FabSwingers.com forum: Stuck up women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Various reasons, I only know my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

We are not all here for the same reason. We have our own wishes and standards.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

I'm going to hazard a guess....most probably because they don't want to shag your...?

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

Maybe they don't fancy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women get inundated with mails. Most will click on the profile before the mail. If you have read their profiles you are more likely to get a reply. It's not that they're necessarily rude. It's just far too many mails to read from guys that haven't always read their profiles. I will delete guys who haven't read. If they've read I'll always answer even if it's a thank but no thanks. Or a omfg no way but thanks hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're expecting a reply then i'm not here for the same reason as you.

it's sometimes not a _ood idea to reply to all your messages, so some of us don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP read the FAQs of the website eh; might help you manage your frustration..::

"Don't expect a reply from everyone:

Some ladies/couples get hund_eds of messages each day so it's NOT RUDE FOR THEM NOT TO REPLY. If they don't reply, they're not interested: Don't mail them again.

Meets tip: Follow Fab's 4 steps to a successful meet:

1. Carefully check their profile first. Are they verified by others with the green tick? Are they photo-verified? How long have they been a member? Is it too _ood to be true?

2. Verify for yourself. Speak to them on the phone (male and female if a couple) or see them on cam, before you make arrangements.

3. Have a social meet somewhere safe and public first e.g. cafe, pub.

4. All _ood? Fab. Now what's next is up to you..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Hey that will help you then to change their mind now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not replying to a message doesn't make someone stuck up, it means they are not interested as the site FAQ's say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Same reason as men I guess

I've mailed loads of guys and got no reply

It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what he means, but shear volume of men means we are tar_ed with the same brush to save time.

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By *ood will huntingMan
over a year ago

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The ladies get 100's of messages a day, so don't take it to heart, they physically don't have the time to read and engage in conversation with everyone let alone sleep with them,

Be patient my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet I'm not here for the same reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Generally they ignor messages because they are not interested as it says in the FAQ not getting a reply is not conside_ed rude you should give it a paruse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP read the FAQs of the website eh; might help you manage your frustration..::

"Don't expect a reply from everyone:

Some ladies/couples get hund_eds of messages each day so it's NOT RUDE FOR THEM NOT TO REPLY. If they don't reply, they're not interested: Don't mail them again.""

This. It's bloody time consuming replying to messages, you then get replies to your replies and....well you get the picture. It's never-ending.

You get those that get stroppy as you've not replied, you then get messages saying you obviously think you're better than them, when really you've been busy peeling potatoes for tea...then they question why you're on a site such as this if you don't bother to reply.

Half the time you wonder why you fecking bother.

Charming, laid back men are a god send on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you here op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what he means, but shear volume of men means we are tar_ed with the same brush to save time. "

That's rubbish

I only meet single men, if I tar all men with the same brush who am I meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it only women who ignor messages, do men and couples reply to every message that get then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't stimulate a ladies mind she's probably not gonna want you to stimulate her bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey because they have no interest in you. I say on profile . If I don't answer a message. Polite way of saying,sorry your not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stress about things you have no control over. Delete all your sent mail as soon as you've sent it so you don't know what the recipient has done with it, you'll either get a reply or you won't, simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons!

Same reason as men I guess

I've mailed loads of guys and got no reply

It happens "

Yeah but you do have a shit profile tbf.

I mean only 2 cock shots?

It's like you're not even trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason why, let alone the number of fake/time wasting profiles who just want pictures....move on a message the next person who takes your fancy but READ their profile and ensure that you are what they are looking for before sending them a message

"OP read the FAQs of the website eh; might help you manage your frustration..::

"Don't expect a reply from everyone:

Some ladies/couples get hund_eds of messages each day so it's NOT RUDE FOR THEM NOT TO REPLY. If they don't reply, they're not interested: Don't mail them again."

This. It's bloody time consuming replying to messages, you then get replies to your replies and....well you get the picture. It's never-ending.

