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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr here. Being part of a couple and looking for an older lady (biggest fantasy) or even a female, I now know what it's like for single guys to get a meet As I'm finding it hard myself to get anywhere. The profiles weve looked on at hot older couples the fem has met 20+ yo guys an mid 30s etc but I get nowhere. Where am I going round? I don't look my age which unfortunately can't be helped but I am nice and toned and in shape with a good sized cock And I'm a heavy cummer ,don't know why just am lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Mr here. Being part of a couple and looking for an older lady (biggest fantasy) or even a female, I now know what it's like for single guys to get a meet As I'm finding it hard myself to get anywhere. The profiles weve looked on at hot older couples the fem has met 20+ yo guys an mid 30s etc but I get nowhere. Where am I going round? I don't look my age which unfortunately can't be helped but I am nice and toned and in shape with a good sized cock And I'm a heavy cummer ,don't know why just am lol "

What's the question?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Are you looking as a couple or for just you the male half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive looked at your profile ,,and its not aimed at single women ,, i know your a couple and look for couples etc but if your looking to meet on your own from your couples profile then you need to tempt the women ,, and the odd pic you have of the male half isnt enough ,[for me anyway],, ive met the male half of many couples as im not bi and dont intend to change ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you looking as a couple or for just you the male half? "

If looking as just male half......why not also set up a single account?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Are you looking as a couple or for just you the male half?

If looking as just male half......why not also set up a single account?"

That was my next question.

After reading the profile I think they /he wants a ffm but I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry kinda worded it all wrong. was just meaning in general when browsing female profiles etc Yes we're a couple. I always get knocked back yet she's the attractive one

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

What do ypu mean you get knocked back? You meet as a couple.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Sorry kinda worded it all wrong. was just meaning in general when browsing female profiles etc Yes we're a couple. I always get knocked back yet she's the attractive one "

We can't help what we like, but may be worth putting more pics of the male on the profile as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do ypu mean you get knocked back? You meet as a couple. "

As in looks lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry kinda worded it all wrong. was just meaning in general when browsing female profiles etc Yes we're a couple. I always get knocked back yet she's the attractive one

We can't help what we like, but may be worth putting more pics of the male on the profile as well "

Not got any others of me. Don't see point in posting cock pics really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My body is on display seems good enough to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few more pictures might help, Full body, legs, arse etc, As for getting knocked back for your looks, You won't find every Woman attractive just as they all won't find you attractive,

Just like in the real world we all have a preference on what we find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

looking for an older lady (biggest fantasy) or even a female,

finding it hard myself to get anywhere. "

Is an older lady not a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body is on display seems good enough to me "

If the female is going to meet with you both, surely she would want photos of you both?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My body is on display seems good enough to me

If the female is going to meet with you both, surely she would want photos of you both?"

We have a face pic together in private that we send.. As for other pics there are a full on body shot of us both together just without our faces..like you do. There's pics of my cock on also.

But I suppose we all have taste.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I know what you mean OP we both would play seperatly but most interest is in the female anyway. As for creating a singles profile i dont think i could compete with all the 6 packs and tall blokes. Not many like a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..i dont think i could compete with all the 6 packs and tall blokes. Not many like a dad bod "
p.s. According to profile pics the OP male half DOES have a six pack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tricky, and interesting, question.

I can answer for myself, as someone who would never organize meets through the internet, but I also have some more speculative ideas based on being a Forum Follower.

Personally, if I have met a couple in a club, got on with them and perceived them as real swingers who are in to the life style and have a relaxed attitude, I would have no problems meeting with the male half after that. In fact, at times coupled, male swingers come through as more uncomplicated sex than the single blokes. The NSA element is a given at all times.

With regards to your online searching, not too sure. A couple friends' of mine did indeed decide to get separate profiles as they almost only received attention and mails for her in their couple's profile, so they took the consequenses of it. She still gets more mail than him but they both have success.

I wouldn't think it a case of women suspecting you are a man pretending to be a couple as you have good veris.

Perhaps its just the good, old obstacle of the numbers game, there a more men wanting to play than women?

Lastly, said in the nicest way possible, judging from the opening of this thread, migh it be possible that the written word isn't your absolute strongest? And, with it being a numbers game, some women may judge and discard you straigth away purely based on that? That would be one disadvantage of wanting to meet strangers through the internet.

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By *izzlemoonMan
over a year ago

Bath


"Mr here. Being part of a couple and looking for an older lady (biggest fantasy) or even a female, I now know what it's like for single guys to get a meet As I'm finding it hard myself to get anywhere."

challenging I'm sure but can't be as difficult as being a single guy. You look like an attractive couple. I would. I guess maybe the couple dynamic is daunting to approach. Just a guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"..i dont think i could compete with all the 6 packs and tall blokes. Not many like a dad bod p.s. According to profile pics the OP male half DOES have a six pack! "

Thanks, I try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a tricky, and interesting, question.

I can answer for myself, as someone who would never organize meets through the internet, but I also have some more speculative ideas based on being a Forum Follower.

Personally, if I have met a couple in a club, got on with them and perceived them as real swingers who are in to the life style and have a relaxed attitude, I would have no problems meeting with the male half after that. In fact, at times coupled, male swingers come through as more uncomplicated sex than the single blokes. The NSA element is a given at all times.

With regards to your online searching, not too sure. A couple friends' of mine did indeed decide to get separate profiles as they almost only received attention and mails for her in their couple's profile, so they took the consequenses of it. She still gets more mail than him but they both have success.

I wouldn't think it a case of women suspecting you are a man pretending to be a couple as you have good veris.

Perhaps its just the good, old obstacle of the numbers game, there a more men wanting to play than women?

Lastly, said in the nicest way possible, judging from the opening of this thread, migh it be possible that the written word isn't your absolute strongest? And, with it being a numbers game, some women may judge and discard you straigth away purely based on that? That would be one disadvantage of wanting to meet strangers through the internet."

Agree it's cool

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