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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Sorry but to me it does precisely mean that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines pretty long. It needs to be to get across what I'm actually into. If people don't read it they get a shock when I tell them

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

Can't be bothered?

I need a guy with stamina!!

Tone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for."

It is because they want to express what they are looking for and what they are not looking for and, perhaps, to express their personality. It is hard to do that in a few sentences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?! "

Only if you're sideways on, surely?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It looks like I have started something here cum on ladies this is A bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for."

But how do you know you are what they are looking for if you haven't read their profile??!!

Poppy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines pretty long.

Shame about my profile.

Bah dum tish!

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Ours is long but explains exactly what we are about. It's amazing how many messages we get where someone clearly hasn't read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine is a bit of fun but if people who message don't get it then they are not for me...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for."

It absolutely does mean that...

If you won't put in a small amount of effort to read our preferences, then why would we believe you are going to put any effort into a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's ridiculously long because I just added 100 swinger jokes! Casual viewers are informed they don't need to read them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for.

It absolutely does mean that...

If you won't put in a small amount of effort to read our preferences, then why would we believe you are going to put any effort into a meet? "
not true

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Most guys skip straight to the pics and ignore the text anyway....BLOCKED lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's fair enough writing what your after etc but we don't need to know your life story haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how do you know if a profile is a good match for you if you don't read it? Surely sending out messages to unsuitable profiles wastes more time than it would take to actually read the profile and therefore make an informed decision as to whether that it's worth taking the time to send a message.

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By *urglasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

As said previously so as not to waste time, ours and the other persons. Profile says exactly what we like and open to, first chance for people to run haha

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

OP if you attention span is that short you would probably be looking on fab for your next meet before you got your pants off for the meet that you were on!

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By *uvesmuffinCouple
over a year ago

Barking

This ones in my new top 100

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"OP if you attention span is that short you would probably be looking on fab for your next meet before you got your pants off for the meet that you were on!"

Absolutely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for.

It absolutely does mean that...

If you won't put in a small amount of effort to read our preferences, then why would we believe you are going to put any effort into a meet? not true"

Yeah, let's see how that works out for you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look mate no need to read a profile.

Just send a few cock pics and fancy a fuck message...

Don't over think this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?! "

Haha

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

On the opposite side, I get annoyed by profiles with zero pics and just the bare minimum of info. You want to meet strangers to sexually share your spouse with, but you don't have time to say a little about yourself??

-JD

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Yeah it's fair enough writing what your after etc but we don't need to know your life story haha"

So instead you say nothing on yours and think it will draw women like a moth to a flame

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah it's fair enough writing what your after etc but we don't need to know your life story haha

So instead you say nothing on yours and think it will draw women like a moth to a flame "
whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want..... "

This!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for."

Wonders why there's no verification on your profile....maybe people can't be bothered to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gives you something to read when you're on the toilet, stop your mithering!

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We like to meet people we get on with, it's not just about looks. Having a profile which deprives what we want and gets some of our personality across suits us well. You're not obliged to read it, but if you don't, it's doubtful your first message will be one that will stand out to us.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want.....

This!

V x"

Thank you lovely

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Ours is pretty long we want to express what we would like. Hopefully if shows qe have a sense of humour. I wouldn't want ppl to get the wrong impression on of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you cant be bothered to read a profile no matter how long then why should that person be prepared to meet you for fun ?? even a long profile only takes a few mins ?? a few mins for a poss few hours fun ?? no brainer

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By *aniaandjason77Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles."

What's even worse than this is when a grammar Nazi corrects you on your spelling and grammar. I think what you were trying to say was.....

What's even worse than long profiles is when people hide their profiles.

Cldve bin wrse I spose - u cudda bin talking txt spk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines pretty long but it honestly lays out who I am and the things that entice me.