Half the time you wonder why you fecking bother.

Charming, laid back men are a god send on a site like this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said. Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

I always read profiles so opening message is always different but I'm always polite and respectful I don't just send cock shots I'm a genuine guy but I think it's rude how people ignore me, just a simple no thanks goes a long way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what he means, but shear volume of men means we are tar_ed with the same brush to save time.

That's rubbish

I only meet single men, if I tar all men with the same brush who am I meeting

Just had the mental image of you physically tarring men with a brush. Although using the same brush could spread std's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

I understand what you mean but being a single women myself I know how many messages they dget

I've had 100+ messages some day, an average day is usually about 50, if I put a new pic up they go sky high

You really expect me to reply to all of those?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

They are not ignoring you. By not replying they are saying no! Read the rules at the bottom on the home page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As several people said no one is obliged to answer every e mail even to say thanks but no thanks it is in the FAQs that no one has the right to expect a reply. Many people myself included have replied to thanks but no thanks only to get more e mails either asking why I'm not interested or you don't know what you're missing out on or just a load of abusive. Do what others have suggested read profiles send messages to the ones you match and then delete your sent messages and stop stressing about no replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

They are not ignoring you. By not replying they are saying no! Read the rules at the bottom on the home page.

Exactly this.not responding is doing you a favour. Saving time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

When I say no thanks to guys I tend to open myself up to them asking "but why not?". And if I explain that I just don't fancy them, I then get a barrage of abuse.

That's why I don't say "no thanks" to guys.

If a guy persistently messages me, I will try and craft an ultra polite "Im flatte_ed but you're not my type, enjoy your time on fab" message.

But they either keep messaging, thinking that a reply means I'm interested, or they get abusive, or start a conversation and suggest "just meeting" to see if I like them better in person.

If guys accepted a no as a no here, then maybe I wouldn't ignore messages so much?

(I have no experience of how women respond to rejection because I don't message them, so to all the people on Fab who like to complain when someone singles out guys as a problem - I'm only talking about men because that's the only gender I have experience with). Phew, it's getting like the notorious fab pics disclaimer trying to cover your back in the forums these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return. "

That's why I stopped sending out no thanks messages

I got a bit fed up with being told I was fat and ugly anyway and not _ood enough to be so picky etc

Some guys can't take rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return.

That's why I stopped sending out no thanks messages

I got a bit fed up with being told I was fat and ugly anyway and not _ood enough to be so picky etc

Some guys can't take rejection "

A lot of people join fab thinking it's going to boost there self esteem. But in realise it's more likely to make it worse.

I'm ok, I used to be a door canvasser. Trained to take rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

They are not ignoring you. By not replying they are saying no! Read the rules at the bottom on the home page.

Exactly this.not responding is doing you a favour. Saving time. "

Personally I look at the avatar first before even opening the message. If I don't fancy the pic then it's deleted. Also the first few words matter greatly.

Secondly if I havnt already deleted I'll look at the profile firstly the pics then the words. Tbh the pics matter more to me then the words. If I don't like what I see i ain't going to reply to the message.

Thirdly if it's got that far I'll then read the message. If all three boxes are ticked I'll reply.

But that STILL dosnt mean you will get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

When I say no thanks to guys I tend to open myself up to them asking "but why not?". And if I explain that I just don't fancy them, I then get a barrage of abuse.

That's why I don't say "no thanks" to guys.

If a guy persistently messages me, I will try and craft an ultra polite "Im flatte_ed but you're not my type, enjoy your time on fab" message.

But they either keep messaging, thinking that a reply means I'm interested, or they get abusive, or start a conversation and suggest "just meeting" to see if I like them better in person.

If guys accepted a no as a no here, then maybe I wouldn't ignore messages so much?

Women can in my experience be just as petty although I suspect some where also men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return.

