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"And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others." Isn't this swinging? | |||
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"And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. Isn't this swinging?" I don't see it as such. I see this as having sex in front of others. I see swinging as having sex with others together | |||
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"And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. Isn't this swinging? I don't see it as such. I see this as having sex in front of others. I see swinging as having sex with others together " Most would consider that swinging. Perhaps your expectations are so very different to the reality. | |||
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"Isn't what you've described just one aspect of many, many different ways to play under the 'swinging' umbrella? Swinging has many facets, find the nights you're looking for in any given club, pretty sure most needs are catered for, no?" Yes I completely agree. That's what I'm asking. All the clubs I've been to have been about watching the act of sex rather than sharing the act of sex. I was asking if anyone knows clubs where sharing the act of sex is more prevalent. Mainly because I don't have a voyeuristic bone in my body. I want to feel rather than see | |||
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"And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. Isn't this swinging? I don't see it as such. I see this as having sex in front of others. I see swinging as having sex with others together Most would consider that swinging. Perhaps your expectations are so very different to the reality. " Maybe you're right. that's why I'm asking what people opinion of clubs are | |||
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"Maybe the times have changed, a lot is social in some clubs these days. Some have already arranged meets off here etc but there still seems to be swinging going on just a bit more talking and less action." That's been my experience or clubs. Parties I find are more about "my idea" of swinging | |||
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"And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. Isn't this swinging? I don't see it as such. I see this as having sex in front of others. I see swinging as having sex with others together Most would consider that swinging. Perhaps your expectations are so very different to the reality. Maybe you're right. that's why I'm asking what people opinion of clubs are " I thought you asked for clubs that are more about swinging... ? | |||
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"Maybe the times have changed, a lot is social in some clubs these days. Some have already arranged meets off here etc but there still seems to be swinging going on just a bit more talking and less action. That's been my experience or clubs. Parties I find are more about "my idea" of swinging " I think some people have a distorted view when going to clubs assuming shagging will be going on everywhere. A lot like the social aspect and meets friends regularly but I can see how that can look cliquey to newbies to a club. Depends on who goes aswell some are players some are more talkers. | |||
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"And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. Isn't this swinging? I don't see it as such. I see this as having sex in front of others. I see swinging as having sex with others together Most would consider that swinging. Perhaps your expectations are so very different to the reality. Maybe you're right. that's why I'm asking what people opinion of clubs are I thought you asked for clubs that are more about swinging... ?" Yes but I did explain my view on swinging. So I asked if there were clubs that were more about the playing together | |||
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"Maybe the times have changed, a lot is social in some clubs these days. Some have already arranged meets off here etc but there still seems to be swinging going on just a bit more talking and less action. That's been my experience or clubs. Parties I find are more about "my idea" of swinging I think some people have a distorted view when going to clubs assuming shagging will be going on everywhere. A lot like the social aspect and meets friends regularly but I can see how that can look cliquey to newbies to a club. Depends on who goes aswell some are players some are more talkers." Yes I can see that. There's always sex going on but not much sharing. Maybe I need to embrace watching more lol | |||
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"I've been to a few different swingers clubs and I'm starting to form an opinion that maybe they're not really swinging clubs. In my head swinging clubs are for sharing each other with others and enjoying what others can add to the fun (basic description) What I actually see (in the main) is lots of couples that all know each other chatting. And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. But I rarely see much swinging Does anyone find certain clubs are more about swinging ? Maybe I've not been to the right one yet " We agree with you , and stopped going to clubs some time ago for the reasons you have given . We see swinging as engaging in sexual play with like minded people . There are less and less people like this using clubs now . The principle of going to a swinging club to chat with friends all night is lost on us . We can do that in a pub . However there are clubs which still have the playing ethos , like Chams in Darlaston , it's just a bit too far for us to travel to . | |||
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"I've been to a few different swingers clubs and I'm starting to form an opinion that maybe they're not really swinging clubs. In my head swinging clubs are for sharing each other with others and enjoying what others can add to the fun (basic description) What I actually see (in the main) is lots of couples that all know each other chatting. And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. But I rarely see much swinging Does anyone find certain clubs are more about swinging ? Maybe I've not been to the right one yet We agree with you , and stopped going to clubs some time ago for the reasons you have given . We see swinging as engaging in sexual play with like minded people . There are less and less people like this using clubs now . The principle of going to a swinging club to chat with friends all night is lost on us . We can do that in a pub . However there are clubs which still have the playing ethos , like Chams in Darlaston , it's just a bit too far for us to travel to . " Thank you. Never been to that one as a little far. But a weekend away is always good fun | |||
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"I've been to a few different swingers clubs and I'm starting to form an opinion that maybe they're not really swinging clubs. In my head swinging clubs are for sharing each other with others and enjoying what others can add to the fun (basic description) What I actually see (in the main) is lots of couples that all know each other chatting. And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. But I rarely see much swinging Does anyone find certain clubs are more about swinging ? Maybe I've not been to the right one yet We agree with you , and stopped going to clubs some time ago for the reasons you have given . We see swinging as engaging in sexual play with like minded people . There are less and less people like this using clubs now . The principle of going to a swinging club to chat with friends all night is lost on us . We can do that in a pub . However there are clubs which still have the playing ethos , like Chams in Darlaston , it's just a bit too far for us to travel to . Thank you. Never been to that one as a little far. But a weekend away is always good fun " There is less and less play and lots more talk all over the scene.. don't get me wrong the social side is great but come on people a little less talk and more action please! Btw we agree pares are better than clubs by a mile. Most clubs are just cash cows these days most of the ones near us are anyway! | |||
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"Hmmmmm Interesting thought from op I can see your PoV,but I would disagree. As a single swinger who goes and has sex with other people, I consider them swingers clubs Yes people chat, dance, have a drink but every club been to people have swung everytime I have been there. Sometimes I meet people there that I have spoken to on fab, sometimes will meet people in club and play " Ok these clubs seem more what I'm looking for. I'm presuming they're all down south?? | |||
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"I've been to a few different swingers clubs and I'm starting to form an opinion that maybe they're not really swinging clubs. In my head swinging clubs are for sharing each other with others and enjoying what others can add to the fun (basic description) What I actually see (in the main) is lots of couples that all know each other chatting. And if they do play they play as a couple being watched or in the same room as others. But I rarely see much swinging Does anyone find certain clubs are more about swinging ? Maybe I've not been to the right one yet We agree with you , and stopped going to clubs some time ago for the reasons you have given . We see swinging as engaging in sexual play with like minded people . There are less and less people like this using clubs now . The principle of going to a swinging club to chat with friends all night is lost on us . We can do that in a pub . However there are clubs which still have the playing ethos , like Chams in Darlaston , it's just a bit too far for us to travel to . Thank you. Never been to that one as a little far. But a weekend away is always good fun There is less and less play and lots more talk all over the scene.. don't get me wrong the social side is great but come on people a little less talk and more action please! Btw we agree pares are better than clubs by a mile. Most clubs are just cash cows these days most of the ones near us are anyway!" I also love the social side like yourselves. Just like sharing too | |||
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