Its been called a great profile

So good someone copied and pasted it as their own lol

Good luck chum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you possibly write an approach to someone, that will make them stop and respond to you - if you havent read about them -

They are saving you lots of time by telling you what they are looking for, what they like and don't like - usually respect and trust...as its you who wants to meet them not the other way around - its only polite - and if you dont have time - slow down sit on the loo and read profiles, and make a valuable approach that will work and get you noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is very long

We have tried to cover every angle to allow people to judge if we will get on

And yes we read long profiles ourself for the same reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It gives you something to read when you're on the toilet, stop your mithering! "
one thing worse than long profiles are hidden profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles.

What's even worse than this is when a grammar Nazi corrects you on your spelling and grammar. I think what you were trying to say was.....

What's even worse than long profiles is when people hide their profiles.

Cldve bin wrse I spose - u cudda bin talking txt spk.

"
taking the piss out of people with dyslexia is not funny .

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Yeah it's fair enough writing what your after etc but we don't need to know your life story haha

So instead you say nothing on yours and think it will draw women like a moth to a flame whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles."

mine was open most of today and is when I am looking through the forums but no I don't have it open 24/7 because I don't live on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile isn't long. It's extremely basic and probably shit too which is why I'm still stuck on zero meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It gives you something to read when you're on the toilet, stop your mithering! one thing worse than long profiles are hidden profiles."

Hidden profiles really shouldn't effect you in the least. The reason people usually hide their profiles is because they are either taking a break, or not wanting to receive any more messages at that moment in time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It gives you something to read when you're on the toilet, stop your mithering! one thing worse than long profiles are hidden profiles.

Hidden profiles really shouldn't effect you in the least. The reason people usually hide their profiles is because they are either taking a break, or not wanting to receive any more messages at that moment in time."
arent we all here to be looked at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had both, a long winded profile & now a short & to the point one. Can honestly say it makes no difference to the quality / quantity of messages received.

One thing that has improved is that I no longer get irked when men don't read it

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

Long profiles boring as fuck. Longer with more demands than a kids Xmas list. if you can be arsed write all that imagine the shit you talk when meeting instead of being shut up with something in your mouth! If I wanted listen to someone chat shit all night I'll take my mate out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long profiles boring as fuck. Longer with more demands than a kids Xmas list. if you can be arsed write all that imagine the shit you talk when meeting instead of being shut up with something in your mouth! If I wanted listen to someone chat shit all night I'll take my mate out!! "

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Long profiles boring as fuck. Longer with more demands than a kids Xmas list. if you can be arsed write all that imagine the shit you talk when meeting instead of being shut up with something in your mouth! If I wanted listen to someone chat shit all night I'll take my mate out!! "

With that attitude I'm surprised you aren't beating them off with a stick instead of having no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles.

What's even worse than this is when a grammar Nazi corrects you on your spelling and grammar. I think what you were trying to say was.....

What's even worse than long profiles is when people hide their profiles.

Cldve bin wrse I spose - u cudda bin talking txt spk.

"
I say, that's simply super darling. I may like the idea of being spit-roasted, but no one can fault ME on my grammar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines long cos it acts as my own little filter ....

Makes life simple

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want..... "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles.

What's even worse than this is when a grammar Nazi corrects you on your spelling and grammar. I think what you were trying to say was.....

What's even worse than long profiles is when people hide their profiles.

Who ever did????

Cldve bin wrse I spose - u cudda bin talking txt spk.

I say, that's simply super darling. I may like the idea of being spit-roasted, but no one can fault ME on my grammar! "

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want.....

Well said "

Thank you

I've noticed the OP has replied to many but not to my comment or the people agreeing with it.

He must know I'm right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hidden profiles really shouldn't effect you in the least. The reason people usually hide their profiles is because they are either taking a break, or not wanting to receive any more messages at that moment in time.arent we all here to be looked at? "

No I guess those who wish to take a temporary break from meeting/playing are not here to be looked at at that moment in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats even worse than long profiles are when people hide there profiles.

What's even worse than this is when a grammar Nazi corrects you on your spelling and grammar. I think what you were trying to say was.....

What's even worse than long profiles is when people hide their profiles.

Cldve bin wrse I spose - u cudda bin talking txt spk.

taking the piss out of people with dyslexia is not funny ."

I know!

