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"It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant. I was in a three year relationship as the Dom. Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you. ![]() Yes, can you tell us your hair care secrets, Master? | |||
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"Must be more than 5 kinksters on fab! ![]() you don't have to be dom or sub to be kinky ![]() | |||
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"It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant. I was in a three year relationship as the Dom. Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you. ![]() I'm afraid I can't divulge that information | |||
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"I am definitely switch but want to do more sub X ![]() That's me too xx | |||
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"It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant. I was in a three year relationship as the Dom. Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant. I was in a three year relationship as the Dom. Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I might be a primal sub if I can find a sensual, primal, respectful dom ![]() ![]() what is a primal sub | |||
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies" what is a masochistic sub? | |||
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"Hi i have been into BDSM for a while but i still feel conflicted in whether i am dom, sub or switch. Part of me loves being totally controlled and the feeling of doing what the person want, knowing i must please them however a lot of time i love being in control, it gives me a sense of excitement and drives me more forward into liking what i am doing with the person. its just so annoying and confusing how i feel because when i am a dom i want to be a sub and versa visa. does anyone else feel like and have any advice " Sounds like a switch then. | |||
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies what is a masochistic sub?" enjoys pain | |||
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"I am a kinky switch extroverted geek ![]() nothing wrong with being kinky and a geek thats the best combine thing ever lol | |||
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies what is a masochistic sub? enjoys pain " ooo i like giving and receiving pain pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain . its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (: | |||
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies what is a masochistic sub? enjoys pain ooo i like giving and receiving pain pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain . its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (: " Exactly, pain of stubbing your toe, smacking your elbow or cutting your finger are all everyday pains that are never nice to feel or receive. Pain from flogging & whipping however is totally different, you consent to receiving the pain, you entrust your Dom to be accurate & controlled, the build up of the pain is warming & allows the masochist to feel release from so many everyday stresses & as it increases & goes on for longer you actually feel your mind & body becoming centred and put back into balance. I used to hurt myself to release stress, when I'm in receipt of pain play on a regular basis I no longer feel the need to hurt myself. | |||
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies what is a masochistic sub? enjoys pain ooo i like giving and receiving pain pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain . its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (: Exactly, pain of stubbing your toe, smacking your elbow or cutting your finger are all everyday pains that are never nice to feel or receive. Pain from flogging & whipping however is totally different, you consent to receiving the pain, you entrust your Dom to be accurate & controlled, the build up of the pain is warming & allows the masochist to feel release from so many everyday stresses & as it increases & goes on for longer you actually feel your mind & body becoming centred and put back into balance. I used to hurt myself to release stress, when I'm in receipt of pain play on a regular basis I no longer feel the need to hurt myself. " for me it takes my mind of things that are bad when i am in the zone of bdsm things i think of nothing else its like my being is not there and i let all my senses go and enter another world. i still finding pain a odd thing like you was saying about everyday pain not being a turn on and yet the feeling of being naughty or punished it sexual and we enjoy it us humans are a weried bunch (: would you like to message us other privatly and disucss more of it ? | |||
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"I might be a primal sub if I can find a sensual, primal, respectful dom ![]() ![]() I have yet to explore - I like a certain type of dominant man though I am not particularly submissive, and the primal play sounds just my cup of tea and is defined by others as: "To get to a place, where the feelings are primary- pure, raw, animal emotions, sensation and/or instinct. .... past rational thought. ....If we start with the basic definition above, then we can think of primal play in the kink context as getting to a place where the masks of our civilized selves can fall away and we can act on our urges more directly, letting ourselves really play, give over to our feelings and impulses." It sounds to me like just totally letting go, wherever that may lead. Yum! ![]() | |||
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"I might be a primal sub if I can find a sensual, primal, respectful dom ![]() ![]() ![]() thats sounds so cool i think the whole dom sub or switch thing is a great way to make yourself feel happy and its good to talk to people who like the same as you (: | |||
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"Very much a sub I couldn't domme if I tried" your from nottingham i used to live there for 18 years (: | |||
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"I'm a sadist through and through But I'm a little at heart ![]() what kind of sadist have you done (: | |||
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"I'm submissive to the right person but will happily and confidently top others. " tell me your experiences if you dont mind ? | |||
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive." explain what makes you want to be a dom? | |||
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive. explain what makes you want to be a dom?" I just am. | |||
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive. explain what makes you want to be a dom? I just am." what gives you the thrill of being dom how does it make you feel | |||
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive. explain what makes you want to be a dom? I just am. what gives you the thrill of being dom how does it make you feel" Why? | |||
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive. explain what makes you want to be a dom? I just am. what gives you the thrill of being dom how does it make you feel Why?" curious on how different people feel when they are dom or sub what drives people to like what they do the feelings it gives off just is unbelieveable that we are so bizzare as humans and yet it feel normal to us | |||
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"curious on how different people feel when they are dom or sub what drives people to like what they do the feelings it gives off just is unbelieveable that we are so bizzare as humans and yet it feel normal to us" People will offer what information they feel comfortable with. In general they don't like to be quizzed ![]() | |||
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"Where are all the sadists hiding? ![]() ![]() Oh I have a sadist streak..... | |||
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"I am Grrrrrr!!!! A hairy, primal, bitey, rough fucking, hitty and growling thing. Does that make me a dom? Or a Grrrrr? ![]() Like a teddy bear!! :p | |||
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies what is a masochistic sub? enjoys pain ooo i like giving and receiving pain pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain . its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (: Exactly, pain of stubbing your toe, smacking your elbow or cutting your finger are all everyday pains that are never nice to feel or receive. Pain from flogging & whipping however is totally different, you consent to receiving the pain, you entrust your Dom to be accurate & controlled, the build up of the pain is warming & allows the masochist to feel release from so many everyday stresses & as it increases & goes on for longer you actually feel your mind & body becoming centred and put back into balance. I used to hurt myself to release stress, when I'm in receipt of pain play on a regular basis I no longer feel the need to hurt myself. " This | |||
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"you don't have to be dom or sub to be kinky ![]() I'm definitely sub to my partner but agree with what you say because having been introduced to this wonderful world of kink by him 8 months ago I am really spreading my wings and now want some slaves of my own - Mmmmmmmm ![]() | |||
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"So, I'm on the hunt for fellow kinksters! I want to know weather your Dominant, Submissive or Switch between them both! So.... I'll start off. Normally Dom, however really want to submit and be someone's toy to use abuse and humiliate for their pleasure! So I'm going to say Switch! Bonus loony flt saying how you would Top, or Sub to the poster above you! Keep it kinky! ![]() Definitely sub for me, no switching xx | |||
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"Switches have twice the fun" Not from my perspective they don't. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am Grrrrrr!!!! A hairy, primal, bitey, rough fucking, hitty and growling thing. Does that make me a dom? Or a Grrrrr? ![]() Hmmm. Yes. Grrrr! ![]() | |||
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