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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx"
awww sorry to hear that, you no ot to go into details on here dont you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx awww sorry to hear that, you no ot to go into details on here dont you "

are u d*unk pingi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope why

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yearh I know xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok joe wish it had gone better for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you no ot to go into details on here dont you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh, my keyboards playing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did u mean to say "it was terrible" ? or are u admitting that u were terrible?

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i have had a few bad meets as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx"

Dont worry about it it happens sometimes

If ya think ya were terrible and ya worry about it it will just get worse for ya

Put it down ta experience and pick yaself up dust yaself down and get back on ya horse xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx

Dont worry about it it happens sometimes

If ya think ya were terrible and ya worry about it it will just get worse for ya

Put it down ta experience and pick yaself up dust yaself down and get back on ya horse xx

I'm due a bad meet some time soon ^^^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hope it was not that bad xx and put you off x Each one will be diffrent ,,

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx

Dont worry about it it happens sometimes

If ya think ya were terrible and ya worry about it it will just get worse for ya

Put it down ta experience and pick yaself up dust yaself down and get back on ya horse xx

I'm due a bad meet some time soon ^^^^^^^^

don't worry... i am coming down in my full clown suit and clown car..... then it will be a "funny" meet.......

i'll grab me coat!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did u mean to say "it was terrible" ? or are u admitting that u were terrible? "

i reckon a bad meet is a two way thing and is the responsibility of both parties. so yes, he is effectively saying he was terrible too.

not very gallant though to come directly from a meet and post on here.

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

It happens to all us just know it wasn't the first or the last time it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens to all us just know it wasn't the first or the last time it will happen"

does it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx"
with out going into who , can you say why it was terrible with out being nasty to other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxxwith out going into who , can you say why it was terrible with out being nasty to other xx"

i hope not! poor woman may be reading this and i'm sure she doesn't want it there for all to see.

wasn't like he made a generic statement like "i once had a bad meet"...

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Let's be honest, we'd all like to hear the gory details!

It's not like the other party will be seeing him again if it was truly bad, and if they don't veri each other, no harm, no foul...so spill the beans then Joe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's be honest, we'd all like to hear the gory details!

It's not like the other party will be seeing him again if it was truly bad, and if they don't veri each other, no harm, no foul...so spill the beans then Joe!

Rule 1 of Fight club: Don't badmouth other members

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Let's be honest, we'd all like to hear the gory details!

It's not like the other party will be seeing him again if it was truly bad, and if they don't veri each other, no harm, no foul...so spill the beans then Joe!

Rule 1 of Fight club: Don't badmouth other members"

Agreed

Lovely how people want to hear all the details of 2 users meet when it did'nt go as good as it should have

like a load of vultures in here sometimes picking over the bones

Unless of course its them that people are all talking about,im sure it would be a different matter then

Walljoe,im sorry your meet did'nt go to plan not everyones expectations are met when they actually meet,its all experience though and im sure you'll be a total gentleman by not taking about it on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could be he just never got a hard on as worried and we could say get viagra , lol .... not saying him to run others down , he mails me and maybe about this ..... when your new to all this silly things can go wronge and in your head you make a mountiain out of a mole hill ..... thats all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"did u mean to say "it was terrible" ? or are u admitting that u were terrible?

i reckon a bad meet is a two way thing and is the responsibility of both parties. so yes, he is effectively saying he was terrible too.

not very gallant though to come directly from a meet and post on here."

I'm not the only one to think that...oh good!

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

who said he had to 'bad mouth' another member? There's a rule about not saying you had a bad experience now? As long as if doesn't name names, where's the harm? And did anyone coerce him into posting this? Stop being so over-protective/sensitive.

There was a cracking thread last year about 'worst meet' experiences, and as well as the car-crash TV element of it, it also held great pointers about what to avoid when meeting strangers for sex! A swinger's chat forum where you shouldn't talk about sex...whatever next?

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

we had a 'not so good' meet few weeks, ago it all began by walking into the room whilst the gf of the cpls house it was, was sitting there with an elastic about her arm and a syringe, hence we turned around and got in the car!!!

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

ffs that is bad ,well least you got out early

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx"

ah well not to much baby oil next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we had a 'not so good' meet few weeks, ago it all began by walking into the room whilst the gf of the cpls house it was, was sitting there with an elastic about her arm and a syringe, hence we turned around and got in the car!!!"
really my god i have never come across that .. before i would have done the same thing ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesnt sound like my type of meet either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx

Dont worry about it it happens sometimes

If ya think ya were terrible and ya worry about it it will just get worse for ya

Put it down ta experience and pick yaself up dust yaself down and get back on ya horse xx

I'm due a bad meet some time soon ^^^^^^^^

don't worry... i am coming down in my full clown suit and clown car..... then it will be a "funny" meet.......

i'll grab me coat!!

Jeez Fabio.. that scenario has seriously whets my appetite...

What time are you going to arrive so I can be reasy to honk ya honky thing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well got to say iv had two meets off hear and some off another site and got to say never had a bad one they all been fantastic ..

I always chat on the phone first before a meet and that's the best way to suss the bull shitters and dreamer out i think ..

Keep safe guys that's my motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a bad meet next time Wallijoe check them out on cam if you can and get to know them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never tell 100% whether its going to be a good meet. I can only get a real sense of someone if Im face to face so I can read body language and I usually clam up if I dont like them and Im a little quiet (and thats very unusual for me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class as meeting someone in person, and them not looking like their pics and I dont want to play with them a bad meet. I just think Oh well there is no chemistry for me thats a shame. Thats was a socail meet is for isn't it.