Autocorrect should be helping but I get a call from St Nikolas every day wondering what the going rate for souls is in toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha ha ha ha ahem.. With the amount of moaning over things that..c'mon..really should not even trigger this kind of negative attitude...really comes across as nitpicking through FRUSTRATION...ha ha ha ha..... HELLO... On a site tailored to sex... which releases tension and frustration???....Discuss!! lol

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like to keep it simple, I'm not demanding..well mostly

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter! "

I'm not about demands, I'm more about a meeting of minds, getting on and having half a chance of it happening. I get so much crap in my messages - even when filtered to the eyeballs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before but it's usually the people with the long winded profiles that either start or comment on the ~ 'Why don't men read my profile' threads.....

maybe 'cos they got bored 1/2 way through it......

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By *un-cpleCouple
over a year ago

South Molton

We realised fairly early on that no one reads the profile so we thought we would make ours funny to encourage people to read it.

We tried to include our likes and dislikes in a funny way but still no one reads it.

I think this is a case where length doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want.....

Your responce doesn't deserve one. Happy now.

Well said

Thank you

I've noticed the OP has replied to many but not to my comment or the people agreeing with it.

He must know I'm right "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter! "
thank you Mrs fox

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get compliments about my profile. No meets. But hey, you can't win 'em all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

"
thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My attention span is shor

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"My attention span is shor"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before but it's usually the people with the long winded profiles that either start or comment on the ~ 'Why don't men read my profile' threads.....

maybe 'cos they got bored 1/2 way through it......

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail"

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

I'm not about demands, I'm more about a meeting of minds, getting on and having half a chance of it happening. I get so much crap in my messages - even when filtered to the eyeballs! "
make it shorter you might not get so much crap.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 28/05/16 10:20:56]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

I'm not about demands, I'm more about a meeting of minds, getting on and having half a chance of it happening. I get so much crap in my messages - even when filtered to the eyeballs! "

As I haven't read it I'll have to take your word for it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are very few really really long male profiles, but when I see one I move on. I don't moan about it on the forums though because I have no idea why its so long. Perhaps they've added to it as they've gone along. Perhaps it works for them.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"There are very few really really long male profiles, but when I see one I move on. I don't moan about it on the forums though because I have no idea why its so long. Perhaps they've added to it as they've gone along. Perhaps it works for them."

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for."
A detailed well written profile describes what you are looking for and helps potential meets assess the type of person that you are and whether you will meet their requirements .

If someone is too lazy to either read or write a detailed profile , it does not bode well.

Another advantage is that fakes are unlikely to go to the bother of writing a detailed and informed profile .

In any event any competent person should be able to read even the longest profiles on her in less than a minute .

By having a detailed profile , you avoid wasting other members time ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't read stupidly long profiles just like I won't read stupidly long msgs either..

Not sure why as I love to read...

Saying that books are a lot more entertaining than some people's profiles and messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Now the guys who copy and paste their profiles into their message to me, that really annoys me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There are very few really really long male profiles, but when I see one I move on. I don't moan about it on the forums though because I have no idea why its so long. Perhaps they've added to it as they've gone along. Perhaps it works for them."

This!

How people choose to write their profile is down to them. If it's generic/short/long/not for me I use it as a filter and move on. No need to moan about how others use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for."

I have just made mine longer to save men wasting time if there are issues with my circumstances or restrictions. Its less about what I want and more about "are you ok with..)

Still I find myself rolling my eyes and sighing when asked things Ive already mentioned.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for. A detailed well written profile describes what you are looking for and helps potential meets assess the type of person that you are and whether you will meet their requirements .

If someone is too lazy to either read or write a detailed profile , it does not bode well.

Another advantage is that fakes are unlikely to go to the bother of writing a detailed and informed profile .

In any event any competent person should be able to read even the longest profiles on her in less than a minute .

By having a detailed profile , you avoid wasting other members time .."

