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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are some really good ones on here, do guys look at the pics first then read the profile or in some cases never read it. Which pics are the best, raunchy, flirty, or full on? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a profile and pics that leave a bit to the imagination. A positive profile attracts nice people. Plus all filters on ,think that works out well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics are really good - but bad pics that are blurry and 50 of the same arse tend to put us off - more than one line and not an essay - people say they like ours and it works for us - but its your own and do with it what you want

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I like a profile where it shows a little thought has been given to it. Be it witty or serious .. but just something that catches the attention.

Pictures for me again a bit more artistic. Anything that shows a hairy cock has me reaching for a bucket

I don't know the fascination with guys keeping their socks on... that's another thing to get a tick in the "no" box.

I look around the picture as well lol... amazing what people leave in plain sight!

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria


"I like a profile where it shows a little thought has been given to it. Be it witty or serious .. but just something that catches the attention.

Pictures for me again a bit more artistic. Anything that shows a hairy cock has me reaching for a bucket

I don't know the fascination with guys keeping their socks on... that's another thing to get a tick in the "no" box.

I look around the picture as well lol... amazing what people leave in plain sight! "

Thats very true some peoples houses look like they've been burgled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some really good ones on here, do guys look at the pics first then read the profile or in some cases never read it. Which pics are the best, raunchy, flirty, or full on? xx "

I read first. Quite often find not a match from text alone. Still might fab a few pics though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like someone said there avatar pic to get some interest, and then a nice honest profile

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

We always read profiles good and bad trying to get an insight into how they tic

Pic's are good also lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing I look at is if i am inside their age requirements, then if I am really interested I will go on and read the profile taking in their list of likes, look to see if they are verified, making sure they are not cam only veris, then their photos.

If I am not inside their age range, I may just look at their photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like pics first, verifications, then text. The first message is normally short so need to find out something from the profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like pics first, verifications, then text. The first message is normally short so need to find out something from the profile x"

I got told to update my bio make it more joyful spent hours on it to make it funny only to get less or no replies, people judge on appearance alone, it's shallow but I'm sure everyone does it, you will always get mixed reviews on profiles but the ones who are popular won't need one to someone who gets nobody and it's there only hope but to spruce there profile so I don't think the order matters it's the person that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a profile and pics that leave a bit to the imagination. A positive profile attracts nice people. Plus all filters on ,think that works out well . "

Totally agree. Leave a little to the imagination. Maybe I'm jus weird but like most women with cock pics I don't see the attraction of a gaping hole looking out at me...at first anyway! Let me work a bit for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are always the main attraction, it's what makes me check out the profile. But there has to be some content on the profile to capture me and to interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics are really good - but bad pics that are blurry and 50 of the same arse tend to put us off - more than one line and not an essay - people say they like ours and it works for us - but its your own and do with it what you want "

It's a careful balancing act I think, not too short, not too long, pics just enough to whet the appetite. You've got the balance right I think and it's the approach I try to take too!

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Id look at the avatar picture first, then age requirements, glance at pictures, see if verified, if a site supporter, only then will I read the written profile. Pictures alone and little text may be enough for a man to respond to a woman and too much text could go unread.

I expect women have totally different criterior when looking for men. I dont yet fully understand women but I keep plodding on trying!

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