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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love it when he surprises me with arranged meets with older men. I know I'm clocking on a bit but there really is something very horny about being taken by a much older man that fully appreciates a woman's body. They know how to talk to me and also seem to appreciate the whole situation more.

Hoping to find a suitable man for today. Well it is bonk holiday after all xx

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

You are right in a lot of what you say about much older male. We have learned that your needs and wants cum first. Ok you know your get the attention to your own personal needs, whatever they are. Long ago, we lost inhibitions, so not shocked by anything, just give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

most of my worst meets have been with older or old men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly true of my experiences. I've met several guys over 50 and they've been far more in tune with what I /we want.

The occasional weakness of meeting a younger guy has bitten me on the bum - and not in good way.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience."

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience."

I agree.

Men like women are individuals and the number of years they've been alive is no indicator of their ability to please a partner sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are. "

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things?

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

I have found the older I get the more open I am to try something new. It's also about effort I think, I realise I'm not the rampant 20 something I once was and the old passion pole is not springing to attention with expectation merely at a smile from a prety girl. Now I like to take my time and discover what the lady likes. Those little buttons are fun to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see that the OP likes the older man and has been lucky enough to find (or been found ) a selection of older gentlemen that have been spot on for her. Good work and well done.

It's all about people though, at the end of the day. Doesn't matter, really, how old you are or even how experienced you are. You can still be very good if inexperienced (maybe because you are sensitive or can read people and understand what they want) and you can be a complete arsehole even with years of extensive experience (maybe because you don't listen or can't read people very well or are just concerned about satisfying yourself). The key thing is to enjoy the good ones and treasure the pleasure.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things?"

Are saying that people in their 40s & 50s did,nt experiment when they were in their 20s I think you,ll find most people did, it was called the swinging 60s for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over here,over here ( waves frantically)

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things?

Are saying that people in their 40s & 50s did,nt experiment when they were in their 20s I think you,ll find most people did, it was called the swinging 60s for a reason. "

Lol I'm 56 and was only 10 at the end of the 60's, the only swinging I did was in a playground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things

Are saying that people in their 40s & 50s did,nt experiment when they were in their 20s I think you,ll find most people did, it was called the swinging 60s for a reason.

Lol I'm 56 and was only 10 at the end of the 60's, the only swinging I did was in a playground. "

Beat me to it

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I've found these go two ways.... Really good or really bad and nowt in-between.

Somewhat put off by the elder gentleman now - sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you that you found men who satisfy you. It's why we are here after all

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things?

Are saying that people in their 40s & 50s did,nt experiment when they were in their 20s I think you,ll find most people did, it was called the swinging 60s for a reason.

Lol I'm 56 and was only 10 at the end of the 60's, the only swinging I did was in a playground. "

And what about now do you class yourself as experienced or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is but a number,is an adage I find commonly used. Where sex is concerned a 20 yr old can satisfy me as much as a 45 yr old. It's how the person is,not how many years they have that makes me want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see that the OP likes the older man and has been lucky enough to find (or been found ) a selection of older gentlemen that have been spot on for her. Good work and well done.

It's all about people though, at the end of the day. Doesn't matter, really, how old you are or even how experienced you are. You can still be very good if inexperienced (maybe because you are sensitive or can read people and understand what they want) and you can be a complete arsehole even with years of extensive experience (maybe because you don't listen or can't read people very well or are just concerned about satisfying yourself). The key thing is to enjoy the good ones and treasure the pleasure. "

Very true. I like passionate men who react to me,not men who have techniques they think will work on me. Passion is a character trait,not a technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just wondering what the OP classes as old

just to put it in some sort of context, like

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things?

Are saying that people in their 40s & 50s did,nt experiment when they were in their 20s I think you,ll find most people did, it was called the swinging 60s for a reason.

Lol I'm 56 and was only 10 at the end of the 60's, the only swinging I did was in a playground.

And what about now do you class yourself as experienced or not?"

I've been around a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just giving a different viewpoint. There are many that didn't experiment in their earlier years. Many get married to their childhood sweetheart. I'm just saying it's wrong to make assumptions based on age that's all.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Hope for me still

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

It's all about taking time to explore each other's bodies and minds and letting each other's no what you're enjoying or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not saying they are better lovers, but I get a bigger kick from it with an older man, there's something deliciously naughty about it.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I'm not saying they are better lovers, but I get a bigger kick from it with an older man, there's something deliciously naughty about it. "

But likewise isn't there something deliciously naughty about being Mrs Robinson?

I've had some great fun of late with several twenty somethings!

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I could last for an hour or two without cumming these days wheras Id cum much quicker when I was younger. Its quaity rather than quantity with an older guy

Young guys are more concerned about themselves, older guys put the other persons needs first, thats my take on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general you would probably find older men have more experience , this does not mean that they make the best lovers , it really takes a lot of thought in what you are doing and obviously learning about what makes a partner tick , younger men do tend to put themselves first in some aspects and often rush at things a bit too much , I do think that you do tend to be more in tune with your body and women's bodies as you get older, it must be said that women must also learn what it is that turns them on as well to get the most satisfaction from an encounter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not saying they are better lovers, but I get a bigger kick from it with an older man, there's something deliciously naughty about it.

But likewise isn't there something deliciously naughty about being Mrs Robinson?

I've had some great fun of late with several twenty somethings! "

Different strokes, different folks xx

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Older men can be far more sexual I find...

