FabSwingers.com forum: 300+ looks today but

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your profile didn't appeal or they didn't fit in with the criteria in your first paragraph?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get 10 in a month! Welcome to the male world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might just be location Tracey as I can't see anything else that would put me off messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love ten messages in a year lol that would be massively welcome

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Never 'expect'.... That way you won't be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily take 10 profile views in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any messages and that's just how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it just gets that quiet lol

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Over a hundred everyday, messages somewhat smaller

But we plan to update profile, more descriptive as to experience and desires, cos we could be scaring them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

Yeah I get a lot of lookers but no messages

And shame I'm out of your age range I'd deffinatly have dinner and drinks with you in chester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. I figure that is the percentage of people we actually appeal enough to for them to write a message. I'm fine with that, having an inbox full of messages I don't want doesn't appeal either.

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

Tracey i agree with a previous answer, the only thing would be so many got to travel hundreds of miles. To me and with your list of likes and pics your perfect for nearly every guy on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

No I get the opposite usually.

300 messages and only 10 looks

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By *ashedMan
over a year ago

hemel

OMG you need to rewrite your profile you come across so hard nosed . I won't this I won't that . Chill out and be cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

Don't get what?

Had you have had 300 messages from 10 looks,now that I wouldn't get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't comment on your profile as you haven't asked us to look at it. Could be a good place to look tho as to why you atent getting the amount of messages you would like.

xxx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well we'd look but not message due to all your requirements.

It happens be thankful people message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We regularly get 900 looks a day , and about 50 messages .

It's normal , I guess we scare plenty off , and many don't want to send face pics etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I get way more 'look at me's' then messages which is just as well as I couldn't keep up with them!

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By *ashedMan
over a year ago

hemel

"Well we'd look but not message due to all your requirements.

It happens be thankful people message you. "

Too many I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't a "Oh poor me" reply, but I would be happy with just one message, if it was from some who was genuine about meeting up (social or otherwise), but I don't. I must be either but ugly, too old, or in the wrong part of the country. Personally, I would say all three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of interest OP, how many messages were you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post a new pic, that brings all the men to the yard

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

whats not to get?

300 looked at you only 10 felt like mailing you

if they all mailed you you'd be starting a thread moaning men don't read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And here was me thinking I'd reached some dizzy heights with 30 views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And here was me thinking I'd reached some dizzy heights with 30 views"

show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And here was me thinking I'd reached some dizzy heights with 30 views

show off

I'm up to 35 now, I don't know what's happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And here was me thinking I'd reached some dizzy heights with 30 views

show off

I'm up to 35 now, I don't know what's happening. "

its because you look like a woman in your avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get 10 in a month! Welcome to the male world

no thanks its a lonely little world

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OMG you need to rewrite your profile you come across so hard nosed . I won't this I won't that . Chill out and be cool

Xx"

Nope..I am 100% happy with my profile.. I am also very chilled thanks! I have had a lot of meets and was merely querying how strange that the amount of views are much much greater than the messages I receive. I know exactly what I want and what I don't want and I won't compromise... Why should any of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have it so hard.... 10 messages in a day haha, try being a male on here its hard work!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just out of interest OP, how many messages were you expecting?"

As I have posted a meet possibly more...however somedays I post no meets and receive more.messages..it's nl big deal..just a query I had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't comment on your profile as you haven't asked us to look at it. Could be a good place to look tho as to why you atent getting the amount of messages you would like.

xxx"

No my post was not a complaint..just a query really to find if others had had the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ms fox I neeeeeeed YOU!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And here was me thinking I'd reached some dizzy heights with 30 views

show off

I'm up to 35 now, I don't know what's happening.

its because you look like a woman in your avatar

I know. I've suspected for some time that most of my views come from people who think I'm a woman. It's a shame really, long blond hair, blue eyes, glasses, long legs, I sound so hot as a woman. They must be so disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yesterday I had over a 1000 views and that's obviously not including the 'secret stalkers'...

I also got about 50 messages, none of which were remotely what I was looking for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha is this true Foxy....

6. I once found myself trapped in an enclosure at midnight with 6 hungry tigers, and only managed to escape by jumping onto the roof of a landrover and clambering over a fence

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

E Suffolk

Get ten messages....I should coco.

Still quality not quantity eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't comment on your profile as you haven't asked us to look at it. Could be a good place to look tho as to why you atent getting the amount of messages you would like.

xxx

No my post was not a complaint..just a query really to find if others had had the same."

I get approx the same n tbh most are deleted without even being read.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me op.

Wankers, the lot of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"
it means 290 people didn't want to message you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'd imagine that most people get far more views than they do messages.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Iam lucky if I get 5 looks a day let alone any messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine that most people get far more views than they do messages.

i don't everybody who views me sends me a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine that most people get far more views than they do messages.

Someone viewed me once....i sometimes used to have to check that i was a woman as the tumble flew through my profile. The joys of living underl someone's bed

Still i fixed that by stopping meeting so now it doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't understand is when someone looks at my profile 3 or 4 times in a short period of time but doesn't send a message.

