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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you don't specify that you are attracted to black guys in your profile am I to assume you do or don't ?

I find that a lot of woman say no BBC and some say BBC only but what about the ones that have nothing.

I've tried trial and error but it just seems to be error lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you don't ask, you won't know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that you describe as 'error' are they replying and saying not interested specifically because you are BBC?

I for example have no preference either way but am turned off by some of the messages from guys simply introducing themselves by labels. You're a person first and foremost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'm attracted to the person attached to the cock rather than the cock. Be that white, black, purple, blue (my favourite colour strapons lol).

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By *thicalslutx69Couple
over a year ago

lincoln

As long as the person or people in the profile you are looking at state they are looking for a male there should be no reason to assume they wouldn't want to meet you before you have any contact with them.

The worse that should happen is they would say no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never state what I don't want, it seems negative but if you message and get no reply then assume they're not interested.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I would assume that those with no specification have no preference towards a skin colour. The verifications are sometimes a give away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that you describe as 'error' are they replying and saying not interested specifically because you are BBC?

I for example have no preference either way but am turned off by some of the messages from guys simply introducing themselves by labels. You're a person first and foremost "
i just cant believe your from winterfell lol something other than winter is cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that you describe as 'error' are they replying and saying not interested specifically because you are BBC?

I for example have no preference either way but am turned off by some of the messages from guys simply introducing themselves by labels. You're a person first and foremost "

This exactly. If you're messaging people calling yourself BBC maybe the label puts people off. Why not write simple, friendly, maybe even humorous messages? Then they'll be intrigued & look at your profile & notice that you have a BBC. I think it's pretty obvious from your profile, you can trust people to notice.

Mr J

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Would you really want to meet someone who only wants you because of the colour of your cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have preferences written which means I'm open minded to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have preferences written which means I'm open minded to all. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't base my attraction on a person's skin colour. Yet if someone made the main selling point on the fact that they have a cock of a different colour I probably wouldn't be attracted to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot are probably put off by your bareback photos rather than your bbc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the thing, I get so many black guys messaging, "are you into black guys?" I'm in to all guys I find attractive.. I'm not going to fuck you just because you're black, white, Asian....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot are probably put off by your bareback photos rather than your bbc "

I have no bareback photos so this would be false

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all don't look safe to me but whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a bit off-putting when someone messages asking if I'm into BBC or Asian or whatever. I'm not into any race or nationality so I can only tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They all don't look safe to me but whatever "

Are you talking about the cock licking photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They all don't look safe to me but whatever

Are you talking about the cock licking photos? "
no the one that looks like it's about to enter with no condom on !!!! Tbh I think action shots tend to lack a little class on a profile just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you really want to meet someone who only wants you because of the colour of your cock?"
i definatly dont.... and wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They all don't look safe to me but whatever

Are you talking about the cock licking photos? no the one that looks like it's about to enter with no condom on !!!! Tbh I think action shots tend to lack a little class on a profile just an opinion "

There isn't one of that description and everyone has their own definition of what is classy.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I am always attracted by the person, within specific requirements. I do think it is problematic if you define yourself as such, but then it depends if you are looking for those who see BBC as a curiosity, rather than a preference. As a previous poster said, it is quite obvious what you have ... perhaps not so obvious who you are.

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