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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I don't know if anyone else has this issue. But with every partner I've been with I have no been able to climax while I am with another person. It's very good for the partners pleasue but I would like to be able to cum myself aswell. Currently just stop after they have came because I know it won't happen for me.

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Can you cum if they wank you or do you have to finish yourself off so to speak?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you cum if they wank you or do you have to finish yourself off so to speak?"

I can come when its me in my room solo. but when its with a partner it doesnt happen. my friend sucked me for about an hour and i didnt come and wasnt close. hj, bj's and sex nothing works if its with another person. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible thinking to much about it... thinking you have to cum etc and going over and over it.. just need to relax and just go with the flow. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them were the days!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Possible thinking to much about it... thinking you have to cum etc and going over and over it.. just need to relax and just go with the flow. Xx"

Yeah that what my fuck buddy is saying aswell but to be honest i prefer knowing i can go the distance with any women at the moment. just be nice if i could climax a few times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Them were the days!!!! "

Yeah its good knowing i can please anyone i choose to sleep with. Just dont like they dont think they can please me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Them were the days!!!!

Yeah its good knowing i can please anyone i choose to sleep with. Just dont like they dont think they can please me. "

That's the trouble they may think k that they are not doing it right etc etc if they never make you cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Them were the days!!!!

Yeah its good knowing i can please anyone i choose to sleep with. Just dont like they dont think they can please me.

That's the trouble they may think k that they are not doing it right etc etc if they never make you cum"

Yeah i think i need to explain the issue before i sleep with them. i always put it in my messages though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possible thinking to much about it... thinking you have to cum etc and going over and over it.. just need to relax and just go with the flow. Xx"

Aye to all this. Don't make it a goal that you have to have an orgasm. And reassure your partner that it's ok and you're still having fun. Before you know it you'll stop worrying about it and it will happenot out of the blue.

I've gone full circle with not being able to get hard, to cumming too early and every now and then I can't cum too. It's all about head space. Once you stop worrying about it and just enjoy yourself it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Them were the days!!!!

Yeah its good knowing i can please anyone i choose to sleep with. Just dont like they dont think they can please me.

That's the trouble they may think k that they are not doing it right etc etc if they never make you cum

Yeah i think i need to explain the issue before i sleep with them. i always put it in my messages though."

I wouldn't even do that. Don't make it a big deal before you meet. You're already making it awkward for the both of you. See my other post and just try and relax and forget about it. Relax and just enjoy. By all means explain afterwards and say you didn't mention it as yu didn't want to make it awkward and you're trying not to put pressure on you or them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Them were the days!!!!

Yeah its good knowing i can please anyone i choose to sleep with. Just dont like they dont think they can please me.

That's the trouble they may think k that they are not doing it right etc etc if they never make you cum

Yeah i think i need to explain the issue before i sleep with them. i always put it in my messages though.

What he said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a mental block my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have a mental block my friend

Yeah i think i do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing it is a psychological issue as opposed to a physical one. Are you putting too much pressure on yourself.

Sex should be about mutual enjoyment. Don't overthink it and don't see cumming as the end goal.

When your mind relaxes, your body will follow.

Good luck.

Mrs L

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm guessing it is a psychological issue as opposed to a physical one. Are you putting too much pressure on yourself.

Sex should be about mutual enjoyment. Don't overthink it and don't see cumming as the end goal.

When your mind relaxes, your body will follow.

Good luck.

Mrs L "

thank you ill try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex. "

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

WHAT never

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"WHAT never"

No and all the girls ive slept with have been all experienced. just i cant make it happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen."

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole. "

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole. "

But if you want to try and make it happen then go for it. like im at the stage where im willing to have bets with people over if they can make me cum or not just so i know what works for me. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there."

I don't like penetrating guys. A tongue up your arse or a careful finger is not anal penetration it's just stimulation, your g spot is up your arse so if you're struggling to cum then maybe you should try it. I can milk prostates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

Ok message me because i cant message you and we'll sort something out. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

Ok message me because i cant message you and we'll sort something out. x"

What!? I wasn't offering my services to you, was offering advice and things for you to try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

Ok message me because i cant message you and we'll sort something out. x

What!? I wasn't offering my services to you, was offering advice and things for you to try. "

The j can milk prostates seemed like you was offering. But if your not interested etc then that's fine. I'm not pushy and can take a no for an answer. But would still like to make you cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I don't know if anyone else has this issue. But with every partner I've been with I have no been able to climax while I am with another person. It's very good for the partners pleasue but I would like to be able to cum myself aswell. Currently just stop after they have came because I know it won't happen for me.

