FabSwingers.com forum: Fingering a lady

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut your nails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I prefere willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her what she likes !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently fast and hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slow but with lots of good pressure in the right places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent at least 3 hours going down on a lady with tongue and fingers in 1 session.

I just enjoy and use the moans and groans as guidance

Gently does it at first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short and clean finger nails, gentle 'cupping' of labia and clit, middle finger starts to gentle explore her opening. When your finger is wet then move finger up and circle around (not directly on) her clit then go back to explore her further. Go by what she likes and responds to, DO NOT start hard and fast!!!

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If you don't know by now at your age you must have led a very shelted life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok thank you. Not really fingered before tend to use my tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow soft deep.....tease let them just enter her then let her feel the full length of them having your thumb cress her clit and start to work your fingers deep and quicker.......mix it up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not ashamed to admit it hence why I joined the site.

"If you don't know by now at your age you must have led a very shelted life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like it slow.. too fast and I feel nothing.

Every woman is different

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

You and me had very different adolescences, OP....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You and me had very different adolescences, OP....

Indeed we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flick her clit like your launching a pea.

Trust me she'll love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The demise of fingering

https://youtu.be/DBC1ChOJS7c

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I'm not ashamed to admit it hence why I joined the site.

If you don't know by now at your age you must have led a very shelted life"

Nothing to be ashamed of just thought it a little odd most guys first experience of a womans pussy is a fumble in her knickers

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I prefer slow but with lots of good pressure in the right places

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"You and me had very different adolescences, OP....

Indeed we did"

Ah, Sharon Jenkins, I fingered you on the top deck of the #34 bus..... Where are you now?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Slow soft deep.....tease let them just enter her then let her feel the full length of them having your thumb cress her clit and start to work your fingers deep and quicker.......mix it up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent at least 3 hours going down on a lady with tongue and fingers in 1 session.

I just enjoy and use the moans and groans as guidance

Gently does it at first

Did she not need to wee? Or you?

Now I enjoy digital and oral but not for 3 hours!

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Any advice?"

Everyone is different OP just go with the flow when she moans she likes it when she screams she loves it. good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cut your nails."

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over a year ago

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

If you do a manual job consider using moisturiser every day, or rubber gloves

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

"If you do a manual job consider using moisturiser every day, or rubber gloves

not the washing up kind i may add

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you do a manual job consider using moisturiser every day, or rubber gloves

I'm ok there soft hands x

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

"If you do a manual job consider using moisturiser every day, or rubber gloves

I'm ok there soft hands x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO FINGER BLASTING

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Finger Blasting???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. Take it slowly... Hold the lips back and give a little lick of the clit then put the fingers in again.. Little bit more pressure this time. Use your thumb as well.. Never just shove them in. The woman will let you know when to go hard and fast

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"I prefer slow but with lots of good pressure in the right places

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over a year ago

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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago

dublin

"Slow soft deep.....tease let them just enter her then let her feel the full length of them having your thumb cress her clit and start to work your fingers deep and quicker.......mix it up "

Mmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be scared to use more then 1.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't be scared to use more then 1.

xxx"

2 mind fingers seem to work for the best results

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

"Cut your nails.

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nice and short and make sure there clean with no germs lurking??

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Your two fingers are not a penis - fingers can do things that penises can't. explore this avenue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finger blasting is when u just ran fingers up hard and keep ramming .not good unless u like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your two fingers are not a penis - fingers can do things that penises can't. explore this avenue. "

This and watch the reactions of the woman. Gentleness does it more for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice?"

Don't bother.

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By *ir jizalotMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Obvious one but like it first until late sobbing then slowly teasing for reaction stroke downward over the Clit just into the libra whilst watching her movements then gage for size and enter but not to deep deep be miss guided girls like the spot played with too when your finger slides inside stroke it as if you was tickling softly her belly button from inside

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You know, everyone will have their opinion on this subject and every other sexual 'technique' because we are all different really.

Some like it gentle. Some DO like the finger blasting! There is no 'one size fits all' ( excuse the pun!) .

The BEST thing is find someone who you connect with and have mutual trust.... and just explore. But accept that 'her' preferences may be different to others. We are different in what we enjoy. Get to know a woman's body and communicate with her..... listen to her ....her body language....and respond accordingly. Don't rush in like a bull in a China shop. Take your time... and have fun turning eachother on x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Cut your nails."
the day before..so the sharp edges get worn round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just file your nails and when you paint them brush the ends too. Makes the varnish stay on longer and looks great. Gives them a softer edge too

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Never that keen on fingers inside. I like a stroke of my clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent at least 3 hours going down on a lady with tongue and fingers in 1 session.

