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Self control and ejaculation

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By *he tactile technician OP   Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

how do people deal with that age old self control dilema? You're pounding away, enjoying every thrust, not conscious that you're anywhere near climax and without any sign you've exploded, how do people practise self control without appearing to have had their emotion chip removed?

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

At 51 years of age you are asking this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do people deal with that age old self control dilema? You're pounding away, enjoying every thrust, not conscious that you're anywhere near climax and without any sign you've exploded, how do people practise self control without appearing to have had their emotion chip removed?"

Im sure the guys will be along shortly to help you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do people deal with that age old self control dilema? You're pounding away, enjoying every thrust, not conscious that you're anywhere near climax and without any sign you've exploded, how do people practise self control without appearing to have had their emotion chip removed?"

well just carry on, or learn to hold back at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite lucky as I can control it until I/we are both ready. Never been a problem for me

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Get circumcised!

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By *he tactile technician OP   Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"At 51 years of age you are asking this?

"

Its a typo it should read 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if this is a natural thing or something wrong with me, but I find that if I go on top of a girl I can't control myself for too long. I cum quicker. But in every other position I have total control and I cum when I want to.

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By *o 1Man
over a year ago

Ponteland / London


"Dunno if this is a natural thing or something wrong with me, but I find that if I go on top of a girl I can't control myself for too long. I cum quicker. But in every other position I have total control and I cum when I want to. "
Same here so your not the only wierdo on here

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

you have had a hard life

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By *he tactile technician OP   Man
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


" you have had a hard life"

You're telling me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby's the same, if he is led on top face to face with me then he can't control it - I tell him it's because he can't get over how lovely his wife is!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do people deal with that age old self control dilema? You're pounding away, enjoying every thrust, not conscious that you're anywhere near climax and without any sign you've exploded, how do people practise self control without appearing to have had their emotion chip removed?"

learn the art of Tantric sex! It does work for many people

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

I'll try to reply again in a couple of mins... I only got halfway down the page and could not last any longer!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll try to reply again in a couple of mins... I only got halfway down the page and could not last any longer!!! "

lol

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"Dunno if this is a natural thing or something wrong with me, but I find that if I go on top of a girl I can't control myself for too long. I cum quicker. But in every other position I have total control and I cum when I want to. Same here so your not the only wierdo on here "

Ditto. Lots of foreplay and intercourse in other positions to begin. If first position is missionary, its going to be a short affair.

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By *rRmrsVCouple
over a year ago

outskirts of chester

i seem to struggle when i hear the wife coming gets me soo fecking excited its hard not to lol

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By *onnyeasygoingMan
over a year ago

Somewhere on the M62 between 24 and 14

Tried again, and got 3/4 of the way down this time.... me thinks my stamina is building!!! There in lie's the answer.. Try,try, try again!

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Imagine Susan Boyle naked! Works for me.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden


"i seem to struggle when i hear the wife coming "

i'm sure she's gonna catch you one day

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By *rRmrsVCouple
over a year ago

outskirts of chester


"i seem to struggle when i hear the wife coming

i'm sure she's gonna catch you one day"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do people deal with that age old self control dilema? You're pounding away, enjoying every thrust, not conscious that you're anywhere near climax and without any sign you've exploded, how do people practise self control without appearing to have had their emotion chip removed?"

Get yerself a "minger", problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try having a wank (or two) beforehand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my partners learnt some tantric techniques to seperate

ejaculation and orgasm for complete control.Its just a matter of practice! x

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

try exercising ur muscle that u use to stop ur self peeing that helps so early ejaculation

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"my partners learnt some tantric techniques to seperate

ejaculation and orgasm for complete control.Its just a matter of practice! x"

Medical practice? Sounds like something requiring surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a case of mind of matter!

Concentration, self discipline - call it what you like!

Though have to say, if too much self discipline is levelled - can work the other way and stop one cuming at all (for a while anyway)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine Susan Boyle naked! Works for me.

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pmsl

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Its a case of mind of matter!

Concentration, self discipline - call it what you like!

Though have to say, if too much self discipline is levelled - can work the other way and stop one cuming at all (for a while anyway)!"

same here can be a real pain when your trying to do the cum shot i can be all night second time around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming the 1994 Man Utd team in your head.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Why not just pull out and have a break, or continue foreplay etc... Or take some photos

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Stopping having a break/drink is a good techique

However I (Rich) seem to have the opposite problem. I can go for ages in missionary or any position and control it if I want to - say 20 or 30 mins.. which might seem like a good thing

BUT It is a double edge sword..

If I control it for *too* long then I can shag and shag until I wear myself (or sometime the lady) out.... and still can't come no matter what I do!

Ask a few on our feedback - they will confirm this is true x

And I don't think I am alone with that problem?

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mike stop talkin bollocks - the V8 plastic is just an "extension" ....

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By *anderer2018Man
over a year ago

Bangkok

I find that it's quicker if I'm on top so I try to mix things up and not to focus to hard if I feel myself going early!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stopping having a break/drink is a good techique

However I (Rich) seem to have the opposite problem. I can go for ages in missionary or any position and control it if I want to - say 20 or 30 mins.. which might seem like a good thing

BUT It is a double edge sword..

If I control it for *too* long then I can shag and shag until I wear myself (or sometime the lady) out.... and still can't come no matter what I do!

Ask a few on our feedback - they will confirm this is true x

And I don't think I am alone with that problem?

xx"

Spot on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being crude just put your mind somewhere else

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By *ussman1Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Just have a good wank earlier in the day.

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