FabSwingers.com forum: Absolute deal breaker

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we didn't fancy them n

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......"

Bad hygiene

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Their credit card was rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're really Fatswingers and we claim our £5!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"If I didn't find them attractive."

This

Or they turn out to be very needy/ pushy in messages.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

Lots of stuff really, bad hygiene, being rude or pushey and tbh we skip past any profile where the guy is dressed in woman's pants etc that's just no us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who instantly dismiss after one look at a photo and dont even bother to chat. Top dealbreaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a couple messaged us last week we said if we're ever in their area, we'd talk

and now the guy messages me every morning "morning sexy" "can't wait to fuck you etc etc"

Totally put me off.

I might be nieve as we've only been doing this 10 days, but I don't like it when his wife/my husband isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trannies.

Possibly would meet a bi guy if he was happy to playstraight but never ever a tv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slightest hint of disrespect for sexual women.

so many hot guys have put me off them doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If things they say don't add up. If I get any gut feeling that I shouldn't meet them. I can't even define it, it could be anything, but if my "I don't feel safe with this guy" alarm gets triggered, then nope, not meeting.

A more obvious "I'm not safe with this guy" trigger was a guy (who I'd never met) who suggested a fantasy scenario he wanted to play out where he would kidnap me and my husband had to find us.

Just. No.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Poor hygiene, pushy and/or boring messages, don't fancy them....quite a lot more I guess too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

Bad hygiene

420 friendlies

Racists

Homophobics

Misogynistic men

Unattractiveness.....to me

Chavs

Men who wear socks in their cock picks

Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad hygiene

420 friendlies

Racists

Homophobics

Misogynistic men

Unattractiveness.....to me

Chavs

Men who wear socks in their cock picks

Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively

Funnily enough there's something I find a bit of a turn-on about chavs. Can't for the life of me think what it is.

Must be a psychological thing.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No attraction

Bad hygiene

No sense of humor... You need one with me

Your my ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than not being attracted to them, my no-gos are barebackers, drug users and coprophiliacs.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

Guys that go from 'yes, let's meet for coffee' to 'can't wait to fuck you all night' in consecutive messages. Just because I agree to a social doesn't mean it is a foregone conclusion

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Attached - no way now.

Needy - hate it

Fat belly - I love slim men

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"slightest hint of disrespect for sexual women.

so many hot guys have put me off them doing this."

This as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trace of poo on the bed your about to perform on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they fetch their pet flock of seagulls...hate when that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth and dirty fingernails. And BO.

I know, I know, I'm a fussy cow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback

Unhygienic

Desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad hygiene

420 friendlies

Racists

Homophobics

Misogynistic men

Unattractiveness.....to me

Chavs

Men who wear socks in their cock picks

Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively

Funnily enough there's something I find a bit of a turn-on about chavs. Can't for the life of me think what it is.

Must be a psychological thing."

More down to earth and funny with it, that's what does it for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they fetch their pet flock of seagulls...hate when that happens "

The 1980's New Romantic band?

No? Don't get it?

Oh never mind...tough crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're bigoted and religious.

If they're bigoted and atheist.

You may notice a pattern there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad teeth and dirty fingernails. And BO.

I know, I know, I'm a fussy cow...."
that's not fussy they're obvious turn offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it. "

Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.

I know you're the same Rachel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker"

I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trannies.

Possibly would meet a bi guy if he was happy to playstraight but never ever a tv."

The "trannies" probably feel the same about you. They tend not to like bigots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker

I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me. "

Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.

I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trannies.

Possibly would meet a bi guy if he was happy to playstraight but never ever a tv.

The "trannies" probably feel the same about you. They tend not to like bigots."

That suits me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker

I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.

Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.

I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!

I agree wholeheartedly; but I doubt some people are that politically-minded or that it makes an iota of difference to their political leanings (if they have them at all).

For some people (I would venture to say most) it's just a paper.

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!

Quote of the day!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They use text speak and aren't under 25.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker

I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.

Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.

I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!

I saw an article in the mail that said you had a thing for Katie Hopkins...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had ever appeared on Jeremy Kyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They use text speak and aren't under 25. "

Or they dress or behave like they are under 25.

Ooh I'm getting very judgemental all of a sudden. Probably says more about me than the people I'm talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys that go from 'yes, let's meet for coffee' to 'can't wait to fuck you all night' in consecutive messages. Just because I agree to a social doesn't mean it is a foregone conclusion "

This too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They use text speak and aren't under 25.

Or they dress or behave like they are under 25.

Ooh I'm getting very judgemental all of a sudden. Probably says more about me than the people I'm talking about."

That reminds me: skinny jeans on a guy - absolute no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont fancy them

Pushy

Posessive

Bad hygeine

smelly smokers

Demand bareback or anal

hair triggers .. cum soon as you mount em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Misogynistic.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker

I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.

Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.

I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!

I've been known to read The Sun on the odd occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.

Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.

I know you're the same Rachel

I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that

I seem to induce by my choices.

I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"They use text speak and aren't under 25.

Or they dress or behave like they are under 25.

Ooh I'm getting very judgemental all of a sudden. Probably says more about me than the people I'm talking about."

Dress like they are under 25? Does that mean I have to get a whole new wardrobe in a few months...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys that go from 'yes, let's meet for coffee' to 'can't wait to fuck you all night' in consecutive messages. Just because I agree to a social doesn't mean it is a foregone conclusion

This too.

