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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol women really are from Venus and men from mars x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Did you not know men.cant say no.to.women.on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only women are allowed to say "NO"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

apparently not??

if id fucked and gone id have been a twat... the fact i haven't im a bigger twat lol. either way it appears im a twat ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"apparently not??

if id fucked and gone id have been a twat... the fact i haven't im a bigger twat lol. either way it appears im a twat ??"

Accept it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you say she'd fucked too many people and that's why she wasn't for you?

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

You say you said "exactly that she wasn't for me".

Was that the actual text you put?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no not at all. im non judgemental. my exact words were that i enjoyed our chat but id decided not to meet as she wasn't for me. wished her luck and happy to chinwag if that's what she wants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

great escape springs to mind. i might have come home to find my kids rabbit on the hob lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"apparently not??

if id fucked and gone id have been a twat... the fact i haven't im a bigger twat lol. either way it appears im a twat ??"

Well you are a man therefore a twat (kidding)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty for clearing that up holly lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut. "

Why arrange a meet, then decide she's not for you? Just curious? Surely you would decide if someone was for you before you arrange to meet?? Or am I being too logical here???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"apparently not??

if id fucked and gone id have been a twat... the fact i haven't im a bigger twat lol. either way it appears im a twat ??"

you do know being a man on here makes you a twat by default seriously just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"apparently not??

if id fucked and gone id have been a twat... the fact i haven't im a bigger twat lol. either way it appears im a twat ??you do know being a man on here makes you a twat by default seriously just move on"

ty lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid "

Thats why exchanging photos early on is a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what you're saying is that you have a free Thursday night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut.

Why arrange a meet, then decide she's not for you? Just curious? Surely you would decide if someone was for you before you arrange to meet?? Or am I being too logical here??? "

Can't we change our minds?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut.

Why arrange a meet, then decide she's not for you? Just curious? Surely you would decide if someone was for you before you arrange to meet?? Or am I being too logical here??? "

People can be very different in pictures to what they are in real life or maybe they didn't really click when they chatted on cam

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what you're saying is that you have a free Thursday night.... "

lol morning but only for the ladies young man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut.

Why arrange a meet, then decide she's not for you? Just curious? Surely you would decide if someone was for you before you arrange to meet?? Or am I being too logical here???

People can be very different in pictures to what they are in real life or maybe they didn't really click when they chatted on cam"

correct x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well, she sounds a bit paranoid. at least you told her she wasn't for you and didn't just go silent on her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh well, she sounds a bit paranoid. at least you told her she wasn't for you and didn't just go silent on her. "

lol wish i hadn't bothered tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh well, she sounds a bit paranoid. at least you told her she wasn't for you and didn't just go silent on her.

lol wish i hadn't bothered tbh x"

now you know why us women don't.

have you blocked her? i would do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh never mind op. At least you were polite xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut.

Why arrange a meet, then decide she's not for you? Just curious? Surely you would decide if someone was for you before you arrange to meet?? Or am I being too logical here???

Can't we change our minds? "

No you can't... Only women can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"spoke to a lass last night on Skype before our arranged meet Thursday and decided not for me. messaged this morning and thanked her wished her well and said exactly that she wasn't for me. apparently im accusing her of being a slag. eh? talk about reading something wrong. women tut.

Why arrange a meet, then decide she's not for you? Just curious? Surely you would decide if someone was for you before you arrange to meet?? Or am I being too logical here???

People can be very different in pictures to what they are in real life or maybe they didn't really click when they chatted on cam"

Oh god yea I totally get that but I'd chat on cam or meet socially, see pics before I even thought about arranging to meet for sex! Maybe that's just me

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

It's 3 yeses from me lol

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Anyone can back out at any time and without having to give anyone a reason or justify themselves. You were polite and honest, hold your head high and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid "

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone can back out at any time and without having to give anyone a reason or justify themselves. You were polite and honest, hold your head high and move on."

tyx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk .... "

wow... its a good thing that your so knowledgeable.... i mean im sure your always correct... tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh never mind op. At least you were polite xxx"

ty x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh well, she sounds a bit paranoid. at least you told her she wasn't for you and didn't just go silent on her.

lol wish i hadn't bothered tbh x

now you know why us women don't.

have you blocked her? i would do that."

blocked.. actually at her request...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"apparently not??

if id fucked and gone id have been a twat... the fact i haven't im a bigger twat lol. either way it appears im a twat ??"

