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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester

..we've had one today from someone whose profile is hidden! Anyone got Mystic Meg's number?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"..we've had one today from someone whose profile is hidden! Anyone got Mystic Meg's number? "

oh bless them, they may be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

find winks waste time sooner have a message to be honest

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By *istress CherWoman
over a year ago

lancashire and loving it.


"..we've had one today from someone whose profile is hidden! Anyone got Mystic Meg's number? "
It happens all the time, some nutters out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink from time to time, we feel its a sign that were interested ,if people wink at us we reply always and say ty and chat a bit or at least give an honest answer. surely thats the point .

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"find winks waste time sooner have a message to be honest "

Don’t mind winks Do find it rather spooky tho, when you wink back and then hear no more from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete winks can't be arsed with them x

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


"I delete winks can't be arsed with them x"

.. didn't want to (re)start the big winker debate again, , as we don't mind them (and have had successful meets that started that way) just wondered about the mindset of the sender!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete winks can't be arsed with them x

.. didn't want to (re)start the big winker debate again, , as we don't mind them (and have had successful meets that started that way) just wondered about the mindset of the sender! "

To me a wink is lazy I would rather have a message least that way you may get a response,via a wink you won't as it will be deleted

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"find winks waste time sooner have a message to be honest

Don’t mind winks Do find it rather spooky tho, when you wink back and then hear no more from them "

spot on there now that does my head in and you message them back saying thanks for the wink and get no reply back how strange

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By *untimes11Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I get the same thing. I've had a few winks off couples but no reply when i've messaged them. Damn confusing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete winks can't be arsed with them x

.. didn't want to (re)start the big winker debate again, , as we don't mind them (and have had successful meets that started that way) just wondered about the mindset of the sender!

To me a wink is lazy I would rather have a message least that way you may get a response,via a wink you won't as it will be deleted "

There only like wolf whistles, no harm at all I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"find winks waste time sooner have a message to be honest

Don’t mind winks Do find it rather spooky tho, when you wink back and then hear no more from them

spot on there now that does my head in and you message them back saying thanks for the wink and get no reply back how strange "

just wink back then if they can't be bothered to contact, forget.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"To me a wink is lazy I would rather have a message least that way you may get a response,via a wink you won't as it will be deleted "

Messages showing an interest also get deleted

Sadly, not everyone on here treats others with they curtsey one deserves

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

winks and invites and have no idea who they are not even chatted with them. just dont bother with them and hit the button that says delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..we've had one today from someone whose profile is hidden! Anyone got Mystic Meg's number? "
what vibs did you get off that hidden profile then ?? never know you could have the power help alot of us here . lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i ignore all winks,my reason is if you are too lazy to type a message i cant imagine sex is going to be that good.

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By *slandcplCouple
over a year ago

canvey island

I few days ago we had a wink from a nice looking couple and after checking their profile I took a few minuets to compose a little ditty to say thank you for taking an interest in us and to initiate the possibility of making a date. I laughed like feck at the reply which roughly read, "sorry m8 but my Mrs wont go for your Mrs but I think she's drop dead sexy".

Like I said, funny as feck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I few days ago we had a wink from a nice looking couple and after checking their profile I took a few minuets to compose a little ditty to say thank you for taking an interest in us and to initiate the possibility of making a date. I laughed like feck at the reply which roughly read, "sorry m8 but my Mrs wont go for your Mrs but I think she's drop dead sexy".

Like I said, funny as feck lol"

a conundrum indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or that woman from Star Trek that can read minds

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

We occasionally wink at people..but only if they have webcams as an interest in their profile..otherwise its just wasting their time having to delete them.

W ealso check their upper and lower age limits and their profile to ensure it doesnt say that they are looking for a certain type etc...

We would hate the thought that we had annoyed someone who cleary were not looking for people like us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..we've had one today from someone whose profile is hidden! Anyone got Mystic Meg's number? "

We had a Friend Invite from a couple with a hidden profile. No message, no explanation. What was the point? Needless to say we waited for them to be offline, accepted the invite, copied all their pics, set them to music and posted on YouTube Not really - we just deleted it, but it does make you wonder about the mental faculties of some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly the whole point of a wink.

Let`s the recipient decide whether to take things further and doesn`t harm anyone in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would rather have a message than a wink

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather have a message than a wink. I forget to look at our winks anyway. Though I do have to say that my other half loves winking

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Now, we really don't have a problem with winks and send a few out to people we like as an ice breaker. If we get a response we send a proper message to introduce ourselves properly - can't see why anyone would mind them?

But.. we had a wink this morning. We liked the look and sound of the other couple so instead of simply winking back we sent a message saying "Hi, thanks for the wink, really like your profile too" and we get an email back implying our response was too brief, could we write more about what we're looking for. Er, hello? They only sent a wink? Is it wrong to feel annoyed at this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now, we really don't have a problem with winks and send a few out to people we like as an ice breaker. If we get a response we send a proper message to introduce ourselves properly - can't see why anyone would mind them?

But.. we had a wink this morning. We liked the look and sound of the other couple so instead of simply winking back we sent a message saying "Hi, thanks for the wink, really like your profile too" and we get an email back implying our response was too brief, could we write more about what we're looking for. Er, hello? They only sent a wink? Is it wrong to feel annoyed at this?"

I hope you laughed....I know I did.

p.s. Not laughing at your annoyance but laughing at the absurdity of the exchange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just delete the silly things as we do messages from people who dont read our profile first,

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

hahah! Love the story!

I like winks if a person is testing to see if I might be interested. i rarely send winks because I can usually find enough in a persons profile to write to them about. As you can see, I'm pretty articulate and will write quite fluidly.

Sadly 9 times out of ten my message is deleted.

I find it confusing because most people say 'don't write a one line message or ask if we wanna fuck'

Maybe I need to try writing:

do

you

wanna

fuck

Least that's four lines right?

I also find it hysterical when someone sends me a message asking for face pics and yet they haven't sent any and their profile has no pics at all!

HELLO!

Etiquette seems to be seriously lacking with most people and it's a sure way to ensure I take no further interest.

I was taught when meeting people to approach and say:

"Hi, I'm Prisee, nice to meet you, what is your name?"

resulting usually in :

"Hi Prisee, I'm Mary, nice to meet you"

not the opposite of

"What's your name?"

leaving me dumbfounded as to how to answer:

"Hi Jo/e I'm Prisee, what's your name?"

If I get a wink, I'll reply, strangely I often then get 'Not interested in you, sorry' or worse I've hit the profile to find it blocked!

I've even had emails from people which are quite sweet, only to reply and take time to write a nice reply, and bang! Blocked!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

If we get a wink and like the look of them we may wink back. Have no idea whether they then get in contact or not as forget all about it. Do people keep a record of winks they send out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% of winks i dont wink back

but the 0.1% i do

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By *ostboysMan
over a year ago

doncaster

No but i know a few winkers!!!.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We never check winks just mass delete them every so often.

Would much rather have a message...

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales


"If we get a wink and like the look of them we may wink back. Have no idea whether they then get in contact or not as forget all about it. Do people keep a record of winks they send out? "

Don't know about keeping a record, but if you're a site supporter it says if you've winked them if you go on their profile. Saves winking the life out of them if they're not interested!

In this case don't know if the couple tried to get in touch again because we blocked them, no messing. If they hadn't taken the effort to read our profile and were using a wink as a lazy way of getting us to do the chasing then it's not exactly much of a loss..

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