It's not lazy it's being concise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter "

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are very few really really long male profiles, but when I see one I move on. I don't moan about it on the forums though because I have no idea why its so long. Perhaps they've added to it as they've gone along. Perhaps it works for them."
but dose it help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for. A detailed well written profile describes what you are looking for and helps potential meets assess the type of person that you are and whether you will meet their requirements .

If someone is too lazy to either read or write a detailed profile , it does not bode well.

Another advantage is that fakes are unlikely to go to the bother of writing a detailed and informed profile .

In any event any competent person should be able to read even the longest profiles on her in less than a minute .

By having a detailed profile , you avoid wasting other members time .."

There is detailed and then there is your profile

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I get compliments about my profile. No meets. But hey, you can't win 'em all!"

Absolutely mega profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc"

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"There are very few really really long male profiles, but when I see one I move on. I don't moan about it on the forums though because I have no idea why its so long. Perhaps they've added to it as they've gone along. Perhaps it works for them.

but dose it help?"

Dunno. Mines not long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can people on here give a poster in a forum so much abuse for haveing a point of view and some has even taken the pi@@ adout me being dyslexic sham on you,

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"How can people on here give a poster in a forum so much abuse for haveing a point of view and some has even taken the pi@@ adout me being dyslexic sham on you,"

If you're getting abusive messages, report them. I haven't noticed any abuse on the thread though.

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Pithy rather than expansive for me ta x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... "
thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can people on here give a poster in a forum so much abuse for haveing a point of view and some has even taken the pi@@ adout me being dyslexic sham on you,

If you're getting abusive messages, report them. I haven't noticed any abuse on the thread though."
in private

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

I'm not about demands, I'm more about a meeting of minds, getting on and having half a chance of it happening. I get so much crap in my messages - even when filtered to the eyeballs! make it shorter you might not get so much crap."

Not true - tried n tested.

I just got all n sundry trying.

Fact is I'm not into short n hairy men and only play limited times I just try and word it politely in my profile so as to not piss too many off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for. A detailed well written profile describes what you are looking for and helps potential meets assess the type of person that you are and whether you will meet their requirements .

If someone is too lazy to either read or write a detailed profile , it does not bode well.

Another advantage is that fakes are unlikely to go to the bother of writing a detailed and informed profile .

In any event any competent person should be able to read even the longest profiles on her in less than a minute .

By having a detailed profile , you avoid wasting other members time .."

They (long profiles) are a waste of time in my opinion. Go read my wife's. She still gets 30 or so messages per day. I used to have a "real" profile, but it did me no good at all. Hence my current one.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Surely if you cannot be bothered to read someones profile , it is likely to mean that they have no interest in you .

Those who write detailed profiles are making an effort and hope that those replying will have done likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together "

Plus 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if you cannot be bothered to read someones profile , it is likely to mean that they have no interest in you .

Those who write detailed profiles are making an effort and hope that those replying will have done likewise "

Detailed profiles, possible but most get ranty the longer they go on for.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Surely if you cannot be bothered to read someones profile , it is likely to mean that they have no interest in you .

Those who write detailed profiles are making an effort and hope that those replying will have done likewise "

There's detailed, and then there's ridiculous. As stated above, pithy is better. A person can get their likes and preferences across in surprisingly few words if they try, and some info you see on some profiles is extraneous to put it mildly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us"

Your profile is basically the correct length. No scrolling required, and all info you'd need to know present and correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us"

Mind you, would be nice to see some photos of your fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together "

I'm not doing it because you are Welsh ...

Tbh I didn't read your profile either it's just my opinion... And I'm English

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

Your profile is basically the correct length. No scrolling required, and all info you'd need to know present and correct. "

I was on a course where we were told people don't like to scroll emails to get important points, so they need to be at the top of the email.

If I have to scroll to see the whole profile, I move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

Your profile is basically the correct length. No scrolling required, and all info you'd need to know present and correct.

I was on a course where we were told people don't like to scroll emails to get important points, so they need to be at the top of the email.

If I have to scroll to see the whole profile, I move on."