I'm not really sure what they expect to see different on my profile

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Maybe your profile didn't appeal or they didn't fit in with the criteria in your first paragraph? "

SECONDLY - I didn't get past all the instructions myself.

Bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 person viewed me today, no new messages (except friends)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

Does it matter

They can look if they want.

Would you answer them all if all 300 decided to message u ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they looked at AND read your profile - saw that they would be wasting their time if they messaged you as they didnt fit your criteria - well one can live in hope

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I'd imagine that most people get far more views than they do messages.

i don't everybody who views me sends me a message

There are always exceptions.

I'd pester you myself, if you were nearer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha is this true Foxy....

6. I once found myself trapped in an enclosure at midnight with 6 hungry tigers, and only managed to escape by jumping onto the roof of a landrover and clambering over a fence"

I'm not commenting on here ....

don't want to give the game away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i did try and ask the question privatly but your filter game is strong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine that most people get far more views than they do messages.

i don't everybody who views me sends me a message

Not true, I viewed you, would like to message you but I respect preferences

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I'd imagine that most people get far more views than they do messages.

Someone viewed me once....i sometimes used to have to check that i was a woman as the tumble flew through my profile. The joys of living underl someone's bed

Still i fixed that by stopping meeting so now it doesn't bother me

Did you celebrate and put out an announcement? I would have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to get a look in or a message. That'd be nice for a change.

Bring out the violin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

300+ views....wow! I've only had one...and this is a good day!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I'd love to get a look in or a message. That'd be nice for a change.

Bring out the violin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

That might be a good thing though if you think about it, perhaps a lot of them are actually reading your profile, and discovering theres incompatibilities ? Saves you sifting through dozens of messages looking for compatible ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, I get tons of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Tracey.

It will show I was looking at your profile today with no message.

I am outside of your requirements and blocked (which is fair enough)

Personally I think your location maybe the main reason for lack of interest.

You come across quite assertive and picky (which is not a bad thing) and less confident people may be put off, whilst specifying you don't want a dominant character, so maybe a little rewording.

But I bet in 6 months you will be thinking it was easier when there was just 10 messages!

There are lots of time wasters and if people are contacting you but are closer to what you are looking for then that is probably better then reading lots of messages from people you not like, all the best Jen xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP ...you have two meets posted. People will look because of that but may then decide no! It happens. 300 that you know about...plus about 500 in Ninja mode?

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We did not know that you could see who viewed your profile if you were not a gold or silver member? You learn something new everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had almost 1000 views the other day, did have a busy inbox but nowhere near 1000 messages and fuck all fabs on my pics so most people who look at me aren't interested i'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling but with me I get about 3 views per day if I'm lucky and no messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Tracey.

It will show I was looking at your profile today with no message.

I am outside of your requirements and blocked (which is fair enough)

Personally I think your location maybe the main reason for lack of interest.

You come across quite assertive and picky (which is not a bad thing) and less confident people may be put off, whilst specifying you don't want a dominant character, so maybe a little rewording.

But I bet in 6 months you will be thinking it was easier when there was just 10 messages!

Thanks... I agree...my location not the best and i am also fairly assertive and love the Dom side which I accept does not appeal to many on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2 looks a month, never had a message without sending 1 first and rarely get a reply, still it's fun to hang out. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get about 60 views a days, a few more if we have a status up, and up to a couple of hundred if we post pictures. We only get 1 or 2 messages a day, so when people says that women and couples get hundreds of messages a day, that sure as hell doesn't apply to us! Like the OP we have succinctly explained what we want, what we don't want, and what type of messages we will reply to, and I have no doubt that is the reason we don't get many messages. At least most people are taking in our requirements! And that suits me fine, because I only want to hear from those who meet the description of what we are looking for. We also have restrictions in who can message us. We see no point in everybody's time being wasted by sending messages for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 500 views today loads of fabs and messages......but only because I have new pics up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nearly 500 views today loads of fabs and messages......but only because I have new pics up"

1 more view, few more fabs

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

I've seen your profile a few times...I'm not what you seek, so don't message.

Surely that is what you are asking for in your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 60 views yesterday, who knows what today will bring.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Wow.... I normally get about 2 or 3 views a day... Guess I need to try harder... Lol... X x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your replies on this subject..always good to get feedback x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

Yep I wouldn't get past your first sentence.

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?

This exactly

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

200 messages from guys desperate to meet in 24 or 48 hours and 1 meet from it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?"

All the time

Ok it never happens....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only ten messages??! Don't get that!

Anyone get this too?

Yep I wouldn't get past your first sentence. "

Each to their own....have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lol we only got 101 looks we must be mingers!! Actually I am (Mr) but Mrs ain't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the verge of hitting 10 views!

haha

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

290 curious people who have read a forum post of yours and that's the only reason they looked?

That's why I did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"290 curious people who have read a forum post of yours and that's the only reason they looked?

That's why I did."

Not exactly..it was all the views that prompted me to write the post in the first place!

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