally discreet, ignored them completely, and disappeared before any embarrassment could occur.

Swinging is private, and should be kept so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I live in a small town, in a small county .. most people here give their location as somewhere else ..

If I trust someone enough to be intimate with them, I trust them not to comment on this while out shopping

Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you bump into them by accident, you'll both know the same secret. Who are they going to tell?

It's not likely that they will turn around and shout, "Hey, I met these people whilst I was at a swingers' club last week."

Or, "These guys are dogging friends of mine."

Is it?"

When you see them and they are with their wife, and they are looking at you grinning over the fruit and veg in the supermarket, its not good!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't meet anyone within 20 miles of the small town I live near. Life is better without complications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have no issue with meeting people from the same town! I like the fight club analogy and totally agree with it!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London


"We e played with loads of swingers from our town and nearby .

Fab and swinging are like fight club , and as long as everyone respects this its all good . You simply don't talk about it outside the scene .

There have been a couple of instances where it's been a bit awkward , like in the supermarket when someone greets us as a long lost friend when we have the little one with us , but overall no problem ."

Bang on this... Everyone has secret lives, don't expect to meet the same person in the street...

It's the same for any walk of life, you don't treat your family like your work colleagues...

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire


"So if you bump into them by accident, you'll both know the same secret. Who are they going to tell?

It's not likely that they will turn around and shout, "Hey, I met these people whilst I was at a swingers' club last week."

Or, "These guys are dogging friends of mine."

Is it?"

This, if I wasn't happy that someone was discreet I wouldn't mention them so no problem for me.

I've also seen fabs pics of Fab users who live very near me and have never seen them around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm totally fine meeting people in the same town. I have no reason to hide what I do."
this

ive actually met a couple of my neighbours off here too lol no problems at all

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

.. .. no need to speak out of fab

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We went to a social in Birmingham and in the pub bumped into people we know in 'real' life. Distance isnt always a good measure of discretion

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy from our village turned up at Libs. Too close to home but would like to fuck him ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much rather not

Much rather keep everything private and simple "
we feel the same!

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire


"A guy from our village turned up at Libs. Too close to home but would like to fuck him ..."

Luckily enough for you I'm a little further away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy from our village turned up at Libs. Too close to home but would like to fuck him ...

Luckily enough for you I'm a little further away "

You don't know where we live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of you play with people from the same town as yourself? I have had a couple of meets but find lots of people find it awkward knowing they could bump into you outside of fab. What are your thoughts and experiences of this?"

Not really fussed where they live just

so long as they actually turn up when invited.Gail has bumped into and fucked

old boyfriends of hers who still live in the area.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I think it's different for everyone..I personally have done it and still do. I see the persons in question quite a lot and I'd say we're friends of sorts. Long as they don't start reeling off meets and inappropriate conversations then I'm okay with..but most would probably prefer to keep the two very separate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet local and non local people from this site. Its a real shame that we cannot be as open as other nations and be accepted for what we like sexually. I dont think I want my work colleagues knowing but what is the worse that can happen? My daughter and sister know I use this site and they are fine with it. So I dont really care what anyone else thinks.

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

Have no problem with it I have my private life and my swinging life

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I have never understood why people get so hung up on meeting locals - I've met someone who lived literally around the corner - very convenient! :D :D I think most people are generally grown up about it all, in my experience. I've bumped into people in the supermarket, at TumbleTots with my youngest, in town shopping.... you say 'hi' and walk on by, as if it was anyone else you know casually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered too much. If a regular trusted meet then local is OK. If it's a one off very naughty meet like a mmmf then out the area. Don't like to get a rep for being the local bike lol

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Not much chance of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same town is fine, we aren't going to shout out we are met this person or that on a swingers site. We would always ask if we would acknowledge or ignore them if seen out then its sorted

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By *edkent69Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Wouldn't bother me...chance would be a fine thing though lol

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