FabSwingers.com forum: where are all the black women on fab?

By *occerstar579 OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Do I need say anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I need say anymore?"

We do exist we just don t shout about it

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By *rkcplCouple
over a year ago

Queens

We are across the pond

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Do I need say anymore?

We do exist we just don t shout about it

You should!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We are across the pond"

Well its no good being over there. Come over here. Cambridge is lovely this time of year

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

I happen to be married to one, but that said, I don't see very many in the UK. We see a fair amount here in the States.

I see quite a few on Craigs List too, but I mostly look at those ads for entertainment.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Well, I know a few. They are all on here, very popular and with lots of self-respect and respect for others.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Haha why are you here then? No self respect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

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erm really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

White women don't have respect for themselves who are on here then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Batten down the hatches fella your going to be in for a bumpy ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here "
I am white and have no respect for myself whatsoever therefore I think I deserve nothing less that being on a perverted Swingers site with people who like having sex with other people but who also have no respect for themselves.

They might even enjoy having sex, how disgusting, no woman should ever be allowed to live out her sexuality! She should respect herself instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Is that because you believe any women on fab are whores and sluts?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Another man who cannot cope with female sexuality. He wants a meet on May 28th as well !!

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

What?!!!

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

We're here and having fun. You're just not looking hard enough lol my sweet x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Nothing distasteful for having a preference. Some people prefer different colour skin and nationalities just like they prefer different body sizes and shapes.

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Ok!! (nervous laugh)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Batten down the hatches fella your going to be in for a bumpy ride"

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Nothing distasteful for having a preference. Some people prefer different colour skin and nationalities just like they prefer different body sizes and shapes."

There is a difference between having a preference, and objectifying someone because of race.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

So the women on here, have no respect for themselves, ok!

What about the men?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The more niche your criteria the longer and harder you'll need to search.

I've Had the pleasure of chatting to a couple of black ladies.

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Before you met ladies on your veris for sex, did you tell them they had no respect for themselves, I guess not Sir!!!

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By *rgoogleMan
over a year ago

Braintree

Anyone remember our joint profile? Chillywilly2802 ??

Closed now (long story)...

My gorgeous black girlfriend - used to get so much traffic across our profile. She loved putting plenty of pics up and we had plenty of veris from meets. She was a very popular girl!

I know in biased but absolute stunner of a girl - all round, not just in this little world X

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Ooh unlike us white ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another man who cannot cope with female sexuality. He wants a meet on May 28th as well !!"
stalker

and I will cheers bab

that escalated quickly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're here and having fun. You're just not looking hard enough lol my sweet x"
thanks bab I'm blinkered half of the time lol

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Why is it fine to have posts about BBC (which is just about a body part, not even a person) and even have BMFC parties, but someone says they like black women and suddenly that is a problem? It seems like quite the double standard.

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By *occerstar579 OP Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Thank you...couldn't have put it better!! Fab is about having that taste of paradise that we all enjoy and fulfilling our desires. I'm not saying I don't like certain people or races am expressing a desire of what I like. Thank u x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Perhaps; but I find demands for "BBC" etc rather unpleasant too . Men can be objectified, too.

Double standards? Some profiles have "preference" saying no Asian/ no blacks" and that draws comments; profiles that say "BBC only" don't.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Perhaps; but I find demands for "BBC" etc rather unpleasant too . Men can be objectified, too.

Double standards? Some profiles have "preference" saying no Asian/ no blacks" and that draws comments; profiles that say "BBC only" don't. "

And what if a person of colour said they wanted a big white cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Woah! How to totally alienate your target market. Oops.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

Perhaps; but I find demands for "BBC" etc rather unpleasant too . Men can be objectified, too.

Double standards? Some profiles have "preference" saying no Asian/ no blacks" and that draws comments; profiles that say "BBC only" don't.

And what if a person of colour said they wanted a big white cock?"

Same issue applies .

In fact I have had that exact thing happen; a black lady on the site who told me she wanted only white men.

I declined. For the reasons above .

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

In fact I have had that exact thing happen; a black lady on the site who told me she wanted only white men.

I declined. For the reasons above ."

Well fair enough, if that's how you want to play then go for it. I play differently, I'm not looking to live with someone, start a family with someone, start a business with someone etc. I'm looking to have erotic fun with someone for the evening. Because of that, physical attraction is the primary thing I'm looking for. Don't get me wrong, if we meet and they seem like a horrible person then I won't play, but the main thing I'm looking for at least to begin with is that physical attraction. I like women of all colours, so I don't see why I should be stopped from saying so.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

If its ok to have prefences for height, weight/shape, boob size, hairy vs shaved etc., why not skin tone?

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By *ee93Man
over a year ago

belfast

I had my first and only meet on here with a black woman. Unfortunately she moved back to America so we couldn't play anymore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Do you find women are turned on by racism and sexism? Or do you need to add a bit of homophobia, ageism and negative stereotyping to get them really going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are lots.

And I have met some. But am I alone in finding " looking for black women" rather distasteful?

Objectifying people for their race? Making them some sort of " trophy"?

They are women , just like any other woman, black, white, brown, etc....

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agreed one rule for one and one for a another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

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So none of the men on here have any self respect either .This is a sex site not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Woah! How to totally alienate your target market. Oops."
wow hidden profile no fs were given

target market? I'll be honest not everyone sits in this forums and where in the comment does it say anything about white women? I white

I've had excellent feedback from the people I've met so enjoy your weekend bab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

So none of the men on here have any self respect either .This is a sex site not a dating site"
quite a lot are on dating sites as single but on here as couples

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

In fact I have had that exact thing happen; a black lady on the site who told me she wanted only white men.

I declined. For the reasons above .

I think you misunderstood;

A black woman asked to meet me ( a white man) because she " only wanted white men".

I declined, because I am not interested in someone who objectifies me by my skin colour; and because I would not do it myself.

I would not " select a black woman" because she is black, but select her because I like her as a person ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

few on our friends lists but a few white ladies too --

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

In fact I have had that exact thing happen; a black lady on the site who told me she wanted only white men.

I declined. For the reasons above .

I think you misunderstood;

A black woman asked to meet me ( a white man) because she " only wanted white men".

I declined, because I am not interested in someone who objectifies me by my skin colour; and because I would not do it myself.

I would not " select a black woman" because she is black, but select her because I like her as a person ...."

So you as a white man wont meet a black woman if the black woman doesnt like black or Asian guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never seen one on here! I've seen plenty of black men looking for white women thou

I think most black women have more respect for themselves to be on here

Woah! How to totally alienate your target market. Oops. wow hidden profile no fs were given

target market? I'll be honest not everyone sits in this forums and where in the comment does it say anything about white women? I white

I've had excellent feedback from the people I've met so enjoy your weekend bab

What you said was that most black women have more self respect than to be on this site. Does that mean you consider women (whatever the race) who use this site to have no self respect?

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