FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling meh

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fed up? Bored? Numb? Depressed?

Cant put my finger on the feeling but I know why im feeling it. 2 cancelled meets in the last 2 weeks, 1 standing me up and getting a veri with someone else when he was meant to be with me, a fabber on here taking the piss out of a disability I have (blocked and reported), being generally pissed about in here and at work and real life.

Wish i could shake the feeling and just get on with my life. I have become almost reclusive because every one seems to take the piss in my life somehow.

Moan over

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Take a deep breath and go outside ... into nature and look at the world around .... I always find that helps. Sunday evenings are always a bit of a meh for me too, but I can see yours has been building up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was like that not long back, sick of people in general and still don't like that many tbh.

you've got to find yourself decent people to bring your faith in people back i reckon. fuck off all the shit you was associating with and find better people than them.

i don't think you'll find many on fab, or online really. or even if they are decent people they won't be on here to be decent and aren't really here to give that much of a shit about you.

focus on your good points, even if people have taken advantage of them and boost your confidence up. scurtinise yourself honestly and try to figure out why you have bad points and try to change so you don't have them any more.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Leave off fab for a couple of weeks and do something else, hide your profile and forget about it all. 2 weeks isn't a long time in the whole scheme of things but you can do and achieve a lot in that time. You'll come back with a fresh mind, more energised and with a positive outlook. You'll realise how fab isn't that important to live after all - it's just a fun addition. When it stops being fun, stop it. At least for a while. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get off here for a start .

Then go for tea with friends

Walks in the sun

Paint the bathroom

Read a book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I had something similar happen to me last year - someone mess me about, cancel a meet and then get a veri from someone else. Its a shit feeling when that happens and hard not to take it personally.

But I get the Meh feeling you're talking about. Ive had it for so long know its like a comfortable old coat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If others are taking the piss you are letting them. Take control. Take some time away from this Circus and focus on you and becoming positive and in control. You only have one life. Live it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Leave off fab for a couple of weeks and do something else, hide your profile and forget about it all. 2 weeks isn't a long time in the whole scheme of things but you can do and achieve a lot in that time. You'll come back with a fresh mind, more energised and with a positive outlook. You'll realise how fab isn't that important to live after all - it's just a fun addition. When it stops being fun, stop it. At least for a while. Good luck

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fuck me are you in.my head lol. I just did this op and buggered off on holiday for a week

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I hope you feel more content soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you going to let some tosspots get you down by their arsehole ways? No, you're better than that.

They don't want to meet you, it's their loss not yours!

Take a deep breath, have a few days away from the site if it'll help and then come back with fresh eyes.

Shoulders back, chest out, head up! There are plenty more lovely *ahem* men on here, just waiting for your attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol thank u all. Fab isnt the main problem. I think ive just become stuck in my life. Need a challenge or an interest to inspire me i think xx

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