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Getting Tired of Cancellations

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If she's worrying about being old in here 30s you've got bibber problems than cancellations

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not noticeably older between meets, surely?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Bibber"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, she is definitely ok for a good few years yet...lol ....maybe you need to move to better examples of the male gender!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not noticeably older between meets, surely? "

Funkeys time machine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First world problems!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not noticeably older between meets, surely?

Funkeys time machine? "

He said he used to have had to have used it in order to go back but he didn't.

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"No, she is definitely ok for a good few years yet...lol ....maybe you need to move to better examples of the male gender! "

Couples rather than guys.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

Surely you can reassure her on that score.

I'm 30 years older than your partner and although we don't get as many meets as we used to (and that is definitely down to our age ) I don't for one minute think it's because people don't find me attractive if she's feeling that way maybe it's time to take a break.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Old at 29

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

Id love to meet up with you two . Your wife is one very horny looking lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll definitely do her.... looking on the wrong places. Send her my way....might hope I don't sound too animalistic

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There are bigger issues if the validation of strangers affect your self worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has never been a factor for us and we've had one cancellation in 2 years, maybe just bad luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

Mother Nature is a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

She's sexy

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

She is not getting old just site full of time wasters and us genuine mdn get treated the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are some time wasters on here. It's very infuriating when people cancel last min.

I like to look at it that they feel your leagues above them and they think your too sexy for them!!

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

((( you both look great! ))) . xxx

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By *h1tewolfMan
over a year ago

Rubery

I just can't feel pity for stuff like that when couples refuse to communicate with me when there's literally nothing to indicate *I* would be a time-waster.

Guess I'm salty for not being "picked", but most likely disappointed by the poor judgement people seem to have.

I have no problem turning heads on the street but on here verifications and not falling out of some ridiculous nazi-like guidelines are more important. It's as if people forgot how to interact with other people

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

hi . the problem on here now. internet is more popular, smartphones etc. so access is easier for fakes, trolls etc. even i will say under age to log into site. people on forums say use filters and the rest. but from forum threads so many being caught out ?. i know of a couple profile. know it is a male. how to prove ? the genuine people on here do have work cut out. even phone calls or cam, still results in no shows . what to do ?

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By *h1tewolfMan
over a year ago

Rubery

A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard..."

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much older and have never had a cancellation. I really doubt it's because the lady is getting old

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!"

I wonder thinking about it whether it has something to do with being a couple. I've had two cancellations on this profile in the time I've been on here,one idiot who only seemed to read my profile an hour before meeting then decided he didn't like the idea of me meeting bi guy's and has since changed his mind on this (no fuck off!) and the other had to wait in for a parcel which he told me 5 mins before we should have met. Anyway I've been messed about countless time's when it comes to trying to get a third person on my couples profile or just a third guy in general.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!

I wonder thinking about it whether it has something to do with being a couple. I've had two cancellations on this profile in the time I've been on here,one idiot who only seemed to read my profile an hour before meeting then decided he didn't like the idea of me meeting bi guy's and has since changed his mind on this (no fuck off!) and the other had to wait in for a parcel which he told me 5 mins before we should have met. Anyway I've been messed about countless time's when it comes to trying to get a third person on my couples profile or just a third guy in general."

We've had two cancellations in our time here and a couple of times when the signs tell us the person isn't going to show.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been her four years and the only timewasters were a couple from beyond Watford. People have cancelled on occasion as I have cancelled them but real life gets in the way sometimes.

I do the Auric Goldfinger routine: "once is happenstance, twice is coincidence, three times is enemy action"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll definitely do her.... looking on the wrong places. Send her my way....might hope I don't sound too animalistic "

'do her' - sheesh

as for age dont worry about it - we dont

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!

I wonder thinking about it whether it has something to do with being a couple. I've had two cancellations on this profile in the time I've been on here,one idiot who only seemed to read my profile an hour before meeting then decided he didn't like the idea of me meeting bi guy's and has since changed his mind on this (no fuck off!) and the other had to wait in for a parcel which he told me 5 mins before we should have met. Anyway I've been messed about countless time's when it comes to trying to get a third person on my couples profile or just a third guy in general.

We've had two cancellations in our time here and a couple of times when the signs tell us the person isn't going to show."

I don't know then I've just personally noticed people mess me about more on the couples profile,maybe that has something to do with looking for a bi guy then people get cold feet. Talk the talk,but when it comes to the action...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can't feel pity for stuff like that when couples refuse to communicate with me when there's literally nothing to indicate *I* would be a time-waster.

Guess I'm salty for not being "picked", but most likely disappointed by the poor judgement people seem to have.

I have no problem turning heads on the street but on here verifications and not falling out of some ridiculous nazi-like guidelines are more important. It's as if people forgot how to interact with other people "

Absolutely this. I couldn't agree more. Out in the real world people dont get judged suitable or not by one photo. And the point blank refusal to to interact is a major factor in nothing getting done on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!

I wonder thinking about it whether it has something to do with being a couple. I've had two cancellations on this profile in the time I've been on here,one idiot who only seemed to read my profile an hour before meeting then decided he didn't like the idea of me meeting bi guy's and has since changed his mind on this (no fuck off!) and the other had to wait in for a parcel which he told me 5 mins before we should have met. Anyway I've been messed about countless time's when it comes to trying to get a third person on my couples profile or just a third guy in general.

