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Newbie, no confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a newbie and not a confident one either I'm struggling to find woman that want to meet or are even willing to chat, is it my profile or the fact that I am shy and I'm a guy? as I see a lot of woman want a man who's confident. I am confident in the bedroom department just the initial meets and breaking the ice, how do I get over this or are there woman who like a shy pup to teach or take advantage of?

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

From reading your profile you seem like a decent bloke. I guess the key is persistence. It'll happen.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Can't be that shy op you've had meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only the one and I was still very shy whilst there it just gassed as the time went by I guess but still very shy with new people and meeting new people just seems every person I message doesn't want to know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the magic world of fab.

where women are 10 and men 100. Big competition, to many men on offer and it takes time. Don't be "pushy" and in general avoid cock photos (we all have one).

As you start building a social network and get some verification the rest will follow.

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By *tu1111Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm the same have no confidence was on the scene for little bit bit gave up as am quite self conscientious about the way I look and no one would give any verifications.

But have decided to give it another go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll stick with it see where the road of fab takes me, I think woman on here can be quite superficial in terms of looks and sizes, I've not had any complaints and been told I'm a genuine nice guy who knows how to treat a lady blah blah but obviously a woman would need to chance it to find out and I don't think woman on here are willing to give chances well that's how it feels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time to build up a social circle. Try going to the club socials and meeting a few folks . You only get out what you put in give it time and good luck

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Welcome to the magic world of fab.

where women are 10 and men 100. Big competition, to many men on offer and it takes time. Don't be "pushy" and in general avoid cock photos (we all have one).

As you start building a social network and get some verification the rest will follow."

And 5 of that 10 are men pretending to be women

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

What you really want is no chatting or social just straight down to sex !

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me I always chat a bit - it helps with the nerves

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Arrogance and bravado are to be avoided, Confidence on the other hand is very powerful both in a social and sexual setting.

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