Exactly. My CV is basically one side of A4 and it always works a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

Mind you, would be nice to see some photos of your fella."
It's the fella who posted lol. We are going to take a few later, so I will have some of me up later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

Mind you, would be nice to see some photos of your fella. It's the fella who posted lol. We are going to take a few later, so I will have some of me up later."

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

Plus 1 "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

I'm not doing it because you are Welsh ...

Tbh I didn't read your profile either it's just my opinion... And I'm English "
it's just says you are from Rhyl .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

Your profile is basically the correct length. No scrolling required, and all info you'd need to know present and correct.

I was on a course where we were told people don't like to scroll emails to get important points, so they need to be at the top of the email.

If I have to scroll to see the whole profile, I move on."
great point well made.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bottom line is if you can't be bothered to read what is written, then you aint for us

Mind you, would be nice to see some photos of your fella. It's the fella who posted lol. We are going to take a few later, so I will have some of me up later."
see some people with long profiles don't even read the short ones but expect us to be happy to read there's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

I'm not doing it because you are Welsh ...

Tbh I didn't read your profile either it's just my opinion... And I'm English it's just says you are from Rhyl ."

Yes I live in Wales now ....

Although not in Rhyl ??

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Long profile ...short profiles who cares!! If it's not for you then move on!! I find mine sorts the wheat from the chaff real quick ,so why change what works .

The test is if not reading profiles working for you?? If it is then why moan !! If not then you can continue whinging and doing exactly as you are ,but don't exspect any different results.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

I'm not doing it because you are Welsh ...

Tbh I didn't read your profile either it's just my opinion... And I'm English it's just says you are from Rhyl .

Yes I live in Wales now ....

Although not in Rhyl ??"
sorry do you like wales?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really understood why some are bothered about the way others run their profiles on here. Find one you like, ignore the ones you don't. It really is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Long profile ...short profiles who cares!! If it's not for you then move on!! I find mine sorts the wheat from the chaff real quick ,so why change what works .

The test is if not reading profiles working for you?? If it is then why moan !! If not then you can continue whinging and doing exactly as you are ,but don't exspect any different results. "
whos moaning I am haveing to defend my self because of people's comments who seem to think I can't have an opinion and 1 has even taken the pi@@ out of me for being dyslexia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long profile ...short profiles who cares!! If it's not for you then move on!! I find mine sorts the wheat from the chaff real quick ,so why change what works .

The test is if not reading profiles working for you?? If it is then why moan !! If not then you can continue whinging and doing exactly as you are ,but don't exspect any different results. whos moaning I am haveing to defend my self because of people's comments who seem to think I can't have an opinion and 1 has even taken the pi@@ out of me for being dyslexia "

As you have read above, different folk have different opinions, which is only to be expected. You did ask for other people's views.

Playing the dyslexia card may not be the best. There are no bad comments in this post. You have already been advised to report any offensive private messages.

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Mine is fairly long but does contain useful information. I put a very important point at the top but I still get people from over 250 miles away who think I'm just down the road.

If someone can't be arsed to spend a minute seeing if I'm suitable, why the hell would they expect me to spend 90 minutes getting ready, time travelling and time meeting with them. It's not exactly the most arduous trade!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Long profile ...short profiles who cares!! If it's not for you then move on!! I find mine sorts the wheat from the chaff real quick ,so why change what works .

The test is if not reading profiles working for you?? If it is then why moan !! If not then you can continue whinging and doing exactly as you are ,but don't exspect any different results. whos moaning I am haveing to defend my self because of people's comments who seem to think I can't have an opinion and 1 has even taken the pi@@ out of me for being dyslexia

As you have read above, different folk have different opinions, which is only to be expected. You did ask for other people's views.

Playing the dyslexia card may not be the best. There are no bad comments in this post. You have already been advised to report any offensive private messages."
you can't see the comments on here as they have done it in private iam not playing any cards at all but some pointed out about my grammar and I was just putting the right that's all some people are sneaky and only put something out in the public forum .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is fairly long but does contain useful information. I put a very important point at the top but I still get people from over 250 miles away who think I'm just down the road.