That's why I stopped sending out no thanks messages

I got a bit fed up with being told I was fat and ugly anyway and not _ood enough to be so picky etc

Some guys can't take rejection

A lot of people join fab thinking it's going to boost there self esteem. But in realise it's more likely to make it worse.

I'm ok, I used to be a door canvasser. Trained to take rejection."

That's the biggest issue I think. Fab can boost women's self esteem it certainly has for me. But on the flip side for men it can sadly have the opposite affect. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their is a surprise. The majority of commenters are women, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. I always put on my profile that I will not reply if person not for me. I never ever rude but had many guys rude to me for no reason. I wouldn't worry about it. You will meet some lovely ladies I am sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op why are you here if its just for easy sex then you will have a long wait x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Would "No thanks" make you feel better?

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"Don't stress about things you have no control over. Delete all your sent mail as soon as you've sent it so you don't know what the recipient has done with it, you'll either get a reply or you won't, simple!"
Ooo I like that think I may have to start doing it

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return.

That's why I stopped sending out no thanks messages

I got a bit fed up with being told I was fat and ugly anyway and not _ood enough to be so picky etc

Some guys can't take rejection

A lot of people join fab thinking it's going to boost there self esteem. But in realise it's more likely to make it worse.

I'm ok, I used to be a door canvasser. Trained to take rejection.

That's the biggest issue I think. Fab can boost women's self esteem it certainly has for me. But on the flip side for men it can sadly have the opposite affect. Xxx"
verrry true I have been told iam ugly or a freak or that I am not 25 I look closer to 45 and yeah it upset me a but iam not going to be bothe_ed by some words on a screen fuckkkkkkkk emmmmm ( in the ass lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "
get on pof you'll have more meets than on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sticking it up women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return.

That's why I stopped sending out no thanks messages

I got a bit fed up with being told I was fat and ugly anyway and not _ood enough to be so picky etc

Some guys can't take rejection

A lot of people join fab thinking it's going to boost there self esteem. But in realise it's more likely to make it worse.

I'm ok, I used to be a door canvasser. Trained to take rejection.

That's the biggest issue I think. Fab can boost women's self esteem it certainly has for me. But on the flip side for men it can sadly have the opposite affect. Xxxverrry true I have been told iam ugly or a freak or that I am not 25 I look closer to 45 and yeah it upset me a but iam not going to be bothe_ed by some words on a screen fuckkkkkkkk emmmmm ( in the ass lol)"

with a big dildo n no lube

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

Totally agree

I always say if you wouldn't like twice at me in a pub don't mail me, I'm fully awear I'm not what most guys on here or looking for but I won't be anybodies make do shag

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

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i have the same taste in men in the real world and deff do not punch above my weight its about attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Why do men feel entitled to a fuck?

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Put yourself in a women's shoes. 100's of messages. Some vile some polite, some just shit. Decides to be "nice" and responds with no thanks. Gets abusive messages in return.

That's why I stopped sending out no thanks messages

I got a bit fed up with being told I was fat and ugly anyway and not _ood enough to be so picky etc

Some guys can't take rejection

A lot of people join fab thinking it's going to boost there self esteem. But in realise it's more likely to make it worse.

I'm ok, I used to be a door canvasser. Trained to take rejection.

with a big dildo n no lube

xxx"
oh stop it love it when you talk dirty loll

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

Typical single male response who appears bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose!"
would someone please think of the hammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

Typical single male response who appears bitter

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I'm not lemon bab I like it on here some lovely women because you've came on just before the weekend don't try and ruin our _ood mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose! would someone please think of the hammer

i am here to date. plenty of guys are already attached so that brings the numbers down significantly.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Equally comes across that way because of the fact we're fully aware of male attitudes so are overly cautious.

I get approached and flirted with in real world too shock horror

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

"Equally comes across that way because of the fact we're fully aware of male attitudes so are overly cautious.

I get approached and flirted with in real world too shock horror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they dont like moaning men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! get on pof you'll have more meets than on here

Lol so why are you on here then and not just on pof??