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

An 'older' man, yes. But he has to be younger than me

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I have always preferred older men than me..That said ten years ago a 20 year age gap was fine now though it's not. People change and want different things at different times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Well I may not be to everyones taste being in my 50's but would rather appeal to those who recognise quality over run of the mill

Thats what I keep telling myself anyway

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

And no one is saying George Clooney, Brad Pitt, johnny Depp and Sean Connery are past it.... though having 20m million in the bank helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when he surprises me with arranged meets with older men. I know I'm clocking on a bit but there really is something very horny about being taken by a much older man that fully appreciates a woman's body. They know how to talk to me and also seem to appreciate the whole situation more.

Hoping to find a suitable man for today. Well it is bonk holiday after all xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....or they could be more set in their ways and less likely to listen to what the woman wants....

I really don't think age is any indicator of satisfaction or experience.

Experience comes with age are you not more experienced now than you were 20 years ago I hope you are.

What about those that are newly divorced in their 40s/50s that have only ever had sex once in a blue moon in the same position with one partner? Would you count them as more experienced than someone in their 20s who had experimented with different people and different things?

Are saying that people in their 40s & 50s did,nt experiment when they were in their 20s I think you,ll find most people did, it was called the swinging 60s for a reason. "

If they were 18 in the 60's they'd be in thier 80's now.

Not thier 40's

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I'm 54 next week and I know that I'm a better person in bed now than I was 20 or 30 years ago. Back then it was all about me shooting my load as often as possible. Now I much prefer to see a lady getting off a couple of times before I even think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 54 next week and I know that I'm a better person in bed now than I was 20 or 30 years ago. Back then it was all about me shooting my load as often as possible. Now I much prefer to see a lady getting off a couple of times before I even think about it."

Just because you were a selfish lover when you were young doesnt mean all young people are though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 54 next week and I know that I'm a better person in bed now than I was 20 or 30 years ago. Back then it was all about me shooting my load as often as possible. Now I much prefer to see a lady getting off a couple of times before I even think about it.

Just because you were a selfish lover when you were young doesnt mean all young people are though."

I was a shit fuck until I hit my 40s and started meeting younger men. Something happened and my passion for sex was released.

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"I'm not saying they are better lovers, but I get a bigger kick from it with an older man, there's something deliciously naughty about it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most of my worst meets have been with older or old men."

Totally agree....older men are too set in their ways and too controlling for me..no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who doesn't like sex with a dirty old man...but only as long as he is as old as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when he surprises me with arranged meets with older men. I know I'm clocking on a bit but there really is something very horny about being taken by a much older man that fully appreciates a woman's body. They know how to talk to me and also seem to appreciate the whole situation more.

Hoping to find a suitable man for today. Well it is bonk holiday after all xx"

Hmmm I just read your profile and well, I hate it when people want to script a meet! No thanks. No wannabe film directors for me. *Goes off in a diva fit*

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Shuffles in with zimmer frame..

Shuffles back out, am I old? Or young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shuffles in with zimmer frame..

Shuffles back out, am I old? Or young? "

only you know the answer to that question!

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Had the best orgasm's with an older guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it when he surprises me with arranged meets with older men. I know I'm clocking on a bit but there really is something very horny about being taken by a much older man that fully appreciates a woman's body. They know how to talk to me and also seem to appreciate the whole situation more.

Hoping to find a suitable man for today. Well it is bonk holiday after all xx"

yes...i find this very erotic xxx

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By *asterPSubslutCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I'm with you love an older man or two xx

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Looking for several kinky older guys for weekend June 17/18/19...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I'm drawn to older men, no matter how hard I try to change my radar.

Something confident, sexy, assuring and delicious about a man who is comfortable with what his likes and desires are and yet knows how to make me feel relaxed and teach me some new things.

I do try to be open to younger to. Maybe it's the personality more. I have to have that click

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're looking for an older gentleman today, if any of you lovely elder gentlemen are free and looking for some fun later xx

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

As old as i am i still learn new things so no age on its own don't make you a better lover.

Always looking for new teachers to further my sexucation lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're looking for an older gentleman today, if any of you lovely elder gentlemen are free and looking for some fun later xx"
Shit. Only just seen this! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love to be shared with an elder man, in fact it will be the first one we tick off our profile bucket list. It turns me on just thinking about it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guy is 13 years older than me and I LOVE it!! Just something much more sexy about older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am 51 on the 1st june......NO ONE is interested in me! it's either my age or my looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am 51 on the 1st june......NO ONE is interested in me! it's either my age or my looks"

A positive attitude is far more likely to be successful. Fab is escapism not to hear moaning.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"i am 51 on the 1st june......NO ONE is interested in me! it's either my age or my looks"

Happy birthday for tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older but not necessarily wiser

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By *esi tardkaCouple
over a year ago

acton

I've been with a few men .. But men above 50 press my buttons ..

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

In the corner with his hand up age is a number it's mind and body

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By *he Wandering WelshmanMan
over a year ago

The Valleys

i,m rapidly approaching the grand old age off 55,i,m having the time of my life at the moment,older,wiser and more open minded

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

But us older men must keep ourselfs in shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's certainly true of my experiences. I've met several guys over 50 and they've been far more in tune with what I /we want.

The occasional weakness of meeting a younger guy has bitten me on the bum - and not in good way. "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really young guys just don't do it for me... Neither dare I say older guys. With the exception of my other half of course. Best sex I've had as far as swinging goes. Is guys in mid 30,s and 40,s.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"i,m rapidly approaching the grand old age off 55,i,m having the time of my life at the moment,older,wiser and more open minded "

Same here mate 55 in August and growing old disgracefully...now how shall i celebrate it lol.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"But us older men must keep ourselfs in shape "

..and so must us older ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You certainly do, wow!

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

I agree, I'm 64 and keeping fit, I think its paid off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this thread!

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