I got called a whore once because I wouldn't fuck a guy. Huh?!?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh well, she sounds a bit paranoid. at least you told her she wasn't for you and didn't just go silent on her.

lol wish i hadn't bothered tbh x

now you know why us women don't.

have you blocked her? i would do that.

blocked.. actually at her request... "

Why couldn't she block you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk .... "

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh well, she sounds a bit paranoid. at least you told her she wasn't for you and didn't just go silent on her.

lol wish i hadn't bothered tbh x

now you know why us women don't.

have you blocked her? i would do that.

blocked.. actually at her request...

Why couldn't she block you? "

maybe its that game women like to play??? dare or double dare lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam."

how do u know we didn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats okay, my name is being bantered around as messaging other peoples FB's and fishing to find out information about them....

...because I truly do care what people get up to in their lives

But its okay; I have a full message exchange saved, come and read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam.

how do u know we didn't? "

I was just commenting on generally. There are many who just want to go straight to arranging a meet before a few simple questions regarding whether the meeting would be a suitable mutually compatible affair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam.

how do u know we didn't?

I was just commenting on generally. There are many who just want to go straight to arranging a meet before a few simple questions regarding whether the meeting would be a suitable mutually compatible affair."

we were compatible.. on kik... not Skype lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam.

how do u know we didn't?

I was just commenting on generally. There are many who just want to go straight to arranging a meet before a few simple questions regarding whether the meeting would be a suitable mutually compatible affair."

Well at least he didn't call you a tit !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam.

how do u know we didn't?

I was just commenting on generally. There are many who just want to go straight to arranging a meet before a few simple questions regarding whether the meeting would be a suitable mutually compatible affair.

Well at least he didn't call you a tit !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

wow... its a good thing that your so knowledgeable.... i mean im sure your always correct... tits "

So let me try to understand the scenario ... You and the lady have chats on kik , no doubt establishing who's gonna do what when you meet . A bit of flirting , banter , establishing a connection . Then you arrange a meet , all good .....except one or both of you realise you haven't seen each other yet .

Oops .... So Skype ... And you don't like the look of her !

So after all the chat , flirting and banter you tell her she's not your type . Crash , bang and down to earth .

So yes , we would have seen a potential meet before chatting and arranging a meet . And that in our mind makes us correct .... And certainly not tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

it's amazing how many people want to arrange a meet without even discussing interests, if mutually compatible etc let alone photos or chatting on cam."

if you only want a vanilla fuck it's pretty easy not to chat about what you want really. i used to work like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

wow... its a good thing that your so knowledgeable.... i mean im sure your always correct... tits

So let me try to understand the scenario ... You and the lady have chats on kik , no doubt establishing who's gonna do what when you meet . A bit of flirting , banter , establishing a connection . Then you arrange a meet , all good .....except one or both of you realise you haven't seen each other yet .

Oops .... So Skype ... And you don't like the look of her !

So after all the chat , flirting and banter you tell her she's not your type . Crash , bang and down to earth .

So yes , we would have seen a potential meet before chatting and arranging a meet . And that in our mind makes us correct .... And certainly not tits "

I agree, sorry, just would never arrange to meet without knowing I was attracted to someone first, if that makes me a tit too then I'm ok with that lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Anyone can back out at any time and without having to give anyone a reason or justify themselves. You were polite and honest, hold your head high and move on."

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"been speaking for while on kik and got on really well. just wasn't attracted when i actually saw her I'm afraid

It's quite unbelievable that anyone would arrange a meet before seeing them ..... but then again there's nowt so strange as folk ....

wow... its a good thing that your so knowledgeable.... i mean im sure your always correct... tits "

I agree with her. Why on earth would you agree to meet without seeing her.

Also tits.... ????

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