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Confidence crisis re figure!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bigger girls. I jave had a quick look at your pictures and i have to say you look perfect. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with all sexual tastes, some do, some don't. It's best not to rely too much on others for validation, confidence comes from within.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a big girl myself. I have to say, I have only ever found the site/clubs/socials and meets a very positive experience. And a massive confidence boost!

Imagine my utter delight when a gorgeous man started to chat little (Well, not so little) old me up at a club! And he was STUNNING!!

So, stick your confidence hat on and shake that gorgeous booty!

xx

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I think some men aren't too bothered as its the vagina they are mostly interested in, that and your mouth and tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "

Now that is the question!! Its not only me then lol

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By *hrissieTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester

I would love to cum and play wth those curves and wonderful breasts. You have nothing to worry about. Relax and enjoy yourself

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Most of the time a welcoming vagina will suffice but chaps like ladies in all shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger girls with curves and bumps are so sexy xxx especially when they are really confident to go with it !!! Gorgeous combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree with that one! Some people I can agree are classically perfect to look at in every way, but I don't find them remotely attractive ...even with a vagina mouth and tits xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find my own build in the slightest bit attractive.

I wholly embrace the fact that others will though.

Whilst recognising I am not attractive to all, I am attractive to some .

And of those, there are some that I do find attractive.

And that's where the magic happens.

So accept yourself, love yourself and let others worry about whether your curves and wobbles are sexy or not cos it's all subjective

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "

Same here.. I don't think I look good I look pregnant!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I don't find my own build in the slightest bit attractive.

I wholly embrace the fact that others will though.

Whilst recognising I am not attractive to all, I am attractive to some .

And of those, there are some that I do find attractive.

And that's where the magic happens.

So accept yourself, love yourself and let others worry about whether your curves and wobbles are sexy or not cos it's all subjective "

I feel podgy. But I am aware on a logical basis that some may not view me the same way so it's a back of the mind niggle when I am trying on clothes rather than a full blown crisis of confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "

I've got no preference for size I love women in general. I think your all beautiful in your own way.

Now that said does anyone fancy a shag lol

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I adore the larger size, supermodels do nothing for me. Whatever your size, large or small, have the confidence in your body because there are men and women who will find you a massive turn on.

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I've had a similar conversation to this today too. The upshot being that we don't view ourselves how others view us. I love some bigger ladies, I also love some smaller ladies, what I love most is who they are and how they entice me in to their kinky devious activities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer thin girls everytime

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

The answer to your question is, yes. We both enjoy contact with larger ladies. Anyone les than a size 20 is a non starter in our book. The only proviso is that the lady should have the confidence to fully engage. That word sex implies a two way thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"prefer thin girls everytime"

Aww shucks....i thought i was in with a chance too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some men do. A very clever young man convinced me of this a few years ago. He spoke a lot of sense.

It doesn't stop me feeling utter shit sometimes but at least I have his voice in my head saying that I am fanciable to some.

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"

I feel podgy. But I am aware on a logical basis that some may not view me the same way so it's a back of the mind niggle when I am trying on clothes rather than a full blown crisis of confidence."

You my lovely lady are perfection and I would love to treat you to a coffee and show how beautiful you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated my body so much before coming on here! I now realise guys like curves and big butts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slim (not skinny) but big boobies and bum

Girl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always been uncomfortable with my body shape and size, but since I went on my first club visit and saw women of all shapes and sizes enjoying themselves. I must admit I'm not so conscious anymore.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so they say!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

For me the person on the inside is more important than wether the person is a skinny miss or a cuddly girl.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I hated my body so much before coming on here! I now realise guys like curves and big butts "

You have curves in all the right places and you don't have a big butt unlike me

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Whatever their size or shape many women haven't much body confidence. I didn't until we started posting pictures of me on fab - I was surprised and delighted to find how many men (and women) really like my figure - and weren't complimenting me just to get into my knickers. Now I'm much more comfortable with my body.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Female bodies are beautiful in so many variations as compared to the average male body. Curves are about delights of pleasure so hope you use them to good effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a great place to get compliments on your body and swing clubs even more.

I've yet to see a voluptuous lady left stood in the corner in a club.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I found that going to spa type clubs and getting naked in public did wonders for my body confidence.

This is who I am, for now, and tough shit to those who don't appreciate it (and I don't expect any to, if I'm not to anyone's taste, they can simply move on).

I have nothing close to a perfect body, but have found that some appreciate it more than I thought possible.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

my mum and my sister mostly who have always been very critical of the way I look and other things, meeting certain people can help you feel a bit better about yourself sometimes because not everyone sees only bad things about you.

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