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Verified vs Non-Verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can completely understand why some people only meet verified people! Lesson learned - never arrange something with a non-verified guys! So much for dogging tonight -.-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met unverified men...

and I was unverified once...but that was eons ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It a good indicator they are real.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Sorry to hear that. I always tend to go with verif's. I wouldn't waste my time on ppl who've been on awhile & no verifs and as for newbies, iv took a chance on a couple but I was always left disappointed either by their immaturity as they're like a kid in a sweet shop & wanting more & more, until u feel like a fab contact or their time keeping etc

There's plenty of verif's out there so hopefully next time u'l meet with some1decent & get your fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were all non verified in the beginning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I hit it off with a guy and wanted to meet him, it would make no difference to me if he was verified or not.

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

I have two genuine veri's on my profile and still find it difficult to meet couples. Nothing to do with being a fat, horny, old bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I hit it off with a guy and wanted to meet him, it would make no difference to me if he was verified or not.

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Same here

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

dd to my previous post.. yeah we were all non-verif once & I understand it is somewhat difficult to get a step on this Fab ladder but personally I won't meet a non-verif just for sexfun, theres just too much effort to be put in (childminders, travel, dress up etc) to take the gamble of been let down & I'd rather guarantee my fun with a verif'd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another way of filtering like anything else. I'd be surprised if people hadn't been let down by verified people though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were all non verified in the beginning!"

That's my take. Someone had to meet an unverified person originally.

I take my hat off to those with the pioneering spirit of adventure.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"If I hit it off with a guy and wanted to meet him, it would make no difference to me if he was verified or not.

"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met non veried others before and got some on party list for Saturday if they turn up they get veried we were once in there shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have two genuine veri's on my profile and still find it difficult to meet couples. Nothing to do with being a fat, horny, old bastard."

or ticking every interest?

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I was lucky enough to have a social with 2 lovely ladies on here who verified me. But it is hard to get verifI cations as most people don't want to meet single fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our regular single guy friend is only verified by us, had joined the site 5 days previous to him approaching us, verified himself with a video and he is a great guy never lets us down etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally struggling, tried suggesting coffee meets but no joy. Don't quite see how being verified just because you're caned with someone makes you "better" "safer" to meet..or is that me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And we were non verified too at some point, yes everyone starts off somewhere. However every verified meet we've had they have showed up perfectly. Non-verified on the other hand 60% have arranged and backed out.. mostly without actually telling us. For us it's just not worth the hassle anymore. Maybe weve just been unlucky with the dreamers and time wasters x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've been let down by verified but never by unverified, strange it seems but we do put the meet with unverified heavily in our favour. We meet not too far from us, hotel booked by them (we pay our half when we get there) and all this is only after we've spoken enough to be comfortable the meet has been properly arranged without a hint of a no show. A failed meet with an unverified therefore costs us little travel time at no financial cost, bruised ego perhaps but that's easy enough to get over, no deflowering though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And we were non verified too at some point, yes everyone starts off somewhere. However every verified meet we've had they have showed up perfectly. Non-verified on the other hand 60% have arranged and backed out.. mostly without actually telling us. For us it's just not worth the hassle anymore. Maybe weve just been unlucky with the dreamers and time wasters x"

Don't take this the wrong way but maybe it's the type of meets you're trying to arrange?

For example you mention dogging in your OP, now I for one would assume that you'd arrange that with more than 1 guy? So maybe that's the assumption they're working on too, a more casual arrangement than fixed?

Just a thought.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'm picky about the un-verifieds I meet and I'd not rely on one again.....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my old profile i met unverifieds no problem,it was a well verified man who let me down.Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been let down by verified but never by unverified, strange it seems but we do put the meet with unverified heavily in our favour. We meet not too far from us, hotel booked by them (we pay our half when we get there) and all this is only after we've spoken enough to be comfortable the meet has been properly arranged without a hint of a no show. A failed meet with an unverified therefore costs us little travel time at no financial cost, bruised ego perhaps but that's easy enough to get over, no deflowering though. "

My mind is struggling to compute that anyone would let you down. Were they insane?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends - one of our ladies we met as an unverified - its not a thing we rule out at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see a problem with meeting none veified people. You have to remember we didn't join with them.

As long as they are photo verifed and are happy to have a quick chat on phone then we happy to meet them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blast. I thought this was going to be one of those 'Epic Rap Battles'...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Personally struggling, tried suggesting coffee meets but no joy. Don't quite see how being verified just because you're caned with someone makes you "better" "safer" to meet..or is that me?"

It doesn't. All it shows is that the person turned up and was real. Nothing more, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just got my first one today. Woohoo!

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