If someone can't be arsed to spend a minute seeing if I'm suitable, why the hell would they expect me to spend 90 minutes getting ready, time travelling and time meeting with them. It's not exactly the most arduous trade! "
why not try web cam 1st before you commit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is fairly long but does contain useful information. I put a very important point at the top but I still get people from over 250 miles away who think I'm just down the road.

If someone can't be arsed to spend a minute seeing if I'm suitable, why the hell would they expect me to spend 90 minutes getting ready, time travelling and time meeting with them. It's not exactly the most arduous trade! why not try web cam 1st before you commit ."

Some people don't like to cam. I don't, never have done so to them, they perhaps have a longer more detailed profile. Its their way of doing things as yours is going on cam. Simply find someone who does things your way and suits then happy days.

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

Mine used to be really long, now it's just long.

Jenny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here "

Play nicely now Lucifer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines short as men can't read so kept it simple .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta agree with OP: I prefer short, sweet & straight to the point profiles long paragraphs of rants bit of a turn off

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport


"Gotta agree with OP: I prefer short, sweet & straight to the point profiles long paragraphs of rants bit of a turn off "

Yes a negative profile points to a negative personality. So I keep mine positive.

Jenny xxx

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

[Removed by poster at 28/05/16 18:57:05]

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We have a very short profile and guys still don't bother to read it.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

mines long .the basics are at the beginning ,then theres 2 stories at the end

most guys dont even read the important beginning bit .

the ones that do bother to read it often mail me and tell me what a great profile how turned on they got ..

so some like an interesting well written profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is fairly long but does contain useful information. I put a very important point at the top but I still get people from over 250 miles away who think I'm just down the road.

If someone can't be arsed to spend a minute seeing if I'm suitable, why the hell would they expect me to spend 90 minutes getting ready, time travelling and time meeting with them. It's not exactly the most arduous trade! why not try web cam 1st before you commit .

Some people don't like to cam. I don't, never have done so to them, they perhaps have a longer more detailed profile. Its their way of doing things as yours is going on cam. Simply find someone who does things your way and suits then happy days.

"
yes that works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here

Play nicely now Lucifer"
thanks Roxie Anne I didn't want to do but they are reported , this is all superseded a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gotta agree with OP: I prefer short, sweet & straight to the point profiles long paragraphs of rants bit of a turn off "
true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gotta agree with OP: I prefer short, sweet & straight to the point profiles long paragraphs of rants bit of a turn off

Yes a negative profile points to a negative personality. So I keep mine positive.

Jenny xxx"
good for you Jenny xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mines long .the basics are at the beginning ,then theres 2 stories at the end

most guys dont even read the important beginning bit .

the ones that do bother to read it often mail me and tell me what a great profile how turned on they got ..

so some like an interesting well written profile "
your not wrong there it's very long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

I'm not doing it because you are Welsh ...

Tbh I didn't read your profile either it's just my opinion... And I'm English it's just says you are from Rhyl .

Yes I live in Wales now ....

Although not in Rhyl ??sorry do you like wales?"

Of course I like Wales, I live there and I'm half Welsh but I was giving my own opinion which happens to be similar to yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with the OP here...

If I see a long profile it puts me right off ...

I hate all the demands and rules and 'if you have read this far put 'breadsticks' in your message header!

No need IMO ...

A profile should reflect the writers personality so for me the long winded ones are a great filter!

thank you I have taken so much abuse over this in my privat mail

At least you know who to block now ...

As I said it's a great filter

We dont all make demands. I simply dont want to get into someone only to find they cant get here or only do evenings etc

The great thing about fab is that we are all different... Whereas you would prefer to read or have people read (if they can be bothered) your requirements, others would prefer to get a gist of the profile writer and then get to know more via messages etc... thanks again Mrs fox the Welsh stick together

I'm not doing it because you are Welsh ...

Tbh I didn't read your profile either it's just my opinion... And I'm English it's just says you are from Rhyl .

Yes I live in Wales now ....

Although not in Rhyl ??sorry do you like wales?