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax."

Can't really give you any advice but I had the same problem but I didn't cum because of medication that I was on at the time. Maybe that could be your problem. Are you on ant medication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

Ok message me because i cant message you and we'll sort something out. x

What!? I wasn't offering my services to you, was offering advice and things for you to try. "

Well that escalated quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

Ok message me because i cant message you and we'll sort something out. x

What!? I wasn't offering my services to you, was offering advice and things for you to try.

Well that escalated quickly

Didn't it just

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax.

Can't really give you any advice but I had the same problem but I didn't cum because of medication that I was on at the time. Maybe that could be your problem. Are you on ant medication "

No meds and don't drink or smoke. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What about prostate massage? Maybe have a tongue or finger in your arse hole.

no my arsehole is off limits even if it does make me cum i dont feel like being penetrated there.

Ok message me because i cant message you and we'll sort something out. x

What!? I wasn't offering my services to you, was offering advice and things for you to try.

Well that escalated quickly

Didn't it just"

Yeah. Like I have a clam attitude towards people turning me down. I see it as there loss and not mine. Because currently I don't really have anything to gain from sex because there no end game for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax.

Can't really give you any advice but I had the same problem but I didn't cum because of medication that I was on at the time. Maybe that could be your problem. Are you on ant medication

No meds and don't drink or smoke. X"

Then like I said I've no advice for you. Oh and just because you can rut all night doesn't mean your good at it. Some women enjoy a bit more than just getting pounced like a piece of meat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have the same problem when I first started having sex. It probably went on for 6 months or so.

I put it down to nerves. I think I was concentrating so much on trying to perform, I just couldn't cum.

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

Try enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax.

Can't really give you any advice but I had the same problem but I didn't cum because of medication that I was on at the time. Maybe that could be your problem. Are you on ant medication

No meds and don't drink or smoke. X

Then like I said I've no advice for you. Oh and just because you can rut all night doesn't mean your good at it. Some women enjoy a bit more than just getting pounced like a piece of meat lol"

Yeah I know I don't pornstar fuck. I actually ask my partners what turn on they have etc. To make it a better experience for both party's. I like having my ear licked, so I tell them that. One of partners like being bitten and spanked. And not to be head but I know I'm good even If j could go all night. Because I simulate the clit and the gspot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples"

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after. "

Luckily sometimes jay can cum then carry on straight away so

to that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after. "

Would you rather know the guy could make you cum though. Instead of only lasting 2-5 minutes and you not getting your pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples"

Normally what happens but my fuck burry wants me to cum in her mouth which I haven't been able to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax."

Maybe you have been wanking yourself off far too often over the years and now your body has got used to wanking as it's release.

Lay off the wanking for a month then have sex and see what happens.

PS: How's your eyesite?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax.

Maybe you have been wanking yourself off far too often over the years and now your body has got used to wanking as it's release.

Lay off the wanking for a month then have sex and see what happens.

PS: How's your eyesite?

Yeah i think that what has happen also I cant really feel a lot through condoms and my eye site is perfectly fine.

Found my that my dick isn't really that sensetive even from a young age it took a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been to the Dr about it? To check that everything is as it should be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you been to the Dr about it? To check that everything is as it should be?"

I asked at the client last time and they have just said nerves and during solo action I can climax no problem X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after.

Would you rather know the guy could make you cum though. Instead of only lasting 2-5 minutes and you not getting your pleasure. "

2 to 5 minutes for the first fuck!? In my 16 years of being sexually active I'm yet to meet a guy that can last 5 minutes the first time we fuck. It's the second and 3rd fuck after they've got their first cum out of the way that I get my orgasms. If I was fucking a guy and he didn't cum at all I'd feel shit.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax."

It's a mind thing - The more you think about it - the worse it will get.

I have asimoar thing with oral - just doesn't happen (or very very infrequently). Doesn't mean I don't enjoy the sensations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after.

Would you rather know the guy could make you cum though. Instead of only lasting 2-5 minutes and you not getting your pleasure.

You haven't been meeting the right guys then.

Like I'm that confident I can outlast any female I'll be willing to have a bet with them. Got know going at the moment if she can make me cum before I do her, I'll let her fuck me with a strap on. I'm not all talk and in willing to prove it to anyone as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would like some advice on what I can do to try and help me climax.

It's a mind thing - The more you think about it - the worse it will get.

