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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno. maybe ask them why they've gone quiet?

i get the same with guys, not about meets but one minute they're chat constantly, within a day or two they're never on here. idk.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

most like to talk the talk and they like all the attention i guess .

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By *oodles948Man
over a year ago

Stoke on trent

I don't seem to get much too... I stick to age ranges and what a person or couple is looking for! Am always polite and respectful.

I guess I'm just quasimodos stunt double

Good luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves?

That's usually what happens to me but I have social anxiety disorder so I'm crap with everyone. xxx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Sometimes real life gets in the way so it's hard to be here all the time so I go through bursts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx"

Don't take it personal its just the nature of the game, you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a prince or in your case princess, as the saying goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx"

Perhaps they're not women. Blokes pretending and having a bash.

Could be they're women just having a strum as you talk to them.

You look attractive to me. Perhaps you just need to think a bit more before you send each message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx

Don't take it personal its just the nature of the game, you have to kiss a lot of toads to find a prince or in your case princess, as the saying goes "

I have the same trouble!

Tbh it dose get me down from time to time but fingers crossed one day it will pay off.

Chin up and keep trying, God loves a trier

Hope you find someone soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try lowering your standards

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

Not sure why,,, you seem genuine enough,, keep trying,,

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx"

No clue. I can't get any meets either. I posted about it in the other board.

I'm baffled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try lowering your standards "

He already has that's what's pissing him off

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try lowering your standards

He already has that's what's pissing him off "

Oh, right. Offer them tea then. That's all I've got. I'm not very smooth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if you plan ahead it hardly ever happens, I normally try and chat with people who have a meet request on there status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a meet in years , off here or anywhere else for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx

No clue. I can't get any meets either. I posted about it in the other board.

If you cant get meets the rest of us haven a fecking hope in hell

I'm baffled. "

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

That is probably because your profile says this "NOT MEETING for a long time due to chronic illness"


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No clue. I can't get any meets either. I posted about it in the other board.

I'm baffled. "

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Well it's not your pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it's not your pics "

Thanks, but that's what I always get told. I keep getting told I look good blah blah blah... But then nothing closer to the time!

Maybe people are just too busy in London!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this all the time. I arranged a social on Monday ... been chatting to him for a fair while but this was the first practical day. Checked in during the morning , all ok etc. Several messages later just tweaking the times as I was having my hair done ... set off to meet him... then all of a sudden he changed from a social in a pub to going round his house. I said stick to original plan. Arrived at the pub and he messages again to say go to his house. I said no so he logged off and didn't show up !!!

Just have to laugh and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx"

I find it really hard to get meets

Not because people vanish on me I just find it hard to find guys where there is a mutual attraction

Whenever I find a guy I like enough to want to mail them first they are never interested in me and its rare I click with guys who mail me first

It does happen but not often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx

No clue. I can't get any meets either. I posted about it in the other board.

I'm baffled. "

You're kidding me really? Id meet you no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx

I find it really hard to get meets

Not because people vanish on me I just find it hard to find guys where there is a mutual attraction

Whenever I find a guy I like enough to want to mail them first they are never interested in me and its rare I click with guys who mail me first

It does happen but not often "

All I ever get from females is your not my type. Dunno how they can work that out from a photo. Its why I actually prefer to meet in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's not your pics

Thanks, but that's what I always get told. I keep getting told I look good blah blah blah... But then nothing closer to the time!

Maybe people are just too busy in London!xx"

get your arse to a club maybe your luck will change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else get this problem?

I seem to constantly have interaction with women who seem very keen and then when it gets close to the meeting date, they vanish! Go completely quiet on me!

I'm putting it here because this happens time and time again.

What's wrong with me?! Ha.xx

I find it really hard to get meets

Not because people vanish on me I just find it hard to find guys where there is a mutual attraction

Whenever I find a guy I like enough to want to mail them first they are never interested in me and its rare I click with guys who mail me first

It does happen but not often

All I ever get from females is your not my type. Dunno how they can work that out from a photo. Its why I actually prefer to meet in the real world. "

Most women can tell instantly from a face picture whether you're their type or not.

I didn't think I really had a type but have realised on here that I clearly do !!

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