We've had two cancellations in our time here and a couple of times when the signs tell us the person isn't going to show.

I don't know then I've just personally noticed people mess me about more on the couples profile,maybe that has something to do with looking for a bi guy then people get cold feet. Talk the talk,but when it comes to the action..."

I wouldn't get cold feet.. id love to meet you and your partner. But ive no chance because im attached and dont have a buff body. But hey, nobody is perfect.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!

I wonder thinking about it whether it has something to do with being a couple. I've had two cancellations on this profile in the time I've been on here,one idiot who only seemed to read my profile an hour before meeting then decided he didn't like the idea of me meeting bi guy's and has since changed his mind on this (no fuck off!) and the other had to wait in for a parcel which he told me 5 mins before we should have met. Anyway I've been messed about countless time's when it comes to trying to get a third person on my couples profile or just a third guy in general.

We've had two cancellations in our time here and a couple of times when the signs tell us the person isn't going to show.

I don't know then I've just personally noticed people mess me about more on the couples profile,maybe that has something to do with looking for a bi guy then people get cold feet. Talk the talk,but when it comes to the action...

I wouldn't get cold feet.. id love to meet you and your partner. But ive no chance because im attached and dont have a buff body. But hey, nobody is perfect. "

Why did you mail me then?

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Unfortunately there are some time wasters on here. It's very infuriating when people cancel last min.

I like to look at it that they feel your leagues above them and they think your too sexy for them!! "

I'll tell her that

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"There are bigger issues if the validation of strangers affect your self worth. "

It must be lovely having gone through life and never had anything happen to you to make you feel unsexy.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

get exactley the same problem with photografic models last minute cancellations or no shows just the usual dreamers and wannabes

report block and move on

get the same problem with group shoots as you do for gangbangs here invite 15+ five will turn up if your lucky its the way of the world unfortunatley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good start would be to improve social skills as to be more apt at recognizing genuine people. It's really not that hard...

I disagree completely,there's some very convincing fuckers out there who are an expert in wasting people's time!!!

I wonder thinking about it whether it has something to do with being a couple. I've had two cancellations on this profile in the time I've been on here,one idiot who only seemed to read my profile an hour before meeting then decided he didn't like the idea of me meeting bi guy's and has since changed his mind on this (no fuck off!) and the other had to wait in for a parcel which he told me 5 mins before we should have met. Anyway I've been messed about countless time's when it comes to trying to get a third person on my couples profile or just a third guy in general.

We've had two cancellations in our time here and a couple of times when the signs tell us the person isn't going to show.

I don't know then I've just personally noticed people mess me about more on the couples profile,maybe that has something to do with looking for a bi guy then people get cold feet. Talk the talk,but when it comes to the action...

I wouldn't get cold feet.. id love to meet you and your partner. But ive no chance because im attached and dont have a buff body. But hey, nobody is perfect.

Why did you mail me then?"

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have a horny plan B if we are let down

More pussy for me and mrs twin still gets her cock or two

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By *ansbiguyMan
over a year ago

mansfield

It could be a genuine reason for cancellation. Things do turn up at the last minute or don't go to plan.

I have had to cancel my availability for a meet in a couple of days time for a couple I'd love to meet but I'm a single parent (kids live with me) so plans sometimes need to change. Frustrating for me and the couple given its the second time I've had to cancel but can't be helped.

Cancellations are an annoyance but part of this lifestyle I think

Move on to the next if your not happy, there's plenty on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fact of life on here you just need to move on and for the record op your wife looks lovely .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had many cancellations, that is why we try to meet at pubs or at clubs where possible that way we can still enjoy ourselves for the evening even if the other couple no show or cancel at the last minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

I've had 6 meets arranged since I joined here. 5 cancelled at the last minute. I just given up now and come here for a chat and laugh. Your missus isn't old it's just a part of life on fab unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah..I think cancellations are common on fab...seems to be a lot of couples getting mucked about..have had this happen only three times so muat be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are bigger issues if the validation of strangers affect your self worth.

It must be lovely having gone through life and never had anything happen to you to make you feel unsexy. "
I have to take Misstress' defence here; I have gone through life with no one else ever making me feel unsexy.

Occasioanlly, I have made me feel unsexy. Then I had a serious discussion with me about it.

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By *ellowbabesCouple
over a year ago

newport/cwmbran

Well it happens we had arranged on both couple meet in pub all up for meeting never turn up still showing few miles away but we enjoy our nite spend it together we just move on with some when they cancel it reason behind it and it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Cancellations are definitely part of the territory. You should never take that seriously. It asks means that you have avoided a potential idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, it happens from time to time. We don't take it personally, after all it's only an additional 'extra' to our lives as we of course have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both getting of last minute cancellations of meets. I think its to some extent just part and parcel of swinging, but my wife is starting to worry that she is getting old and that people don't find her attractive anymore "

from what we experienced on fab...people on here are mostly all talk and no intentions of swinging. Do not worry it isnt you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been happening a lot lately in here, you know is bullshit as the reasons are no so convincing.

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