To me a bad meet is when the playtime doesn't add up to the previous perceived chemistry,I didn't enjoy the sex as much as I was hoping or I was turned off by something the person was doing and I've put a stop to the playing.

I can honestly say that has only happened twice in my life. One man was too rough and the other guy spat.

I would never call a person names on a forum just because he didn't match up to his pics.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"I don't class as meeting someone in person, and them not looking like their pics and I dont want to play with them a bad meet. I just think Oh well there is no chemistry for me thats a shame. Thats was a socail meet is for isn't it.

I can honestly say that has only happened twice in my life. One man was too rough and the other guy spat.

I would never call a person names on a forum just because he didn't match up to his pics.

I agree...to me it is only a bad meet if once play starts the chemistry is not there and I do not enjoy myself...if on arrival he was not what I thought then we would have a chat and a drink and then call it a night,not the end of the world.That is why if I am meeting someone for the first time it is rare that they are not local because then it is not a big deal if after a drink we decide not to take it further...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never call a person names on a forum just because he didn't match up to his pics."

I agree with you there.... It certainly doesn't look very mature and runs the risk of said meet, although not named, taking offence if they happen to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that has only happened twice in my life. One man was too rough and the other guy spat.

I would never call a person names on a forum just because he didn't match up to his pics.

Agree with you there.

I always meet socially before arranging a play meet. I've had people turn up that have looked nothing like their pictures, I've had really stunning men turn up that were so pig ignorant and rude I've called the meet short, but I wouldn't class them as "bad meets" per se.

I've also been bowled over by meets who didn't live up to my expectations in the bedroom again, not a bad meet, and I certainly wouldn't start a thread about it either.

Chalk it up to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP doesn't specify that it was a meet with someone from here though. Is it a safe assumption that they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP doesn't specify that it was a meet with someone from here though. Is it a safe assumption that they are?"

We can only assume it is. All I can say is he met me and I wouldn't allow him to use baby oil lol

So it was a bad meet. I've named and shamed myself.

Sorry if I've had a bad meet it's personal why tell the whole of fab as you say the person could be Reading this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"who said he had to 'bad mouth' another member? There's a rule about not saying you had a bad experience now? As long as if doesn't name names, where's the harm? And did anyone coerce him into posting this? Stop being so over-protective/sensitive.

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you have a point x we all live a learn here ... yes i rember that old post about bad meets ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

S**t happens mate!

You'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought OP was being tongue in cheek, saying he had a bad meet and that he was the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx"

i meet socially 1st and if someone doesnt like it they can feck off x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I thought OP was being tongue in cheek, saying he had a bad meet and that he was the reason.

That's how I read it too.

Chin up Joe! You'll bounce back to being the young and curious sex god we all know you as!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ever heard of the six P's?

proper planning prevents piss poor performance....

try applying that to meets.

if you are the 'fancy a fook' type, you have a 50/50 chance of it being a bloody bad meet.

if you put in a bit of effort, get to know a persons likes/dislikes..what turns them on, find out if you are compatible...you are close to eradicating the chances of it being bad.

if you arrange to meet before play and you still spark, the chances it will go wrong are all but wiped out.

little effort for a good result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx"

Last time I invite you then.Was it the quality of the champagne and caviar?

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central

We agree with dances alone.

If we do not get an early telephone chat where all four speak,and then a face pic swap only then shall we meet for a social. If all is still good we meet on another date to play,all has gone well so far, by the way that story earlier in thread about the needle spooked me

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx

i meet socially 1st and if someone doesnt like it they can feck off x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv just got back from a meet and I was terrible xxx

Last time I invite you then.Was it the quality of the champagne and caviar?"

It was cava not champers what a fucking let down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ever heard of the six P's?

proper planning prevents piss poor performance....

try applying that to meets.

if you are the 'fancy a fook' type, you have a 50/50 chance of it being a bloody bad meet.

if you put in a bit of effort, get to know a persons likes/dislikes..what turns them on, find out if you are compatible...you are close to eradicating the chances of it being bad.

if you arrange to meet before play and you still spark, the chances it will go wrong are all but wiped out.

little effort for a good result

^^^^^^

i agree wit thast

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"ever heard of the six P's?

proper planning prevents piss poor performance....

try applying that to meets.

if you are the 'fancy a fook' type, you have a 50/50 chance of it being a bloody bad meet.

if you put in a bit of effort, get to know a persons likes/dislikes..what turns them on, find out if you are compatible...you are close to eradicating the chances of it being bad.

if you arrange to meet before play and you still spark, the chances it will go wrong are all but wiped out.

little effort for a good result

Even with planing a meet can be a disater and a wash out it happens and if your in this for the long haul its going to happen sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I in no way would want to name and shame someone..but i would like to say i meet i had..the man physically hurt me very badly..he left the site so i could not report him..i felt that it was necessary to do that...a lovely guy on here i chatted to..sent me the link to report him...what do others think of this ? You never know who is going to turn up...i think trusting your instincts is essential..and put it down to experience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I in no way would want to name and shame someone..but i would like to say i meet i had..the man physically hurt me very badly..he left the site so i could not report him..i felt that it was necessary to do that...a lovely guy on here i chatted to..sent me the link to report him...what do others think of this ? You never know who is going to turn up...i think trusting your instincts is essential..and put it down to experience...

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hurt in what way ... was that his thing doing that to woman ? or he just done that to you?

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