I have asimoar thing with oral - just doesn't happen (or very very infrequently). Doesn't mean I don't enjoy the sensations. "

Yeah I love oral. Like my only problem with sex is I don't have an end game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after.

Would you rather know the guy could make you cum though. Instead of only lasting 2-5 minutes and you not getting your pleasure.

You haven't been meeting the right guys then.

You only have to look at my friends list to see the type of guys that I meet. Extremely handsome guys with big dicks. I've just got a nice fanny to be inside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after.

Would you rather know the guy could make you cum though. Instead of only lasting 2-5 minutes and you not getting your pleasure.

You haven't been meeting the right guys then.

You only have to look at my friends list to see the type of guys that I meet. Extremely handsome guys with big dicks. I've just got a nice fanny to be inside."

Well I can't message you so I can't send you pictures of me. Will have to message me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have to look at my friends list to see the type of guys that I meet. Extremely handsome guys with big dicks. I've just got a nice fanny to be inside.

Well I can't message you so I can't send you pictures of me. Will have to message me first. "

You aren't my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not the place to ask and I would suggest visiting your Gp who would then recommend a sex therapist....in the mean time you may find someone here who likes such a dilemma.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You only have to look at my friends list to see the type of guys that I meet. Extremely handsome guys with big dicks. I've just got a nice fanny to be inside.

Well I can't message you so I can't send you pictures of me. Will have to message me first.

You aren't my type."

That's fine. I don't see it as my loss because sex is never about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

relax and dont overthink it

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By *tokeyash1991Man
over a year ago

newcastle under lyme

I have the same problem but Iv become to like it a bit that I get them to cum then I have a good wank after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same issue a few years ago after marriage split and the next 2/3 fems i slept with i just couldnt cum even though i fancied them etc and no trouble cumming when wanking on my own or on cam. The problem was the more i wanted to cum the more difficult it was and they did think it was them why i wasnt cumming during sex.

Anyway after sometime i then could start cumming during sex and now fine, but its all about finding out what causing the mental block, maybe a cheeky drink before to relax might help?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had the same issue a few years ago after marriage split and the next 2/3 fems i slept with i just couldnt cum even though i fancied them etc and no trouble cumming when wanking on my own or on cam. The problem was the more i wanted to cum the more difficult it was and they did think it was them why i wasnt cumming during sex.

Anyway after sometime i then could start cumming during sex and now fine, but its all about finding out what causing the mental block, maybe a cheeky drink before to relax might help?"

Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"relax and dont overthink it "

Thanks for the reply. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have to look at my friends list to see the type of guys that I meet. Extremely handsome guys with big dicks. I've just got a nice fanny to be inside.

Well I can't message you so I can't send you pictures of me. Will have to message me first.

You aren't my type.

That's fine. I don't see it as my loss because sex is never about me. "

Maybe that's your problem solved. Make it about you, go all out to get pleasure from sex and who knows......

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

2 to 5 minutes for the first fuck!? In my 16 years of being sexually active I'm yet to meet a guy that can last 5 minutes the first time we fuck.

This is so true! Thank you. Thankfully I can repeat and repeat, but the first load is dropped off early doors

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You only have to look at my friends list to see the type of guys that I meet. Extremely handsome guys with big dicks. I've just got a nice fanny to be inside.

Well I can't message you so I can't send you pictures of me. Will have to message me first.

You aren't my type.

That's fine. I don't see it as my loss because sex is never about me.

Maybe that's your problem solved. Make it about you, go all out to get pleasure from sex and who knows......"

Tried this last night went for 5 hours and still didn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same!! I can pound for hours solid but never cum during sex? I have to wank or get wanked off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same!! I can pound for hours solid but never cum during sex? I have to wank or get wanked off

Only me doing it solo works. If someone else try's doesn't work.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Can you cum if they wank you or do you have to finish yourself off so to speak?

I think you need to see a therapist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you cum if they wank you or do you have to finish yourself off so to speak?

I think you need to see a therapist."

Yeah a few other people have said but rather not.

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

get the gal to whisper in ur ear ,PLSE DO NOT CUM INSIDE ME

reverse physcology on the 1 eyed milk man

he will shot straite away

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I had the same issue no therapy needed just dont pressure yourself on cumming clear your mind about it. Play with your partner a bit change positions and it will happen all by itself because your not thinking about it xxx No man can come when tense xx

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over a year ago

"get the gal to whisper in ur ear ,PLSE DO NOT CUM INSIDE ME

reverse physcology on the 1 eyed milk man

he will shot straite away

Yeah I use reverse physiology a lot to get what I want. It's works really well with girls on fab. When they delete your message and then you tell them that it's there loss.

