FabSwingers.com forum: Last min cancellations

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

I suppose we have all done it before but after detailed communications via email, msn, txt etc has a meet cancelled last night as relatively short notice. It's a bummer when it happens as saved up a lot of the white stuff for her.

Received NO explanation just a txt saying sorry meeting cancelled !!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

happens to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

least they text you told you some dnt ,she probs got cold feet ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree at least you got a text could have been so much worse if just hadnt showed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wished it had been you lovely ladies instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to almost everyone at sometime or other.

We had to cancel our last two meets. One of the meets was planned months ago, hotel booked etc, and we were really looking forward to meeting our friends again.

Good communications are the key to good friendship and solid relationships, but some people do things differently to others.

We've been on the receiving end too, but when you decide to explore this lifestyle you have to accept that all things don't go just as we want them to.

Just put it down to experience and look forward, not back

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Like others have said, at least they let you know. I`d message them back in a couple of days and thank them for letting you know and hope you can re-arrange. If they agree then you`ll know they`re genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes at least they text you and DIDNT let you go to a hotel PAY for it and then not show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"happens to us all"

It hasn't happened to me...yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"happens to us all

It hasn't happened to me...yet!"

They wouldn't dare

OP they maybe ill or something don't take it to heart at least they let you know

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By *tockingloversukCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Wev`e only had it happen twice in a number of years

What really hurt is that we KNOW they made an excuse because someone left them feedback for the night we were supposed to meet. We were new then and they just opted for a known "shag" as opposed to a couple of nervous newbies ( who had booked time off work and made sitting arrangements!! - but they made it look like they were doing us a favour as we were nervous )

The other time we were let down by someone who said they would accompany us to a club on our first visit. We had met them socially before. Luckily we went anyway and met some really nice people. They didn`t seem to understand why we didn`t want to meet them after that?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

They may have been good enough to let you the OP know but a text saying sorry meet cancelled with no further explanation would'nt have me rushing to get back in touch with them

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Touch wood, we have never had a no show, although not had many private meets. One reason we like our first meet to be at our local Club. Then if a no show or no click, there are plenty of other options. Clubs have got us more meets than fab now. So happy days. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people do meet for genuine reasons, we all have private lifes and things can come up at any time, i have had to cancel meets in the past due to my kids and ive had meets cancelled on me, it happens

If your a couple or a woman its easy to replace a meet tho, just go online and replace them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a couple mess me about now. Had my address and details and did not show up. I wonder what people are doing with our details.

HOPE IT'S NOT IDENTITY THEFT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a couple mess me about now. Had my address and details and did not show up. I wonder what people are doing with our details.

HOPE IT'S NOT IDENTITY THEFT

This is why you have a social you don't give your address out to everyone jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet in a pub first, for that very reason!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

We had to cancel with just a couple of hours notice recently as my period started.We did say why though,even though i was embarrassed i cant count

It does not always mean you are a timewaster .

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

"yes at least they text you and DIDNT let you go to a hotel PAY for it and then not show up

Yes, agree you are lucky to get a text, and yes also have been left twice with hotel bills and no shows, never again, and some peeps now take offence with me if I ask them to book the hotel, la di da, hey ho, hugz, Ruby, mwah, xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had to cancel with just a couple of hours notice recently as my period started.We did say why though,even though i was embarrassed i cant count

It does not always mean you are a timewaster ."

lol just reminded me of a guy i was meeting years ago

i called him up on the day of the meet saying i was still happy to meet him for a drink if he wanted but we couldnt play due to my period starting early and his reply was

well you've got a arse havnt you lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well you've got a arse havnt you lol

see the best finishing school in Switzerland paid off for him.....

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