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose! would someone please think of the hammer

i am here to date. plenty of guys are already attached so that brings the numbers down significantly. "
well you do know most of us women are punching above our weight and should be grateful for the male attention haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they dont like moaning men"
Firm but fair!!!! How is you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose! would someone please think of the hammer

i am here to date. plenty of guys are already attached so that brings the numbers down significantly. "

xxx

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

A simple no thanks can lead to a torrent of abuse. Why should women have to open themselves up to that? No reply = no thank you - it's not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe they dont like moaning menFirm but fair!!!! How is you x"

we are fine thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charming, laid back men are a god send on a site like this. "

Aww thanks.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

I've never found the ladies to be stuck up at all, I've never been igno_ed and none have ever been rude either.

Could it be the messages you are sending?

Could it be your profile?

Could it be that what you are wanting (most on the interest list and all on the age range) is not what the ladies are wanting?

Who knows only the ladies that have or indeed have not replied can answer the question.

Ps. I'm not here for the same reasons as you by the look of your profile / current meet posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose!

would someone please think of the hammer

i am here to date. plenty of guys are already attached so that brings the numbers down significantly.

well you do know most of us women are punching above our weight and should be grateful for the male attention haha

i'm so grateful i reply to every guy who messages me.

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over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose! would someone please think of the hammer

497 people have thought of the hammer.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Are they stuck up for saying no or not replying?.On my old profile i didnt bother replying unless someone had made an effort and read my profile.Miss.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's typically not related to being stuck up op, but developed as a fab code and rule, based on years of experience.

People being abused due to rejection etc.

So no reply means interest not being pursued at present or there is no interest. Blocking of users is frequent too, if they don't have interest or come across users who express things they don't like.

It's tough for a lot of us who got bombarded with messages. As it's also tough for guys who rarely get an acknowledgement of even their existence.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose!

would someone please think of the hammer

i am here to date. plenty of guys are already attached so that brings the numbers down significantly.

well you do know most of us women are punching above our weight and should be grateful for the male attention haha

i'm so grateful i reply to every guy who messages me.

No wonder your always online

xxx

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose!

would someone please think of the hammer

i am here to date. plenty of guys are already attached so that brings the numbers down significantly.

well you do know most of us women are punching above our weight and should be grateful for the male attention haha

i'm so grateful i reply to every guy who messages me.

"
me too as i'm so ugly and ive got all these guys to tease too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Would you really like an inbox full of knock backs?

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Would you really like an inbox full of knock backs?"
these troll forum's are so funny and everyone bites hahahha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt having "Creampie gangbang on the 3rd who is interested?" as your status on a profile that purports to be all for safe sex is helping you there hun. I for one wouldn't reply just because you go around dipping your chip in other people's hot mayonnaise. That's an instant block and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get to see all of my messages...let alone read them...and there isn't enough hours in the day to reply to all of them....it is crazy! Alot of the time it is purely timing as to whether I get to read n reply to you or not

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Heavens you men have it in for us women today don't you...

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

" I think it's rude how people ignore me, just a simple no thanks goes a long way?

Would you really like an inbox full of knock backs?these troll forum's are so funny and everyone bites hahahha"

Biggest problem is as I been trying to reply this week a simple not thanks isn't often accepted most come back with why or other messages so easier delete.

some bite some learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm punching below my weight but not even the desperate men will give me a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

It doesn't necessarily mean they are stuck up.

Some will be. Some have reasonable reasons for not replying- already mentioned in the posts above.

Chin up.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Probably because there inudated with messages. Dont take it personally OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just don't like your profile and don't want to waste time or lead you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

You only realised? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "
....we thought you were actually stuck up a woman. ...sorry

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! ....we thought you were actually stuck up a woman. ...sorry

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By *helma_richardsCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

OP. Maybe offering women money to join you puts them off you pretty quick !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt having "Creampie gangbang on the 3rd who is interested?" as your status on a profile that purports to be all for safe sex is helping you there hun. I for one wouldn't reply just because you go around dipping your chip in other people's hot mayonnaise. That's an instant block and delete."
same here I would do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the fact your profile insinuates that us older ladies aren't tight...however it was meant when ya wrote it...doesn't help ya either....possibly

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

I'd like to be stuck up a woman.