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

and how has dat anyting to do wit ur query op

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over a year ago

"and how has dat anyting to do wit ur query op

Giving some friendly advice for single guys. But no it not in the topic I guess but I've tried it during sex aswell.

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

"and how has dat anyting to do wit ur query op

Giving some friendly advice for single guys. But no it not in the topic I guess but I've tried it during sex aswell."
have u tryed a dildo on ur nuts or finger in ass?

hit dat rite spot and boom

seems its more a mental issue doh

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By *rown ThunderMan
over a year ago

newport

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen."

What bullshit..total attention seeking

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What bullshit..total attention seeking "
agreed every suggestion has bein shot down by the op.not one O COOL I MITE TRY DAT

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over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What bullshit..total attention seeking agreed every suggestion has bein shot down by the op.not one O COOL I MITE TRY DAT

No I'm willing to try what everyone has said except for stuff going up my arse. Just ive tried before what people have said and hasn't worked. Just thought I might get new ideas. But me and my fb are trying new stuff that turns me on to see if it makes it easier.

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over a year ago

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What bullshit..total attention seeking "

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

What bullshit..total attention seeking

You can come and watch me fuck someone if you want. I'll even take bets that it lasts longer then an hour. I have nothing to prove to you or anyone. But I'm willing to put my money where my mouth is. Maybe be more open minded next time just because you don't have the issue. Doesn't mean I haven't. X"
ok well only one ting for it ,become rich and join the porn industry,jejus can u imagine 14 hour a day wit porn sluts and u bein paid for it

u da man lol.

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen."

Try swapping the pan pipe music for flight of the bumblebee that usually works

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

"Try not wanking for a few days before you have sex. Get a pan pipes cd, have lots and lots of foreplay before sex.

Tried. my fuck buddy blow me for 2 hours and didnt happen.

Try swapping the pan pipe music for flight of the bumblebee that usually works

"
tink dat guy has frankie goes to hoolywood playing relax in his head all the time

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Can you cum if they wank you or do you have to finish yourself off so to speak?

I think you need to see a therapist.

Yeah a few other people have said but rather not. "

Why? It's not normal not to cum through sex. You can cum alone, so you know its psychological rather than physiological. It might not be an issue for random shags from fab, but it could well be an issue in a real relationship. I would imagine that if you had a gf and you couldn't cum that she might feel inadequate that she can't make you cum (people like to give others pleasure), or even longer term if people are thinking about having kids with you, what will they think when you can't cum?

This is something to get sorted sooner rather than later.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP what was your first time like? Or your first few times? We you really worried about cumming too quickly? Did the woman say anything about guys who cum quickly or anything like that?

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over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after. "

I'm the same..but had a fb for 9 wks once, who could only not cum with me and a guy I met recently couldnt. Even after 3 hrs!!

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

It happens to the best of us, If all else fails get her to stick a finger up your bum.

That will sort you out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get the gal to whisper in ur ear ,PLSE DO NOT CUM INSIDE ME

reverse physcology on the 1 eyed milk man

he will shot straite away

Yeah I use reverse physiology a lot to get what I want. It's works really well with girls on fab. When they delete your message and then you tell them that it's there loss."

All that does is confirm the reason they deleted the message. You must be messaging some right fucking wobbles for that to work. Terrible advice, men don't listen to that.

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

"get the gal to whisper in ur ear ,PLSE DO NOT CUM INSIDE ME

reverse physcology on the 1 eyed milk man

he will shot straite away

Yeah I use reverse physiology a lot to get what I want. It's works really well with girls on fab. When they delete your message and then you tell them that it's there loss.

All that does is confirm the reason they deleted the message. You must be messaging some right fucking wobbles for that to work. Terrible advice, men don't listen to that. "
well said tea bags

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over a year ago

"get the gal to whisper in ur ear ,PLSE DO NOT CUM INSIDE ME

reverse physcology on the 1 eyed milk man

he will shot straite away

Yeah I use reverse physiology a lot to get what I want. It's works really well with girls on fab. When they delete your message and then you tell them that it's there loss."

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over a year ago

ennis

[Removed by poster at 29/05/16 19:00:47]

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over a year ago

Sounds like a great way to get leg over to me, sure plenty will want put that to the test

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over a year ago

"get the gal to whisper in ur ear ,PLSE DO NOT CUM INSIDE ME

reverse physcology on the 1 eyed milk man

he will shot straite away

Yeah I use reverse physiology a lot to get what I want. It's works really well with girls on fab. When they delete your message and then you tell them that it's there loss.