I've stopped speaking to guys because they do exactly this.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Several things, not finding them attractive, being pushy, sending multiple messages despite me either saying no or deleting them. Or being deceitful with the pictures they send, if we meet and you're not who you say you are i wouldn't entertain it.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Trace of poo on the bed your about to perform on

Is this from experience???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was no attraction at all like a few on here bad hygiene etc you wouldn't know about till a meet but would walk away then but before meeting would have to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they had ever appeared on Jeremy Kyle."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have no sense of humour and if they take themselves far too seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene .

Bad teeth .

Being pissed .

No attraction .

Aggressive people .

Judgemental people .

Liars .

We aren't bothered by political leaning , what paper they read or any of that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trace of poo on the bed your about to perform on

Is this from experience???"

I'm afraid so

Not a great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.

Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.

I know you're the same Rachel

I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that

I seem to induce by my choices.

I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple.

I'm a cross dresser

I've a pair of 34 inch jeans

They don't fit and it makes me cross

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Bad hygiene.

Any suspicion of drug use.

Tattoos.

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By *ngel delight 69Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......"
if they have bad hygiene, dirty nails. And I don't fancy them. There has to be some form of connection for me....

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging 10 mins after there last message saying "hey u not talkin" or "guess I am not your type then"

If they wont give us time to check out their profile and discuss it between us then sorry but bye bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The crossed a line or was disrespectful x

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

they send you a message saying they like your profile so you reply saying thanks, then they send you a message saying they want to meet you.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

Turned up LATE

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"Bad hygiene

420 friendlies

Racists

Homophobics

Misogynistic men

Unattractiveness.....to me

Chavs

Men who wear socks in their cock picks

Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively

Funnily enough there's something I find a bit of a turn-on about chavs. Can't for the life of me think what it is.

Must be a psychological thing."

A bit of rough maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they send you a message saying they like your profile so you reply saying thanks, then they send you a message saying they want to meet you."

Should they say

Don't want to meet you then?

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If they had teeth like sugar puffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging 10 mins after there last message saying "hey u not talkin" or "guess I am not your type then"

If they wont give us time to check out their profile and discuss it between us then sorry but bye bye."

That's one of my irritants too.

Also "what you up to?" And "you busy?" kill it for me. I would never ask anyone those kinds of questions, it's none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are more things that would put me off someone than turn me on - perhaps I'm just too choosy?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Lack of attraction - always x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Tory

Daily Mail reader

Misogynist

Transphobic

Racist

Xenophobic

Body fascist

Bad teeth

Multiple cock shots

Bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom men who insist I have a sub side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker

I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.

Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.

I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!

I've been known to read The Sun on the odd occasion.

Me too...usually when I'm on the train. I am very much a lefty; but I'm not going to burst into flames just because I'm reading a paper that doesn't match my political leanings.

Also; it might have a crossword.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who say "no" to me.

I find that a real turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tory

Daily Mail reader

Misogynist

Transphobic

Racist

Xenophobic

Body fascist

Bad teeth

Multiple cock shots

Bad hygiene

I'm sure I wouldn't want to meet one of them either, but what the blithering hell is a 'body fascist'?!?

Maybe I'm getting out of touch in my old age.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

"slightest hint of disrespect for sexual women.

so many hot guys have put me off them doing this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging 10 mins after there last message saying "hey u not talkin" or "guess I am not your type then"

If they wont give us time to check out their profile and discuss it between us then sorry but bye bye.

That's one of my irritants too.

Also "what you up to?" And "you busy?" kill it for me. I would never ask anyone those kinds of questions, it's none of my business."

In all fairness though; Fab doesn't come with a pre-packaged 'Fabswingers etiquette guide'. Some guys don't know what to put, or they lack social skills; or they're newbies. Or all three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tory

Daily Mail reader

Misogynist

Transphobic

Racist

Xenophobic

Body fascist

Bad teeth

Multiple cock shots

Bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.

Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.

I know you're the same Rachel

I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that

I seem to induce by my choices.

I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple.

Well in that case I owe you an apology.

I just get sick of transsexuals who think they are somehow better than cd's and tv's.

I misinterpreted your post and I'm sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.

Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.

I know you're the same Rachel

I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that

I seem to induce by my choices.

I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple.

Well in that case I owe you an apology.

I just get sick of transsexuals who think they are somehow better than cd's and tv's.

I misinterpreted your post and I'm sorry.

No worries. Apology accepted.

For the record I'm not often attracted to real girls either. Femininity is a beautiful thing to see and appreciate but it doesn't turn me on. Masculinity does.

Occasionally I meet a woman who's personality and sexuality turn me on though. She may be beautiful she may not be.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"If things they say don't add up. If I get any gut feeling that I shouldn't meet them. I can't even define it, it could be anything, but if my "I don't feel safe with this guy" alarm gets triggered, then nope, not meeting.

A more obvious "I'm not safe with this guy" trigger was a guy (who I'd never met) who suggested a fantasy scenario he wanted to play out where he would kidnap me and my husband had to find us.

Just. No.

I had a guy who wanted to "go chokey" with me, and couldn't understand why I wanted to run a mile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......"

No pulse or no sign of breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......

No pulse or no sign of breathing "

Don't think you'd have to say no in those circumstances as they wouldn't hear you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......"

Slightest hint of racist views, bad hygiene, egoist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......

No pulse or no sign of breathing

Don't think you'd have to say no in those circumstances as they wouldn't hear you anyway

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