I just enjoy and use the moans and groans as guidance

Gently does it at first

Did she not need to wee? Or you?

Now I enjoy digital and oral but not for 3 hours!"

Indeed....if you are not sorted after 3 hours...then you must be doing something wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat her first

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I love it. Fingers inside and stroking my clit.

I'd love to take it further but not found someone with small enough hands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her wet then only finger...

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have slim hands and have had the absolute pleasure of being allowed to fist my FWB. Such an amazing feeling for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"NO FINGER BLASTING

ahh you can't beat a good ole finger blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your watch off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be careful in there

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

This post is starting to sound like a scene from Alien!!!! Lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your two fingers are not a penis - fingers can do things that penises can't. explore this avenue. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This post is starting to sound like a scene from Alien!!!! Lol!!! "

lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't you'll make me paranoid lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I spent at least 3 hours going down on a lady with tongue and fingers in 1 session.

I just enjoy and use the moans and groans as guidance

Gently does it at first

I do so need to get this meet arranged.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but after 3 hours id be sleeping .far too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but after 3 hours id be sleeping .far too long"

You're kidding??

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Sorry but after 3 hours id be sleeping .far too long"

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Love the title of thread. Giggles about the lady

Any advice is also welcome and forgettable in the heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but after 3 hours id be sleeping .far too long"

Exactly what I said....if it takes you three hours to get there you are definitely doing something wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Short and clean finger nails, gentle 'cupping' of labia and clit, middle finger starts to gentle explore her opening. When your finger is wet then move finger up and circle around (not directly on) her clit then go back to explore her further. Go by what she likes and responds to, DO NOT start hard and fast!!!"

After you've done the above,insert your middle and index fingers and start moving in and out, like fucking. Slowly progress to faster movements,deeper and curve your fingers inside to hit the G-spot. When you go deep, your palm will stroke the clitor. Massage her belly with your other hand, in circles all the way down to carress her clitor. Carry on doing this till she orgasms! It will be hell of a lot of orgasm, I can guarantee.

There are a few other tweeks with hands co-ordination, pressure outside and inside, etc, but you should be good to start off with the above.

Take it from me, a professional masseur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice?"

Use your fingers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks will do x

There are a few other tweeks with hands co-ordination, pressure outside and inside, etc, but you should be good to start off with the above.

Take it from me, a professional masseur

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Any advice?"
find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks will do x

There are a few other tweeks with hands co-ordination, pressure outside and inside, etc, but you should be good to start off with the above.

Take it from me, a professional masseur

ive had this done to me by a very sexy lady - extra pressure on the outside- was very arousing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice?"

I can only advise you as to how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few other tweeks with hands co-ordination, pressure outside and inside, etc, but you should be good to start off with the above.

Take it from me, a professional masseur

Don't make guarantee's you can't keep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Any advice?

I can only advise you as to how I like it

And may I ask how do you like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ It will be hell of a lot of orgasm, I can guarantee.

There are a few other tweeks with hands co-ordination, pressure outside and inside, etc, but you should be good to start off with the above.

Take it from me, a professional masseur

Don't make guarantee's you can't keep

Try me! I can guarantee that I will keep my quarantee 100%.

But you would be the one to scream with pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent at least 3 hours going down on a lady with tongue and fingers in 1 session.

I just enjoy and use the moans and groans as guidance

Gently does it at first

Id have got bored..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"................ It will be hell of a lot of orgasm, I can guarantee.

There are a few other tweeks with hands co-ordination, pressure outside and inside, etc, but you should be good to start off with the above.

Take it from me, a professional masseur

Don't make guarantee's you can't keep

Try me! I can guarantee that I will keep my quarantee 100%.

But you would be the one to scream with pleasure

That honestly would not make me cum, there's only one way I can cum and hands alone will not do it

This body is 41 years old and I've done a lot of experimenting

I know what does and does not do it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post like this make me love the forums....

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

"Any advice?"

Two words… Pneumatic… & drill

Trust me,

No really…. trust me

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

"Any advice?"

Afterwards, don't lick yer fingers and utter "Mmmm. Finger Lickin' Good".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meet was cancelled

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I spent at least 3 hours going down on a lady with tongue and fingers in 1 session.

I just enjoy and use the moans and groans as guidance

Gently does it at first

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Just hate the expression fingering..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier reach success if you go from to gentle a start, than too rough a start.

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