FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers parties

By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow

Just a bit of a random thought

I have been doing club scene for years and hotel meets on and off

I was wondering by the party scene. I have been to maybe 2 parties, 1 of which was a black mans fan club

Anyway I was wondering how do people choose who to invite to a party. Is it friends, or couples they would like to play but hope to play with at party, is there a subset of swingers that only do parties but nothing else, is it rude to ask to come a long to a party

I suppose I have a few questions. More but just wanted to understand a bit better

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I got invited to a swingers party a few weeks back. My first 'proper' one that matches my thinking of what swinging was about. It was excellent. a very memorable experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there Jen here. We've just had a party last weekend. Our list was NOT based on people that we would like to play with. It was our friends in the scene, people that we had met and chatted to, people who had contacted us and we got a "good vibe" from, and people who we thought would enjoy the mix of people there and fit in...hope that helps..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we get random invites, but I'd say most of our party invites were because they knew someone who we verified/who verified us. Mutual friends would be how most of our invites come about.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I got invited to a swingers party a few weeks back. My first 'proper' one that matches my thinking of what swinging was about. It was excellent. a very memorable experience. "

we had all met at least one other person at the party except for one guy who met the criteria on a 'meet now' advert, the lucky devil!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

On my swinger wish list to get an invite. Hopefully soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got invited to a "cuckold" party once. I asked what do I get out of it? "You get to sit in a room with the other cucks while we have fun with your wife" i was told. We didn't go.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been to quite a few parties over the yrs but sadly there does not seem to be many ppl holding private parties now

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By *ikeC81 OP Man
over a year ago

harrow

"been to quite a few parties over the yrs but sadly there does not seem to be many ppl holding private parties now

That's what I thought - appeared to be on the decline, or is Taft because I haven't been invited

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Friends or friends of friends, we never invite complete strangers.

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Sunny Manchester

Never been to party! Only been invited to one but I was poorly and couldn't make it. Something I would like to try with the right set of people x

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

"We got invited to a "cuckold" party once. I asked what do I get out of it? "You get to sit in a room with the other cucks while we have fun with your wife" i was told. We didn't go.....

Yeah....to each his own, but if Cuckolding isn't your thing, there is absolutely NO APPEAL to it whatsoever! A Cuckold party would basically be a couple of hours in Hell for me.

Granted, I am a master of stating the obvious. People who cannot stand the taste of Brussel sprouts probably aren't going to eat any Brussel sprouts.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parties can be a lot of fun!

Me and a girlfriend like hosting small gatherings with select guys, some who we know and some new surprises. With careful choosing of who we think will get on well with other guests, it's always a good night.

I do love a club night tho

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've only been to one and it was bad. Like how you imagine it used to be perhaps in the 70's!!!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to go to a friends parties years ago, no one seems to have them at home anymore, shame as I prefered them to clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not been to a party yet but certainly on our to do list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been invited to two know, first one was by a couple we didn't know, it was great and we met some really lovely couples, and broadened our network when we were new to swinging. Second one was from friends we have known for a while and again it was a great night with a lot of laughs, and we met new people that we would like to meet again.

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

The wife and I have went to a couple, and they were pretty nice. Generally, they are smaller, a little friendlier, and less intimidating than a Club can sometimes be.

The last one we went to, I actually met a girl almost 20 years my junior who, believe it or not, was attracted to somewhat shy, nerdy types like me!

On top of that, she and my wife were very attracted to each other.

We fully intended to act on that, but you know how it is....Life winds up getting in the way.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hold small partys and only invite friends or friends of friends

Always been great events and are non clicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We quite often get invited to parties...no interest in them whatsoever though

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

First swing experience wad a party invite. All friendly until got there and then just got abandoned by the cliques. Second one encouraged me to continue was great night. Never get invites these days go to club instead

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

When we first started swinging our first experience was a party and never looked back as the social side was great fun along with the sex, never had a private meet or been to a club! just no need as every weekend we can go to a couple of parties but age is catching up

As for inviting people maybe it`s down to who you know or veri`s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have occasionally hosted parties, we invite people we get on socially with, even if we don't want to play with them someone else we know might, or people other friends have recommended, we invite a mix of couples and singles, we will be hosting more again once we have moved house. But we find it is hard to get new people to the group to come even when they say they will and if you get no shows it can mess up the numbers alot if you invite say 10 couples and only 5 show its half the party gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranging house parties unfortunately is a mine field in the past i have invited double the amount i need as you know people will cancel. but small house parties are great. My self and a friend on here John hold in Ascot and we normally like around 6-8

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