Seriously though, ladies must get inundated with messages and most will be from time wasters and wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

That's your future success sorted!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

We're not all here for the same reasons.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If we ignore or delete a message without replying. It's usually because they clearly haven't read our profile.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"If we ignore or delete a message without replying. It's usually because they clearly haven't read our profile.

It is usually quite obvious when someone hasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decent message we will reply, a one line no effort gets nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

The MOST part was a bit harsh maybe you should have said some

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By *rinceCorwinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you messaged me I would definitely reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Not us, but a lot of female and couple profiles get about a hund_ed messages a day, which you think they should reply to. If you had a hund_ed messages a day, are you saying you would be prepa_ed to spend a portion of your time every day copying and pasting 'no thanks' one hund_ed times to a hund_ed messages?

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

I've never encounte_ed any rude women on here (apart from one I a couple)might be because I don't consider this to be a substitute for shagging but somewhere to meet like-minded folks and occasionally connect and have fun if it happens along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP read the FAQs of the website eh; might help you manage your frustration..::

"Don't expect a reply from everyone:

Some ladies/couples get hund_eds of messages each day so it's NOT RUDE FOR THEM NOT TO REPLY. If they don't reply, they're not interested: Don't mail them again."

This. It's bloody time consuming replying to messages, you then get replies to your replies and....well you get the picture. It's never-ending.

Half the time you wonder why you fecking bother.

Charming, laid back men are a god send on a site like this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't respond if the guy obviously hasn't read our profile or doesn't say anything other than "hi" .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't respond if the guy obviously hasn't read our profile or doesn't say anything other than "hi" . "

I get a lot of those, even just a smily face message from randoms. I dont even know how to reply to just 'hi' or a smily face. Not being rude, just how does one make a conversation out of that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

Typical single male response who appears bitter

I'm not lemon bab I like it on here some lovely women because you've came on just before the weekend don't try and ruin our _ood mood

Just WOW...someone call an ambulance for the wounded.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Why should women lower their standards or preferences just to satisfy your needs??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

Typical single male response who appears bitter

I'm not lemon bab I like it on here some lovely women because you've came on just before the weekend don't try and ruin our _ood mood

Jesus Christ, how old are you? If you want to try and insult someone at least make a proper effort rather than a school boy one, sometimes it is obvious why someone is single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does a tight 20 mean? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Well that's not going to get you a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP

What does a tight 20 mean? Lol"

I think he means a firm boddied 20 year old, or maybe a 20 year old with a tight fanny, or maybe a firm bodied, tight fannied 20 year old

I think it just means he likes women in their 20s too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

Typical single male response who appears bitter

I'm not lemon bab I like it on here some lovely women because you've came on just before the weekend don't try and ruin our _ood mood

Jesus Christ, how old are you? If you want to try and insult someone at least make a proper effort rather than a school boy one, sometimes it is obvious why someone is single

"
I did smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

i have the same taste in men in the real world and deff do not punch above my weight its about attraction

All the men we have been involved with and met privately, are men that I could see myself dating in vanilla life if I were single. I have never punched above my weight!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"OP

What does a tight 20 mean? Lol

I think he means a firm boddied 20 year old, or maybe a 20 year old with a tight fanny, or maybe a firm bodied, tight fannied 20 year old

I think it just means he likes women in their 20s too

A twenty year old who doesn't like spending their money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP

What does a tight 20 mean? Lol

I think he means a firm boddied 20 year old, or maybe a 20 year old with a tight fanny, or maybe a firm bodied, tight fannied 20 year old

I think it just means he likes women in their 20s too

A twenty year old who doesn't like spending their money?"