Of course I like Wales, I live there and I'm half Welsh but I was giving my own opinion which happens to be similar to yours "
whic part or Wales do you live I from Wrexham but of course you don't have to say I don't want to start another scandal on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here

Play nicely now Luciferthanks Roxie Anne I didn't want to do but they are reported , this is all superseded a bit of fun "

You've reported us?

For what exactly?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

So op how exactly is the not reading profiles going for you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So op how exactly is the not reading profiles going for you ? "
fine thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here

Play nicely now Luciferthanks Roxie Anne I didn't want to do but they are reported , this is all superseded a bit of fun "

Jeez. That's your cards marked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its actually written in my long profile that if you don't read it then I will simply assume you are not serious about fucking me.....

Simple really

Cannot be doing with wankers that look at the pics and have no interest in what I am here for - only what THEY want..... why are whey wankers if they are not intrested in what you have to say !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here

It's marked back.

Play nicely now Luciferthanks Roxie Anne I didn't want to do but they are reported , this is all superseded a bit of fun

Jeez. That's your cards marked."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours is written to make sure anyone messaging us knows before hand we're madder than Clem

It works.

Old friends have said Hi.

New ones have been made.

One thing in common is they all know just how we are and crack on regardless.

Had some who haven't read it - bloody obvious without even opening the messages.

TBH though it's easy to just hit delete.

Oh and OP - if you thought my previous post was taking the piss..... You're in for a world of butthurt on here

It's marked back.

Play nicely now Luciferthanks Roxie Anne I didn't want to do but they are reported , this is all superseded a bit of fun

Jeez. That's your cards marked."

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"So op how exactly is the not reading profiles going for you ? fine thanks"

So why complain yet again that people don't reply to you . Not first thread you've whined that it's pissed you off you don't even get a no thanks.

So clearly it really isn't working is it . You'd be meeting not moaning .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So op how exactly is the not reading profiles going for you ? fine thanks

So why complain yet again that people don't reply to you . Not first thread you've whined that it's pissed you off you don't even get a no thanks.

So clearly it really isn't working is it . You'd be meeting not moaning ."

Careful...you'll be REPORTED!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So op how exactly is the not reading profiles going for you ? fine thanks

So why complain yet again that people don't reply to you . Not first thread you've whined that it's pissed you off you don't even get a no thanks.

So clearly it really isn't working is it . You'd be meeting not moaning ."
when in this post have I complained ? And yes I have said in other posts I think it's rude not to reply to a message but who said I didn't read there profile be for I sent the message you not me in this post or any other post I have placed.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

For someone who says it's working well for you ..well your posts and attitude deliver a completely different impression . As I said you'd be too busy meeting to care about the ones not replying wouldn't you .simple fact .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For someone who says it's working well for you ..well your posts and attitude deliver a completely different impression . As I said you'd be too busy meeting to care about the ones not replying wouldn't you .simple fact ."
i like your profile by the way may I send you a friend request ?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So op how exactly is the not reading profiles going for you ? fine thanks

So why complain yet again that people don't reply to you . Not first thread you've whined that it's pissed you off you don't even get a no thanks.

So clearly it really isn't working is it . You'd be meeting not moaning .when in this post have I complained ? And yes I have said in other posts I think it's rude not to reply to a message but who said I didn't read there profile be for I sent the message you not me in this post or any other post I have placed."

We all have choices, the folk who have written long profiles made that choice, It's up to you 'your choice' to read it or not...It's also their choice not to respond to messages.. whether you've read their short medium or long profile.

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?! "

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Gawd help anyone who wades their way through ours .... I just add updates to the basic text created ages ago .... so it gets longer and longer. The most important bit is in the first three lines .... oh well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr "
your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind?

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

The thing is OP you say you've taken a lot of stick over this thread.

You started by asking a question, which is fair enough, but when peoples have you honest answered as to why they have long profiles you seem to have taken issue and gone in a bit of a crusade to convince those who don't use the site just the way think it should that they should change to your way of thinking.

Your gonna disagree with me but read the thread again. When others have explained their reasoning you haven't said "fair enough" you've kept re-asserting your own opinion over and over, and over, and over.

I'm guessing is why you've had some stick.

