FabSwingers.com forum: genuine reply

By *oeblack1 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I cannot understand why do some members delete your message when you are being genuine and nice it is a shame and a little unfair I think

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Its the way it here mate. We send a message to people then we have no say if they respond or delete messages, no matter how sincere or polite you may come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But some of those women get dozens of messages saying similar things. Do you expect them to read every message and probably get dragged into conversations through it? Not enough hours in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple for every single genuine nice message, we get 20/30 fancy a fuck type messages and I assume its worse for single ladies. Short answer, most probably get so sick of the constant messages that we dont know genuine from bullshit anymore, giving you guys less chance. X

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Like others have said op,some women and couples get so many messages a day they don't have time to reply to the ones that don't interest them.Plus saying no thanks can often lead to more messages asking why etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you got 500 messages a day would you reply to them all...just be hard skinned, bite your tongue and one day someone will say "fancy a shag cocka"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh someone complaining about people been ignorant today when I checked there profile I sent them a message never replied lol

welcome to the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But some of those women get dozens of messages saying similar things. Do you expect them to read every message and probably get dragged into conversations through it? Not enough hours in the day."

Need to understand this OP...or you'll get chewed up in here. If she likes what she sees she'll reply..if not draw a line n move on. Just try not to take it too personally. ( message sent Ruby..

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I jest!

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By *oeblack1 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

no not at all but I am sure people can distinguish the good from the bad

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By *oeblack1 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

oh well I am one of the good guys i'll just keep at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no not at all but I am sure people can distinguish the good from the bad"

if people check a profile before opening a message,the profile itself may have something they don't like, or just have very little information on it, so no, its not always possible to tell the 'good' from the 'bad'.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not really unfair. nobody is obliged to reply to your messages on here no matter how nice or genuine you feel you are.

we're here for what we want as well as you are, we might not want to reply to anyone we are not interested in and that's ok.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"no not at all but I am sure people can distinguish the good from the bad"

You saying you're the only good one and everyone one else is bad

You obviously do not appear to match what they are looking, profile very basic easy to move on from.

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