Oh I have a couple of those at home

Good at spending mine though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

"
......aah bless....someone not getting what they think their entitled to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women get inundated with mails. Most will click on the profile before the mail. If you have read their profiles you are more likely to get a reply. It's not that they're necessarily rude. It's just far too many mails to read from guys that haven't always read their profiles. I will delete guys who haven't read. If they've read I'll always answer even if it's a thank but no thanks. Or a omfg no way but thanks hehe "

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oh _ood, another one of these OPs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's havin a gangbang he's havin a ball , he's havin a gangbang up against the walllll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to hazard a guess....most probably because they don't want to shag your...?"

Penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons!

Various reasons, I only know my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on.. the women on here are lovely, weve never been igno_ed, whats your typical message opener?

Would you like to come back to mine for some cheese?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's havin a gangbang he's havin a ball , he's havin a gangbang up against the walllll."

hahhaha.

I thought I were great. lol

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

No ... im not here for the same reasons as you .....

And I dont consider myself stuck up ... I have standards, morals, and preferences ...simples .

Now if I were you I wouldnt throw your toys out of your pram ....its not a _ood look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's havin a gangbang he's havin a ball , he's havin a gangbang up against the walllll.

hahhaha.

I thought I were great. lol

I love that film, 'we avin a jump or wha' hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's havin a gangbang he's havin a ball , he's havin a gangbang up against the walllll.

hahhaha.

I thought I were great. lol

I love that film, 'we avin a jump or wha' hahaha"

Me to. "Go on Bob get stuck in" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's havin a gangbang he's havin a ball , he's havin a gangbang up against the walllll.

hahhaha.

I thought I were great. lol

I fancied the flip out of Bob the dirty bastard lol

I love that film, 'we avin a jump or wha' hahaha

Me to. "Go on Bob get stuck in" lol.

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By *oodMan
over a year ago

london

No women here nasty animals ii don't think they want there kids treated way they treat men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No women here nasty animals ii don't think they want there kids treated way they treat men on here. "

If you are constantly coming across women who are nasty animals on here then the common denominator is you, what on earth are you saying to them????!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! get on pof you'll have more meets than on here

Lol so why are you on here then and not just on pof??"
I'm greedy I have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

I'm not here to date. I'm here to be a fussy cow n fuck who I choose! would someone please think of the hammer

497 people have thought of the hammer. "
it's a sick world we live in haha

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooooo this could spell trouble lol I better jump in and add to it then

most women are punching well above there weight and they know it and they know men are ganging for it on here so the women use there power to tease them

but in the real world would you date half the women you would fuck off here? Answer being probably not

enjoy the weekend

......aah bless....someone not getting what they think their entitled to?

"
I'm happy with what I've got thanks

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over a year ago

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

they're probably lesbians..or just not impressed with your message ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ever notice it's always the ones throwing insults who don't seem to be able to construct a sentence properly.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

It's a privilege to be chosen not a right . Take the rejection like a gentleman and move on ,winging about it isn't an attractive look .

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Why do most women on here just ignore you or be rude? We are all here for the same reasons! "

Really?

We are all on here for the same reason?

I'm on here to fuck men.... are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP

What does a tight 20 mean? Lol

I think he means a firm boddied 20 year old, or maybe a 20 year old with a tight fanny, or maybe a firm bodied, tight fannied 20 year old

I think it just means he likes women in their 20s too

Yeah I thought that..and that's gonna get you 'mature' women..not!!!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"It's a privilege to be chosen not a right . Take the rejection like a gentleman and move on ,winging about it isn't an attractive look ."

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We always reply to every first message, but if we are not interested then we just send a polite no thanks and also explain that we will add them to our block list to save either of us wasting each other's time in the future. This has always worked well for us. Saying that if we have had loads of messages, especially at the weekend we have accidentally deleted 1 or 2 unread messages, but this doesn't happen often. Have fun out there X

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