It's one thing asking an open and honest question, it's another thing asking a question just so you can tell people they are wrong when they answe it.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

My profiles long but it's the best damn filter on fab!

But I love the long well written profiles myself and they are the ones I write to when in searching for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but to me it does precisely mean that."

Same here.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"For someone who says it's working well for you ..well your posts and attitude deliver a completely different impression . As I said you'd be too busy meeting to care about the ones not replying wouldn't you .simple fact .i like your profile by the way may I send you a friend request ?"

But you don't read profiles do you .so mute point isn't it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For someone who says it's working well for you ..well your posts and attitude deliver a completely different impression . As I said you'd be too busy meeting to care about the ones not replying wouldn't you .simple fact .i like your profile by the way may I send you a friend request ?

But you don't read profiles do you .so mute point isn't it ."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For someone who says it's working well for you ..well your posts and attitude deliver a completely different impression . As I said you'd be too busy meeting to care about the ones not replying wouldn't you .simple fact .i like your profile by the way may I send you a friend request ?

But you don't read profiles do you .so mute point isn't it ."
who said I don't read profiles not me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind?"

Ah so your attention span stretches to one line...good to know

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"For someone who says it's working well for you ..well your posts and attitude deliver a completely different impression . As I said you'd be too busy meeting to care about the ones not replying wouldn't you .simple fact .i like your profile by the way may I send you a friend request ?

But you don't read profiles do you .so mute point isn't it .who said I don't read profiles not me."

You said yourself op lol ! The whole reason for your post. Incase you forgot here's what you wrote.

Why do some people had to have such long winded profiles , just because I can't be bothered to read it doesn't mean ian not what you are looking for.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind?"
The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind?

Ah so your attention span stretches to one line...good to know "
sorry god but who are you to judge your so far off the mark here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind? The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?."
it says all you need to know to make your mind up find out more by chatting.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind? The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?.it says all you need to know to make your mind up find out more by chatting."
I prefer a detailed profile in order that I do not waste my time chatting to those whose requirements I do not fill.

In addition I always assume that one line profiles are fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind? The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?.it says all you need to know to make your mind up find out more by chatting."

We only bother chatting if there is enough in the profile to indicate that it is worth chatting. We would be forever chatting, otherwise, with the chat ending in nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind? The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?.it says all you need to know to make your mind up find out more by chatting.

We only bother chatting if there is enough in the profile to indicate that it is worth chatting. We would be forever chatting, otherwise, with the chat ending in nothing."
is that not what you are doing on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind? The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?.it says all you need to know to make your mind up find out more by chatting. I prefer a detailed profile in order that I do not waste my time chatting to those whose requirements I do not fill.

In addition I always assume that one line profiles are fakes. "
of course that your choice but it's wrong of you to think 1 liners are fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate profiles when it's has fill in later and been on a year or more .makes me think these are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd when guys can't be bothered to read profiles.

You can't be arsed to read my profile, but you want to stick a part of your anatomy inside mine?!

I had a guy send me about 8 long paragraphs about my profile which is pretty much empty! I do hope it was a copy and paste job, or I'm going to feel really bad for my tl;dr your profile is spot on it says what you want it to say well done you ( I loved it by the way) I might send a friend request if you don't mind? The profile to which you refer is only one line .

I fail to see how any member can make an assessment of their compatability with a members requirements if the profile is only one line .

Why techniques do you use to achieve this ?.it says all you need to know to make your mind up find out more by chatting.

We only bother chatting if there is enough in the profile to indicate that it is worth chatting. We would be forever chatting, otherwise, with the chat ending in nothing.is that not what you are doing on here?"

No.

I am not private messaging you with a view to meeting you.

Just engaging in a debate.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Will fill in later hints strongly at the amount of effort you'll get in the sack. As well as their imagination, foresight into others' needs and overall engagement.

The types that when asked about their interests state 'Everything' but later it turns out aren't into the hog roast you'd got lined up. Despite it being listed on page 57 of your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody needs to go and play with their Lego.....

M

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