All that does is confirm the reason they deleted the message. You must be messaging some right fucking wobbles for that to work. Terrible advice, men don't listen to that. "

Yeah it's terrible advice if they don't message you back. But for me they normally do which a not interest or something. But I'm never pushy and I'm always a gentleman in my replys. Like I would like to take you for a nice meal and see where it leads and show you what a women should be treated like. I don't fuck and chuck women I prefer a regular thing. So like to tried the girls I meet with respect. I watch movies and even gave my fb's son an Xbox because I didn't use it.

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over a year ago

ennis

"Sounds like a great way to get leg over to me, sure plenty will want put that to the test "
lol ud tink most women wud want a man who cudnt but tbh women like to pleasure and make a guy cum and to quote lilly allen

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

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over a year ago

"Sounds like a great way to get leg over to me, sure plenty will want put that to the test lol ud tink most women wud want a man who cudnt but tbh women like to pleasure and make a guy cum and to quote lilly allen

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. X

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over a year ago

ennis

[Removed by poster at 29/05/16 19:29:05]

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over a year ago

ennis

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. X"
really?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz?

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over a year ago

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz?"
me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

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over a year ago

ennis

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

"
yes but he aint cumming atal.

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over a year ago

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal."
you need to give him a helping hand

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal. you need to give him a helping hand

"
the way he is talking id say the hands from the playboy mansion wudnt work

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over a year ago

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal. you need to give him a helping hand

the way he is talking id say the hands from the playboy mansion wudnt work

Yep. Only my right hand will work when I'm by myself. If there's someone else there with me then no. But I'll enjoy be able to go as long as I want. I don't care about the end game sex to be honest.

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over a year ago

ennis

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal. you need to give him a helping hand

the way he is talking id say the hands from the playboy mansion wudnt work

Yep. Only my right hand will work when I'm by myself. If there's someone else there with me then no. But I'll enjoy be able to go as long as I want. I don't care about the end game sex to be honest. "
i cen picture the op doing an obama DROP THE MIC walk off stage next time he shoots

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over a year ago

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal. you need to give him a helping hand

the way he is talking id say the hands from the playboy mansion wudnt work

Yep. Only my right hand will work when I'm by myself. If there's someone else there with me then no. But I'll enjoy be able to go as long as I want. I don't care about the end game sex to be honest. i cen picture the op doing an obama DROP THE MIC walk off stage next time he shoots

You seem really funny message me because i cant you and i would like to speak to you more.

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over a year ago

ennis

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal. you need to give him a helping hand

the way he is talking id say the hands from the playboy mansion wudnt work

Yep. Only my right hand will work when I'm by myself. If there's someone else there with me then no. But I'll enjoy be able to go as long as I want. I don't care about the end game sex to be honest. i cen picture the op doing an obama DROP THE MIC walk off stage next time he shoots

You seem really funny message me because i cant you and i would like to speak to you more. "
my work here is done

drops the mic

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over a year ago

Oh I lie here in the wet patch

In the middle of the bed

I'm feeling pretty damn hard done by

I spent ages giving head

Yeah I want to cum in my fb's mouth because I know she likes it but can't. Xreally?wen she kneels wit mouth open for ur jizz? me too I have to wank it myself I've never cum off a bj

yes but he aint cumming atal. you need to give him a helping hand

the way he is talking id say the hands from the playboy mansion wudnt work

Yep. Only my right hand will work when I'm by myself. If there's someone else there with me then no. But I'll enjoy be able to go as long as I want. I don't care about the end game sex to be honest. i cen picture the op doing an obama DROP THE MIC walk off stage next time he shoots

You seem really funny message me because i cant you and i would like to speak to you more. my work here is done

drops the mic

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Does anyone else think this could be a look at me post and he utters those immortal words

"That's never happened to me before" after 30 seconds of fucking

If this is genuine you can't cum op be proud you can last hrs be proud you pleased the woman then go home and wank simples

I'd hate it if a guy couldn't cum, would make me feel like a failure. I like guys to cum quickly and then go again after.

Would you rather know the guy could make you cum though. Instead of only lasting 2-5 minutes and you not getting your pleasure.

It looks like you're out of luck pal

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over a year ago

I have the same problem op. Well not a problem as such i just choose not to cum till the lady is pleased then i cum

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over a year ago

"I have the same problem op. Well not a problem as such i just choose not to cum till the lady is pleased then i cum

That's good wish I could come because my fuck buddy wants it in her mouth. X

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